₦airaland Forum

Rave3:
Please lord open the heart of someone to help me I don't know what to do anymore

Are you not the same as Devineee?

overseasnbeyond:
https://dealembassy.com/post/two-nigerians-accused-of-defrauding-school-districts-organisations-and-schools-in-portland

If you are told you are sick in the head for peddling fake news, you will be complaining of being misdiagnosed..

Wrestling for the gun....sheer stupidity!

If the gun had gone off and he got killed, the next thing we would be reading is ....he is an only son, his wife just gave birth 2 days ago etc.

Foolishness!

Do you own a plantain farm?

Epositive:
You are right. Our army has been discouraging with unconvincing reports. By the way, on a general note, what could be the cause?

The system is corrupt and rigged with nepotism.

Top brass there are more concerned in cornering defense funds into their private pockets, reason there is always accusations of misappropriation of funds and it demoralizes soldiers on the battle field, intermittently they release press statements to give the impression they are "working".

Overwhelming majority of the riders are nuisance on the road,

Epositive:
I observe that in particular to the war against terrorism. People are more inclined to believe Boko Haram's attacks than our army's defences and retaliation.


Mindlog, our resident psychologist. What do you say?

Resident fire!

The Nigerian Army has over the years not inspired confidence in the populace, remember severally they claimed they killed Shekarau and it turned to be lies after lies until a rival group killed him.....one of the reasons, majority of Nigerians take whatever they say with a sneer.

When US Military says they have neutralized a particular target, don't we believe them as they do back it up with evidence but Nigerian Defense Headquarters will be releasing press statements say dem kill 200, 500 terrorists, video evidence of attack is rarely shared and it seems like fake news to many Nigerians. When the Nigerian Army suffer calamities they tend to lie to Nigerians it never happened while Boko boys will be releasing video evidence of the attacks........so there lies an insight why Nigerians believe the Nigerian Army less.

Mraphel:
To travel long journey from south to all d way sokoto nor easy at all.

All the presidential candidates are bad....Peter Obi is the worst of all of them. He won't win the election but he will become richer more richer than Nnamdi Kanu.

I guess it takes days to fly from the "South" to Sokoto?

Cold neva start, u dey talk of cold.

I am glad your children have blended well in school and those awards do help in firming inclusiveness. Do also get them involved in children activities in your Parish, it builds their social network.

Suicide attempt, what if the rotating blade over him went off?

The 2 positives, she is alive and so is the baby.

Let her video call your mum, she no kill person. After asking of everyone, she should tell your mum of her granddaughter and make sure the video call is when the baby is awake, so your mum can see her smiles.....your mum's heart will melt and will take it up from there.

Those out of school children are going to be the easy recruits for terrorism, banditry etc but Buhari would prefer spending trillions (though means of siphoning funds) on arms and ammunition rather than adequately fund education.

The more we have out of school children, the more we would be confronted with insecurity.

Kobojunkie:
How you take know say na he carry her go abroad and not the other way around ?

When squabbles between Nigerian couples living abroad makes it to social media, the narrative is always that "the man brought her to the country".

A Nigerian man was removed from my neighbourhood by the Police, some time in June and it was actually one of the neighbours that called the Police. The woman moved to the UK with their 2 children last year August via work visa as she works in healthcare, the husband joined her in January through dependant visa and since then it has always been one issue to another, the Pastors where they worship have tried severally to intervene but the physical abuse going on, still persisted.

If the scene of where the man was ushered into the Police car was uploaded on social media, I bet the narrative will be, she got her husband arrested despite bringing her over to the UK and training her through school.

Dozunimi2022:
Mod should move to front page
Please

Wasn't the result interpreted to him at the diagnostic centre where it was done?

AstraDroid:
Yes, the wife will be denied access to your owned home, but you can fund her rent with the kids outside your personal estate, and when the kids are 18, they are considered adults and can decide their fate. Even if they want to continue living with their mother, you have gotten them to adulthood.

My emphasis is to ensure that a cheating wife does not have full access to your home. She must move on and be with who ever she loves. You can fund her rent with any kid that choose to live with her or mandated to live with her, but on no account should any man live under the same roof with a woman who has love for another man to the extend of having sex outside wedlock.

Be prepared to execute this if it happens.

But as long as they are in the West, she is likely entitled to a share of whatever wealth accrued during the course of marriage, even if infidelity was only on the part of the woman and the man never cheated on his wife.

Disheartening.

toobusy:
.......no man wants to spend the last of his days in a foreign land,he would always want to return home to spend his last days on earth(old age).... that's where the problem comes, would your kids agree to return home with you assuming you marry a white woman,the idea of living a lonely life in your old age is what normally drives men back home when looking for a wife.

Even in Nigeria, what percentage of kids born and raised in urban areas still have connections with their ancestral homes?

To face Stephen Sackur?

AstraDroid:
Good question.

The divorce proceedings have to take its course and the jury decides who takes care of the kids. And eventually you'd return home with the kids or ex wife will live separately. You can find their rent for them and they can visit.

You can not live with a cheating wife. Eventually kids will reutn, ex wouldn't

Let's get this clear, if custody of the children is granted to the ex-wife and the man gets visiting rights and also have days when the children can visit him, since the man is of means and is expected to pay for their children housing, will he refuse the ex-wife from living in the house their children will be living and he pays the rent?

AstraDroid:
At that man's age, he is supposed to be retired and living in Nigeria.

Many of us spend spend youthful age hustling hard and expecting progress before marriage.

But end up marrying our specs when she doesn't consider you her spec except that our money is their spec.

So when they are fully cemented in our homes and 'see finish' their true color reveals itself.

You want my advise?

If you own homes and marry at holder age and suspect your wife might be cheating, all you have to do is move out of your own homes with her and kids peacefully, do not let her know you know her flings.

Rent a better home and lie to her that the home is yours and you just bought it and and rent out your real homes using property lawyers as estate manager.

Inform her you have sold your home to buy this new one.

Then afterwards move out of the rented home and proceed on a year vacation and terminate the marriage with those evidences.

She will be in that new home and when the rent expires the landlord will show up.

She will be homeless and will not know you didn't sell the old home. Divorce properly and return to your home when the storm is over.

Some women are demonic, but my wife is an angel.

If the kids are still minors, where will they stay when the rent expires?

GreyLaw:
That is what I don't understand. There are great men and women everywhere in the world. I sincerely wonder what these men try to prove by going back to their villages to look for a wife!

Most feel the women in their countries of residence don "open eye" wella and can't "control" them.

Downside of hanging on to a cheating spouse, be it male or female though no where in this particular video, did I hear Gonorrhea (unless I missed it and should be referred to the part).

Good gesture. Hope Mr. Dike has learnt his lessons.

Recycling the same old story!

oyin44:
Like me and other Nigerians what we will want from obi, is for him to Minister unto what people need ..

not insulting and bullying other presidential candidates..like what most of his supporters do,,

Which presidential candidate is he "bullying"?

With majority of Nigerian phone users with a smartphone, no one videoed his "resurrection"?

Eyah.

Sahad1234:
Some people blind sha , you guys should read properly before just jumping into conversations.. "hospital" it's there !

Adding hospital as after thought, changes nothing. That obsession about his daughter's (if he truly has one) virginity is unhealthy.....many girls who were sexually abused by their fathers, have one thing in common....their father's obsession if they were still virgins.

If he is a single father and lives alone with his 15 year old daughter...it is a huge red flag.

Most are ritualists,using internet fraud as cover up.

To even mention Abacha, means even in death he is a role model to Shettima.

Very misplaced.

officialwdhtv:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JQn9sO_dK0A

Nigerian woman sends her husband packing in UK after he called police on her for threatening to kill him.

A yet to be identified Nigerian couple were the center of attention in their UK community following a misunderstanding that ensued between them.

According to a source, the man brought the woman from Nigeria and trained her in the university to earn a better pay for their family.

They recently had an arguement and she threatened to kill her husband with a weapon which led him to call the police.

She thereafter fumed at his reaction and sent him packing. The man called his friends to help him pack his belongings amidst her rudeness to his friends and neighbors.

This is amongst one of the reasons most of us men living oversea have a rethink about bringing their wives over.

Which part of the video talked about that?