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Romance / Re: Lady Breaks Down In Tears In Surulere Over Inability To Find A Husband (Pics) by MissJoy29(f): 10:26pm On Jun 11, 2019
lefulefu:
on that number 3 dats one fatal mistake some of we guys make.but there some smart guys nowardays even wen they make it they still hold on to their age long girlfriends and if any upgrading needs to be done they upgrade her to their taste.
That is the best for any sensible man!
I love smart guys.

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Romance / Re: Lady Breaks Down In Tears In Surulere Over Inability To Find A Husband (Pics) by MissJoy29(f): 10:21pm On Jun 11, 2019
essenceplus:



Baby
Sweetheart
Romance / Re: Lady Breaks Down In Tears In Surulere Over Inability To Find A Husband (Pics) by MissJoy29(f): 10:21pm On Jun 11, 2019
Ryan03:
Of cause its pathetic, i'm not against a man buying stuff or supporting his woman, what i'm against is a woman who does nothing for a living yet wants to wear the most expensive clothes, go an vacations, live large on someone else's pocket and will get angry when the guy refuse. I just dey vex
Of course it doesn't make sense & it isn't fair.
Romance / Re: Lady Breaks Down In Tears In Surulere Over Inability To Find A Husband (Pics) by MissJoy29(f): 10:20pm On Jun 11, 2019
lefulefu:
see the truth is dat most guys who prefer going for women who truely love them do dat wen they are not so dat rich and then build their relationship wirh such ladies.if i can remember i was reading of one tennis star who just got married to his girlfriend who he has been with for 15 yrs oo.i think its rapheal nada or so.dat means its been long he 's been with dat lady probably wen they were in high school and he wasnt dat rich then. even beckham wen he married his wife he was just an upstart in his footballing career.(1)these are men who preferred marrying the ladies of their humble beginings and they will respect such ladies.(2)those ones wey don hammer money full ground yakata and dem come make up their mind dat dis is d right time to get a woman dont really care if d woman love dem or not.they just want a slayqueen to use to decorate their sitting room and if d slayqueen fuk up she go pack her load go her papa house.na so e jus be.(3)one mistake some of we naija guys make though its dat d lady dat was wit us durin our humble beginins we go dump her as soon as money don enter hand then we go start to dey shop for instagram slayqueen as our new wife.(4)oyibo man no go quick do like dat.which governor i hear wey im win im election then as soon as im win im celebrate am by marrying another new wife.
Romance / Re: Lady Breaks Down In Tears In Surulere Over Inability To Find A Husband (Pics) by MissJoy29(f): 10:15pm On Jun 11, 2019
lefulefu:
see the truth is dat most guys who prefer going for women who truely love them do dat wen they are not so dat rich and then build their relationship wirh such ladies.if i can remember i was reading of one tennis star who just got married to his girlfriend who he has been with for 15 yrs oo.i think its rapheal nada or so.dat means its been long he 's been with dat lady probably wen they were in high school and he wasnt dat rich then. even beckham wen he married his wife he was just an upstart in his footballing career.(1)these are men who preferred marrying the ladies of their humble beginings and they will respect such ladies.(2)those ones wey don hammer money full ground yakata and dem come make up their mind dat dis is d right time to get a woman dont really care if d woman love dem or not.they just want a slayqueen to use to decorate their sitting room and if d slayqueen fuk up she go pack her load go her papa house.na so e jus be.(3)one mistake some of we naija guys make though its dat d lady dat was wit us durin our humble beginins we go dump her as soon as money don enter hand then we go start to dey shop for instagram slayqueen as our new wife.(4)oyibo man no go quick do like dat.which governor i hear wey im win im election then as soon as im win im celebrate am by marrying another new wife.
You are so right on all the points listed.

On number 3 especially, when you guys make money & start lamenting about the quality of ladies that come to you all, I laugh! A lot of guys forsake the ones that were with them when they have nothing. Even if they don't leave outrightly,they start misbehaving. At least it has happened me not once.

On number 2, that's one of the reasons why marriages are crumbling today. Everything is being abused and misused. No more morals.

There are definitely good ladies and guys out there but a lot still prefer to chase shadows and while they are at it, they still complain.

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Romance / Re: Lady Breaks Down In Tears In Surulere Over Inability To Find A Husband (Pics) by MissJoy29(f): 10:06pm On Jun 11, 2019
Ranchhoddas:
Ideally yes grin grin

But the dynamics of today's relationships skew it in favour of one group. You know the group.
Yes I do.

But that doesn't make it right.
Romance / Re: Lady Breaks Down In Tears In Surulere Over Inability To Find A Husband (Pics) by MissJoy29(f): 10:05pm On Jun 11, 2019
Ranchhoddas:
This is gold. If this is your worldview then why are we arguing
We aren't arguing sir. Thank God you agree we aren't.

And, that is my world view.
Romance / Re: Lady Breaks Down In Tears In Surulere Over Inability To Find A Husband (Pics) by MissJoy29(f): 3:36pm On Jun 11, 2019
Ryan03:
na them. They have nothing to contribute to a mans life but they want you to work you ass off to finance their luxirious lifestyle. If you take note, these ones are also lazy in performing house chores, they are lazy in everything
Pathetic ain't it?

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Romance / Re: Lady Breaks Down In Tears In Surulere Over Inability To Find A Husband (Pics) by MissJoy29(f): 3:34pm On Jun 11, 2019
TheKingIsHere:

The bitches
Dogs? You want to make all that money just to get dogs?
Romance / Re: Lady Breaks Down In Tears In Surulere Over Inability To Find A Husband (Pics) by MissJoy29(f): 3:33pm On Jun 11, 2019
lefulefu:
hm na wah for wire road grin
I'm telling you!
Romance / Re: Lady Breaks Down In Tears In Surulere Over Inability To Find A Husband (Pics) by MissJoy29(f): 3:32pm On Jun 11, 2019
lefulefu:
Tony Montana says cheesy
Lol....but what kinda women? That's the million dollar question
Romance / Re: Lady Breaks Down In Tears In Surulere Over Inability To Find A Husband (Pics) by MissJoy29(f): 9:26am On Jun 11, 2019
TheKingIsHere:

Nope. Getting the money big time is man's greatest challenge
After the money comes, what next?
Romance / Re: Lady Breaks Down In Tears In Surulere Over Inability To Find A Husband (Pics) by MissJoy29(f): 9:19am On Jun 11, 2019
generationz:

So finding a good wife isn't a mans biggest challenge?
Allow them live in denial. That's their speciality

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Romance / Re: Lady Breaks Down In Tears In Surulere Over Inability To Find A Husband (Pics) by MissJoy29(f): 9:04am On Jun 11, 2019
Ranchhoddas:
Funmisticqueen

MissJoy29

Who is the prize grin grin grin grin
Prize ko! Prizeless ni!!

My husband will be a prize to me...

& guess what?


































































































I WILL ALSO BE A PRIZE TO HIM!!!!!!!!!
Romance / Re: Lady Breaks Down In Tears In Surulere Over Inability To Find A Husband (Pics) by MissJoy29(f): 9:01am On Jun 11, 2019
AntiBrutus:


Continue deceiving yourselves.

Reverse psychology to keep making women think they are the ones who want marriage more. Women keep falling for it and behaving like this lady.

Wed the day he wishes? To who?
The one he wishes or just any available one?

Tell this trash to ladies without responsible welldoing young men in her circle.
Don't mind them. They know the truth but just choose to project something else entirely to feed their ego & make themselves feel good!

I know a lot of guys who are ready to settle down but haven't seen the one they want yet. You really need to see how worried they are. Here, our NL warriors hide behind their keyboards causing gullible women to be depressed by impressing on them how scarce men are & how their time is running out. But these friends of mine are facing reality not VIRTUALITY! Their time is also running out!! They very well know that the key word in the choice of a partner (any partner) is GODLY. There are ladies and there are wives...same for men and husbands.
Even these ones here talking about being the prize might also be finding it difficult to get a wife. Of course why won't they when every Nigerian girl is a hoe, loves money & is a leech. One arrogant friend then was boasting how he could get someone to marry in a day if he wants. He was on my case and still boasting up & down. But even with all the money he has (and he has a lot!) he still isn't married yet.

No one is more important than the other in this marital journey biko. Our alphamales should be aware that the God-designed differences between male and female are to be seen as COMPLEMENTARY not competitive.

CC: essenceplus & Ranchhoddas

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Romance / Re: Lady Breaks Down In Tears In Surulere Over Inability To Find A Husband (Pics) by MissJoy29(f): 8:33am On Jun 11, 2019
anochuko01:
ma'am i spoke with one today, he said her hubby must stay in abuja or island. She was damn serious. I almost chocked on my noodles.
Lol...I have an old friend who says her hubby must have a big backyard where she will be having barbecues with her friends regularly. I was amazed when I found out she wasn't joking. What a priority!

This is someone that specialises in begging & scheming out money from guys and ladies alike but you will never see her 1 naira. Lol

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Family / Re: I Feel Like I Will Be Single Forever. by MissJoy29(f): 10:46pm On Jun 09, 2019
Ranchhoddas:
MissJoy29
See what I told you. grin grin grin
Gist me.
Romance / Re: It Is Difficult For Me To Get A Wife, Advice Please. by MissJoy29(f): 6:15pm On Jun 09, 2019
Ranchhoddas:
Ego is part of it. Doesn't make the assertion false.
Ego SHOULDN'T be a part of it & assertion IS false.
Romance / Re: It Is Difficult For Me To Get A Wife, Advice Please. by MissJoy29(f): 6:08pm On Jun 09, 2019
Ranchhoddas:
Well it's true. Women marry up. There are few men at the top. A high-value man is a prize. Women are a dime a dozen. tongue
Indeed....EGO!
Romance / Re: It Is Difficult For Me To Get A Wife, Advice Please. by MissJoy29(f): 6:05pm On Jun 09, 2019
essenceplus:


Baby
Sweetheart
Romance / Re: It Is Difficult For Me To Get A Wife, Advice Please. by MissJoy29(f): 5:46pm On Jun 09, 2019
essenceplus:


Yes I am.the only trouble maker you know. Its all good I'm just here for fun anyways. How r u?
Same here o.
I'm good & you?
Romance / Re: It Is Difficult For Me To Get A Wife, Advice Please. by MissJoy29(f): 5:08pm On Jun 09, 2019
essenceplus:

Now you're speaking like the Joy I know .. Well said you're right. God EPP this generation where divorce tends more than marriages and people are quick to walk away before they sit to resolve differences
Hmmmm....Joy you know? Which one?
Wait o....are you?

God will help us o.
Even the ones that haven't been
hurt misbehave.

In all, I, by God's Grace, devised a means to shield my heart from unnecessary hurt. Before it gets to that, I don japa!
Romance / Re: 10 Characteristics That Make You Attractive To A Woman- You Need Just One by MissJoy29(f): 4:55pm On Jun 09, 2019
ibkayee:

Or controlling sha
God Bless you! I was looking for the appropriate word & that was it. CONTROLLING!

Oh a lot of them are damn controlling! You have no idea...lol
Romance / Re: It Is Difficult For Me To Get A Wife, Advice Please. by MissJoy29(f): 4:52pm On Jun 09, 2019
Ranchhoddas:
Oh really.
Why did you not tell the person I quoted this. My comment was a response to someone no?
I wanted to but yours was more direct.
Romance / Re: It Is Difficult For Me To Get A Wife, Advice Please. by MissJoy29(f): 4:22pm On Jun 09, 2019
essenceplus:



Babe tongue Just take me as you see me abeg. Na as una take do us na him d mata cum be like that. No more emotional investment o. We go use their oil grease our own engine



Na so....


It's a vicious cycle and will continue to be until we all decide to not to hurt the next person because we ourselves have been hurt once, twice or dozen times (like me).
Romance / Re: 10 Characteristics That Make You Attractive To A Woman- You Need Just One by MissJoy29(f): 4:19pm On Jun 09, 2019
donziggyman:
sure check my signature
Checked

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Romance / Re: It Is Difficult For Me To Get A Wife, Advice Please. by MissJoy29(f): 4:06pm On Jun 09, 2019
essenceplus:
To keep/win a woman,she must be mentally fvcked wink

Don't speak to her logic. Invest in drawing out her own emotions and use her own emotions as the feul to keep the relationships going, while you almost keep yours, or as a matter of fact, do not invest yours at all.

Planet3xi



Cc

Ubunja Martinez39
So this is another strategy you guys use now? You don't invest emotions anymore? How then do you enjoy relationship?


Ah! No weapon!!!!!
Romance / Re: It Is Difficult For Me To Get A Wife, Advice Please. by MissJoy29(f): 4:00pm On Jun 09, 2019
Ranchhoddas:
Utter crap. The man is the prize. It is women who are competing. Any woman that thinks otherwise is delusional.
Prize ko!
Nobody is MORE important in a marital relationship.


The two parties in marriage are both prizes to each other. So let your ego & "African-man" mentality not deceive you & tell you otherwise.
Romance / Re: 10 Characteristics That Make You Attractive To A Woman- You Need Just One by MissJoy29(f): 3:10pm On Jun 09, 2019
ibkayee:

Not even that, let me do research to understand what I’m feeling lol
Ok...lol.
Take your time.


I also fancy 8-12years gap for relationship but the person shouldn't be stubborn & highly unreasonable. Traits most older people have in abundance.

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Romance / Re: 10 Characteristics That Make You Attractive To A Woman- You Need Just One by MissJoy29(f): 2:33pm On Jun 09, 2019
donziggyman:
ph
Ok....we neighbours.
Romance / Re: 10 Characteristics That Make You Attractive To A Woman- You Need Just One by MissJoy29(f): 2:28pm On Jun 09, 2019
ibkayee:

Hmmmm, not necessarily. They tend to have their sh*t together compared to their younger counterparts but some are still immature mentally. Lol can’t put my finger on it lol
Hmmmm...true.
Their pockets perhaps?
Romance / Re: 10 Characteristics That Make You Attractive To A Woman- You Need Just One by MissJoy29(f): 2:23pm On Jun 09, 2019
donziggyman:
really? Where's that ?
Abia.
Yours?

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