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GeniusWannabe:
Find another fiancé? Lol like they come around easy. I think she should follow the advice of the FTC. She should first win her ex over (that's if he hasn't moved on to someone else), at least that would be fit enough to start the healing process before considering a new job. She needs to confess as early as possible to help her sister and also get rid of the guilt. It might get worse if the cat is let out of the bag unexpectedly.

They dont come around easy, but then they are not irreplaceable either.

Personally, I dont understand how a totally fictitious story from a group of strangers could seriously convince your own fiance to dump you. Thats too easy unless OP left out some crucial details.

Anyway she can as well confess but I think the timing is important. Sometimes people just spill everything out to make themselves feel better not minding the consequences or how it will effect the other person.

GeniusWannabe:
Can you imagine? She's still trying to be cunning about it, not wanting them to know she's got a hand in this. She's not even repentant at all.

But truly, there is not much point in telling that elder sister what she did.

It sounds nice to tell people to "confess" but are you confessing to help the other person or just to relieve yourself of the guilt

She has to help her sister move on and find another fiance and job, thats just the truth.

Modified: This is what I couldnt express:

KingNom:
@ ifyjos: it is very very painful you had to go through the insults because of your errors.

Pst. Chris Oyakhilome says 'hurting people (most times) hurt others, BE DIFFERENT; don't allow your hurt make you hurt others'

What you need do is make amends. Use the same guys and girls to call your sister's fiance ANONYMOUSLY and apologize for lying about your sister. I pray he changes his mind and make amends with your sister.

If you come out and tell them, it'll further tear your entire family apart.

Do that for now and when things are restored you may with wisdom later confess to your sister.

You have a good heart, it's only that your were seriously hurt over the years and wrongly advised. Be strong and do the right thing dear

Kindly send me a PM let's help you and your fiance stand financially

0monnak0da:
What is the point in being wicked if not totally?
Person dey half wicked?

Yes o, she is only half wicked.

If you read her replies very well, you will notice that she is not actually bad but lacks social and emotional intelligence.

Everybody here is getting annoyed with her not because she is "bad" but because she is very insensitive. So she needs to wise up or she will still do something worse than this to her daughter

Ifyjos:
I swear to God , I have never been jealous of her , she is a graduate, she studies hard so she deserved to have everything she had and yes you are right , she doesn’t owe me or my guy anything but all I wanted from her is to mind her business and let me live my life in peace with my guy. My guy will pay the fees if he don’t have , she will stay at home until we get the money to send her back to school.

Anyway, you are not totally "wicked" as we have been calling you. I believe you are sincere but you just lost your way somewhere.

Relationships with siblings can get difficult at times and you were hurt by the way she kept abusing your partner.

At the same time, you should be emotionally intelligent enough not to invite the guy to your house when you know your sister thinks lowly of him.

If you are as determined to make it as you say you are, you need to be much smarter than this.

You see?

The time we actually need Nwaamaikpe to comment, he is nowhere to be found smh

What a wicked soul...kai! I will never complain about any of my sisters again

oglalasioux:
Saudi Arabia is Isreal's number one enemy. The existence of Isreal negates everything Saudi Arabia stand for. Though they have a common enemy in Iran, Saudi Arabia doesn't recognize Isreal as a sovereign nation.

And yet they secretly share intelligence and Saudi officials have acknowledged Israel's right to statehood, which is unheard of for an Arab nation.

What is "the kingdom of Saudi Arabia" How did it even come to exist? And what is Jordan? What is Syria, even

You need to understand that "Saudi Arabia" is just a construction. It doesn't mean anything apart from fast cars and oil money and many Muslims can't even stand them.

TruthSpeaker:
NSCIA is making sense this time around. Buying another person’s (that doesn’t care about you) problem is a stupid thing to do. Has any body in Iran ever protested after a Boko Haram attack in Nigeria? Have they even shared sympathy when Nigerians are killed by terrorist?

Exactly. Why don't they ever ask themselves why nobody puts Nigerian flag on their profile picture or stages any protest for any African country

Because no matter how Islamic they are, they're still a bunch of BLACK mofos to them!

They just burn people's property to the ground for people who don't give 2 hoots about them smh

ericmor:
Exactly. For me the lady most respect me for the first date cus the other days are hers. So if you can’t respect me on that first date which I know the respect for her could last for years if eventually things work out between us, she’s a goner �

Exactly, you get

okikiosibodu:
Lol. This got me laughing real hard

Lol nawa for dem

Sinistami:
Runaway soldier... Bye Bye

Lmao confused acolyte, bye!

poyet:
Come to think of it, Sunnis have been terrorizing this world more than the Shiites. Al-qaeda, Al-shabaab, ISIS, Boko Haram are all Sunni extremists.

Exactly

Sinistami:
So those lives slaughtered, they were just sacrifices right?

Anyway I don't want to offend you again; just leave me to my devices okay?

oglalasioux:
Saudi Arabia in support of Isreal? Check very well.

Yes now

Saudi and Israel are both against Iran but not openly

Sinistami:
Jesus isn't proven to exist o! Research more.

You said he didn't die, now you're saying he never existed. Confusion

Sinistami:
The thing is those answers still were still very vague to me... I was just looking for more clearer answers which you still didn't give to me SMH... Eg when I typed about the whites forcing their religion on us you simply said they replaced our religions and cultures but the truth of Christ remains the same. My point was so this truth couldn't be spread without slavery, bloodshed, colonialism, rasism etc... You then replied that it's man's nature to subdue. Like WTF?

Exactly, because you haven't understood that there is a difference between human and divine action.

That's why you don't get it or you're refusing to get it

Sinistami:
Oh OK I get you now..... Well I knew the difference between Christianity and other religions was Christ who acted as the intercessor between God and man but my question was what makes it better. All religions have stuff that makes them different and Unique but not not exactly better.

As for the Pontious Pilate part, that was just due to misunderstanding. You see most of the questions I asked that you felt were too irritating because according to you they have already been answered by other Christians and are now too basic to be answered by you, to me were actually very much unanswered because they were still too illogical to accept.

If that's your stance then you should set the stage for your criticism and argue from secondary principal instead of going around in circles asking things that have a basic theological position already.

You said that there is no evidence that Jesus died when even non-Christian historians acknowledge that he did, even if they do not believe in his divinity. So what was the point in saying that unless you were deliberately trying to be disruptive or you just haven't bothered to research it?

Futile! Pointless.

okikiosibodu:
No lady likes to be reminded her biological clock it ticking. They always want to feel younger. Fella's song "Lady", should hint you.
If you call her woman, African woman no go gree..... She go say e e, she go say I be lady o.
Just as it makes a guy uncomfortable to ask for his wage when you have not really established rapport, the feeling is mutual for a lady when asked her age. Perhaps ladies in the house can shed more light to it

Don't mind them...census takers if they don't know this by now then they can never know mtchew

mirexxx:
I paid for my drink and left. He told d waiter he won't pay for it.

Lol mtchew never mind!

ericmor:
Looking at it from both side, is not a most she eat your order and is not a most the girl eat either. We can just take a � why we hang out for the first date

Anyway if you don't know somebody very well and you plan on accepting their hospitality, it's better you eat and be satisfied before meeting them so that whatever they do will not be paining you.

No need going for the so-called "date" on an empty stomach when the guy may be experiencing some kind of personal catastrophe that he won't feel comfortable explaining to you.

Sinistami:
So you believe your religion is different because of this so called Intercessor? Because Christ actually came? Don't you think the Jews have a reason for not believing that guy anyway, since they were by far closer to Christ than other Africans?

Yes, they have listed plenty of reasons not to believe in him which are available to read and which have equally been countered by believers. The debate between Jews and Christians has been raging on for centuries.

The reason I find your posts irritating is that you ask questions whose answers should be preliminary to somebody who claims to be a sceptic.

I don't understand how you can critically oppose Christianity and yet, not know that Pontius Pilate has been proven to have existed and that the sole basis for distinguishing Christianity from other religions is that human beings need a divine intercessor and that Christ fulfils the criteria.

I don't know what sort of discussion you expect us to be having if you haven't grasped even basic concepts such as these, or if you are as disingenuous as to pretend not to have, just for the sake of it.

This is why the conversation seems, to my understanding, to be futile. And this is why I flared at you last time (though I shouldn't have). Is it that you are genuinely ignorant of these things or that you're just trying to be difficult?

Either way, it's not how to debate. You should have advanced past such otiose speculation by now, if you are a serious opponent.

Anyway, I wish you good luck in your quest dear bye!

mirexxx:
A guy i met back then wanted me to drink bottle water instead of the drink I ordered to waiter to bring me. Saying water should be drank after eating not juice. imagine.

I think that one is a bit okay but was it just a suggestion or did he actually stop you from drinking what you wanted?

Ojady:
9. He does not allow me, at least, pay for something (the water, 20percent of the meal, something)

What is this

I was flowing with the post until you said that

If he doesnt allow you to pay for water then why worry...?

ericmor:
Na by force to eat

mercytripletz:
Lol. You must be kidding. What if she is allergic to or dislikes what you order her?
My sister hates jollof rice with passion and is a very strict vegetarian.
You go order Jollof rice and Chicken and still complain say she waste your money as she no eat am.
Be sensible jare. I know you are joking sha

Thank you...I wanted to ask, what if she doesnt even like what you order You will still call her an ingrate smh

Lexusgs430:
Best to draw the lines, make fight no enter...... Imagine asking him for credit, and he sends her 200 naira voucher (and he expects her to call and chat with him everyday)...... Or she requires 25K for essentials, and he starts to quote minimum wage...........

Lol...that one will come later na..."negotiation" tins....

Lexusgs430:
She wants to quickly know if you're for keeps or dump.......

Lol there are better ways to do that smh

Ifakiland:
I hate a girl suggesting what she wants on a first date....im the host, you're the guest, you eat whatever I order, not the other way round.

Are you joking? You want to dictate to the person what they should eat Smh

Thegamingorca:
Which can lead to how much you earn.

The point is that a sensible person wouldnt ask such a question outrightly

You can ask them where they work and then use your imagination to figure out the rest

pacespot:
Parliamentary proceedings are determined by majority, are you saying the Iraqi parliament doesn't have the power to expel the US?

The current government of Iraq is rubbish...the prime minister is just a caretaker, moreover so many of those parliamentarians boycotted the vote out of annoyance

Im sure they have the power but can they balance Shia/Iranian interests and prevent the Sunnis from militarising? Again

fastseo:
Your landlord buried his wife there based on custom and tradition. There are places where they don't have land again based on urbanisation what they do is to ask a tenant to leave that room for 2 months to allow them Bury their cops.

If u have not experience certain things don't come to a conclusion when others complained about certain things.

Thats what I was just wondering reading the guys post. Is it evil to bury your wife in the compound nowadays

happinezz110:
Unreasonable talk just like when I went on a date with one foolish guy, he told me I would live with his mom when we get married and she wld help me to chose the hospital for my Ante Natal wen I'm pregnant. All he could talk about was his mom, grandmom and sister. Since then, I hate dating only boy of d family especially those with 4sis

Hahahahahaha omgsh! Hahahaha Sister sorry o!

Ebenezar2020:
i don't understand what u said.
Sorry do u Know me from somewhere

Hahaha I thought you said you would never reply to me

This guy is a joke smh EmptyCoconutHead leave me alone ooo asiere