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Anyway, the word "voodoo" is a loaded term that has negative connotations due to colonialism. Would we still feel the same if it were called "traditional medicine" or "native protection"? I think OP as a native american is familiar with traditional or spiritual concepts that have been taken out of context and demonised by Western agenda, so whatever he tells her wont make her ears bleed. Whether it has negative spiritual consequences or not, the best way to get the husband to open up (especially as OP is not a Nigerian) is to approach him gently and with an open mind so that he will explain his motivations to her without feeling that he is being attacked. Because the fact that he didnt inform her that he was going to make physical incisions on their son's body speaks volumes. So I second chigoizie7's good advice. |
Generally Not wise to visit a guy on the first date; if you get raped or sliced up into pieces, you will only have yourself to blame according to Nigerian society. And plus the guy may think youre cheap. No point mentioning women from other countries as if they act freely in a vacuum; dont you think that the fact that they may feel more comfortable visiting a guy on the fist date is made possible by the better attitude of their men? Why talk about women from other countries without commenting on the men in those countries? Does it make sense? |
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saajus:"Human shields" |
nelsonoba:So what News outlets do you then recommend? Al-jazeera? Where should we get info from because I notice that some of these news channels only tell half of the story |
I said it. Flying a plane around that airspace at that point in time was extremely stupid. The airline should be ashamed of itself for taking such a crazy risk. What would they gain ![]() The pilots wife warned him not to fly but he insisted on it. What a waste |
tot:hahaha bye! |
Ehibiggirl:Lol Let her come with her paedophile "crown" and beat all of us na hahaha Like I said, this thread should be locked! We have precious young people using this site who dont need to be corrupted by mental headcases like her smh! imagine 30+ pages of criticism and counter-attack because of an idiot thug who went to beat somebody in her house, nawao |
tot:Hahaha but you previously had the luxury of time to put words in somebodys mouth and then try to cover yourself with "we all make our own choices" and "we dont have to agree" right? Good luck to you too dear |
Can the mods please close down this thread? I dont think she should talk anymore, it's just so terrible to read. This person cant be a real human, maybe they grew her inside the lab as part of an experiment |
slimdamatrix1:I am not attacking you or seeking fault anywhere. I was addressing this part of your comment: slimdamatrix1:Is anybody who disagrees with your approach "attacking" you? Shame. |
Ehibiggirl:The agbero part is the most important! Look how uncultured somebodys junior sister is for goodness' sake. Can you even take this girl with you to buy pepper in the market Ha! |
Ifyjos:Lol shut the hell up my friend! We have been telling you what to do for how many days now and youre still here talking nonsense. Tomorrow you will still come back here and reply the same thing...oh gosh! What manner of evil is this...Im not a pentecostal but at times those people are also useful...I hereby bind and cast any spirit of IFYJOS in my life, chai! Who knows if I have even passed you on the road before, Tufiakwa...may our paths never cross in this life |
shogsman:Lol you cant even insult me without insulting yourself hahaha rubbish. Please get back to your quackery and leave me to read responses from serious people |
slimdamatrix1:Its not about pretending. Its about being sensitive to somebody who is emotionally weak at the moment. Even if you want to say the truth, you say it with wisdom so that the person can get that you have good intentions. Anyway I still agree with you, on the main. More than this quack who keeps quoting me with crazy diseases in order to sound smart smh |
shogsman:Hahaha come and diagnose me o, arrogant quack like you hahaha |
slimdamatrix1:Lol yes! I know what engagement is but I think that the fact that it is now necessary for business means that technology has taken yet another sinister turn. This is just another sign that we are running before we can walk; there need to be good regulations put in place for these things In 20 years time when all the damage has been done and the analysis has been carried out, we will look back in astonishment at how lax we were with our online practices |
shogsman:Hahaha you were the one who was very defensive, go back and check your comments! And for your information you are not the only person who understands diagnostic criteria and treatment of mental illness so just climb your high horse and get out of my mentions my sweetheart! By the way autistic children on the milder end of the spectrum need to be encouraged to go to school and improve their social interactions so that they will be able to live at least partially independently when theyre older. Thats the whole point; you dont just give up on somebody who has an issue. You find a workable solution that will give them a good chance in the future. What am i even saying sef, we are all just a bunch of "dumb Nigerians" who should bow down to your superior knowledge, O your royal highness smh dont disturb me please, let me engage with enlightened people whom you are not a part of |
slimdamatrix1:You are too harsh in your statements but still have a point! Thats what I was telling that guy. Even if you are going through pain you still need to realise that there are other people who matter and not just you. If you are so trapped inside your own thoughts you need somebody to correct you and give you different perspectives instead of pampering you all the time. That girl needed serious help and reorientation to let her see the light at the end of the tunnel |
shogsman:Lol! Very good. I hope when your child starts wailing that everybody on the internet hates them, you will just leave them to sink further and further into the darkness of their mind because they need to "escape reality" ![]() Whether originally from mental health issues or not, a personal weakness is a personal weakness and we all have them and need to work on them. There is no crime in saying that and if her parents could have recognised that she needed professional help to overcome them, she may still be alive today. I engaged you because I thought you had an interesting perspective to give but it was really a mistake Smh bye! |
shogsman:Exactly; you are making excuses over nothing my friend. Whats wrong with having a "different" mind? Why is it automatically a disease? What do you mean "escape her reality"? So your advice for a teenager is to escape from reality ![]() If she is not well-socialised or has some anxieties then she needs to be given help, that is send her for volunteering with elderly people, orphans, disabled people etc let her see the other side of life. Or since she's interested in fashion and wants to be a model there are dance/catwalk classes she can attend that will improve her confidence. You dont coddle people's weakness, you give them the tools to be able to overcome them. Instead of you to tag social anxiety or depression as a reasonable point of reference for her behaviour, you suddenly jumped to extremes like PTSD and schizophrenia just to sound interesting. We have a bad attitude to mental health in this country but in this case, it has nothing to do with Nigerians; any enlightened person on the planet will explain this to you. Youre the one who is being timid by overcompensating for personal weakness in a bid to look less "Nigerian". Just like those ones the other day who insulted "Africans" for being afraid of owls, when countries all over the world cant cope with owls! Inferiority complex everywhere smh |
shogsman:You are going out of pocket; going through the trauma of active combat is in no way comparable to somebody seeking validation for their appearance from strangers who dont owe them any and then making themselves ill from lack of indulgence. Bipolar disorder and schizophrenia have nothing to do with it either. This girl needed to be given a good talking therapy, some good books/videos and a hobby to take her mind off these things. Stop making false equivalences. Children who are growing into adulthood need to be taught that not everybody is going to like or admire them, and thats okay. Refusing to bend the whole world and make it "nice" for children is not the same as condemning the person. |
slimdamatrix1:Yes, I removed the comment already before you replied to it |
slimdamatrix1:You didnt get it; Instagram said they were going to add a feature that would keep likes hidden so that people woudnt feel bad. |
Ehibiggirl:Abi...smh she should just never try it at all at all |
kingphilip:With the kind of psychotic derangement she has posted here in the name of "reply", she should never ever in her life think of revealing her location to anybody here. She is not smart enough to differentiate dishonest persons from genuine ones, which is even why she is in her current mess. Anyway, meeting with her will be an utter waste of time; she will only succeed in dragging you into her agbero lifestyle and maybe get you beaten up join. I predicted that by the time the thread reached 32 pages she would still be here repeating the same insanity from 10 pages ago...now look at it ![]() I will confess this evening, I will confess tomorrow morning, I will confess yesterday night, until the day of Judgement hahaha |
Ubong005:I dont think her mother had the right tools to handle the issue. Do parents really understand the billion-dollar psychological machinations behind sites like Instagram? She probably assumed she would grow out of it |
shogsman:They may be harsh, but somehow right. Mental health includes training oneself to be emotionally resilient. Whats your position? |
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Let her come with her paedophile "crown" and beat all of us na hahaha