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slyfoxxjoe:
Actually you are laughing at yourself. Saying you are qualified to advice men at 21 because Jesus did at 12 is you trying to compare your abilities with him forgetting Jesus was no ordinary human being. He was able to know all he did at that age because he was part GOD! at least if we are to believe what the Bible says. So that alone renders your point redundant.

IhateInjustice:
Exactly. How can a husband treat a wife like a daughter

It was an illustration. No need to be annoyed about it

Revolva:
Every guy should know how to not be a SIMP for naija gals and never trust dem

True

budaatum:
Don't make it a woman problem when you know its more universal than that. You know how people here are, especially the men, criticising women for what they themselve do more.

I find Nigerians in general feel entitled. We pray to God for manna from heaven and pray to each other too, except with each other and unlike God, one must answer your prayer!

I'd get on my bike in the morning and go to my farm and no one will see me going. But when I'm returning with my bike full of food they all see and greet me and ask me what I brought back for them as if na dem send me.

Me, I'm bad. I can go in my kitchen and cook my food that I laboured for on my farm and sit at my table and eat it in front of you while your lazy ass looks on and I give you none. Next time, if you want to eat my food, come to my farm and grow it with me and you will most certainly not starve.

As far as I am concerned, you are not even entitled to me feeling guilty just because you are lazy and therefore starving! You are definitely not entitled to the fruit of my labours because I am most definitely not your slave!

Obviously, I do not mean you, op. Just saying. And I too give like you do.

hstar:
U are correct

I used to be good and use to be good up till now

But sometimes, I deliberately do bad, not evil bad o, or badly bad but minimum amount of bad so as to prove that I'm not stupid, I'm human not an angel

Lastly, why I sometimes do that is because pple that I do help don turn me to mumu

They tend to discuss amongst themselves that 'just go and meet him, he would say yes, he doesn't know how to say no'

OyinO:
marriage is not a success. In advanced societies, marriage is an option. And it seems you don't know what it means to be successful.

eagleonearth:
most of your points up there are real but don't say that "sex has no profits". It will be an insult to the originator. Simply say that premarital sex is dangerous. Sex has been medically established to be curative if done moderately and in marriage it's benefits make a long list.

hstar:
Before nko?
I no dey read am, I'm not talking about divine or heavenly book


I'm talking about self development book
Plus motivational books

iRepNaija1:
You and I may have different definitions of what equal means. Regardless, a couple should do what works for them and their marriage, whether it be a more traditional marriage or a more modern one. Traditional marriage or modern marriage, it's weird and condescending to be looking at or treating your wife, who is an adult, as a child.

hstar:
Bobo yi
Recommend me a book please
Confirm life changing book ni o
Bia, my life is not bad o
I just love learning new stuffs
because I'm a chronic reader
Oya, recommend one for me please

OyinO:
There are porn stars in America who have made millions to become successful by being paid to act porn movies.

slyfoxxjoe:
a 21 year old is not experienced enough to advice those in their 30’s. At that age your views and opinions are still very fluid because you are still transitioning from childhood to adulthood at that point. This same guy may not hold these same opinions in 5 years. If you doubt me, check back on him in 5 years from now and ask.

chimebuka90:
Very insightful, I appreciate your diligence and how thorough you approached every point, Thanks

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slyfoxxjoe:
you’re forgetting one small detail; Jesus was not an ordinary human. I think that makes a world of difference don’t you? How can you be comparing this random OP to Jesus Christ? Lmao.

Lmao, .

Guy, I'm laughing at you not laughing with you.
Jesus is God and I'm not comparing myself to his supremacy. I'm only using him as an example - an example of someone young who imparted knowledge in the minds of people. Don't know where you got that your warped theory from.




I'm the OP

hstar:
Lovely, I wanted to defend u before, but upon seeing that u are a strong man with wisdom

I respect u more.

RESPECT

iRepNaija1:
Agreed with mostly everything until I got to number 14. Just like men don't want to be treated like children by their wives, wives do not want to be treated like children by their husbands. We as a people really need to step away from this fixation with having wives "who look up" to their husbands or husbands needing to "correct" wives when they make mistakes. The language is off-putting and it's weird infantilization.

hstar:
Yes, u are making sense, ur threads are always on point

assinozick042:
Life no get particular rules to follow, itz beyond your thinking little man.

assinozick042:
Life no get particular rules to follow, itz beyond your thinking little man.

linkin8k:
Good for anyone irrespective of the age

BadRadio:
Nice one...

BadRadio:
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BadRadio:
No mind the Op, the guy no dey try at all

OyinO:
Lolz, but don't ever maintain the stand or stance that sex has no profit or reward.
Without sex there's no procreation. And we know the benefits of procreation which comes naturally by sex, pregnancy and birth of offsprings. Besides, reproduction is one of the characteristics of all living things, and it comes by sex. However, to centre one's energies on sex may be wrong but we all have something we centre our energies on. One man may love sex and still be doing well in his endeavours. We even have people who are sex workers. Does that mean you and I are better than they are? Or that they are failures? Hell NO!
One man's meat or food is another man's poison. The bottom line is that, Sex is not bad.

OyinO:
Any other thing you're saying besides sex being unprofitable and having no reward is something I have already agreed with you. As for the aspect that sex has no profit and reward, you are sounding like religious fellows that always like to condemn and discourage sex and intimidate women.

OyinO:
Without sex, you won't be typing here. Don't focus only on the bad side of good things. Sex is good and has many benefits. You stated categorically that sex has no profit or reward. That's a bird's eye view and immature statement.

OyinO:
I'm not the one to tell you what offenses you should forgive or not. Use your discretion or personal judgements.

OyinO:
We shouldn't centre our lives on one thing alone because too much of one thing is good for nothing but the way you presented the case of sex was too condemning and out of place. Even food becomes poison when you gluttonously centre your life on it. Thanks Bro

OyinO:
It is not all the time or every case you should forgive and forget. Sometimes you should learn to Revenge so that the other party will know how it feels to be hurt. Forgiveness is good but Revenge is Sweeter. Forgive your enemies but don't forget their names.

OyinO:
Sex is everything. It is sex that makes the world to go around by controlling money. It has value, profit and reward (good or bad).
You're a product of sex and you are valuable.

mercy87:
See your woman as your daughter? You try. No wonder the rest of the world has left Africa behind. Patriachy has corrupted una brain. Kwantinu