₦airaland Forum

bukatyne:
I enjoyed your convo with cassyrooy.

Thanks dear.

kunleweb:
1. She knows shell be rewarded for either bad or good behavior hence she sees no desire to improve performance. This even applies outside the bedroom. Stop rewarding bad behavipr, start placing demands on positive character



2. Sharing chores is see finish. You've reduced to being her first born or younger brother

At your number 2, are you serious? It's not sharing. It's called helping out. And there's definitely nothing wrong in a guy doing that. It's a very clear mark of a guy who loves & respects a woman.

Even though I know some women abuse the help rendered by their husband concerning house chores. But please when you find the right woman & marry her, lend a hand. It doesn't decrease your masculinity rather, (for someone like me most especially) it increases your value in her eyes.
There's a reason why "Acts of service" has ALWAYS been my most important love language.

emekagideon:
I literally didn't see this...
pre-intimacy is always top notch actually
she loves giving me Mouth Gig a lot
69 is always in our game plan as well cos I introduced her to it
fingering, manipulating nipples and all sort of stuffs is present
kissing earlobes and everything is what we always do
I could remember vividly taking rounds in tying each other up like just pinning hand and feet actually I did mine in the first day...30 mins section she moaned a lot and I did all sort of things and she did have more than enough and she moaned a lot and as a matter of fact she's a squirtter...
And I don't do drugs at all... I hate it so much even if I have PE or sth I'll rather cure it by taking fruit's and all sorts..i just do not like the idea of always using drugs to impress a lady so I don't do it at all...
just my natural self and I don't know if there's a way I can have PE or a way to cum ASAP

Can I give you a secret?

If your answer is "yes", then I need you to answer this very important question: does she reach orgasm before you?

The answer to the question will determine whether you need to hear the secret or not. Although I already know the answer. The description is accurate.

ashantitope:
No no no I will never say is women fault I have a sis that i always wish I could give any of my friends or close somebody because she's extra ordinary good as what a reasonable man want but all the men she meet will surely come up with something else so life is vise versa

Ok sir. That's good to know.
I wish your sis the best!

Ryan03:
We preach trust everyday yet blame her for trusting him? If this was the other way round, would you have typed this?

A thousand likes!

ashantitope:
Abeg park well men have 1million reason not to marry a lady tell her to check her mind very well don't let her seek for who to console her madam check it self are u rude, stubborn,can't cook,not neat and so on maybe u also cheat

@bolded, have you not seen people who aren't rude, who aren't stubborn, who can cook, who are neat and who don't cheat get played?

Relationship & marriage failure in Nigeria is ALWAYS the woman's fault.

pansophist:
The guy bleeped up big time. Regardless if the ex is not wife material, only a person with a rotten moral values will lead someone on for two years, without letting them go. Especially that time is not on a woman's side. This should send a red flag to the new spouse about the moral flaw of her husband, because as we all know, the chicken will always come home to roost.

A thousand likes!

essenceplus:
Claps. Don't forget

Appreciates....forget what please?

essenceplus:
As the cycle spins innocent people receive the spill over effect of crappy people.


Where's Missjoy29

Gbam! @bolded

That's what we are all facing. Little wonder why relationships and marriages don't work. Everyone is out to bring their A game of deceit and crappiness to the forefront. Someone here said the guy is prolly trying to give the lady a cruel revenge. You can imagine! What happens to walking away? I have suddenly discovered that I haven't been weak when I walk away from situations that would have made me enter that CYCLE. There's actually strength in walking away! Leave the person to God or fate.

essenceplus:
Its not about been left for another girl now. But about the facts on table. Someone was leading someone else on, getting them fvcked,have them embarasswd and deceived. All of this has nothing to do with the girls character. Or was it her character that made him not to say it if she had not caught him.

Was her character okay to make her get fvcked

Was it her character that made them visit her parents,some men are devils,let's face it and they are the reasons other innocent men suffer from the trail of their damage.

We all want to be treated fairly in life. This is bad treatment bro. If she was bad, there's a way to turn her down. It won't also be alongside another relationship.

Am I lieing Missjoy29

No you are not dear. You saying the whole truth.

I wish we all could adopt a lifestyle that reflects The Golden Rule. The world will be a better place to live. So much wickedness & pain we inflict on ot all because we have been hurt before. Does the fact that one has been hurt before suddenly make one an animal?

And the saddest part of all is that even those who haven't been hurt & the very young ones who have no business with topics like this about sheer evil have joined in the crase. The other day I was in a salon and about 5 girls were there. These girls are awaiting their WASSCE & JAMB results but I was amazed at what they were discussing. You see they were of the opinion that men shouldn't be given a freehand at all. They are supposed to be dealt with so that they don't hurt us (the females).
And I asked myself what those ones know already to be sounding like that at that age. By the time they get older, they would perhaps have graduated to full time senseless, insensitive, wicked & evil people.

It's a vicious cycle: I'm hurt, I hurt another, that one hurts another cos of me, another one is hurt...till eventually I find someone who will hurt me AGAIN cos of the hurt he suffered too which I incidentally started. Until we consciously stop it, we will all get burned!

desvi:
she is young it's normal to be gullible at this age the hurt is part of the learning process what he did was wrong however we should condemn the trickery, not the trust she had

A thousand likes!

rawitools:
you like stick well we'll oo

What's stick?

2 things small abeg.

*A loved one(partner or friend)
*Internet
*Steady light,
*Good series,
*Interesting novels.

With the number 1 mentioned, I can stay Indoors for a month and not notice. And if I must REALLY choose 2, that will be first & second on the list.

essenceplus:
You're also wandering what sharing private parts means abi. Work the maths out

When I didn't see any equation.

Be clear jare.

essenceplus:
I don't tell you my own. We use yours to run the package. Simple

Indeed!

DealMogul:
Ahhh there are more terrible things o. I'll post them later

We are waiting.

DealMogul:
Ahhh there are more terrible things o. I'll post them later

We are waiting.

Mk93:
i can only share clothes not underwear

Ok sir.

Mk93:
even some girls will like to use your boxers when they visit. love will not catch me to my stuff o. at least those things are cheap

Lol....I can share underwear. No biggie

Mk93:
I don't know why anybody will want to share toothbrush. Only a girlfriend that I really like will be allowed to use my towel not to talk of toothbrush

Exactly! Everyone should have their sponges, soaps, towels and toothbrushes abeg.

But love eh! Has the power to reset the brain sometimes.

ericsmith:
so you can love somebody without "really" if they cum ask you to catch grenade for ur hubby nko .. you will av to critically, chronic or grossly love

Lol....nice one!

Mk93:
there is nothing loving in sharing toothbrush

Lol....some people misconstrue the act of denying to. They will start using emotional blackmail to make you feel guilty.

It won't even cross my mind to ask my partner to do that. I can't even expect him to agree even if I ask & I certainly won't be angry, unhappy/sad or guilt-trip him if his answer is NO when asked.

essenceplus:
If I share your tooth brush there. Its a clear case of jokery. How can people who can share private part not able to share toothbrush. It would have been nasty if one said wet tooth brush that one is a different case altogether. But dry one wetin dey there. Even wet private parts are shared

What do you mean by sharing private parts? You mean oral sexx?

A toothbrush is toothbrush whether dry or wet. A dry one will eventually get wet.

charlsecy:
I am not a teacher. LOL.

Ok sir. Thanks anyway

essenceplus:
We will use your emotions to run the package

Na lie o!

I have to REALLY love you to do that.
That being said, it doesn't mean I don't love you if I don't do it.

SmellySperm:
hoes trending and the good gals are barely noticed

#unfair world

I know right!

essenceplus:
Lol. Missjoy29 shebi you see yourself.

Isn't it obvious?
She's not ok.

charlsecy:
Median age is the age of the person occupying exactly the center if all the people' ages were arranged in ascending or descending order.

Check this data:

4, 5, 5, 10, 11, 15, 16:
The median age, for example, on the data is 10.

Data says if the age of each of the 200,622,453 Nigerians there are was spread out in ascending or descending order, the age of the citizen occupying the 100,311,226.5th position would be 17.9.
A Nigerian median age of 17.9 means that about 100, 311, 226 Nigerians are less than 17.9 years of age. About 50% of Nigerians are less than 18 years.

Wow! So clear. Thanks a lot!

Btw,are you a teacher?

dairykidd:
You need to be prayerful

Thank you. I am now.

kushme:
Why capitalize the bold? Oh, I see, you want me to get it straight into the fvcked up mind of mine!

Yep. That's what I want.

safarigirl:
leave that boy alone

His mother wasn't useful to his father, so, he thinks all women are like her.....either that, or he's a 12-year old kid

I think he's highly & unapologetically immature!