TV/Movies › Re: AMAA 2019: Complete List Of Winners by MissJoy29(f): 2:15pm On Oct 28, 2019 |
sholay2011: Yes. she tried. Toni Tones was better though. Exactly! She & Reminisce killed it more than the others(my opinion though). They were VERY skilled. |
Family › Re: Cheating Husband Chats With Wife On Her Fake Facebook Account by MissJoy29(f): 12:18pm On Oct 28, 2019 |
That's how an unfortunate one told me he hasn't had sex since he relocated from the west to the east 2 years ago. Only for me to find out the retard was married with 3 children and they all live together.
I have seen liars & promiscuous men but that Y demon's own topped the charts! |
Romance › Re: 7 Heartbreaking Lies Nigerian Men Give When You Catch Them Cheating by MissJoy29(f): 11:02pm On Oct 27, 2019 |
NiCurious: Look, avoiding cheating is not only about being honest with your partner(s), it's about being honest with yourselves--before anything happens. Before getting deep into a relationship. Before getting married. I think a lot of people never discuss how they will handle things as a couple, if one partner is attracted to someone else.
A lot of people take marriage vows without an understanding of their own nature, nor giving their natures due weight and consideration, and thus deal with the fallout later on. Marriage vows themselves seem not to account for human nature. And premarital counselling...how many couples have gone for this, and not just followed a script for marriage written by someone else...with the expectation that marriage will magically fulfill their needs--socially, sexually, emotionally, financially? How many people know their own needs deeply, never mind their partner's? How many people have made allowance for the changing needs of themselves and their spouse?
This is not to justify cheating. It's to point out that what makes cheating, cheating, is that one partner is going against their original agreement with the other partner, whatever that was. How many couples discuss what they will do, if one of them is attracted to another person? Absence of meaningful communication leads to lies, secrets, and distancing of the couple from each other. It manifests in BS such as the following:
1. S/he seduced me. Translation: I don't take responsibility for my actions. 2. S/he didn't mean anything to me. Translation: And you don't mean all that much to me, either. 3. It was the devil's handiwork. Translation: I don't take responsibility for my actions. 4. I didn't want to do it, but... Translation: I don't take responsibility for my actions. 5. It was never my intention to hurt you. Translation: I snuck around so you wouldn't find out. 6. It only happened once. Translation: Once is almost never, right? 7. You are the one I truly love. Translation: But we don't communicate, don't understand one another, and don't fully trust each other.
How many married people on this forum have the trust built within their marriage, to freely discuss their attraction to others, with their spouse? How many of you have an agreement with your spouse, on how you will handle such attractions? How many of you have a strong enough marriage that you would trust your spouse on a date with someone else, and not feel that your marriage was threatened? Nice! At your last paragraph, that's a recipe for disaster especially if the person doesn't value honest discussions/revelations. I once told a bf of my crush or admiration for a male colleague. Infact, i ended up regretting it |
Romance › Re: 7 Heartbreaking Lies Nigerian Men Give When You Catch Them Cheating by MissJoy29(f): 10:52pm On Oct 27, 2019 |
m140: Question Then no. At least not with my full senses |
Fashion › Re: 6 Common Fashion Faux Pas Women Make by MissJoy29(f): 9:06pm On Oct 26, 2019 |
Continuing...
*Shaving off eyebrows and then using coloured pencil to draw a straight line in place of them. I will never understand that.
*Using leggings as normal trouser without wearing a long top especially if you have a big butty. |
Romance › Re: 7 Heartbreaking Lies Nigerian Men Give When You Catch Them Cheating by MissJoy29(f): 8:40pm On Oct 26, 2019 |
m140: You never cheated Question or statement? |
Romance › Re: 7 Heartbreaking Lies Nigerian Men Give When You Catch Them Cheating by MissJoy29(f): 4:39pm On Oct 26, 2019 |
I have heard all except numbers 1 & 3.
They can lie for Africa! |
Education › Re: What Can One Do With A Sociology Degree? by MissJoy29(f): 7:27am On Oct 25, 2019 |
CC: cassyrooy |
Travel › Re: Kotoka Ranked Best Airport In West Africa by MissJoy29(f): 6:16am On Oct 22, 2019 |
4th in the world? Not possible!
But still, shame on this country |
Celebrities › Re: Sophia Momodu All Smiles In New Pictures After Davido Welcomed A Son by MissJoy29(f): 11:17pm On Oct 20, 2019 |
samorobo: 239 youth pack for down just to view this topic..
Lazy yoot I greet ooo  Aren't you even worse than lazy for noticing that? Amebo! |
Celebrities › Re: Jennifer Eliogu And Her 3 Sisters With Their Mother (Photo) by MissJoy29(f): 3:44pm On Oct 17, 2019 |
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Celebrities › Re: Fans Surprise Tacha With Gifts At Cool FM (Photos) by MissJoy29(f): 10:54pm On Oct 16, 2019 |
don4real18: Imagine seeing your wife or girlfriend amongst these set of people  As in eh! |
Health › Re: Photos Of The Child Attacked By Soldier’s Dog Recuperating by MissJoy29(f): 11:02am On Oct 16, 2019 |
1mrprolific7: O boy
The way Nigeria is now, if oyibo people bring ship to start shipping people to US for slave trade, people will be struggling to enter. Some go come with their own chain to avoid stories like chain have finish, stay back in Nigeria This is Buhari Season. Even masquerade dey play bet Naija Lol  |
Travel › Re: General USA Student Visa Enquiries-part 15 by MissJoy29(f): 10:41am On Oct 16, 2019 |
NerdyNedu: By personal, I meant the personal account of the sponsor.
I could remember that someone was denied here on this thread and the given reason was using the Company Account, still possible that was a one off reason.
I'm not an expert, I do not intend to mislead. Ok |
Travel › Re: General USA Student Visa Enquiries-part 15 by MissJoy29(f): 5:02am On Oct 15, 2019 |
NerdyNedu: From cases posted here, NO.
Only use personal SoA. I don't think so... since he's not sponsoring himself, what does he need his personal SoA for? |
Politics › Re: 70,000 Teachers Sat For Qualifying Exam Nationwide by MissJoy29(f): 9:37pm On Oct 13, 2019 |
olasaad: This is not for employment but a qualified or certified exams for teachers. It's another avenue of making money by the so called TRC. It cost 10k as you see am so Actually it's 12k |
Romance › Re: Girls That Easily Give Out Their Numbers Are Usually Hard To Get? by MissJoy29(f): 4:00pm On Oct 13, 2019 |
It's one thing to give out number, it's another thing to answer the person that calls...
na there the koko dey. |
Celebrities › Re: Lala Akidoju: Celebrating BBNaija Mike For Being Faithful To Wife Means This.... by MissJoy29(f): 8:18pm On Oct 09, 2019 |
Lamanii22: Lol... You watched it too? Yes o....I liked Lala the most. |
Celebrities › Re: Lala Akidoju: Celebrating BBNaija Mike For Being Faithful To Wife Means This.... by MissJoy29(f): 6:14pm On Oct 09, 2019 |
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Education › Re: Photographer Calls Out Lecturer That Took 200K To Give Him Fake Admission In OAU by MissJoy29(f): 3:18pm On Oct 09, 2019 |
ransome001: You spent just 7 months.... I wasted 4 years in ABSU.... A man gave me fake mat number.... Discovered when I was doing my clearance for nysc... Had to start over again... Spent another extra 4 year... Graduated last year... Currently serving in Lagos state.... The man collected over 200k and still didn't deliver You are kidding, right? What's the name of the lecturer? I might know him... |
Romance › Re: No Topic! by MissJoy29(f): 10:53am On Oct 09, 2019 |
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Health › Re: I Have This Skin Problem And I Am About To Get Married (Graphic Photo) by MissJoy29(f): 4:23pm On Oct 08, 2019 |
Lekan1o1: Lol it still doesn't matter, if I wana marry u. Or does it?  No it doesn't. |
Celebrities › Re: Regina Daniels And Husband, Ned Nwoko Pose On An Airplane by MissJoy29(f): 12:58pm On Oct 08, 2019 |
Techsunny: Emirate airline That's not Emirates uniform. |
Health › Re: I Have This Skin Problem And I Am About To Get Married (Graphic Photo) by MissJoy29(f): 12:49pm On Oct 08, 2019 |
Lekan1o1: Lol, Oya send ur address  Don't mind me. I thought it was your moniker I did the translation for. That's why u modified my statement but you quoted too fast. |
Health › Re: I Have This Skin Problem And I Am About To Get Married (Graphic Photo) by MissJoy29(f): 12:06pm On Oct 08, 2019 |
Lekan1o1: Hmm I will marry you, so you can teach me ibo  No problem sir... |
Health › Re: I Have This Skin Problem And I Am About To Get Married (Graphic Photo) by MissJoy29(f): 11:11am On Oct 08, 2019 |
PrinceGallant: Really, the man made sense with his comment, and I know you are commending him fot making beautiful comment. But can you say it in English? Let me help with the translation though you will pay me. Here goes: Bad mouth! Igbo people said, "if a man finishes fighting, a woman has the story to tell." But your own is, both the fight & the story, na you get am. You grab? |
Business › Re: Dangote Chimamanda Adichie, Davido, Adeboye Most Influential Africans In World by MissJoy29(f): 7:32am On Oct 08, 2019 |
Mykelhendriz: Know know, I too know, Nebuchadnezzar, Noah, I know my job...
We know the founder.. But in as much as he is there and regarded as the G.O.. He is the founder!!! You have just spoken like a child. He's not the founder, simple! Just accept the polite correction that you were given & take your insult-ridden reply & bounce. That he's the G.O doesn't AUTOMATICALLY translate to being the founder. |
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Crime › Re: Pastor Threatens Lady Who Caught Him Masturbating With Curses by MissJoy29(f): 8:01am On Sep 28, 2019 |
anonymuz: why u go report the your so called pastor  Report, you say? Report who? |
Romance › Re: 'Women Become Prostitutes Because Men Are Demanding For It'- Lady Says by MissJoy29(f): 10:47pm On Sep 27, 2019 |
cocobutterman: VIJUMILK is very good. I also like all their product. especially their apple juice milk. they always have plenty vitamins and juice inside. they never selling themselves by spreading rumours agsinst other brands. they deserve trust. Hmmmmm.... |