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BRATISLAVA:
This whole thread is about what a groomed girl will do for sex. She's proud about the sex, like people haven't had sex years before she was born. This isn't about a confession. It's not about making amends. It's about how to have sex with a questionable character, who even if he were to be rich many families would still not want their daughter with someone who does drugs. Lust is dangerous in the hands of those who don't understand sex.

We can now see what her sister and family went through with her before they began tongue-lashing her.

Exactly, I had to stop answering her because her replies were becoming so boring, anything you say she will quote you with husband and sex like a robot.

It can't be about making amends because she couldn't even bother to work on the "crown" who loves her so much to help her get the runaway fiance to know the truth or to make sure her daughter would be all right...all she cared about was relieving her personal guilt and running back to her sex

Nobody even asked her what she says to her elder sister...since she insults some people here without provocation I'm sure she must have answered the woman with a very crazy speech that would drive her mad

She only exposes the sister but didn't tell us what she said...because she always keeps her mouth shut right? Smh

abdulkayus:
OK, what happens is that whenever it is Friday and Muslims create threads for muslims to know more about their faith, the Christians will bombard it saying all such of thrash against Muslims and what they believe in. It becomes too much that the thread was always hijack and there wouldn't be any much positive contribution to the thread. The NL Muslims complain to Seun ( the owner of NL). So, it was thought that if u are to comment on the Muslims thread, u will have to swore by the belief of Muslims. This was done to curb and reduce the way trolls always troop in to derail the Muslims thread.
Hardly do u see the Christians on Sunday on Christians thread trying to derail. It is only the atheists that are always there to battle with the Christians. And if the Christians don't want that also, they can request Seun to also give conditions for someone before the person can comment on Christians thread.

I am aware of all that Sir, I do not have a problem with the swear and I have tried to explain to others why Seun implemented it.

I was asking about the extreme ruling banning drawing of animate objects in the OP.

And the reason you don't see many positive contributions is because most Muslims commenting don't have anything to say apart from Jazak Allah Khair and Subhanallah. They hardly ever make any constructive comment which can't be blamed on Christians

The only time they come alive is to fight and reply insults

yetunsbay:
First we're discussing religion matter & definitely being traced to the Creator (God) by abiding.

When you obey God then u knw what happens. Pouring water on head as commanded is an act of adhering whc will facilitate your worship.

When you claim being an African woman definitely u're counting ur self more important than other women.

Remember obeying commandments is an act of worship.

"Don't drink alcohol" ...,why ?

Is it not for your prayer to be answered ?

None of this stuff you wrote is relevant to the topic; I've already explained why I mentioned African people.

We can drink alcohol, we're just not supposed to get drunk. Because it's not proper for a Christian to indulge in wild behaviours brought on by excess alcohol consumption. That's the truth all over the world

Anyway the solution is for all Muslim women in this country with Afro-type hair to go on low-cut

aumeehn:
why are you getting all worked up! The law only applies to muslims. So you are free to do whatever you like with your life.

Leave me alone joor, I don't need to be a Muslim to express my opinion. If you don't want to know what I think then why do you keep quoting me?

You can't stop me from commenting on topics, if you don't like it then skip my post

yetunsbay:
Tell hw it isn't relevant then

Why don't you explain to me how those questions are relevant?

dalass:
That's so unlikely me thinks.. She had f.I.v.e kids for the man now!

Lol I know, but it's still possible she got tired of the marriage and left...I hope she is comfortable sha otherwise seeing all these pictures will be quite painful

yetunsbay:
Answer this... Christian or Muslim


Will God pass judgement on African women differently fr other women ?


In Christianity, I belief there is a command restricting you fr taking alcohol.. Why are you following the command ?


Let me hear ur view on this first

I purposely ignored that post the first time because I don't see how what you wrote there is relevant

yetunsbay:
Where did you see referral to a moseque.

Religious scholar; I belief your vicinity is gonna get a sound one. Face to face explanation leading to understanding can only suffice for one like u

A mosque is where you will find a religious scholar...you have no right to refer me to neighbourhood "scholars" when they moved an Islamic post to Front Page for all of us to read and comment

They will just grab fiqh and fatwa from Saudi and Pakistani clerics and paste it here without any context and begin to insult us for asking genuine questions...what concerns an African lady who already has so much to contend with in marriage with pouring water on her head every time..haba

If you dont have any answer for me then either admit that you people are not equal to the task or remove your leg from my mentions smh

koyyes:
I am sure his first wife suffered with him when he was just a wheel barrow pusher. Who is eating the fatter cake now without shedding a single sweat?

African females need to be wise.

Exactly...so sad

Well maybe the first wife is happy wherever she is She may have been the one to divorce him, who knows...

aadoiza:
Yeah right. You know you're the only black woman in the world.
Just because our religion enjoins cleanliness and hygiene, which we're hell bent on observing, is the reason vaginally-delivered god worshippers like you are spitting bile since dawn. Haah!!!

Lol! I knew you had nothing useful to say, Allah yateek il aafia

yetunsbay:
then you should have visit scholars in your neighborhood for more clarification instead spewing unnecessary utterances here

Why? Every time I ask a question here they refer me to a mosque, why cant you people answer for yourselves or keep quiet instead of quoting me rubbish

bizhop01:
She was an escort to Hope uzodinma, i believe you know that mean?

How do you know that Im curious

Well @topic I dont know what to say but the comments on this thread are Bleeping funny...I am hooting with laughter...you people are mad sha

aadoiza:
I knew this is you were going with your tolerance and sincerity charade in your previous post but had to force it out of you . "Doesn't make sense" seems to be your favourite line. Try and get creative sometimes.

Besides, worshipping a dead vaginally-delivered god killed by mere mortals he created makes sense right? E don be for you people.

Its not a favourite line dear, it really doesnt make any sense. Which is why you avoided my question and began to rant Try and get creative sometimes.

By the way is insulting people and waiting for them to answer back your Islamic method of proving a point So you are basically looking for ways to implicate anybody who questions your religion hahaha this also doesnt make any sense...!

It is actually irrational for a black woman with braided and oiled hair to pour water on her head because she had sex. Did she have sex with her scalp lmao and how many times in a typical week as a newly wedding bride is she going to be doing that

Why didnt you just try to justify drying out my scalp because of sex? Sex that my husband demanded for lol oh dear! Jumaa Mubarak

Rashduct4luv:
Overkill or not. That's the Islamic Law.

So whats the justification for the law Apart from stigmatising an innocent child over nothing smh

Your parents are married and youre answering your mothers name...what sense does it make

Ginaruby:
This is no assumption, it's a fact...
I have seen many from the past...

A lot of Nairalanders might not have the opportunity to have seen, that's why we have history...

So I am telling you history so you will have the opportunity to tell the younger one's too...

At least I can agree that some of our female grandparents may have done that at a time but you cant claim that most of our parents got married age 15...thats just not true sorry..

It happens a lot in rural communities but its not the majority of people, especially people who are literate and able to use the forum. Plus society was different back then so theres no justification for such things now. Thats why there are so many campaigns by governments and NGOs to stop child marriage

And you cant compare being married to whatever it is this chick is doing (though I agree with you that it didnt give her sister the right to abuse her)

aadoiza:
Imagine this dirty thing thinks every black woman is like her.

Lol, if you like go and drown your head in water and give yourself dandruff and scaly scalp all in the name of wuduu...This fatwa doesnt make any sense for black people, argue with your phone!

aumeehn:
The child is a product of fornication. Allah (s w a) is clean he only accept what is clean.

Too bad...the child itself is not unclean and the parents eventually married so theres no need to embarrass them like that...its just an Overkill in my opinion.

abdulkayus:
But u guys were never here to learn about them in peace and understanding. Most of the time, u guys are just here to bash the Muslims and talk all types of thrash against them and what they believe in.
U guys need to learn how to respect people's beliefs.

I dont support trolling; I just want some explanation for these rules because they seem bizarre to me.

AryEmber:
I thought you are complaining about hair issues ni. Well darling, if you must know, the bath is also required after menstration but you don't need to worry, the requirement is not for you.

No, I am concerned about having to constantly wash your hair when your hair type and scalp doesnt allow for such.

Being forced to pour water on your head because of natural processes like menstruation and sex doesnt make any sense; does God want you to damage your hair

Jumaa mubarak

AryEmber:
Aba na, you make it sound like black women don't wash their hair. I face some difficulties after washing my hair esp as it has no relaxer but I brush immediately and braid it as soon as I can, not to mention that many people use relaxer sef.

What has all youve written here got to do with pouring water down to your scalp every time you have sex?

Answer: Nothing!

Akpan107:
Hahaha...

In the Quran Sura 34:13
Allah commanded statues to be made for prophet Solomon.

I want somebody to answer you on this.

I am sure God doesnt have a problem with drawing people for goodness' sake

AlataSuesue:

Im seriously asking o...at least i understand his point but the scalp thing is too much...I will never pour anything on my scalp unless it demands it...will I be scratching my head all day just because I fulfilled my wifely duties

Like I said, this ruling is not for black people

SokizzRaven:
The same reason you feel you need to clean is the same reason you have to perform ritual bath. Once semen is released it is obligatory to perform the bath, we both know how irritating it can be to have semen drying up on your skin. Some people have sex in wierd ways, they can have semen even in the strangest places on their body. So if you try to look beyond this, you will understand that the bath concept is basically an act of cleanliness and not due to the fact that Sex is considered dirty

Dont you think somebody who has a dry or sensitive scalp should be exempt from this type of rule?

AlataSuesue:
Islam is such a repressive and oppressive religion, tufia!

Like seriously. I would love an experienced ustadh or Imam to come and explain the reasoning behind these extreme rulings.

When they post these things every Friday without explaining them it just makes them look worse

Jabioro:
Dem go take you eyes see pepper to day...

Lol I have already removed it, the post addressed the question which I didnt see before

I cant believe any God would be against drawing animals...artistry is one of the best elements of being human

I cant believe any supreme God would give this kind of ruling...you people got it wrong

Rashduct4luv:
For those who did the marriage contract with pregnancy, the marriage contract must be renewed. This is not a difficult thing to do. The first baby is not Islamicly your child, as he was not created in his mother’s womb through a valid marriage contract. Some scholars say he is not to be called after you as he is born out of adultery. He is to be called after his mother’s family. He is not to inherit you and you are not to inherit him. As for the remaining children, they are yours and they carry your name.

Are you serious So even if he marries her, he cant claim his child?

Hmm

Taking a bath after sex is normal but this rule was not written for black women who may have their hair in a style that would be messed up by pouring oodles of water on it every time she has sex

OP should find the guidance suitable for black people...this was written for Arabs and Indian people with a different type of hair

Even thinking about that, I dont even think an Indian woman who has straightened her hair would like to be pouring water on it every time...this is an archaic ruling abeg...unless the men are ready for the woman to refuse sex because she doesnt want to mess her hair up with wuduu

alexola20:
I swear I have tried that a million times.But you know one cannot force anyone to do what they really don't like to do.
My cooking today has no pepper or chilli but yet I ate alone.

Okay, sorry friend. Na she sabi! Just ignore her and invite your daughter to come and join you, she will come around later

RisenPhoenix:
Probably. Better the one you know than the one you don't know.

Lol you made me laugh out loud. Ever the cynic!

At least you're consistent hahaha