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I weak for these nairaland men. they just dey disgrace us

imagine saying a woman should suffer with you because of love whereas, she can get a man who can make her feel heaven is on earth. who no like better thing ?
women are not superhumans. The country hard

[color=navy] The thing tire me o bros[/color]

Powerfly:
The future is truely FEMININE.

[color=navy] Then the future is full of shit [/color]

cococandy:
Yes I am.

Now that it is out of the way, what do you have to say about the topic that is not related to my vagina?

[color=navy]The topic depicts the story of a man from a broken home. What good is it to anyone? [/color]

cococandy:
The nurturing patriarch resorts to one of the known and stale tools of the patriarchy. Slut shame any woman who doesn’t agree with you.

Of course

[color=navy]And so what?
Aren't you a slut? [/color]

Splitmind:
Men love successful women but women will be screaming that a man who can't provide this and that luxury isn't a real man.

When a man falls on hard times what goes through their heads is how to dump him and find a "real man". Even when women earn more they will always be disturbed about their partner earning less than them.

Ideology can not simply root out deep seeded hypergamy.

[color=navy]The more reason feminism will forever remain a joke in Nigeria[/color]

cococandy:
I’m assuming you think your opinion is fact.
“Patriarchy is nurturing”. To who? To the myriads of men and women who have been hurt by toxic masculinity?
Mtchew

The fact that you expect me to waste my time discussing it with you. The Silly entitlement.

[color=navy]Listen to this cheap hoe [/color]

abfemi163:
Ogaaa we cannnot live without a woman
If it not so
Only Adam would exist
We cant do without dem yes
You obviously d one dat doesnt know wat his saying

Its pple like you dat make women feel inferior

[color=navy] Funny how your mind thinks. Well, you're entitled to your opinion [/color]

abfemi163:
FEMINISM DOESN'T BRING AN END TO THE THOUSAND YEARS REIGN OF MEN IN THE SOCIETY. FEMINISM IS CREATING A FUTURE OF FREEDOM FOR BOTH GENDERS TO GO AHEAD AND FULFILL THEIR GREATEST POTENTIALS.

My Advice to Our Ladies Out There:
Seek to be independent in all ramifications. Financial, emotional, spiritual, physical independence etc.


The Institution of marriage cannot be understood by man,it only takes a man and a woman who is deeply and inter twinned with the Holyspirit to understand marriage
Till The world ends an ordinary man would fail at marriage
The man cannot do without a woman,he is useless,the woman is his life support, the woman is his multiplier,the woman is help meet,his stupidly incomplete without her

Marriage can never b understood by an ordinary man
Go spiritual to understand it

[color=navy] Stop saying things you don't know. What about the patriarchs? What about Paul, Jesus, é.t.c. The woman was created for the man and not vice-versa. Do you really think that men can't live without a wife? [/color]

tsmith:
Never seen so much hogwash in one post. I see an entitled man afraid of losing his undeserved privileges.

[color=navy]See your head. Tell me the hogwash in what I said or let me rest. I'm busy. [/color]

cococandy:
The worst part is that you believe this hogwash

[color=navy] Contradict me with facts or shut up[/color]

[color=navy] Why bother yourself with the phrase dumb women and deluded men use?

Women were born to serve men and shall die serving men. All those talks of Feminism are nothing but meaningless words. [/color]

[color=navy]So many modern women have nothing interesting to say. All they want to do is to exploit their sexuality for material or societal gain. They do not create anything of objective value.

This is the sad thing about women's rights.
You cannot out of kindness, fairness and modern thinking grant them a few liberties, preserve society and be done with it. Oh no. Once the foot's in the door, it never ends. They will push for more until the universe itself explodes.

It starts with "we want freely available access to birth control and the right to work, and choose who we marry"

And it ends with frivolous divorce, broken homes, widespread misandry, feminine sons, masculine daughters and the complete demonisation of any & all things masculine. What gain have Feminism brought so far even to the women it claims to help?

Patriarchy nurtures women, emancipation harms them. No protection. No provision. Stressful careers and decision making. No guidance. Insecurity. Mental damage from promiscuity. A string of regrets. Women are family creatures. Hyper individualistic autonomy is damaging for them.

Patriarchy is nurturing and protective. The backbone of civilization. No advanced society can survive without it.

Furthermore, paternalism is God's love in man.
You have daddy issues when you didn't receive enough paternal love. It's that simple. Independence isn't the answer to that, no matter how much you brand it as freedom or liberty and turn to degeneracy to cope. None of that will save you.



Happy International Women's Day.[/color]

[color=navy]Why would a man chase women when he is not yet established? Doesn't he have dreams? Is he satisfied with where he is?
Why should women choose to date men who are poor over those rich hot men? What do they gain by doing so? [/color]

[color=navy]Listen to your parents. They obviously speak more sense than you right now. Don't waste the money and effort they used in putting you in school. I believe if you were able to make it to the 300 level, you do have the ability to graduate successfully. Complete that course and graduate, if not for you, then for them.

Can't really say I'm on the side of your parents or you though but I'll advise you to be realistic. What you really want won't come so easy. It's almost highly doubtful that you would be a footballer speak less of a successful one.

I feel you should start something doing that will give you the resources to chase your dream, perhaps a business or a job. Your parents have done their part educating you, now it's your turn to establish yourself. [/color]

[color=navy] There could be many reasons for that but I feel the major ones include:

- Presence of mother's love and attention but scarcity of father's love and attention.
- Selfish manipulation from the mother's side
- Clout chasing
- Following the trends
- Sexism
- Mere stupidity, é.t.c.

Anyone you choose, but I maintain the belief that people will only value or remember you for how you made them feel and not necessarily your time spent with them. [/color]

[color=navy]Only a foolish woman tears her home.



Only a fool weds a slut[/color]

SeunDobo:
No brother please Advise me this is killing me , I need to something before I recklessly my life cuz of alcohol like 3 days ago I spend 20k again ... I drink to the extent that the beer no gree go again , I just dey vomit ... Later I realized I have something important to do for just 15 to 10k and I have already 20k .. most of Niggar that I bought drinks for sef no too dey appreciate .. All this money na hard-earned I no be Yahoo boy so it dey always paining me but when am tipsy with alcohol! I misbehave again I spend all my time with faaji traveling around when I gat tipsy with drink and no would advise to stop doing indiot

[color=navy]When you've suffered finish, take the advice in this thread below

https://www.nairaland.com/6417850/one-truth-poor-people[/color]

SeunDobo:
No brother please Advise me this is killing me , I need to something before I recklessly my life cuz of alcohol like 3 days ago I spend 20k again ... I drink to the extent that the beer no gree go again , I just dey vomit ... Later I realized I have something important to do for just 15 to 10k and I have already 20k .. most of Niggar that I bought drinks for sef no too dey appreciate .. All this money na hard-earned I no be Yahoo boy so it dey always paining me but when am tipsy with alcohol! I misbehave again I spend all my time with faaji traveling around when I gat tipsy with drink and no would advise to stop doing indiot

[color=navy]When you've suffered finish, take the advice in this thread

https://www.nairaland.com/6417850/one-truth-poor-people[/color]

[color=navy] Sad[/color]

razible5384:
i can't recall when last I read past page two of a thread,but ur politeness, composure an civility in responding to mentions has taken me this far.... I must confess you are wisdom personified...ur patience an courtesy in replying to trolls is also topnotch,i personally won't be this accommodating before letting out my venom.... As someone above said, u have an excellent spirit..... May God keep increasing you with wisdom an also grant you the grace to apply them for a successful life ahead....

[color=navy]Amen Sir, with all my heart... [/color]

[color=navy]Just face your own life[/color]

darealbabe:
I hope you heal from whatever made you this emasculated.

[color=navy] At least I'm not a woman who was born emasculated and will die emasculated. . Your lots will always be our subjects and your desires will always be sanctioned by us.

A woman without a man is like a child without a parent.
An orphan. Disadvantaged and at risk. Patriarchy is nurturing and protective. The backbone of civilization. No advanced society can survive without it.[/color]

pakisbriggs:
Hahahahahaha Darealbabe, you're really Da Real Babe! What a reply! Very intelligent!

[color=navy]I think we have to recheck the meaning of intelligent in the dictionary as I don't see how someone who couldn't argue with facts but resorted to conspiracy theories is intelligent.


Well one can't stop meeting stupid people. [/color]

budaatum:
You are not alone. buda is standing up with you.

[color=navy]Your lies will just make her more depressed. Women never support each other. [/color]

darealbabe:
Truth is relative. Facts require provable references. And Assumptions are unfounded statements. But only an immature mind assumes Assumptions to be Facts when they makes a post without any provable reference.

The females in your life don't need to know I exist. As long as you know your female folks (particularly your mother) are part of the women you described in your posts, that's sufficient for me. I hope she doesn't know you hold such deranged views about her.

If I'm a loser, a fool, and idiotic, for standing up for your mother and the rest of the women around you, so be it.

[color=navy]I can see the pain behind those smileys. Sorry dear, it isn't your fault women can never be like men. It is just a man's world. Our world but don't be depressed. Here dry your tears. [/color]

With all sincerity bro, you'll only be good as the people who surround you. Having a large number of people around you doesn't actually mean they are your friends.

My advice for you is that you separate yourself from those broke people as they'll subconsciously serve as an hindrance to your progress due to their incessant requests. Believe it or not, the people you move around with have a huge influence on you and also determine your outcome. You should only keep around you the people who are beneficial.

darealbabe:
Alright, I'm sorry. I think I misunderstood you. Everything you have mentioned may truly be the experience and realities of women such as your mother, daughters (if any), aunties, wife (if any), girlfriends, neighbours, female acquaintances, and their counterparts you've met on social media.

You can't deny that beyond these female folks I've listed, you have not met any other woman in the world that is different (such as me), and yet there are billions of women in the world. So really, if everything you wrote stems from your previous experiences in life, I can't argue with you.

[color=navy]Ha, as expected. You couldn't handle the truth nor contradict me with facts, that's why you came up with conspiracy theories against me and people who don't even know you exist, you loser. Talk about a fool without understanding.

If you're too idiotic to prove your points with facts like a sane person would, then throw yourself to the wolves and stop wasting my time. [/color]

budaatum:
Okonjo Iweala, Christine Lagarde, Malala Yousafzai, Serena Williams, Julia Gillard, Angela Merkel, my mother, me, your mother, all do not know what's good for us, but we bothered to have you?

I guess you said the following too':



Wanna go back and see how wrong you are, Mike?

[color=navy]I thought you were in a bad mood earlier but it has been a while now so I guess you're just plain stupid[/color]

darealbabe:
Lol.

OP you know nothing about women! Go back and do your findings well.

So a feminine woman is nice, humble and caring? Wake up bro. A feminine woman can also be loud and stubborn. She can be anything she is.

It's okay to program your own daughter after every dreamy thing you wrote here, but you have no right to tell a woman how to behave!

So shove your chauvinist ridden mind and skewed perspective out of women's affairs!

[color=navy][b] They know not what's good for them, but they believe with all their hearts & souls they do. They want a say in the course of the trajectory of their own life, which is understandable, and yet given free rein they crash and burn. Women are not built for leadership or independence.

So they battle bitterly to gain the rights and privileges of men, and then upon attaining them, become resentful of those very same men who awarded them. Counter intuitively, gender relations deteriorate rather than improve.

"Why did you let me win" you can hear her soul cry.

Look at western women, they have everything, and yet they continue to find things to want & demand with no end in sight, despite every basic right and privilege secured. And yet towards the men who've given them everything they show much scorn, almost as if they hate being free.

Woman herself will always push for more freedoms, regardless of whether she can properly handle them or not, because insecurity is in her veins & chaos her nature, & so like a child, whether it is healthy for her or not, she will always want more, even if there's no more to have.

Modern women make insane demands from men, but also rebel against what's demanded of them.

Patriarchy nurtures women, emancipation harms them.
No protection. No provision. Stressful careers and decision making. No guidance. Insecurity. Mental damage from promiscuity. A string of regrets.
Women are family creatures. Hyper individualistic autonomy is damaging for them.

Paternalism is God's love in man.
You have daddy issues when you didn't receive enough paternal love. It's that simple. Independence isn't the answer to that, no matter how much you brand it as freedom or liberty and turn to degeneracy to cope. None of that will save you.[/b][/color]

awulio:
Western women are happy. We prefer prefer animals to humans in general. Western men are better than Nigerian men. They not scared of successful women. When I say western men I mean white men and asian men. You black men are scared of successful women. I’m happy not being with a Nigerian man.

darealbabe:
Lol.

OP you know nothing about women! Go back and do your findings well.

So a feminine woman is nice, humble and caring? Wake up bro. A feminine woman can also be loud and stubborn. She can be anything she is.

It's okay to program your own daughter after every dreamy thing you wrote here, but you have no right to tell a woman how to behave!

So shove your chauvinist ridden mind and skewed perspective out of women's affairs!

[color=navy]I can see I'm shaking tables [/color]

awulio:
Firstly I don’t need a man telling me how to live.... goodness gracious Nigerian men are really thrash. It’s because of rubbish write ups like this that I refuse to marry a Nigerian. Firstly my self worth is not based on my shape or my looks this is why y’all get tricked by girls because that’s what you focused on.... 2ndly I’m a proud feminist and will continue to be that, luckily the white guys i know love feminists it’s just Nigerian men that have issues with it. I don’t need to act feminine to get a man. I was raised to be strong and I can do things on my own. I pay my own bills, I do things for my self. Finishing up my masters in America. I’m not going to reduce myself and my achievements to please a man

[color=navy]Ok [/color]