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rvp20182:That's why I think that instead of eliminating those structures, we should invest in perfecting them. So few architects really look into that because the demand for Western is much higher. Anyways, I see so much potential there. Wow, cant wait to visit ! |
rvp20182:Oh really? wow I never knew that. Thanks for sharing these houses are also great. I think I will look into them, thank you ![]() |
Shma:Sorry, I'm not really part of this bashing thing you guys have going on in this thread. I just like architecture and interior design. And I love the pictures being put up from time to time when people showcase their countries. It has motivated me to travel in my continent. Other than that, i really have no interest in bashing poverty. The way i see it is that every soul that comes on this thread to bash another country for being poor, is troubled and in need of serious reform. |
Austine1213:I absolutely love those houses! It's very popular and the design is beautiful. I definitely wanna incorporate that style into my own house. It's why I love South Africa, people promote their cultural heritage and don't shame it in an attempt to be "modern" |
ashewoboy:I'm starting to believe that most people here don't know what feminism is. Btw, as a feminist, I like any attempt to emancipate women. |
Such an informative video. Thank you for this and all other videos you make. You are good at what you do, keep it up! |
grandlexuz:I love people like you! Totally agree with what you've said and most South Africans agree to that but unfortunately these views never get out. People choose to fixate on a few xenophobic views from a minority of citizens. Thank you for bringing your calmness to the thread. Hahaha I'm too young to even think about marriage May you appear on more threads that spin out of control to defuse the situation with your level-headed responses. Love and peace ![]() |
morpheus24:I think you've made a good point. I agree with you and would like to add something. I would like to point out that there's a perception that South African women like Nigerian men especially. Which is not true. South African women like all kinds of foreign men because of the points you made and more. However there is a certain amount of care being displayed by South African men (fathers, uncles and brothers)because of the rate at which some foreigners have deceived local women just to get papers. This is also something that contributes to the theory of "they are taking our women". South African women love foreigners (from all over and not just Nigeria)because we think they are different to what we know. this doesn't necessarily mean that our own men are bad. Truth is that women from all over think the worst of their own men. Just look at the case of Nigeria. I've spoken to women from many countries who all prefer foreign men. A Chinese prefers Italian men but an Italian girl prefers brazilian men. This happens in most countries. Women like foreign men because they bring a sense of erotic, exotic and adventure. Exploring the unknown... it's sexy ![]() |
jln115:Lmklaaaaa! danki man, as wyn ni verban wasi het ek nou vjo n dop gekoop ![]() |
I have a few friends who have visited Ghana and they had so many good things to say. I can't wait to go and experience it for myself. I do wish that Ghana would do more to market it's tourism industry though. The rest of the world needs to know how nice it is. |
TWservices:True, However, people shouldn't think it's just gonna be easy peasy. South African graduates start from the bottom and work their way up so it's obviously gonna be more difficult for a foreign person. |
Reckyd123:Yes there is a problem with accommodating foreigners. This problem I already addressed. The fact that you were at peace in Botswana and swaziland was because they get quality skilled foreign professionals that they need and want. So their people don't have a problem with their immigration policy or with foreigners. The hostility in SA is attributed to the fact that South Africans are terribly upset about our immigration policy that is way more open than the policies of other countries. We are expressing our concern as to why South Africa is accommodating so many unskilled or under skilled individuals and criminals (these are two different sets of foreigners btw). You even have to admit, are there so many foreigners in Botswana who are doing odd jobs as there are in South Africa? Again, South Africans are hostile for a reason. We don't go around shooting and killing foreigners wherever we go. We have a problem with criminals. And I've said it before, we shouldn't take it out on the foreigners (unless they are criminals) but we should take it out on our government. Which is something we are doing now. But at the same time, you can't call us out for wanting the same policies that you have. Actually, Nigeria is one of the countries where immigration rules are tight and not just anyone can establish a business. The same with Ghana that has the law of their retail sector. I'm sorry that you aren't happy here but I can also tell by the way you speak about South Africans why you aren't happy here. And your mindset will never allow you to be happy here. Considering that you are in South Africa I expected you to give an honest account of things on the ground and not just a few hateful experiences of your own. I never denied that South Africans are hostile, i just explained why they can be in some instances. At least I owned up for our criminals. The people who committed those xenophobic acts are horrible and disgusting. You are here portraying criminals (not all foreigners) as innocent victims. I'd like to emphasize that when I refer to foreign criminals, i mean criminals from another country and I don't mean that all foreigners are criminals. It's absurd to think that just like it's absurd to think all South Africans are xenophobic. I will give you some advice though. The next time you engage South Africans, try to be a little more open and get to know them. Not just a few but get to know the people around you and try to form relationships with them. You will see that they are good people. I also live in another country as a foreigner and I've noticed that the people who hate that country are the ones who don't try to fit in. I hope you enjoy the rest of your stay here and that you make lasting friendships. Peace out ![]() |
Reckyd123:How do you expect people to love you when you trash them like this? You are in South Africa and you are insulting them. Yet you preach here about how we apparently hate you. You are a disrespectful individual and people like you are the reason why good Nigerians have to suffer from stereotypes. I know many great Africans so I won't judge them based on your comments. But I would like to take this moment to point out to many people that statement like the ones you have made while on South African soil, are the types of statements we South Africans hear a lot from foreigners like you. I'm not talking about all foreigners, im talking about foreigners who have the same mentality as you. Please refrain from insulting the people who accommodate you. It isn't your right, it's a privilege to be welcomed in someone's home. Just like I won't insult Nigerians if I should visit there. I hope you think about the hatred you are spewing. And I hope our paths never cross. Or let's say, you should hope our paths never cross Good day |
Reckyd123:Please read with comprehension. I never said a certain amount of shops were attacked. I made an estimation of xenophobic related looting sprees. I never said other criminals weren't targeted. We were speaking about Nigerians so I only mentioned them. yes the refugees were refusing to go back to their communities because of attacks... that never happened! people were totally flabbergasted and wondering what attacks they were talking about. I was in cape Town at the time at the refugee reception centre helping a friend with papers when the set of refugees protested causing the centre to close. It was like a stand off between foreigners. On the one side there were foreigners who wanted their papers to go back to work and on the other side there were foreigners badmouthing black South Africans and making up stories about attacks. Even the human rights Commission intervened and tried to help them but they were attacked along with journalists and people who were providing them with aid. Furthermore, i spoke to foreigners who owned shops and they even told me that those people are lying because they want a way to get to a better country because they would get easier circumstances in Canada. My friend, those foreigners were not attacked. They refused to be resettled and demanded housing or free repatriation to Canada. This upset South Africans a lot but they didn't do anything. We are trying to solve this diplomatically but no African government has intervened or offered to come get their dissatisfied citizens. What is even more astonishing is that the Nigerian government was quick to send a flight last time to save face but they don't wanna help these foreigners in cape Town who are supposedly being treated so badly. You need to ask yourself, why does your government act with so much transparency and effectiveness when there's a xenophobic incident? Yet when their citizens need them in other cases, they are silent. The truth is, they are seen as heroes when they rescue "assaulted" Nigerians in South Africa. They immediately get the trust of the people and they feed off of that. People were arrested. Please consult court documents if you want details about their trials and procedures. The media didn't report their court cases because we have more pressing issues to report on. As I said, please get more information and read it with comprehension. Critically think and assess what you hear and see. |
lucasalves:Yes we South Africans are aware that Nigerians do great things abroad and we have expressed to government that we want more skilled people and not just any person. It's very strange because low life local criminals are so scared of traveling to other countries and it would be hard for them to do so because of criminal record checks. I don't understand why our government allows low life criminals from wherever to enter our country. I've seen so many Europeans here buying drugs And doing other disrespectful things too. And to be honest, there are refugees here who are very qualified in various fields but also unemployed and we want government to assist them rather than assisting any person who just comes into the country. You can do some research and find many centres where South Africans teach refugees various skills so that they can make a living here. These refugees are from countries with actual conflict. So now many South Africans are questioning why real refugees are suffering but economic migrants in the informal sector are supported by government. In any event, if someone comes to SA for legitimate reasons, they will be welcomed with open arms. other than that,we treat all foreign criminals the same way we treat our own. This looting and mob justice isn't just against foreigners. If you read the South African news, you will see that communities regularly attack criminals (local and foreign) but unfortunately in Nigeria you guys only hear when Nigerian criminals are attacked so you think we are targeting you specifically. |
Reckyd123:I was only asking you as Nigerians to consult more sources in order for you to make a more informed and less emotional opinion. if you read and consult all the sources and still think all South Africans are just pure xenophobic, i won't blame you. But if you continue to spread hate backed by fake news, you're gonna cause way more pain and hatred between the two countries. |
lucasalves:Yes, we are pushing reforms now but unfortunately that is still seen as xenophobic. Also, you are complaining about something you are guilty of doing too. You think it's disrespectful for South Africans to come on a Nigerian forum (the internet is open to all btw) and badmouth Nigerians. I agree with you, it's disrespectful of them. Yet there are so many Nigerians in SA badmouthing South Africans. Do you think that's fair? I even see Nigerians on this forum located in SA badmouthing the very same people who are accommodating them. How can you be in another person's country, sharing their space and still talk ill of them? not even just amongst yourselves but in front of those people. I see people here calling a South African xenophobic without them even knowing the person. and funnily enough, they call us all xenophobic based on fake news. I swear, like 0.5% of South Africans are xenophobic. Actually compared to other countries, South Africans display the same amount of displeasure at illegal immigration and illegal activities of foreigners. There were a few looting sprees. Probably like 5 that involved 0.005 of the total population. The other protests you see about South Africans against foreigners are about South Africans against illegal activities of foreigners. Not foreigners in general. Your media just twists stories and your government gladly supports it because it makes them look like heroes. In any case, we are equally ashamed and frustrated by the 0.5% and they were arrested and dealt with which is something your media didn't report. Ive seen a few South Africans on this forum who have given you true facts but you all tell them that they are lying. The latest xenophobic attacks were triggered when foreign criminals attacked police who were enforcing the law. Even a few months ago there were foreigners occupying cape Town and messing up the area because they wanted to go to Canada. We aren't perfect but please try to get the full information before you tell us off. we are working on those xenophobic elements in our country but we expect the Nigerian government to also work on ensuring that criminals don't flood SA. We know there are good Nigerians. We just don't understand why the bad ones come here and spoil things along with our own criminals. We don't send our criminals to Nigeria so we expect the same. If you can address this situation at home, there would be no hostility. We addressed the looters and other criminals here. |
lucasalves:Hi there, I had to come and correct you on this. Firstly, let go of the mentally that convinced you that demanding accountability from govern means the person is lazy. The covid19 crisis is hitting everyone hard and across the world governments are providing for their citizens. Secondly, UIF is a fund that both employer and employee contribute to. The amount you get out depends on the amount you put it. If you have a job, you contribute to this fund. It's an insurance that insures that you have an income should you somehow lose your job while looking for another. So if someone receives R5000 from that fund, it means that they contributed that much to the fund over the years. to be able to contribute, one needs to have a job. To have a job means that one is not lazy. So please, instead of bashing South Africans for having UIF, you should be asking your government why you don't have it. Lastly, if South Africa decides to give its citizens certain benefits, it's their problem. I'll have you know that there's a fund that also gives money to refugees and asylum seekers in SA. South Africans all contribute to their economy. Even those who work abroad pay tax at home. So if they get support from their governments, commend them on that instead of calling them lazy. We all work hard here but it is a norm and not something to brag about. Which is why you don't hear us talk about our contributions to society. Just because we don't brag doesn't mean we do nothing. Please refrain from your hate speech especially when you don't know everything. I hope you see reason in my words. ![]() |
babasolution:thanks for clearing things up. I guess to me it just seems odd because Nigeria has been independent and working for much longer than SA so it's always strange when they look for expertise elsewhere. One would assume that Nigeria would be the country providing the expertise to others. But thank you for telling me more about that situation. I'm glad that they are regulated carefully. I wish it was something we could do too. |
babasolution:Okay I understand what you are saying and as you may have noticed, i told the person that it isn't fair to call Nigerians lazy when we don't know their circumstances. Also, i think the comment about laziness was made because Nigerians on this forum usually call South Africans lazy so it was kinda like an ironic type of joke. At least, that's how I took it. We weren't saying that Chinese and Lebanese are taking over the Nigerian market. We were simply saying that the fact that Chinese etc are the ones employed in massive projects like construction and factories is problematic for its citizens because these citizens should be used and not foreign labour. We aren't saying that Nigerians are incapable of doing these things. Actually I was advocating for Nigerians by saying that there are so many Nigerians who are everywhere doing things but their own government would rather use Chinese etc for such projects. I am proud that Nigeria is producing more because it means that its citizens will benefit. It's a situation of putting Nigeria first (something that South Africans are also campaigning for themselves). In fact, if more countries got their acts together, there wouldn't be such a huge refugee and displacement crisis. Nobody is against Nigeria becoming great. I have no idea where you (and many others) get this notion that South Africans don't want you to develop. In fact, if you develop, we would be able to reap more benefits such as more trade and investment and, obviously, job creation. |
jln115:you know, I've never explored mossel bay. I've always just kinda drove through it but never really spent time there. You are so fortunate to see the ocean every day... Hahaha now I know who to contact when I'm ever in that area ![]() |
Dyonne:Interesting saying... ![]() Well so far I have a bachelor's degree: BA Law. But before you judge, im currently in my final year of honours and then heading for Masters I know I still know very little but I'm trying. Ive met many other Africans with higher degrees so I always feel so inferior Lol |
babasolution:I don't understand... Can you elaborate please? |
ololo12:thank you ![]() |
Dyonne:Just based on the lack of shoprite stores in Nigeria. It has the potential to have more stores in Nigeria than South Africa according to population statistics. I think South African companies have approached Nigeria the same way they approached South Africa. They didn't get to know the people of Nigeria and assumed they are the same as South Africans. They didn't spend time with the average Nigerian to properly identify what is wanted and what is needed. They approached the rich Nigerians and forgot the poor. They completely neglected the socio economic responsibility and I think this especially would've given them proper marketing in Nigeria. Poor people see those stores as out of their reach. It's up to these companies to make the average citizen feel like they need them and want them. You can't want and need something that you feel no connection to. Like I would rather buy a gatsby from a takeout place than a gatsby at a fancy five star restaurant. I won't feel connected to the five star restaurant because it doesn't have my vibe. whereas the normal take out joint speaks to my culture and social circle. This is obviously just my opinion... No unfortunately I don't own a business. I'm still paying off student debt Lol but I'm here talking like I know things ! please don't take my opinions as me trying to be an expert |
Dyonne:definitely, im sure the people will be fine but it's just a very harsh business environment. There's also such a big difference between SA and Nigeria. without proper understanding of consumer demands and the market, my business will surely fail. I mean, if shoprite can't successfully penetrate the market, what chance do I have? lol but thanks for your interest in listening to my future business ventures ![]() |
jln115:I hate this question because I've moved around so many times (only in 1 province though)... Let's just say I'm from the Boland in the Western Cape. I'm looking forward to moving again though. I'm one of those people who can't stay in one place for more than a year I don't even have a permanent place of residence lol ! where are you from? |
jln115:So true! i was thinking of playing eanie meanie miny mo at the next election Lol |
jln115:No I don't deny that. I'm saying that many people have realized that the DA is "deurmekaar" and they don't have the same ideology anymore. I don't really know much because my area is more ANC than DA. And I suck at South African politics But thanks for giving me statistics I never knew the DA had such a huge coloured support base. |
jln115:many people share this sentiment about the DA ![]() |
jln115:You are forgetting that not only coloureds voted for them. their black support base here was also strong. People didn't vote for them because of their color but because of what they promised and represented. However as soon as their actual agenda came to light, people realised their mistake. It's not just the land distribution... it's the gentrification in cape Town... People are very unhappy about that and it will affect the DA's position. They promised the people one thing and then turned around to do the opposite. The DAs success with land is actually one of the reasons that motivated many coloreds to vote for them. Obviously things changed... Can't wait for the drama in the next election! yikes ![]() |
these houses are also great. I think I will look into them, thank you
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I perfectly agree with Minxie over women being attracted to foreigners. In my country I hear girls say they cant marry to a man from their tribe. They prefer another tribe. Definitely foreigners bring a different erotic refreshment. In Cameroon most girls know Nigerian guys just want to play. When marriage time comes the run back to Naija and get a wife. For 220 dollars a Nigerian can get a Cameroonian residential permit valid 2 years, so no one marries for citizenship.