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Phenomenal16:
..shebi guys want to be on control
They should control everything nah

Exactly!

chenzen:
would you intentionally walk into a toxic relationship? huh?

That's not what she's saying. Sometimes you don't get to choose who comes your way and what good or evil intentions they have to offer until you get close & deep with them.

And truly, sometimes those bad people end up bringing out the best in you. You may never know what you are capable of until you are faced with some people/ situations

carter009:
You ehhhh, always looking for a way to bash guys,, even when a girl posted it....

Truth is truth, no matter who said it.

Even as a lady myself, ladies like that sicken me.

Surprisingly, guys like them like that. Don't mind them saying otherwise here.

Tina26:
its about reality . Most men expect what they saw at their homes. Marriage is based on patriarchy. Either endure or don't marry . See an example https://www.nairaland.com/5360979/husband-boldly-cheating-me

Hmmmm....

Tina26:
they endured all manner of bullshit in form of cheating and abuse

And is that a good or bad thing?

Tina26:
truth hurts. todays women are not willing to take what their mothers took

And what please did their mothers take?

Mk12:
Bros na Small children talk you dea talk so. as far as say na only cheating be the problem so, you go still deceive her enter her again then break her heart for the second time.
women forgive easily if you go extra mile

I pity the women around you.

Tina26:
marriage has not place in the 21 century anymore. now a farce. the foundations of marriage are embeded in women enduring shit and being submissive. in 2019 that cant work

I pity all the women around you.

deltateam:
You never chop am with bread. Kai.

...or with garri, milk, sugar and cold water. Chai! Ordinarily, beans and garri is my top 3 list of favourite foods but EWA AGOYIN and garri do things to me...

In fact let me stand up and go look for one abeg.

ezebunafo:
there are two kinds of cooked ewa,normal ewa and ewa agoyin,and the taste and aroma of the two are not the same,so which one is he sending you to buy? most lagosians prefer ewa agoyin,and most housewife doesn't know how to cook it.

Gbam! I believe it's ewa agoyin that's causing this problem. Lol. That beans is too sweet. Me sef I can eat it 1 week straight anytime I'm in Lagos.

BuhariIsBURIED:
Lolz, seems u are romantic?

Much more than you can imagine but that is neither here nor there. And that's not even a yardstick to gauge level of "romanticness". Lol

BuddhaPalm:
Some teams didn't qualify for this competition. Some others went home from the group stage.

And others were knocked out earlier.

No one wins all the time.

You are right sir. But getting to this point should mean something, right? They were playing as if they are still in group stage. They didn't play well at all today abeg.

ovokate:
Well..they tried. At least they got to that point.

True dear.

Galaticos444:
disappoint u.super Chickens cant disappoint me again,i stopped supporting dem wen dey failed to qualify 4d 2006 world cup

Lol @super chickens.
Seriously eh, they broke hearts this evening.

OlawaleBammie:
hey!!!

Hey you...good evening.

They have done what they know how to do best: disappoint us!

GOALLLLLL!!!!! Ighalo.

PK please....

Modified: yay!!!!!!!

BuhariIsBURIED:
Lolz, yes sir not baby

Ok honey.

My best actress...then, now & possibly tomorrow. I don't see anyone taking her place.

I just wish her joy will be full.

BuhariIsBURIED:
Hmmm! so u know football

Yes baby .
I do

Chai!
OG...

Nearly!

Are you here Cassyrooy?

Nice one!

Some people on this page smoked cheap weed before coming to this thread.

Obodo999:
Well its obvious in this thread how some people are trying to justify killing innocent, defenceless unborn children.

Ok. I get it now.

lollybizzu:
You typed everything on my mind.

That's my current personality you described up there.

Current in the sense that change can happen...you know

But you made sense.

Ok sir.
Thank you!

This has always been my stance for as long as I can remember

Obodo999:
I like your last sentence but the problem is most people don't accept they have done bad things. They will still argue. There must be confession, repentance, redemption and revival. It is when all these have been completed, will one can change for good.

You are right sir. So right.
But how can someone argue on such things?

kunleweb:
Yeap. Not judging. Its how it is. Rationalism isn't being sanctimonious BTW. Its just how it is.

Ok sir.

emekagideon:
Yeah she does before me

I was sure that's what you will say.

If both of you communicate openly, sincerely & deeply on sexual matters, then you need to do this: tell her to hold off on cuming until you do. That's is the ONLY way to still retain her wetness, interest & passion. Trust me.
Now, it might seem a bit difficult at first for her but because of love, she can give it a shot. And on your own part, don't over do. Don't stretch your ejaculation bearing in mind she also needs to find her own release.

If you can, please come back and give feedback.

kunleweb:
To think that they're both photocopies of one another is scaring. I didn't judge her. I have expectations for her to be a decent lady. Doing that shii at 33 implies plain stupidity. If I follow through with this project, shell answer to me


I easily forgive mistakes but not deliberate actions. Doing this shii at 33 doesn't make sense. No lady above 22 should so cheaply babydump. What's not right isn't right.


I take my sperm very serious. It would require serious work to have my sperm. I place a premium on my self. So there's no one out there carrying my seed, cause even as a kid, I placed premium on my seed. This has been my mentality since as a teen

Hmmmm....this is a very sensitive issue, Kunle. See, I find it difficult to judge people anyhow nowadays. I have seen things. I always tell myself, "you will never know what you will do if you find yourself in the situations of people you judge". This helps me show empathy & most importantly, be objective in my views.

I'm more concerned about doing good and living right. That I don't/can't do some certain things doesn't mean I will crucify those doing it. Yes there's a place to frown at what some people do or wonder at their level of reasoning...but I try not to appear too sanctimonious. It's only in extreme cases that I vehemently condemn an action & before I do that, I must have analysed the situation objectively and found the person guilty on all levels. But even at that, the person can still change.

Btw, if I were a guy, I would still marry an abortionist. I'm wired that way. The love in my heart is too much to stop what I feel for someone based on such things.

Come to think of it, isn't any form of sin, sin? I have discovered that people who judge too much sin the most. Go ask Jesus and the accusers of the adulterous woman.

That's the standard I try to use!
People can change for good. That's the most important thing!