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funkmrflexx:
We Have Been Dating For 1 Year and 6 months now. I’ve met her parents, we wanted to get married last year but her dad told me to wait till she finishes school which is supposed to be next year. I’m 25 years old and she’s 22 .

I live alone in the city while my mom lives in the village. My younger sister who I’m sponsoring through school sometimes comes to my place during holidays and weekends. My girlfriend practically lives with me because she comes from a type of an Abusive family. So she lives with me and I even assist her with school fees and house rents sometimes. I’ve spent even more than her father for her school.

Everyone In my family knows her and she’s a very wonderful girl. Typical wife material. She supports me every time even when I’m broke. I’m not the type of guy that dates a lot of girls . I don’t even cheat on her. Since I met her I’ve done away with a lot of ladies. I’m 100% committed to the relationship

But the problem is that she Has very bad anger issues. I mean she can destroy your property when she’s angry and I’m the quiet type. I don’t like hitting a lady execpt once in a while a general brain resetting slap. When she starts she doesn’t listen to anyone. Not me, not even her parents. So anytime she’s angry like this I will just find a way to make her laugh. Both of you can just be eating and she will get angry if you ate the fleshy part of the meat and left oily part for her (we have quarreled because of that I mean serious quarrel) . Sometimes I get tired of the whole situation. At the end even when she’s wrong I’ll let her for peace to reign. So I try to manage the anger at home so it shouldn’t go out

So we went to visit my mom in the yesterday. Because of curfew we slept over. So my mom bought us mangos this morning and told us to carry.

My girlfriend then said she doesn’t like mango that if I want to eat my mango I should carry it myself. Then my mom (she is the type that always shouts at every body. The real wahala woman) told her that if she can’t carry the mango then she should just put it on my head for me to carry na (If you no fit carry the mango u for kuku put am for e head make e carry am na).

That was the only thing my mom said. Then she sparked. Started shouting at my mom. That she should stop talking to her like that, that she doesn’t like it. In fact she’s going home. So she carried her bag and started going home. Every one in the compound started saying it’s ok (Na dat thing why dem tell u Dey make u Dey vex so) she was still shouting. I was even try to calm her down but no way. She was still shouting. Even my sister who had never seen her angry before became angry (na so you b? She said). I was really disappointed In her

The issue is what even made me angry is how she reacted. If she didn’t like what my mom said made her angry. At least she should have waited till we got home (this was the first time we were both sleeping over) then she would tell me. Or she could have called my sister and told her what my mom said. After all the fracas, she went inside the room till we left. I just told everybody to just leave her.

So when we got home I told her what she did was wrong that she shouldn’t have reacted like that. Na there war start. She started yelling and shouting at me that if my mom talks to everyone like that she won’t take it (my plan was to tell her that she should apologize to her. Because my mom already apologized that she won’t talk to her again like that. Which I know she will o . So we can just forget about the issue. But she never accepts she’s wrong ) She said I took her to my village to intimidate her in front of my family people, I was really angry and called her uncle and told him what happened. He said there was nothing wrong with what my mom told her (If you no fit carry the mango u for kuku put am for e head make e carry am na) and that he would talk to her .

I even scolded my mom before I left that I didn’t like what she said what she did that’s she was just causing issue. My girlfriend said when my mom said the word (If you no fit carry the mango u for kuku put am for e head make e carry am na) that I should have immediately rebuked my mom. But me sef no see anything wrong with what my mom said( If you no fit carry the mango u for kuku put am for e head make e carry am na)

I just Dey follow her uncle advise and leave her be until she calms down and I talk to her

So my people what’s offensive in this word? If you no fit carry the mango u for kuku put am for e head make e carry am na)

But this her attitude don tire me. Break up is not on the card for me at least not yet. She always thinks that they are other guys out there because she has a lot of toasters but I know they can’t do quarter of what I’m doing for her. In this modern time it’s difficult to see a guy who will allow his girlfriend stay with him thereby losing his freedom to do certain things. A guy who doesn’t cheat, a guy who takes care of her does everything for her .

I just think the things she went through in her family is affecting her physiological. And sometimes when I think about leaving her I feel pity because she can’t go back to her parents house.

You are a small idiot. Ndi ara. Imagine telling your mom that you don't like what she did. Na DAT small rat you call a girl friend go kill you. Unfortunately, the dead doesn't remember anything nthat was said earlier.

kollinz1234:
all u need is guarantors and then they should take u to their families and their parents should give their consent. With that u are free. Clue: The guarantor should be a police officer in a known police station

Ha! That might even give them the opportunity to misbehave more. That you can't hold their guarantors since he's a police officer.

Exc2000:
in that case Ameachi might be a lair then, as he granted interview stating the person who gave him $2million USD to prosecute his case was Tonye Coal , he said he had already ran out of cash and relocated to ghana before he was raised by tonye his friend... at no point did i get the information on Ameachi being funded by Wike, the other thing i read was wike being intrumental in the battle field during elections as a strong man

Ha! You read? Did Amaechi contest general election in his first term?

kollinz1234:
In that case I will go on, sorry I am just seeing your mention now.

You can start a gas filling station in a moderate shop, gas filling pays more than normal fuel station because people have more cylinders than cars

You can also open a shop where you will be selling baby things/items. People give birth every day. Do well to do the business in a very good location. Doing it close to a general hospital/ good private hospital is a plus.

If you are the type of guy that doesn't want to stress yourself but just want to make money with your investment,

You can comfortably invest into tricycle, place it on higher purchase and be making your money while sleeping at home. With your money you can get at least 10 tricycle. Now imagine collecting 10k(the least as most people collect 15k) per week for 5years. Every week u make #100k, every month #400k, every year u make 4.8m. Multiply it by 5years, u make #24million


You can also buy like 2-3 good cars and place dem in an official state government park. Per car (Siena) they pay around #140 -#200k per month. Damages and accident is on their care not yours

You can also build a hostel close to a school (university/polytechnic) and place students there on rent.

You ought to have gotten several options from all the business opportunities I have mentioned; do well to hire a P.A, to oversee things, advise you, make surveys and follow up on expenditures. It will help you if you don't have a strong/sound mind for investment (not everyone does ).

Thanks so much for your response. For the case of Keke, I have long thought of it. However, I have been skeptical considering other people's experiences as they relate to lack of trust on the part of the drivers. The price of new TVS Keke is about N670k and goes for N1.2m on hire purchased with weekly remittances of N20k. To that effect, N5m can comfortably buy seven of it fpr seven promising young men. But some of the drivers can raised one's BP.

Exc2000:
I have heard the story countless times and no matter who is telling it Wike acted out of over ambition and greed being fooled by his new masters , The jonathans and the Odilis... a local government chairman, chief of staff, that thinks he has arrived after his oga nominated him to the higher table

Bro, you see why I said you are misinformed. How could you attribute Sir (Dr) Peter Odili to Governor Wike when the former is and remains Amaechi benefactor.

Please do well to research the role Governor Wike played before and during Amaechi's court case. After which, you can make your own judgement.
For your record, Wike as Obio Akpor Chairman same period Amaechi was Speaker Rivers state house of Assembly was in excess money. Reason being that Obio Akpor is the richest LGA out of the 23 LGAs in Rivers state and the second richest in Nigeria. Some of the stolen patrimony of Obio Akpor LGA while Governor Wike was a Chairman were actually utilized to execute Amaechi's case.

I need to stop here. I am not a supporter of any of them. Like I said earlier, make your research before coming to the public to mislead some people.

Exc2000:




The modern train Minister, you are doing well Oiiin!!.. Rt Hon Rotimi Ameachi, we know the story Sir, you and your hungry buffoon cultist friend called Wike, Peterside and Magnus all where friends who ventured into politics as a young man after serving odili's intrest very well, its a shame greed got the best of some of you, especially Judas Wike who had decided to leave his friends to serve his new masters Madam Patience Jonathan

Even in US most out of Job Lawyers consider Politics, and that's why the have lots of baby lawyers in the congress, and Senators who are lawyers but refused to practice


.

My friend, with what you spit, you don't know any story. Some of the things Amaechi said in the interview are true . And some are lies. Wike wasn't greedy if you actually know the true story.

southniyikaye:
Ibadan

I see. Our Ibadan, cost of living isn't high. But in Ib, is women I do see doing labour. Not pH to build a house, one will be paying a labour N2,500. If one no shine eye, some will want to collect N3,000 daily

southniyikaye:
The thing is, I have never gone to search for a job in my life, while in school, I was into photography so I used that to sustain myself.

After school, I worked in a construction company and I later had my own company and had almost ten employees. Well last year I lost everything and reality dawned on me.

I have too kids and a beautiful wife to take care of.

Now to the main koko. Am 6.2ft tall and faaaaat but now, the fat Don turn fitted when hunger Wan kill me so I set out to job hunt.

After series of trials and interviews, job no enter o. Least I forget, I fresh small, OK I resemble butty pickin.

Begged family to raise me to start over, found none. Close friends nko, shishi dem no fit raise me and sincerely I didn't blame anybody after all no be dem cause my wahala.

So I set out to do menial jobs, the ones I could find was bricklaying or packing of block. Anytime I get there, their response is always, SHEY I THINK SAY U FIT DO THIS KIN WORK? YOU THIS BUTTY PICKIN
OR I SABI THE KIN WORK WEY YOU FIT DO.

TRIED series of places, it was the same response until one Man decided to give me a trial.
First job was to carry sand from point A to point B. I almost fainted but was doing strong man cos all eyes were on me.

Secondly I was asked to bring cement now this is the funny part. One very tiny guy called levels was the one bringing the cement, not more than 5.6ft tall, as in tiny o, so seeing him, I believed it will be an easy task and I tried to carry 50kg bag all by myself, I couldn't even raise it to chest level when I scatter for ground and everyone burst out laughing. Tried severally to no avail until someone helped me.

Now after mixing, it was time to serve the bricklayers. Worked from 8 till 12 and I was already having Back ache and Head ache. Infact all my body was aching and I told them I can't continue. They should give whatever they feel like giving me until they told me if I didn't finish with them till evening, no kobo for me.

I Sha manage work till 7:30pm and they paid me 1700 instead of 1500 just to pity my condition.
I was bedridden for almost three days after

Day pay for labour that cheap. Which city?

Erhun10z:
Despite all these, Rivers cases still increasing
Making me wonder where they are coming from

Don't wonder again. The increase is as a result of compromised security personnel in boarders who allowed people from other states to enter Rivers State

The Governor indeed has tried his best.

gambia:
Keep deceiving yourself, people that came to install 5G. Scammers

1. The last six in the red circle are Technicians who came to install 5G
2. The seven women in the blue circle are quack nurses from wuhan
3. The guys in the black circle are photographer and reporter.

My opinion though.

Hahahahahaha. Nigerians una wicked. Lol

Youths stay away from yahoo, they won't hear. See the nemesis.

teegeealiu:
I haven't ventured or thought about agriculture but whenever I have the market for it, I'll sure give it a try.

Please any other laudable buis ideas?

Localemperor:
Its is no longer news that I have been declared insolvent. After all effort to maintain my liquidity level to no avail I decide to let her go.

Just as organization retrenched worker during periods of economic downturn in order to cut cost of operations, I sent her a massage expressing my regret and reasons.


I feed her
I pay money for hair dressing
I buy clothes
I take her out every weekend
I buy shoes
I do everything thinkable

She works and earns but I still wonder why she would want me to do everything for her. I compiled my income statement and statement of financial position for the first quarter and found out that expenditures have exceeded income and debt is on the rise.

So I wholeheartedly declared my self insolvent yesterday and decided to cut cost in order to protect my goodwill.

Hahahahahaha. You are even fortunate that she didn't bring her family's expenditure to your table.

teegeealiu:
Thank you.

You welcome. I have been looking at poultry farming. However, the risk is too enormous with minimal profit that is not equated to the risk premium

ChiefAfonja:
Are you a kidnapper??

Lol. I can't be a kidnapper. But if you know that man very well, you won't say that. Like father like son

decatalyst:
Senseless

Like father (wike) like son (Ikwere LGA)! Iranu



They are just creating a bad impression about Ikwere people.

These ones are just power intoxicated.

Bro leave that tin. Ikwerre people have good reputation before now in Rivers? Say the truth

NwaNimo1:
Wike's madness don spread....Wike 19

Common local govt chairman.....i for slap am.

Slap who? You go lost if you dare slap Hon. (Engr.) Samuel Wonosike. If you know, you know

teegeealiu:
Go to page 12 of this thread, you'll read it in details.

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I took time last night and read through page 16. Oh! I saw your germane business idea. Very laudable

kollinz1234:
the owner of the thread hasn't asked me to but if u are interested you can share a little of how much capital you have and I will give u some business ideas u can do with it. The op said his own is #5m so the business ideas I am giving him is tantamount to that amount.
Good morning

Your few highlighted points are germane. I have about the said amount and have been longing to invest in viable business

kollinz1234:
plss advise him to collect the #5m . If he has a job, let him resign. With 5 million, there are a lot of things he can import from China and make a whole lots of cash eg light bulb.
Secondly; he can start a company of giving loans to while collar job men with collateral and have his interest.
Thirdly, he can open several POS shops in good locations. (Good locations will not be a problem because of his money, he can outpay an existing renter and collect his/her shop)
I can go on and on

Please go on

teegeealiu:
I do business and it fetches me 7k profit daily. On the average, I make 200k every month. I started with less than 700k yet it still allows me do my office job.

What business

Mcohans:
Collect the 5m. Buy ur own land and go into farming. Be ur own boss.

Be specific on the nature of farming

Fairview1:
This is the point where he has to choose between Job security and being an entrepreneur.

With 5Million naira, a savvy entrepreneur could find his way to becoming a multi millionaire in the next decade through commodity trading.

If your friend has interest to become a business person, tell him to go for the 5m but if he doesn't have flair for business, then sticking to the 100k job is an ideal option to choose.

My story: My boss settled me with 1.5m Naira for serving him for seven years, 2.5 years after my settlement, I have built my own house in the village, seeing three of my younger siblings through different Universities, enrolled myself in a distance learning program (NOUN), now own three different business outlets with investment in other fellow savvy entrepreneur's businesses, reaping monthly dividends on my investments.

There's no better way to spin around money faster than getting into trading business. TB, FX, mutual fund etc...can't offer that. Again, I repeat; if he has interest in business, advise him to go for the 5m. That may be the beat choice he will ever make all his life considering this offer on the table.

What type of trading businesses

Wiifesnatcher:
5m. let's him go into frozen food in wholesale price, direct from apapa wharf to Warehouse cold room



100k job won't solve anything

What if he is residing in far South South or South East

Ffolksy:
Hi Everyone,

I want to run this through this platform, perhaps I would get some useful input.

I switched companies in March. It was basically due to locations. I was doing fine at my former company. I moved to the latter one because it's close to my house and offered a little salary raise. Turned out it would be my worst career decision.

First week in April after the lockdown was announced, the company came up with a work from home policy which stated that staff were meant to work only Mondays, Wednesdays and Fridays. Consequently, only 70 percent of basic salary (without the allowances) would be paid, and worse, computation would be made for only the number of days (I.e, 12 days a month).

We were assured it's just for the lockdown period, and that things would return to normal afterwards.

Surprisingly, by third week of April, about 90% of staff (including I) was laid off, giving us one week notice.

Yesterday, i got N36,000 from them as my salary for April. My agreed net salary before accepting their offer was N240,000, and that's what I got in March

Considering I'm being laid off, shouldn't they have at least paid the full salary for the month? I feel greatly cheated. Any advice, please?

Thank you.

It's painful. Move on. At the same time, the firm like a lot of firms might be operating on lost.

O boy, the father is not only particular about HND. You have said it all, From Bowen to Covenant, down to a reputable firm. Yours, from Osun State Poly to factory. Reason am na

They politicians should donate some of their mansions that they hardly used rather than begging people to donate their houses.

Flyingngel:
Kano state is going places negatively.
Federal government shld brace up and investigate the cause of this untimely death.

Federal government abi? Why is the state government there? Investigation is too big for a state government?

udemzyudex:
Stop all this nonsense talk, in a sane society he won't even be a Councillor let alone becoming the president.


I wonder how someone with a working brain will go to the ballot and vote for someone like him, have you watch any of his interviews? You will be ashame of calling him your president.


Spit.

Did you say "interview"? Can he stands press briefing?

Who's the "Somebody" that Femi kept referring to? This government we find ourselves is a very big disappointment.

ambu2:
Hahaha! my brother forget, las las this case go reach Supreme court and the woman go don tire sef.

You think the woman doesn't have sponsors?