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e fit be say .....that they found him a very young and fresh girl they can control....................and e fit be arranged marriage....she might be a girl without bad reputation.

He or she supposed to pay? But you're supposed to have sex with him /her whenever she/he says?"

In fact, there's a word that describes a "girlfriend / boyfriend" who gets money from a bf/gf on a regular basis, and in exchange gives him sex,

I'd advise against giving money for personal expenses, loans or paying bills for any one who ain't your wife or hubby.........except for a rare temporary emergency situation.....It just feels wrong to be indebted in any way to someone like that........but to treat each other every once in a way (and vice versa)

Even if you have the money to flaunt ..it is advisable to teach them about trading.... sharing responsibilities and definitely has to earn it .........if you love and want to settle with them....otherwise they will start taking advantage of you... and won't have any incentive to try to help themselves......they will always expect it ....

but ...I don't think there's anything wrong with someone giving money or paying bf /gf......... if that's what you wants to do. It's your call.

goat meat ......dont like the taste and smell...

I do eat cow meat and I can tell the difference when cooked.

I have seen pastor wives wearing high heels na ....

Even women in hijab wear heels......

Researchers have found that heels can 'emphasise femininity' and change the way the entire body moves, including the pelvis, hips, legs...and they concluded that ...concluded that the women looked more feminine in heels, as they made them take shorter strides and swing their hips more.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ByYQ-KdiVso


High heels really DO make you look good, say scientists (and here's why)

Women wearing heels were rated as more attractive than when wearing flat shoes in a study

Researchers found heels can 'emphasise femininity' by highlighting womanly areas


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Not all over 35yrs and single are irresponsible ...some haven't found love ..some are not willing to settle for less.... and some are just unlucky..but very responsible,.. I’m just saying you should accept that there is nothing wrong with you.....

Don’t let someone’s married life, lifestyle, hashtags or smooching photos freak you out......... They didn’t tell or post about their terrible dates ,disappointments........or their heartbreaks or the amount of times they fully swore they’d be alone forever before they found the one.....

Learn to appreciate yourself ....no matter what....never rush into marriage because of your age.......

Not sure if that is what the pastor was trying to say....


Jesus was not married...but he saved the world.

I don't think she can leave because the oracle chose her for the king. ...If she is pregnant .............she has to give birth to Aremo in the palace......


Any man that try to sleep with her is digging his own grave and thunder bolt strike from the gods.....after all those rituals............ Most nija men would not even dare ....no matter how pretty she is.............I hope she does not go back to the Lebanese guy ..... cos dem say na die be that for him o..

Could it be that he used her..so he could ascend the throne ......and she expected more when he becomes king .....well they deserve each other.

They that trust in the Lord would never be put to shame..I feel for the lady..... eeyaa ...a lot of single religious women are in her shoes.... I hope she doesn't settle for less or get into the hands of scammers or beasts ...God can still do it for her......Marriage is no rush or joke o..She need GOd to direct her.... It seems she is losing hope.. .

The whole world is looking love dear *chinese , indian , black and white* .....Love is where you can find it ...stop restricting yourself to Yoruba men only and believers. What if she finds an Ibo man that is "suitable for her ..helpmate" Just because a brother is a believer does not mean they are equally yoke with you , some of them are liars and deceivers.

Love is a natural feeling and we cannot predict or foresee when and with whom we will fall in love...... It just happens on its own with the divine intervention of God.When it is right you will know it when you see it. That is the reason why we cant truly fall in love with 2 people equally at once.

How would her Church feel when they see her advert for Mr right on the internet. She need more counselling on singleness.

When singleness is not managed well it become a real burden on your life , depressing , painful, problem and hurt for a longtime and you can come home with a beast. This happen all the time with Christians because they are pressured not fornicate and marry believers only and they become more miserable married than they were single.

Singleness is not a disease , failure or a crime , it is just that our culture , parent models relationship a lot more. There are many married ladies living single, lonely and unhappy life because they married the wrong men..due to pressure from culture and our society.

It is just sad that most of our church brothers won't ask the church sisters out , they find it hard work.. so, they prefer to date outside the church, some would date unbelievers with the hope of converting them....and...bringing them to church.

Sometimes the church sisters are too religious to see if a man has interest in them or not . They sometimes makes it so difficult for the men to approach them. They need to relax and enjoy themselves while keeping the faith.

So sis .. it is never too late to marry and have kids .........some marry very early and it took them long to have kids... Some have kids in their fifties and God is able to give them long life to raise them. GOd is able


IF you agree to date someone with hope of marriage.....you have to give them a bit chance and know when to draw the line.

"you all should have s3x together " .....is she trying to encourage 3some or what... abeg let me come and be going oo

ha ha na wa for pple o ...free dem abeg......Pics could have been taken in a party na...


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=x41dLEcJbM0

ehn ehn! ... na waa o

He's beginning to look like Chris Brown

Parents should not give children alcohol in the hope that it will breed a responsible attitude to drinking..................Exposure to alcohol at a young age is actually more likely to make them heavy or binge drinkers.

let him call uber office...they always have record of their drivers.....or ask another uber cab how to go about it....

poor boy ...where is his mother....the man na goat

cutest singer

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zNt3MBXMMcQ

the shirtless boy that sang the "IF" song above

broke bastaards............dem no get money again to buy bommbs.......... to carry out their suicide mission.......na to behead pple.. na im remain....

Nigerians ...una see yourselves... ...na outsidser dey inform una say ya president died...

and the president aides no fit come out to say whether na true or lie.....na siddon deh look ...dem deh do........wen dem know say the news fit trigger all types of reactions across the country..............a country where there is no transparency......

i just hope hope he is not dead .....

She must be reason why he battered Mercy so badly.......this is too soon......she did not even let him divorce Mercy before dating him.........she must have been dating him for a while now............Beating up Mercy was the trick to get her out....and bring the other in......Karma den say ..is a bi..ch.

There is a story behind every person.......think about that before you label anyone ...broke or rich........

If he is rich ...where does he get his money from and what job does he do..............if he is broke .......what is the story....
Money enhances a man........as beauty enhances a women........it depends on what you are looking for in that relationship.

Real women prefer men they like to finance them with LOYALTY and TIME instead of money ......she is not impressed by money ...because she knows her love is priceless........marry a good man....he will spend his life trying to keep you happy

your boyfriend should not be your source of income........it is a relationship....when a woman works hard ....... a man with money is a bonus..........not a ladder to upgrade....

Winning a woman's heart doesn't make someone a man " whether broke or rich".......... Learning to treasure that heart after it's won......is what makes someone a real man.......

When battering his mother......you forgot that the children were watching.....now you know say you get son....am sure the boy will pick race when he sees him...

Mercy Aigbe sued N500m by Lady accused of sex with hubby


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=x2Hf3lIPyW0

Opemititi Ajayi, the lady accused by Mercy Aigbe of sleeping with her husband, Lanre Gentry has demanded N500 million as compensation for damages from the Nollywood star. Reports say Opemititi via her lawyer, Afolabi Fashanu, has turned around to accuse Mercy of “defamation of character and cyber bullying’. Recall that Mercy had, in an interview, said that she parted ways with her husband after she learnt he was “sleeping with a lady which (sic) is my best friend Opemititi and his PAs…” Opemititi’s lawyers, Afolabi Fashanu and Co of Abeokuta claimed the interview has damaged Opemititi’s reputation and that she is seeking reparation of N500million. Wrote the lawyer: ‘Our client has denied strongly that apart from that you were not close friends as falsely claimed by you, She did not at any time sleep with your husband. “By the said words you have paraded our client as a traitor, prostitute, husband snatcher, adulterous, irresponsible, of bad moral character and low morals and indeed a woman of easy virtue”. Mercy Aigbe is yet to respond to this legal threat and fallout.

Read more at: http://www.vanguardngr.com/2017/05/mercy-aigbe-sued-n500m-lady-accused-sex-hubby/

Chai!.... that man must be a demon .....

why beat up someone you claimed you love and care about.......
The biggest misconception about these guys is that they have "anger management" issues. .........They don't.......... They don't blow up at work or...at the tout who stepped on them at the bus stop............ Instead, they have an overwhelming need to control their loved one......

Research shows that...... They most likely grew up in a home where there was violence.....blame their girlfriends , boyfriends, husbands, wives for forcing them to be violent .........

Disturbingly, it seems domestic violence against men has become a very middle-class problem...... As women work, earn - and in many cases drink - as much as their menfolk, the dominant force in many relationships is no longer male and some women are lashing out too..

However, men are often reluctant to report abuse by women because they feel embarrassed, or they fear they won't be believed .....It is also a sign that the guy need help ....or get out of the relationship ....before she turns him into a bull dog or wife beater.....
Never retaliate. An abusive woman or partner will often try to provoke you into retaliating or using force to escape the situation......Get evidence of the abuse.... Many men have difficulty being believed by the authorities,...Keep a mobile phone, evidence of the abuse, and other important documents close at hand.....passport, car keys and driver's license in case you need to get out quickly....

When batterers apologise... it's another form of taking control........Guys / women who beat up their partners can be dramatically remorseful — crying, begging for forgiveness and promising to never become violent again.....Batterers are weird.....They can seem completely normal and stable at times..... At work or outside their home..... they can present themselves as completely nice guys....or ...nice ladies...

If your Husband /wive is violent, it's unlikely he/she will be cured........Most batterers don't get the treatment they need in order to stop. They don't want help because they believe they are in the right. Furthermore... the beatings are likely to escalate over time........The man / woman need to get out or get help quickly.

Divorce and Kids

And right now, your belief is that your kids will never be happy if you get divorced .......Many couples decide that they can’t divorce because of their children.........If you choose to stick things out just for your kids, you can expect to face a number of problems......you’ll be teaching them that marriage is about being miserable and disliking your spouse....... you’ll be teaching your kids that’s what they can expect from life, too............You’re choosing to live in fear.......No matter how much you try to hide it from them, your kids will know that you’re not happy, and that your life isn’t fulfilling or fun...........they’re going to grow up to be pretty much the same type of people you are....They’ll accept the same or similar types of situations.......This means they’ll accept the same type of marriage you do. Is this what you really want for them?

You're in denial.......denying that there is a problem in your relationship will only prolong the abuse. You may believe that you can help your abuser or.....he/ she may have promised to change. But change can only happen once your abuser takes full responsibility for his/her behavior and seeks professional treatment.

RIP ..May the Lord accept her soul and protect her children

Do you know.....

Sometimes, a caesarean birth is needed to save the life of a mum or baby, in which case it is without question the safest option. If your labour has been induced, and is still not progressing, you may also need to consider a caesarean.

All operations carry some risk. A caesarean involves major surgery in your tummy and pelvic area, and complications and re-admissions into hospital afterwards do sometimes happen. However, serious complications are rare for a first caesarean section, particularly if it's planned, and you’re fit and healthy.

What are the risks of having a caesarean?

Pain
You will need pain relief for a while after the operation, and it will take longer to recover than if you'd had a straightforward vaginal birth. You'll probably feel pain in your wound for the first few days and discomfort in your tummy for at least the first week or so after the operation, while your body heals.

Bleeding

You will lose more blood overall with a caesarean than with a vaginal birth. Most of the bleeding will be at the time of the surgery so will be managed by your doctor. One of the main risks of caesarean birth, though, is bleeding more than expected during the procedure. Very heavy bleeding is uncommon, but it may mean that you need to have a blood transfusion. This may sound scary, but you’re in the right place to be treated quickly *theatre.

Infection

About one in 12 women get an infection after having a c-section, so before you go into surgery, you'll have a single dose of antibiotics, to reduce your risk.

The three main infections are:

Infection in your wound. Symptoms include redness and discharge, worsening pain in the wound and separation of the wound. It's more likely to happen if you have diabetes or are overweight or obese.
Infection of the lining of your womb (uterus) called endometritis. Symptoms include heavy bleeding, irregular bleeding, smelly discharge or a fever after the birth.
Urinary tract infection as a result of catheterisation (having a thin tube inserted to empty your bladder). Symptoms include pain low down in your tummy or groin, a high temperature, chills and confusion. The catheter is usually inserted during the operation and may be left in for at least 12 hours or until you are mobile.


Blood clot

Any surgery raises your chance of developing a blood clot, and this can be serious, depending on where the clot lodges. If the clot lodges in your lungs (pulmonary embolism), it can even be life-threatening. Signs include a cough or shortness of breath, or pain and swelling in your calf. Call your doctor if you notice any of these signs after your caesarean.

Your medical team will give you preventive treatments, such as blood-thinning drugs and elastic support stockings, to improve the blood flow in your legs. You'll be encouraged to move around as soon as possible after your caesarean. This will help your circulation and reduce the risk of a clot forming.

Adhesions

A caesarean carries a risk of adhesions as you heal. Adhesions are bands of scar tissue that can make organs in your tummy stick to each other, or to the inside wall of your tummy.

It's hard to say exactly how many women are affected by adhesions after a c-section, as they often don't cause any symptoms, but it’s likely that around one in four women who have had a caesarean have adhesions. However, the rate of adhesions increases the more caesareans that you have.

Adhesions can be painful, because they limit the movement of your internal organs. Although it's not common, they can sometimes lead to problems with bowel obstruction and fertility if they press on or block neighbouring organs.


Effects of anaesthetic

Most caesareans are carried out with an epidural or a spinal to numb your tummy, as it's safer than having a general anaesthetic. But having any anaesthetic involves a small risk. After an epidural or spinal, you may have:

A severe headache. This affects between one in 100 and one in 500 women and is more likely if you've had more than one type of regional anaesthetic leading up to the birth.
Nerve damage. Though this rarely happens, and usually only lasts for a few days or weeks. Permanent nerve damage is very rare.


Read more here

https://www.babycentre.co.uk/a1029062/caesarean-birth-what-are-the-risks-and-benefits#ixzz4hSiuYfVs

pple change ....3hit happens ....life goes on..... but the scars remain...

if you live for people's acceptance....you will die from their rejection

live for you....honour you...life is to short....

fpeter:
This is really sad, to think this was her first child. She must have really looked forward to the life of motherhood. sad!

The baby in the picture is her second child 18 years after she gave birth to her first......it is her second child .....

May the lord take care of herr children

May God forgive all her sins.....accept her soul........and protect the children she left behind....


RIP

Northerners and presidential post .......is do or die affairs ......

Nigerian politicians are something else......... while some are enjoying themselves ........others wan die there

hilarious dance moves of Ebonyi state lawmaker, Maria Ude Nwachi lol


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cfVJytC-PZc

lol!....tailor from hell......the dress look like flying eagle