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healthserve:
Using her emotions to run the relationship

cassyrooy:
These are some of the things I can't recover from.

A woman who's unwilling to accept that her actions, and inactions are driving you mad, but still refuse to change such is very bad.

I'm very patient but I don't know how long it will last.

He's tried but the wife has to try too.

emerged01:
What about buying airtime worth thousands on your phone and transferring it.... Deleting any transaction details before you know. And what about having access to your hotspot without your permission( case study; my wife and his brother). There are a lot of reasons you should lock your phone.

emerged01:
Many thing to lose bro. Once can access your informations. Your phone is linked to your account. Anybody can borrow or make transaction with your phone.

grossintel:
I don't use pattern, pin or password. I don't lock my phone. It's my phone so why should I stress myself to open it. If it ever gets lost or stolen I can issue a command to erase the phone.

imitateMe:
Tell them o. Seems you're the only lady with brain here.

kunleweb:
Na so. Nairaland. Stockpile of thrash

cassyrooy:
What Mr. OP is going through is as scary as the movie, One Missed Call.

I know myself, I love sex so if I agree to no sex relationship with anyone, I must be double sure of that person's history and compatibility with me, or she has a toleratable sexual characteristic.

I'm slightly scared of marriage but this just deepened that fear.

@MissJoy29, I no go lie, this is one of the most bizarre ways to punish any man. He's only had sex once in 30something years before getting married. Him try to carry that kind record for today's world.

Sincerely, your discussions with @Kunle.web is kinda troubling. I mean, you guys both acknowledged that it's become a competition between the males and females who will ruin the other more? Lord, help me.

From this thread. I'm nearing the time when I would have nothing to do with this place called NL again. Too toxic, a very contagious thing.

Life expectancy is still generally below 60, yet people still choose to leave others in pain.

@Obukomena, I can only advice you to turn this into a power game and see if she'll correct herself. After which any other thing you do, will be your full responsibility.

I can't be commonsensical or logical here because my highest experience with women is too limited compared to you.

If you must act, please don't go outside of God. I'm just not happy with this situation at all.

kunleweb:
You want to bring me back here. Nada

healthserve:
MissJoy29

AwkaetitiBabe:
It's possible after collecting the money, ur inner mind told her not to go. It's simply not worth d risk.

Nicklaus619:
Back then, sleeping on the same bed with my elder bro is always dramatic, normally he is a quite guy and he stammers allot then , but each night he will wake up by midnight and as early as 4am he will stand up and walk straight to the kitchen and sit on the freezer and start shouting and quarreling as if he wants to pick a fight with someone, the first day he did this, there was power outage and the whole house was dark, when he starting shouting and nagging all my siblings and my parent was in a serious panick running helter skelter no thanks to horror movies I saw that night, I almost peed on my self out of fear.
the amazing thing is that , when he sleep talks and shout he don't stammer, and he ends up walking right back to his bed after the drama ,
The dude is a serious drama king

Chillflamz:
slept on the same bed with mah friends junoir bro...the dude just got up nd walked straight to the kitchen nd peed in mah mum's newly prepared pot of egusi soup......omoh sleepwalking no be small sontin

IamPlato:
Is That For Real? I Find It Weird Or Impossible For One To Walk while Sleeping

kunleweb:
You don dey dey bold

Dem don dey show you road abi?


I mean I prefer WhatsApp for communication,it helps me juggle between informal dealings and official work

kunleweb:
The wickedness in ladies now has superseded men

Anyways, what's the problem with WhatsApp?


Na you dey force me login here. I don leave this thrashland for una o

kunleweb:
Male species. It can't be compared. Ladies are now ten times more dangerous than men. Even my mum says devil has produce eggs in the hearts of ladies of our generation. And has given birth to much offspring in their hearts. So wetin you wan yan. Go through this thread again and tell me this guy didn't marry a " witch ".


I dare him to go investigate his wife



Come over to WhatsApp.

MissRaine69:
And where is that written that those colours are unmanly? Your head does not count.

kunleweb:
I'm on Quora



The forum is unprofitable



There's a competition between who's the baddest now na. What I'm experiencing ATM with your sisters would make a block buster movie



I've always been me before Ubnja. Perhaps you didn't know. While I advocate good treatment, I'll be the last man on earth, any woman will walk over. I rather die than drop my guard for a woman to play games with me. So te, women are now satisfied with the tag Olosho. Hard to differentiate between a decent lady and an olosho of late.


If you want find me, I dey WhatsApp and Quora or email.

kunleweb:
Am I red pilled? I'm sure you bought me the drug.

Just a realist


The paranoia, insecurities and cold heartedness of your sisters these days has turned me ten times colder than I was simple. Too many damaged people everywhere.


What are you looking for me for o. Make I come collect?.

kunleweb:
Argh. Look for me. Hmphm. Is everything okay?


The forum is toxic and unprofitable.


The thread. The more of this men see, the more the heart and passion in it dies. I tell you, we men can hardly love or feel a thing for women these days. Too many damaged people everywhere. Lately, the female gender is winning

kunleweb:
Look for me ke?.

I've been between Work and Quora . Nairaland is too toxic for my life. How's everything?

kunleweb:

kunleweb:
Na where MissJoy29 crawl out from

Peresrichly:
True we are taking too many wrong things as the write things to the point we are beginning to forget the original right things...

Peresrichly:
It’s a simple caring question, with a yes or no respond.
Why will you decline to answer such simple question, well it’s a Nigerian girls thing now very difficult for them to engage in a smooth conversation. Without acting over i too know.
If you say no it will trigger alright let’s go get something to eat. If you say yes it will trigger okay or alright cool. But if you decline to answer which will be seen as being rude it will trigger walk away.

generationz:
Jesus Christ !

You are not the first guy I'm seeing saying ' I can't marry her, she was too good for me'.

Biko what do you guys mean by that because local woman is totally confused.

Is she boring , timid abi or what?

generationz:
Yeeee!

I saw somewhere you said people love to confide in you and I immediately knew you would be an infj.

I'm glad you agree with the test.

There is so much material on the internet about infjs .

You can start with Erick Thor .He has a blog and page on YouTube.
He is also an infj.

Then I'll also recommend C.s Joseph. Just Google C.s Joseph infjs. He has a ton of stuff about each type.

generationz:
What was the result?

theadams:
I don't think I could have marry her even if I was ready back then, because she knew everything about me and she is way too good for me. she deserves better.

Abouwaza:
Oil and gas

Peresrichly:
It’s a have you eaten?
No
Okay let’s go get something to eat.
So the former leads to the latter.