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Let's embark on this journey of making ourselves better. Shall we?

NiRfreak:
Brilliant observation and opinion

Glad you see it my way

Bluezy13:
Hmmm...

It remains your stance...you do not expect any personal objection... But you brought it to a public interactive forum.

Yeah

Unlike platonic relationships, I observed that romantic relationships are mostly guided by the rule "opposite attract". My findings include the realisation that
as a person, you're more likely to be in romance with someone more different from you in behaviour, mentality and lifestyle.

- In most cases, the good girls get attracted to and end up with the bad boys and the bad girls seek solace and eventually end up with the good boys. Tragic isn't it?

- Also as it happens, introverts happen to bore each other eventually and later separate afterwards only to merge with extroverts and vice-versa.

- In most cases, richer men settle with poorer girls and most richer ladies end up with poorer men.

- The less good-looking girl gets the best guy and the prettiest girl gets the less good-looking guy.

- Virgin girls find themselves with non-virgin boys and most virgin boys end up with non-virgin girls.

[color=navy]More so, [/color]

I realised that

- Talkative girls and quiet boys seem to make the best couples.

- In most cases, highly educated men and women resent each other a lot, compete for superiority and eventually separate, even in marriage and the more empowered a woman becomes, the more likely she become single.

- Most university ladies end up wasting their time at the university due to romance and sexual gratification and eventually come out older and less fertile, usually due to sex or unsuccessful relationships.

- Most guys who marry early have the highest divorce cases and financial issues.

- Most guys and ladies who marry their age circle divorce earliest.

[color=navy]My opinion[/color]

- Guys should use their early years to establish themselves and get settled when they're reasonably older and more experienced just as their forefathers did. They should let society call them "rich" before "married".

- Guys who're ready should marry ladies reasonably younger, poorer, weaker and less educated than they are for compatibility and peace of mind.

- Ladies should seek and only date men reasonably older, richer, stronger and more educated than they are as most young guys have other things to focus on before commitment.

- Ladies should also preserve their virginity, youth and fertility to avert many sorrows. I won't say beyond this.

- Both genders should never try to equalise themselves as it will only lead to resentment, bitterness and separation no matter the level of romance. Each is perfect in their natural way.

- Guys should use their early years such as 15-35 to become fulfilled and settle at ages 36-40.

- Girls should use their early years to invest in their appearance, trade, cooking skills and family and hope to settle between ages 18-25.

My opinion isn't for everyone though as some may have to differ, but that remains my stance. Don't know about others...

codemaniacs:
You're not even a graduate and you claim I'm talking bag of emotions when you are the one talking bag of emotions.
Just because you're not a graduate does not mean you should talk down on graduates in order to feel good about yourself.

Go and graduate first before attempting to advise graduates.

***Sighs*** OK. I've heard what you have to say. Now please don't mention me, I'm busy. Thanks

calcal:
Are you a graduate?

No

XOGBADO:
Wow!
Thank you so much, I'm starting this journey right away. I really appreciate

You're welcome bro

XOGBADO:
I want to learn from you, help me recommend a book to read. Thanks

In all honesty bro, I learnt a lot of things from experiences both from mine and others but I guarantee one book and 2 apps that have helped me positively .

- The Holy Bible, the book of proverbs specifically from beginning to end
- Psychology facts - from playstore. Psychology is a must know for anyone who wants to relate with life better especially as a guy and last but not least
- Attitude quotes - contains a copious amount of true knowledge and life revelations, also some funny and catchy quotes

If you willingly and faithfully access the information in these great writeups, you will be someone far better than now, that I assure you

codemaniacs:
I respect your opinion but your write-up is rubbish because you used "success" as a general term you did not state if it was financial success, social success e.t.c...

only higher education is a guarantee for "employment success"... when I say employment success I mean working in big companies and getting paid comfortably...

another thing you fail to notice, is that most employers employ people from their own ethnicity. so if a person living in a state or place where that person's ethnicity does not own majority of companies there, it will take that person a long time to get employed..

Hmm how could you come up with that first line when you saw these statements in my post.

Personally, I disagree with the belief that ONLY higher education is a guarantee for success in terms of money making especially in a country like Nigeria where there are scarcity of jobs for most courses being taught in schools.

Higher education though is good, useful and efficacious, isn't an assurance for financial stability and time is crucial for everyone especially the ambitious and smart people who value it and won't choose to venture into anything they deem unproductive or likely to have less chances of success.

You're a talking bag of emotions. Perhaps you'll understand my writeup better if you read it with an open mind and less emotions.

Jerewise332:
You're good bro
Can I learn from u?

Sorry bro but I don't really engage people online. That's a policy I made due to some ugly experiences some people home had

posty56:
wow e cheap thank you

He is a church member

abdulwahhab001, Blaccsam101 pls I don't do PMs. Please just quote me here, thanks

posty56:
one last thing how did you pay the lawyer?

Yes about #8000