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Bhus21:
Some 3 weeks ago I confronted my wife about a man she'd been seeing. She unapologetically told me she had slept with him and wanted a divorce. This is my attempt to process this shock to my system and heal from the trauma.

qtguru:
Alaye boys wan pass, why you dey form Roadblock for stairs

MP3GAGAdotCOM:
Photoshop master, i see you

Mustiboy:
Thereby helping them bond well. The same cannot be said for today. Your smartphone can be your best friend as you withdraw from the society gradually

Cutehotnerd001:
same low IQ that made bill gates cheat on his wife abi?... i for say na u get the low IQ but the truth be say u no even get any IQ at all.

Kingcalls:
So people like Trump , Bezos and Gates have low IQ

Freestainworld:
if men with low IQ cheats, how do they then convince their preys even when those ladies know the guy is married, I am not a fan of cheating, and have never cheated since I married, but the real answer would have been men who have sexual perversion in them, it's inbuilt, sometimes some wives gives room to this due to their unecessary nagging, and making the home uncomfortable to the man which results to the man looking for succour somewhere.

NamelessOGBENI:
Technically, men with low IQ cheats and the ones with high IQ are faithful?

Nairaland Sha...

Offpoint1:
It's 2021, you can still be a lady if you really want to.

Perhaps you can show me by example...

Jeon:
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AND U WILL BE THE MOST UGLIEST TREE IN OUTSIDE CANADA.

SmellySperm:
If I were a lady, I'd hoard my puss.y for my husband

Jeon:
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AND U WILL BE THE MOST UGLIEST TREE IN OUTSIDE CANADA.

Jeon:
Lollittaa my baby will be my baby mama.





Sometimes I laugh out loud when I see this comment " baby mama is the way ".

Worst part of it is that this statement is coming from the dead broke nigga'z who have not plan their foundation properly. More like those who can't carter for themselves { e.g can't afford the 3square of meal }.

Tremple8v:
I cant think of life without my 2 sons and my wife , its not possible for me to love a woman I know I wasn't the only one sleeping with her . If you love baby mama fine , I understand marriage might not be the answer to your problem, But it's better you find a woman who understands you .

Don't mind them dudes. They aren't afraid to marry, they're just afraid of marrying the wrong person being the big losers they are.

ABANGWABOI:


E pain am..
But na still trash you wrote...
Baby mama is the way forward..

ABANGWABOI:
There is no disadvantage for Baby mama ism..
If it has disadvantages then marriage shouldn't even exist cos it's disadvantages are overwhelming for a man..
This trash you wrote would be supported by Evening newspapers and liabilities mostly..
Absolute trash

seyz91:
while you up there listing some trash points on disadvantage of baby mama, you forget everything in life with his pros and cons

do i need remind you that the list of Cons of Marriage will be longer that those listed up there for baby mama

Drsnives:
Back to sender in Jesus name

Your prayer is not original

Ckonnet:
We dey come, make we update our own list.

We dey wait...

SerikiFulani:
Advantages of Babymama

1. You can date/have sex with whosoever you want at any given time.
2. You get to eat your babymama's coochie once in a while, infact she can bear you another child in the process.
3.Not much liability...Just your kid...As long as you take care of child support monthly,you're good to go.
4. You get the time to hustle and think clear.....No unnecessary nagging from one scorned woman

Drsnives:
We no send .
Baby mama sure pass
I see the op later endup having baby mama form five different ladies
I see him crying bitterly cos of the bills from all angles


This I have seen

A305:
Everything you listed up there are as a result of the baby father not taking responsibility (providing) except for number 1, which anyone can hardly control except, she is a homely girl.

Baby mama is the way but, the best out there is surrogacy. You gotta be rich to afford surrogacy, this is why baby mama is cheaper to mitigate than going into a worthless marriage.

If you take good care of your baby mama in way of co-depence; pay her rent, bills, set up a business and threatening to yank all that benefits when you catch her with another man. She would act right and won't spread her legs for all men that comes her way, maybe few men by way of dating, but that's cool anyway provided they aren't f cking in the house you paying rent for.

eazzzy1:
Lol. Are you saying all single mothers are whores?

1) One of the sole reasons why people go the baby mama route is because they know marriage isn’t a guarantee of exclusivity. They have a child and that’s it, the woman is free to do whatever she wants with whoever she wants. A BM fvcking another man won’t hurt, a wife fvcking another man is like the end of the world.

2) Most Baby mama’s try their best to be in the good books of their baby father. They hope the relationship will lead to marriage and that hope keeps them on their best behaviour. When people are seeking for something they tend to be nicer than the people who got them easily.

Just like you said about wife’s, a man who gets a compatible baby mama won’t have problems either. Baby mama, baby daddy can also be a complete family. Just without the encumbrances of a signed document, easier entry and easier exit if things do not pan out well.

eazzzy1:
Lol. Are you saying all single mothers are whores?

Beckysexy:
Open thread*
Close thread*

Michelle55:
Where are the team baby mama's? We are waiting for the advantages of having a baby mama, let me grab a seat and wait.

Still waiting for them or did the topic scare them off?