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makydebbie:
I'm a very shy girl in real life.

wow! Unbelievable. I believe we'll match well then...:-)

makydebbie:
No you wouldn't be on mind. You can stop quoting me now.

d0n't kn0w why you are replying the biafran.

makydebbie:
Yea it sure hurts, but life goes on.

you are strict with the truth. Hope you aint harsh in real life...

makydebbie:
I know, but it's not fair on him to keep punishing himself for a girl who doesn't deserve him.

fair enough. But it hurts to think after everything, you aren't wanted.

makydebbie:
Bro she has moved on what's stopping you? If she loves you, she won't make you feel daunted. It do happen that we love people who won't reciprocate or people who don't deserve our love and the only thing we can do is to move on.

eyaah. This will really hurt the bro.

ethan0:
the flash's costume is horrible

really? U think so? U kn0w what? Get used to it or wait for his other suit. I have no problem with the suit. For a guy who m0ves that fast, he doesn't need a rubber suit, and c0mpared to what Peter parker made as his costume in h0mec0ming, i would say, Barry Allen is a better tailor.

makydebbie:
LOL, I'll probably do that.

i hope so @sister Debo.

makydebbie:
LOL, you go lost.
I don tell Mark since make e adopt me e no gree na so I vex.

haba, i no fit lost oh. Na okada wey i no fit see nai halt my m0vement.
So na wetin cause ur beef with mark be dat? No mind d guy jare, him too dy form. U for meet Bill Gates na, so mark go jealous ur fortune...

makydebbie:
Oshodi no too far from where I dey sef.
Bro I'm serious oo, I no dey do fb.

wow, so oshodi no too far fr0m where u dy ba? Wait, i dy c0me make i find one okada c0me ur syd. So u no dy faceb0ok? U get beef with mark zuckerberg ni?

makydebbie:
LOL, really? It's nothing jare. Can remember when I was speaking pidgin, my Nigerian friend told me it sucks because of my accent.
Lol, me I'm not saying it's bad tho, just saying it doesn't work out most times.
Lol, bro I no dey fb or other social networks oo. I'm weird like that.

ehen...na so u dy do ba? Tor no wahala. Share with me ur fb username when u are free to. Or add me with mine @ Min Eddie. I dy oshodi juncti0n dy wait for inside danfo for u oh.

makydebbie:
LOL society? What of the person's personality? I know it shouldn't be defined by sex but when the friendship isn't defined well, there will be issues.
My pidgin set oo.
But you dare not listen to me speak it, my accent spoils everything. I grew up in Nigeria that's why tho.
How you wan know me? You fit know me here na, but I never finish with my x-ray.

wow, u are about Nigerian as it gets then. Haven't had the privilege of sitting close to a ghanaian b4 though. Its 9ice to meet u. Sorry ur pidgin accent's bad though. Well, talking abt society, it also includes every0ne's behavioural pers0nality. Society has made it l0ok like a girl and guy friendship's bad and dats why u have every0ne with differing percepti0ns.
Aunty Debo, this one u dy talk of x ray like dis. Am i safe? Wetin u want carry x ray do na? Tor, pesn fit kn0w pesn for facebook na. I fit kn0w u for facebook so?

makydebbie:
Yup.

tor, e be like say i go dy call u Aunty jackie appiah fr0m n0w on :-)

makydebbie:
Bro, I'm not a Nigerian, stop doing this na. Lol, brother Ayo I no be Nigerian babe.
I agree with you, that's why I said ladies shouldn't lead guys on to and define the friendship. Because, most times when the guy is led on and later told off, they'll wanna pay back by getting the pussy. So it goes with both sexes but then male bestie is not so cool.

You fit know me na.

okay na, sister Debo. But friendship shouldn't be defined by sex, age or whatever. Having a male bestie may n0t be dat bad. Its the society that makes it l0ok bad. Sister Debo, diz one u say u are n0t a nigerian like dis bah, ur pidgin set oh. U sure say u no be 9jarian in one syd? Tor dis 1 wey u d0n agree xay pers0n fit knw u, how may i kn0w u then, sister Debo?

makydebbie:
LOL, nothing happen. I love the tribe sef, I'm not a Nigerian bro. Makydebbie was coined from my surname.
Maky +Debbie = makydebbie.

okay na madam debbie. Ghanian ryt?

makydebbie:
LOL, I no be igbo girl.

lol. Haba, mama Funke, no be crime to be igbo nah. Tor, if u no be igbo wetin u c0me be? Cos d name makydebbie dy like Amaka Deborah in full oh...

makydebbie:
Uncle Emeka. We're saying the same thing na.

"My dear, this is how it start. It starts from friendship. Mind you, I'm not saying that it is wrong to have male friends, of course we learn things from each other. But it also has to be defined and you must set the records straight, tell him the boundaries. My dear ladies be straight forward! If you're single let him know, if you're not ready for a relationship, let him know! Don't lead him on that's wicked!! And then if the guy is persistent, he will be your bestie and that's how it starts".

Uncle Emeka why do you want to know me? My name no be amaka na Deborah.

but aunty titilayo u kn0w the problem m0st times is with ladies. M0st times, s0me of them d0n't like c0ming out with the truth, that is they d0n't like mallam danjuma r0mantically and instead of telling him, they start playing it soft and showing s0me cues that mallam danjuma would misinterprete to be green lights. So what have u to say abt this, aunty titilayo? Can u see the problem m0st times may n0t be with mallam danjuma, nuhu or sambo bt with Ekaite and Phoebe?
Haba, Aunty Titi this one u are asking why i want to kn0w you like this dy fear me oh. Pers0n no fit just kn0w pers0n again? I no be Evans nah.

makydebbie:
Friendship with the opposite sex most times don't end well. Most times, I find ladies saying; their fellow girls do backstab, lie, take their boyfriends, gossip etc. See as a lady, I will say this. If you cannot have a single female friend whom you trust, then the problem is from YOU and YOU alone. If you're always complaining that your friends do take your boyfriends, then stop being friends with olosho and boyfriend's snatchers. By the way, do not forget you're what you attract.



Yes we know we ladies have issues, we fight, and gossip. (But wait tell me who doesn't gossip? Have you seen when guys are gossiping? If they table your matter among their friends for you ehn, you'll change that twisted mentality).

You that do not have issues because you're miss perfect. And you're tired of girls that you don't want female friends or bestie. You know, at the end most times, these guys just want to fvck you right?


My dear, this is how it start. It starts from friendship. Mind you, I'm not saying that it is wrong to have male friends, of course we learn things from each other. But it also has to be defined and you must set the records straight, tell him the boundaries. My dear ladies be straight forward! If you're single let him know, if you're not ready for a relationship, let him know! Don't lead him on that's wicked!! And then if the guy is persistent, he will be your bestie and that's how it starts.


When you ask your boyfriend for money and advice and he's not ready to give you, sheybi it's bestie you'll tell abi? That one will now give you money and advice because he's BESTIE FATHER CHRISTMAS shey?
You've started building your foundation for a future romance with bestie.


Then you'll have issues, boyfriend is annoying you. After you've friendzoned bestie against his wish, it's bestie you'll run to who will capitalize on your boyfriend's flaws and get you nak.ed on his bed.



You say guys don't have issues because they take your excesses. Hope you know it's for a prize and it's all for the greater good? Sometimes, you'll see them as nice because they comfort you, they make you laugh, not a dull moment shey? And you'll equally be nice and these besties will misinterpret your nice gestures and see them as "green light".


From bestie to confidant, to friends with benefits and you'll be wondering how you guys got there, you'll even say the guy took advantage of you. Some cases even leads to rape. If you're kuku a fool you'll say it's chemistry.

But then, ladies let's not castigate all the guys. There are genuine mature guys, who'll just like you as a friend and would want the best for you and they are 10% out of 100%. (Mind you, I'm being generous with my figures.)

Also, ladies let's not forget guys are logical and ladies emotional. Maybe the guy just likes you and your company and its possible you'll see it as "green light" because of the love, care, affection, and attention he gives you. We ladies can't deny we love attention from the opposite sex. And then, you start catching feelings, you'll get confused because you're now in love with someone who doesn't feel the same way. And if this guy is a fvckboy, he'll use it against you, your case is finished. But if he doesn't, your friendship will become awkward and permit me to say RIP to that friendship.


If you're a guy and your girlfriend has alot of male friends then I'm almost sorry for you, but then, if your girlfriend has alot of male friends and will be telling them everything that goes on in your relationship, then I'm definitely sorry for you.



"And those of you that shares your relationship problems with male friends and besties. And that one will be comforting you, the day you will realize he's not the Holy Spirit the comforter, I hope it won't be the day you'll find yourself na.ked on his bed"~ MzLarem.



Original writer- Makydebbie

Amaka, because it didn't work out well with Amarachi doesn't mean Jecinta, Chichi and Obianuju should n0t keep male friends. There's what we call dressing in the order u want to be addressed. Stop being flirty or avoid giving r0mantic gestures to guy friends if u don't want to go into relati0nship with 'em. That way u create a bridge that woulda led to unwanted you kn0w what. But seriously, i would like to get to kn0w you, Amaka...

makydebbie:
I no be amaka biko.

lol, u sure? Cos u lo0k like an Amaka.

makydebbie:
I'm coming back to modify.
Oya I'm done cooking.

Op firstly, I'll tell you, you're not insecure in anyway. You're even smart not to over look it and see it as something normal.

Our nowadays ladies, will say girls do backstab, gossip and other shitty things. Truth is, most guys that are 'acting' nice are not so nice. Ladies! Wake up! They just want to fvck you and move on. There's nothing like guys are more caring than ladies. Of course they want your honeypot so why will they show their real colors? From friend, to bestie, to confidant, to friends with benefits without you knowing how you guys ended up there. Guys are smart, they'll take your excesses, they'll listen to your rant, they'll comfort you. My dear, it's all for the greater good. If you don't like female friends, then be on your own. It's not every boy on the street that is your male friend. Most of them will even see your actions as green light, but then, you're just nice to your 'friend'.

At the end, they just want to fvck you. Later we'll see thread that "all guys are the same". Everything starts from friendship, they'll start from there, when they're done destroying your pussy, you'll be wondering why nigga doesn't have your time again. You gave him the opportunity on a golden platter. Guys are very patient, they'll wait, take your rubbish, fvck, move on and tell their friends. I don talk my own.
Ladies, be wise. You no fit keep yam and goat together, something must happen.

I don create thread on it sef.
https://www.nairaland.com/4025368/friendship-opposite-sex#down

Amaka, na who do u this thing na?

TonySpike:
I just read that Greg Berlanti is in charge of Titans. Why would they give that SJW guy another series to destroy? He has ruined all DC series with LGBT themes except The Flash. What da heck?

who cares abt a titans series? They're just creating a superhero fatigue.

xtin007:
I'm thinking either Superman or Aquaman(wearing a red jacket or something) also because by the look of things he will be the last member to agree to join the league so it makes sense for batman to know he might show up.

that shoulder l0oks like that of a w0man, and d0n't forget jas0n m0m0a's a big guy with straight up shoulders.

TonySpike:
On a second thought, it could be a green lantern in the person of Kilowog. He has a red body and shoulder also...just saying!

1. That shoulder doesn't lo0k broad or big, and d0n't forget kilowog is a big guy.
2. Its clearly a cape seeing as its blurry.

limeta:
Alway in tune with the north Birds of the same feather

maybe thats cos s0mething's wr0ng with the east and south d0n't u think?

waywardpikin:
Remind me, what's the name of the person that created this thread in the first place?

uhm, s0me wayward guy i think?

waywardpikin:
Exactimondo my nigga

ok, if u say so. But in Captain Cold's voice: "observe..."

waywardpikin:
Do pigs fly? Do birds swim?

So u are saying its hard for me to stop being a fan?

waywardpikin:
Future impossible tense
You're a fanboy through and through.

lol, what makes u so sure?

TonySpike:
Matt Reeves The Batman trilogy is being proposed to be an elseworld DC movie like the Joker origin. I wonder what WB is up to?

the media mistook what matt reeves said. Its still in the Dceu but WB is lo0king to create elsewhere world films with dc characters. And its n0t even a given yet as everything relies on JL doing well or n0t. If JL doesn't, they start afresh, if it does, you w0n't hear of else world m0vies again. Its just damage c0ntrol and PR to save face should JL fail. If u ask me, WB is trying to ruin the dceu. They did with suicide squad and bvs, n0w its JL. Notice how WW was well recieved becos they didn't meddle in things? N0w, they're meddling with JL. I tel u, its n0t Zack thats the problem, its WB. They are too reacti0nary. N0w, Eisenberg's scenes are going to be cut. If they c0ntinue with this, h0nestly i may end up n0t seeing justice league.

TonySpike:
You mean the actor that acted Silas Stone? What if Cyborg is his third and final movie. I doubt he will appear in Flash point.

cyborg could be his last m0vie bt u never kn0w. They could add few pictures to his slate. If cyborg does well, then he could return for cyborg 2 and 3 or even the flash films.

TonySpike:
I think so too but I heard rumours that Cyborg's story was lightened up. So, it is most likely that Silas Stone might be alive for the Cyborg movie.

nah. The actor signed a 3 picture deal...

TonySpike:
I don't think the storyline will be the same though.

i think it would but with some twists. I wish Snyder would direct it.

Lets stop these Snyder talks already, shall we?