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Mizflo:
Please I need your advice. I had created this account because I am well known here with my main account because I am always active and I want to remain anonymously.

Am 21 a single mum with 1 girl age 5 , her dad rejected me when I was pregnant he left when I was 4 months pregnant with her .

I had a difficult time growing up , my mum died when I was 8 years and my dad denied me claiming my mum had cheated on him and there’s no way I could be his daughter.

My aunty who was supposed to care for me had never bothered about me , she was always out leaving me in the house all alone without food , whenever I complains she will beat me telling me to go to my mum graveyard to ask her for assistance.

I have suffered in the hand of my aunty she didn’t care about my education if I have managed to complete my primary school till jss2 was thanks to this aunty who was a teacher at my school and a good friend of my mum , she sponsored me , And when I was 14 my aunty landlord kicked her out of the house because of rent arrears she said I am the enemy of progress she cant take me to her boyfriend house because he won’t accept me to stay there that I should go and look for a place , I cried and pleaded with her to take me along with her but she refuse I beg her to show me where my dad is she said he will not accept me because he hated my mum but I beg her to take me to him .

She took me to him it was my first time seeing him I looked just like him with one eye big one small but he insulted the hell out of us saying he will never accept me because my mum was a cheater she had so many boyfriends that I should ask her who my real father is but my aunty insisted that my mum had told her before she passed on that he was my dad even taught I resembled him still he denied and kicked us out like we were dogs I cried and my aunty was angry because of the insult so she left me all alone in the street but later came to me .
Since that day my life situation has worsened because I was forced to stay with different people where I was being abused , my baby dad came as a guardian angel to my life he took care of everything i needed by promising me heaven on Earth I taught he will get me out of my hard situations but I was wrong i find out he was married with kids I was heartbroken because I didn’t want to live the same lifestyle as my mum had lived but history has repeated itself just like my mother had me with a married man but she knew he was married but me I didn’t know , but it was too late for me to moved on because I was already pregnant for him and I didn’t want to abort my baby I have decide to continue the relationship but when I was 4 months pregnant he left me and blocked me from all his contacts , this is the man that has never bothered to asked about his child for 5 years now..

My little girl dont even know her dad the same way I did not know mine until
I was 14 which break my heart anytime I think about it.

My daughter and I are staying with my madam the lady tat I serve her for now 3 years but things here hasn’t been easy for us because my madam children don’t like me they keep accusing of things I don’t do like I stole their money , clothes and many more before my madam was telling them to stop with their bad attitudes towards me but I have noticed that whenever they had accused me she start getting angry with me sometimes we can go days without her not talking to me which I think I have overstayed and I am not longer wanted here I want to leave this house and to go and hustle but I feared for my daughter because I don’t want her to end up like me.

If I leave this house we will be on the street for a long time till I will be able to get somewhere else to stay with her also I don’t think I can give her the best education because if she stay with me she will end up being a teen mother just like I did something I don’t want to happen to her and I came across someone who’s willing to help me by taking care of my daughter to give her the best life something that I have always wanted for her , she promised to take care of her till university and she will give me the money to rent a room and start up business she said she will take things to the right direction like adoption but I don’t know how she will do it because I have no idea that I will have to sign up papers for agreement i have agreed because I think is really a good opportunity for me even taught I have accepted but sometimes I am getting worried about giving her my daughter I am having sleepless nights and thinking all nights.

I am just tired of living this life I didn’t ask to be born my parents created me and now I am suffering from their mistakes something I didn’t consented and I don’t want my daughter to suffer because of my mistake I think giving her up for adoption is a good thing , but I don’t know if I am doing the right things.

please no insult what is your advice for me.

Thanks

Having read your script, I choose to quote you so that you can see this. With your level of education, your written English reveals something good can still come out from you.

The very first person to comment (Rigtheouness89) said a lot of what I would have said. In addition to what he said, I will give you a clearer step to re-write your story for good - spiritually, physically, materially and otherwise (3rd John 1 v 2). While reading your write up, I wanted to point out your mistakes until I saw, "Please, no insult".

If the root problem is not addressed, given out your girl child for adoption will return her to where you find yourself. It is a matter of few years.

I don't know the city you are. Wherever, you are, find your way to Port Harcourt. Preferably, arrive PH on Sunday morning alongside your girl child. Find your way to Rumuokoro Round About. From there, you will see taxi drivers shouting "OPM" "OPM" "OPM". Enter along side other worshippers. At the church gate or inside the premise, look for one of the protocols and relate your problems and what you have gone through in life.

Tell him/her that someone you have never met, on reading your story, advised you to travel and see Apostle Chibuzor Chinyere (GO of OPM). That though he's not a member or worshipper of Omega Power Ministries (OPM), he's 100% confident that once you are allowed to see and meet with Apostle Chibuzor Chinyere, the man whom God is using to give life to the hopeless, to take people (criminals, prostitutes, down trodden, etc) out from the streets, and give them shelter, clothing, food, education, trade, crafts, etc, your life and that of your daughter will never remain the same in terms of deliverance, accommodation, care, education, and otherwis.


I want to see you testify here and everywhere.

OPM, Dr Jesus! Dr. Jesus in action!! God is here!!!

I would have sent Apostle Chibuzor Chinyere phone number to you. But I don't want to display it here. You can reach out to me for that.

If you are lucky to call him and he picks, he can send you transport to come if you tell him you don't have transport. Secondly, you get instant appointment that does not require protocols.

Please if you are lucky for him to pick your call,, please on phone, he doesn't entertain stories. He has no patience for stories possibly because of his schedules. Straight to the point. And leave stories for when you meet him physically.

For those saying, when a Southerner becomes a President .... I can assure you that no Southerner has the interest of fellow Southerners at heart. Southerners will always developed and empowered Northerners for relevance. The antecedents are there.

Nigerian politicians are very funny to be telling electorates to defend their votes when their children can't come near polling boots that's if at all they are in Nigeria during electioneering process.

Defend your votes at your own risk. Tomorrow, the said politicians forget the sacrifice.

This is what I called judgement. Kudos to the judge

skimena:
Due to this pandemic, the company where I work decided to lay off some staff. Unfortunately I was 1 of the people sacked. But I have N1 million as savings.

Now I'm thinking of starting a small scale business and also buy a car that I can use to pick passengers that are returning from work every evening from 4pm to 8pm everyday. But my girlfriend is against the idea. she said it's too downgrading for a graduate like me that if I go ahead with the plan she's going to quit the relationship. She said she wants her man to do a white collar job n not to hustle like a taut.

As for me, I'm tired of working with people. I want to be a Boss of my own. This situation will help me find my true love. A woman that will love me for who I am, what I have, what I do and not what she wants me to do.

Op you are a man. I choose to quote so that you can see this. I like the fact that you said she's a past. Having said that, permit me to commend your sense of financial discipline to have saved a million naira.

Your interest to acquire a car and be driving taxi isn't a bad idea if you asked me. However, there's a new world order through which some people make legit money (I mean good money) within a short period of time. Presently, price of btc is skyrocketing. The impression is that demand for its complement being ethereum will rise as it has started showing through increased price (value).

My take. If you can buy four (4) units of ethereum with about N800,000, saved it, and used the remaining N200,000 to meet your personal expenditures while hustling legit, you will be shock that by this time next year, you will get at least N4m from the four units of ethereum.

What is wrong with Nigerian legal system? It's obvious the country is promoting Internet scams and corruption

princepee:
ogbeni I have voters card, driver's license, international passport. And I also have the paper national I'd card. ....so ogbeni I'm well documented

Ogeni in fact you are not only well documented but certified documented. The paper national ID card caps it all because of NIN

Xbee007:
Yes, you can use the temporary white paper for most transactions. The NIMC number is the most important thing.

Please attend to my last series of questions following the thread that I mentioned you. Thanks.

ALEX182:
So I have this American patient who I recently came across. He's a fat dude who is like in his late 40s but has a very jolly and likeable character. I introduced myself and we got talking afterwards.

After a while of chitchat, he asked me where I was from. I told him to take a guess and he said said, you sound like you're Nigerian. I told him (regrettably) that I was Nigerian. He started smiling and told me that he had a Nigerian girlfriend and that we both had similar accents.

He then started telling me recent occurrences that had befallen his girlfriend in Nigeria. He said the lastest story was that she was in Abuja and as she was on her way to the airport in a taxi, the taxi had an accident and she was seriously injured and had to be rushed to the hospital. He said that the hospital demanded money before treatment started and he had to hustle about $4000 and send to her in order for treatment to start.

He said that after a week of her being in the hospital, they wanted to discharge her despite her still being in pain. Because she had exhausted all the $4000 on treatment, he said the hospital had threatened to discharge her on the streets and he was trying to borrow more money to see if he could send it to her so they could continue with her treatments.

He furthermore told me that the girlfriend said that she was a Nigerian American citizen who was currently stuck in Nigeria due to her passport having expired and also due to Covid lockdown at airports in Nigeria. He said she had asked him for $300 to renew her US passport from American embassy in Nigeria.

Another thing that he told me was that just before covid struck, there was a similar pandemic which happened in Nigeria early this year and that his girlfriend had contracted the disease and he had to send her $2000 for treatment. Right now he said he's broke but is waiting for like $2000 disability check from the US government next week which he will send to her as soon as the money clears.

As he was telling me this tale, I was so angry with Nigerians and how they take advantage of people in love to scam them. I wanted to swear for the scammers


I'm at a dilemma here. Do I tell him that he's being scammed by Nigerians or do I continue to be professional and just ignore it. Because I don't want him to think I'm involved with it because these oyinbo people can turn everything on your head and accuse you that is your people in conjunction with you that are scamming him. They are that crazy.

The good part of me wants to help him but I'm hesitant that it may turn out bad for me. Please matured responses.

Please, make him to see you as a true and caring friend in addition to the services you are rendering professionally.

Established this as fast as possible. Thereafter, asked him, if he mind that you should speak with his Nigerian girl friend in his presence.

I am sure he will agree to that. Immediately you finished speaking to the supposedly girl friend, tell the man the truth in a friendly and professional way. Counsel him and tell him to move on with his life

Xbee007:
Yes, you can use thke temporary white paper for most transactions. The NIMC number is the most important thing.

Are you kidding me? That's wonderful. I have been denied access to btc trading on the premise of national ID card required. I concluded that it is the plastic needed.

That's to say, if I get the white paper, I am good to go? Lastly, how soon do they issue the white temporal paper?

Xbee007:
They are not collecting a dime.

Bro, i know of someone who was asked two days ago to pay N500 to collect form. Thereafter, he will proceed to registration centre and do the needful.

If I may further asked you, can one used the temporal white paper issued for financial transactions and other transactions?

Xbee007:
Even during the peak time when everyone was rushing to register, you can't spend up to two hours. Now, when the number has reduced drastically, you'd complete the entire process in less than thirty minutes.

Really? It is speculated that they are collecting money to register the masses. That's not official

Plead:
I've photocopied that useless long paper I got from ninc 4years back more than 10times.

I can't even count the number of times I've visited their office and they keep giving excuses that the main one isn't ready.

So that is the one you do used for transactions?

princepee:
Ok ooo, i registered four years ago and am yet to get the card, this digital stuff will probably take ten years to complete....

And I just hope it's not the Antichrist thing...

Ogbeni, what have you been using to make transactions?

Miracle1991:
who will rig a sitting governor? He control the security and also have enough money to buy vote.
Meanwhile, let me tell you that obaseki is not winning this election, he disrespect the sanctity of legislative, he flew money outside this country through his commissioner now the commissioner is in prison abroad.
Edo people will reject Obaseki like shit

I see why you chose to be addressed Miracle. Clap yourself Mr. Miracle Political Professor.

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Thanks.

Dansuqi:
So give up and forget about obaseki

Who gives you on a hero?

FlashDboy:
Make we hear word abeg....written which name? i will like to read ur comments wen hand don dey meet Obaseki.

Read my earlier comment and digest it appropriately. I did mention "If he is rigged out from office". Hence, there's no comment you will expect from me because it won't come as a shock since I am not a shocker. We already know the antics of APC.

It is not always green out there. Leaving the prison we are could be more deadly. Who never go, never know

Drsnives:
Need Your Prayers On My New Adventure

Hello guys I don't want to bore you with a long epistle, I recently came back from service (nysc) and found my guys those that didn't even go to school buying lands n building for themselves structures especially the ones riding okada. Most of them do have savings of 10k weekly aside other expenses like feeding,rent etc despite having wife/girlfriends n children.

Though I learnt mason work before going to the university but mason work is seasonal especially during the raining season, have been at home for almost 3wiks doing nothing just spending the little savings I had from service.

With that been said I decided to get myself a bike with the remaining money I have pending on when things sterblize (federal/state job or when HV gathered enof Moni for business). If those with family can save 10k weekly, I think I can save 15k weekly since am single and still staying with my parents. I prayed to God for direction Sha but hope my decision isn't bad?

A lil prayer for me won't be bad

God's protection. The days of little beginning always pay off provided it is legit. Having said that, let me commend your insight. It shall be well with you in the morning, noon day, and night.

I just hope someone will not be shocked seeing the edifice.

Buddy0:
Guy Forget Obaseki, he don give up... He is looking for another alternative..
I keep saying this; obaseki will regret not following ambode path...

Edo no be Lagos where are you guys ??

But come o! I just want to ask one question only. Why Yoruba people carry Edo state matter for head passed the people wey get the state?

I keep saying if Governor Obaseki is rigged out, he's written his name in history book as a man who is not a coward.

Chai!!! Barrister just allowed himself to be humiliated. He was kicked back to back.

Nigerian politics is a funny game.

At first, I was asking myself, how could someone who was a former commissioner accepts Council boss nomination. It does happens for those whose only source of living is politics.

wingmanIII:
Are you serious? First class graduates are supposed to be academicians and are best suited to teach. What we should advocate is a good pay package for them. In Japan,teachers had the best pay that made the country to rise to one of the most technologically advanced.
Only banana republics like Nigeria treat teachers anyhow. No country can grow without quality teachers.

It seems you don't know the meaning of GA. That's where First Class graduates truly deserved. There's nothing like "good pay package" as condition of service. What is good to Mr. A could be bad to Mr. B. The word, good is subjective. Let's not go into normative economics.

Having said that, First Class graduates deserve where they could sharpened their skills and perform optimally, and not secondary schools or primary schools. I am speaking from experience. I have gone through that path. At a point, I was angry with myself daily. Not necessary because of the pay given that my monthly take home was higher than what was obtainable in Nigerian universities. But because my knowledge and skills were underutilized even for Cambridge A Level curriculum that I was asked to anchor. It got to a point I was seriously searching for a university that will employ me to work for a year without pay. Unfortunately, what came my way then was pay N1m to be employed as AL. I told myself, God forbid.

Which turnaround? It only shows the extent our country has retrogress such that First Class graduates are now seeking to be secondary school teachers

That's if some of them won't be sent to primary school all in the name of earning salary monthly..

First Class those good old days in Nigeria were absorbed as GAs.

rentAcock:
They won't say the reason why he was fired but I can bet my last 10 naira it had to do with some type of sex for grade scandal.

Be objective. Ideally you should know for VC to be sacked by governing council, it has to do with either financial misappropriation or power tussles which majority of members governing council were not carried along.

Reading comments where people say sexual harassment for the office of VC shows how shallow minded the larger proportion of Nigerians are.

Until some of these guys are killed secretly after being arrest to act as deterrent to others, they won't stop this rubbish.

There are legit ways to make good money. Buying and selling of crypto with little start -up can turn one a millionaire in months.

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Please someone should tell her that her acting no reach to attract social media sympathy. If she likes, she should faint, there's no peace for scammers.

If she likes, she should be on stretcher like Olisa Metuh. Away from that, she should appear on court on wheel chair like Metuh. She can as well, be on neck collar like Sen. Melaye. Crying and using her top to wipe tears does not change who she is.

Imagine the University of Calabar undergraduate who committed suicide as a result of their nefarious activities. Ndi ara.

Nigerian Senate will not come and passed a bill on work place sexual molestation and dating of subordinates.

If it is against academics, they will be fast. I don't know why we found ourselves in the sector that is poorly paid, despite all the mid night reading, yet the society looks at us with bad eyes.

Bobbyfreshh:
At 3am

That adelabu lost really pepper you

Adelabu would have ridiculed Oyo State in addition to being controlled by Florence Ajimobi.

After his son, Abiola scammed me at Grade 10 (SS1) as his high school teacher on the pretence that he will recommend me to his father so I can be employed at CBN, the father on Abiola's graduation from high school came to the said school and shared teachers CBN pamphlet on reasons why teachers should save.

Abiola Adelabu with small pickin scam sense. I hope you are enjoying at Europe


Hahahahahaha... Is it not one who has meet up consumption that saves?

agabusta:
This Makinde better sit up or get trashed by Oyo people.

Once they form an opinion that he is a loafer, him own don be be that.

To get 2nd term in Oyo state is not a small task.

I agree to the last paragraph. However, I can also inform you that why it has been so until Late Ajimobi broke the jinx was the influence of the Late Ibadan Jagaban who didn't believe in second term during his lifetime and the control of Oyo State politics. To him, new wine or new bride were far better than old wine or old bride.

If he was alive, who born Ajimobi to get second term. He will used his boys to arrest Late Ajimobi as a sitting Governor. He did it to Lamidi

All those into internet scam in whatever way will die mysteriously IJN.

As for the late undergraduate, I won't say she was greedy given her age. She was naive.

Yesterday two idiots DM me from a telegram group that I am with reasonable minds who are into agriculture. The most annoying part of it is that one of the idiots is a lady. After I asked her who added me to the group that I have clicked exit button, the idiot still came to my DM to tell me that if I invest any amount, I will get 100% in 5 minutes.

At that instance, I told her I am sorry to disappoint her. I blocked her along the other idiot who equally told me the same thing for another platform.

After I lost N3.5m to mmm, bastards will come to tell me 100% ROI in mins. Ndi ara