Romance › Re: Lady Breaks Down In Tears In Surulere Over Inability To Find A Husband (Pics) by MissJoy29(f): 12:45pm On Jun 12, 2019 |
dairykidd: You need to be prayerful Thank you. I am now. |
Romance › Re: Should I Go Ahead And Marry Her? by MissJoy29(f): 9:38am On Jun 12, 2019 |
kushme: Why capitalize the bold? Oh, I see, you want me to get it straight into the fvcked up mind of mine!  Yep. That's what I want. |
Romance › Re: Should I Go Ahead And Marry Her? by MissJoy29(f): 9:20am On Jun 12, 2019 |
safarigirl: leave that boy alone
His mother wasn't useful to his father, so, he thinks all women are like her.....either that, or he's a 12-year old kid I think he's highly & unapologetically immature! |
Romance › Re: Should I Go Ahead And Marry Her? by MissJoy29(f): 9:19am On Jun 12, 2019 |
deltateam: Scary. Men you see it for yourselves. Look before you say " I do."
I have never seen my Dad washing dishes or sweeping the house. I wonder what our women want to turn us to these days. See your mouth! That you haven't seen him do those things does it make him a good husband or make the ones doing them for their wives bad husbands? |
Romance › Re: Should I Go Ahead And Marry Her? by MissJoy29(f): 9:16am On Jun 12, 2019 |
kushme:
coded guy..
All the props/ promoshe give her mother as good adviser to the dad make me wonder why the so called adviser no close those deals herself if she's got her dough... Really? With the way you are sounding, would you not feel threatened if your wife buys a property for herself or even for the family with HER OWN MONEY!? Would you even support her to have her own money and invest as she deems fit? You call such savings & insight & Divine advices "so called advising"? Really? You sound like the types that don't & won't listen to their wives not for any other reason other than "SHE'S A WOMAN! She shouldn't be heard even when her method or suggestion is so much better than mine." |
Romance › Re: Should I Go Ahead And Marry Her? by MissJoy29(f): 8:57am On Jun 12, 2019 |
iammiracle1: Feminism is grossly misunderstood in this part of the world, OP the fact that your fiancee doesn't agree with you in everything doesn't make her a feminist, you may think having a woman who laps and agrees to your every decision to prove you are the "man" is the way to go its not, in the long run its either you get tired of been with a woman that doesn't challenge you mentally or you miss out on having the opinion of your partner which could turn out to be very viable, till today my popsy raves about how our mum saved him from a life of bankruptcy by putting her feet down and disagreeing with his proposed business plan, we would have been in the village by now because exactly what she said happened, it doesn't mean that your woman should be rude but trust me its viable to have someone who can think on her feet.
God Bless you! Only a weak man, a man who feels threatened, a man with inferiority complex & self esteem issues, a man who's more egoistic that sensible or a man with ulterior motives will be bothered by a lady who has her own mind seeing as it will be of benefit to both of them. My only advice to such women is: "learn when to submit & learn when to be assertive and proactive. You are not in competition with your husband." |
Travel › Re: 10 Most Populated Countries In The World; See Where Nigeria Falls by MissJoy29(f): 8:23am On Jun 12, 2019 |
Cadec007: it means half the population+ are 18 years... And the others are shared btw.. 19 to old age...
Which in turn means Nigeria has very low life expectancy... Thanks a lot! |
Travel › Re: 10 Most Populated Countries In The World; See Where Nigeria Falls by MissJoy29(f): 11:08pm On Jun 11, 2019 |
Elbone2: It simply means Half of our Population(200,686,995) are below that Age(Median Age) while the Other Half are Above or older. Thanks so much! |
Travel › Re: 10 Most Populated Countries In The World; See Where Nigeria Falls by MissJoy29(f): 10:47pm On Jun 11, 2019 |
Samcathe: Median is middle age Thank you. But what does it mean here? |
Travel › Re: 10 Most Populated Countries In The World; See Where Nigeria Falls by MissJoy29(f): 10:34pm On Jun 11, 2019 |
What's median age biko? |
Romance › Re: Lady Breaks Down In Tears In Surulere Over Inability To Find A Husband (Pics) by MissJoy29(f): 10:26pm On Jun 11, 2019 |
lefulefu: on that number 3 dats one fatal mistake some of we guys make.but there some smart guys nowardays even wen they make it they still hold on to their age long girlfriends and if any upgrading needs to be done they upgrade her to their taste. That is the best for any sensible man! I love smart guys. |
Romance › Re: Lady Breaks Down In Tears In Surulere Over Inability To Find A Husband (Pics) by MissJoy29(f): 10:21pm On Jun 11, 2019 |
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Romance › Re: Lady Breaks Down In Tears In Surulere Over Inability To Find A Husband (Pics) by MissJoy29(f): 10:21pm On Jun 11, 2019 |
Ryan03: Of cause its pathetic, i'm not against a man buying stuff or supporting his woman, what i'm against is a woman who does nothing for a living yet wants to wear the most expensive clothes, go an vacations, live large on someone else's pocket and will get angry when the guy refuse. I just dey vex Of course it doesn't make sense & it isn't fair. |
Romance › Re: Lady Breaks Down In Tears In Surulere Over Inability To Find A Husband (Pics) by MissJoy29(f): 10:20pm On Jun 11, 2019 |
lefulefu: see the truth is dat most guys who prefer going for women who truely love them do dat wen they are not so dat rich and then build their relationship wirh such ladies.if i can remember i was reading of one tennis star who just got married to his girlfriend who he has been with for 15 yrs oo.i think its rapheal nada or so.dat means its been long he 's been with dat lady probably wen they were in high school and he wasnt dat rich then. even beckham wen he married his wife he was just an upstart in his footballing career.(1)these are men who preferred marrying the ladies of their humble beginings and they will respect such ladies.(2)those ones wey don hammer money full ground yakata and dem come make up their mind dat dis is d right time to get a woman dont really care if d woman love dem or not.they just want a slayqueen to use to decorate their sitting room and if d slayqueen fuk up she go pack her load go her papa house.na so e jus be.(3)one mistake some of we naija guys make though its dat d lady dat was wit us durin our humble beginins we go dump her as soon as money don enter hand then we go start to dey shop for instagram slayqueen as our new wife.(4)oyibo man no go quick do like dat.which governor i hear wey im win im election then as soon as im win im celebrate am by marrying another new wife. |
Romance › Re: Lady Breaks Down In Tears In Surulere Over Inability To Find A Husband (Pics) by MissJoy29(f): 10:15pm On Jun 11, 2019 |
lefulefu: see the truth is dat most guys who prefer going for women who truely love them do dat wen they are not so dat rich and then build their relationship wirh such ladies.if i can remember i was reading of one tennis star who just got married to his girlfriend who he has been with for 15 yrs oo.i think its rapheal nada or so.dat means its been long he 's been with dat lady probably wen they were in high school and he wasnt dat rich then. even beckham wen he married his wife he was just an upstart in his footballing career.(1)these are men who preferred marrying the ladies of their humble beginings and they will respect such ladies.(2)those ones wey don hammer money full ground yakata and dem come make up their mind dat dis is d right time to get a woman dont really care if d woman love dem or not.they just want a slayqueen to use to decorate their sitting room and if d slayqueen fuk up she go pack her load go her papa house.na so e jus be.(3)one mistake some of we naija guys make though its dat d lady dat was wit us durin our humble beginins we go dump her as soon as money don enter hand then we go start to dey shop for instagram slayqueen as our new wife.(4)oyibo man no go quick do like dat.which governor i hear wey im win im election then as soon as im win im celebrate am by marrying another new wife. You are so right on all the points listed. On number 3 especially, when you guys make money & start lamenting about the quality of ladies that come to you all, I laugh! A lot of guys forsake the ones that were with them when they have nothing. Even if they don't leave outrightly,they start misbehaving. At least it has happened me not once. On number 2, that's one of the reasons why marriages are crumbling today. Everything is being abused and misused. No more morals. There are definitely good ladies and guys out there but a lot still prefer to chase shadows and while they are at it, they still complain. |
Romance › Re: Lady Breaks Down In Tears In Surulere Over Inability To Find A Husband (Pics) by MissJoy29(f): 10:06pm On Jun 11, 2019 |
Ranchhoddas: Ideally yes 
But the dynamics of today's relationships skew it in favour of one group. You know the group. Yes I do. But that doesn't make it right. |
Romance › Re: Lady Breaks Down In Tears In Surulere Over Inability To Find A Husband (Pics) by MissJoy29(f): 10:05pm On Jun 11, 2019 |
Ranchhoddas: This is gold. If this is your worldview then why are we arguing We aren't arguing sir. Thank God you agree we aren't. And, that is my world view. |
Romance › Re: Lady Breaks Down In Tears In Surulere Over Inability To Find A Husband (Pics) by MissJoy29(f): 3:36pm On Jun 11, 2019 |
Ryan03: na them. They have nothing to contribute to a mans life but they want you to work you ass off to finance their luxirious lifestyle. If you take note, these ones are also lazy in performing house chores, they are lazy in everything Pathetic ain't it? |
Romance › Re: Lady Breaks Down In Tears In Surulere Over Inability To Find A Husband (Pics) by MissJoy29(f): 3:34pm On Jun 11, 2019 |
TheKingIsHere: The bitches Dogs? You want to make all that money just to get dogs? |
Romance › Re: Lady Breaks Down In Tears In Surulere Over Inability To Find A Husband (Pics) by MissJoy29(f): 3:33pm On Jun 11, 2019 |
lefulefu: hm na wah for wire road  I'm telling you! |
Romance › Re: Lady Breaks Down In Tears In Surulere Over Inability To Find A Husband (Pics) by MissJoy29(f): 3:32pm On Jun 11, 2019 |
lefulefu: Tony Montana says  Lol....but what kinda women?
That's the million dollar question |
Romance › Re: Lady Breaks Down In Tears In Surulere Over Inability To Find A Husband (Pics) by MissJoy29(f): 9:26am On Jun 11, 2019 |
TheKingIsHere: Nope. Getting the money big time is man's greatest challenge After the money comes, what next? |
Romance › Re: Lady Breaks Down In Tears In Surulere Over Inability To Find A Husband (Pics) by MissJoy29(f): 9:19am On Jun 11, 2019 |
generationz: So finding a good wife isn't a mans biggest challenge? Allow them live in denial. That's their speciality |
Romance › Re: Lady Breaks Down In Tears In Surulere Over Inability To Find A Husband (Pics) by MissJoy29(f): 9:04am On Jun 11, 2019 |
Ranchhoddas: Funmisticqueen
MissJoy29
Who is the prize  Prize ko! Prizeless ni!! My husband will be a prize to me... & guess what? I WILL ALSO BE A PRIZE TO HIM!!!!!!!!! |
Romance › Re: Lady Breaks Down In Tears In Surulere Over Inability To Find A Husband (Pics) by MissJoy29(f): 9:01am On Jun 11, 2019 |
AntiBrutus: Continue deceiving yourselves.
Reverse psychology to keep making women think they are the ones who want marriage more. Women keep falling for it and behaving like this lady.
Wed the day he wishes? To who? The one he wishes or just any available one?
Tell this trash to ladies without responsible welldoing young men in her circle. Don't mind them. They know the truth but just choose to project something else entirely to feed their ego & make themselves feel good! I know a lot of guys who are ready to settle down but haven't seen the one they want yet. You really need to see how worried they are. Here, our NL warriors hide behind their keyboards causing gullible women to be depressed by impressing on them how scarce men are & how their time is running out. But these friends of mine are facing reality not VIRTUALITY! Their time is also running out!! They very well know that the key word in the choice of a partner (any partner) is GODLY. There are ladies and there are wives...same for men and husbands. Even these ones here talking about being the prize might also be finding it difficult to get a wife. Of course why won't they when every Nigerian girl is a hoe, loves money & is a leech. One arrogant friend then was boasting how he could get someone to marry in a day if he wants. He was on my case and still boasting up & down. But even with all the money he has (and he has a lot!) he still isn't married yet. No one is more important than the other in this marital journey biko. Our alphamales should be aware that the God-designed differences between male and female are to be seen as COMPLEMENTARY not competitive. CC: essenceplus & Ranchhoddas |
Romance › Re: Lady Breaks Down In Tears In Surulere Over Inability To Find A Husband (Pics) by MissJoy29(f): 8:33am On Jun 11, 2019 |
anochuko01: ma'am i spoke with one today, he said her hubby must stay in abuja or island. She was damn serious. I almost chocked on my noodles. Lol...I have an old friend who says her hubby must have a big backyard where she will be having barbecues with her friends regularly. I was amazed when I found out she wasn't joking. What a priority! This is someone that specialises in begging & scheming out money from guys and ladies alike but you will never see her 1 naira. Lol |
Family › Re: I Feel Like I Will Be Single Forever. by MissJoy29(f): 10:46pm On Jun 09, 2019 |
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Romance › Re: It Is Difficult For Me To Get A Wife, Advice Please. by MissJoy29(f): 6:15pm On Jun 09, 2019 |
Ranchhoddas: Ego is part of it. Doesn't make the assertion false. Ego SHOULDN'T be a part of it & assertion IS false. |
Romance › Re: It Is Difficult For Me To Get A Wife, Advice Please. by MissJoy29(f): 6:08pm On Jun 09, 2019 |
Ranchhoddas: Well it's true. Women marry up. There are few men at the top. A high-value man is a prize. Women are a dime a dozen.  Indeed....EGO! |
Romance › Re: It Is Difficult For Me To Get A Wife, Advice Please. by MissJoy29(f): 6:05pm On Jun 09, 2019 |
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Romance › Re: It Is Difficult For Me To Get A Wife, Advice Please. by MissJoy29(f): 5:46pm On Jun 09, 2019 |
essenceplus: Yes I am.the only trouble maker you know. Its all good
I'm just here for fun anyways. How r u? Same here o.
I'm good & you? |
Romance › Re: It Is Difficult For Me To Get A Wife, Advice Please. by MissJoy29(f): 5:08pm On Jun 09, 2019 |
essenceplus: Now you're speaking like the Joy I know .. Well said you're right. God EPP this generation where divorce tends more than marriages and people are quick to walk away before they sit to resolve differences Hmmmm....Joy you know? Which one? Wait o....are you? God will help us o. Even the ones that haven't been hurt misbehave. In all, I, by God's Grace, devised a means to shield my heart from unnecessary hurt. Before it gets to that, I don japa! |