Crime › Re: Pastor Threatens Lady Who Caught Him Masturbating With Curses by MissJoy29(f): 8:01am On Sep 28, 2019 |
anonymuz: why u go report the your so called pastor  Report, you say? Report who? |
Romance › Re: 'Women Become Prostitutes Because Men Are Demanding For It'- Lady Says by MissJoy29(f): 10:47pm On Sep 27, 2019 |
cocobutterman: VIJUMILK is very good. I also like all their product. especially their apple juice milk. they always have plenty vitamins and juice inside. they never selling themselves by spreading rumours agsinst other brands. they deserve trust. Hmmmmm.... |
Family › Re: He insulted me by MissJoy29(f): 10:44pm On Sep 27, 2019 |
I don't think I can ever be careless and "comfortable" enough to want to argue/quarrel loudly with my man in front of his parents or even mine. It doesn't speak well of us. Whatever it is, we should control ourselves till we leave there.
That being said, I think you also have to apologise to your guy. ..1)for prolly belittling him in front of family by the way you were prolly talking to him considering the fact that he's a man...2)for disregarding his mother's call to end the bickering. Then later, you can revisit the issue of him using your family info against you & have him apologise to you also. |
Crime › Re: Pastor Threatens Lady Who Caught Him Masturbating With Curses by MissJoy29(f): 7:48pm On Sep 27, 2019 |
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Romance › Re: What Is The Most Painful Word Someone Ever Told You? by MissJoy29(f): 7:39pm On Sep 27, 2019 |
cassyrooy: I have lots of hurtful things said to me (and people close to me)
In 2012, my cousin was relaxing my hair, just playing around with her because I'm just getting to know her, my uncle who was apparently not happy with my relationship with her, called me ‘carefree’. I'm as organized as possible, like military style strict. But I still felt hurt then.
My elder brother too, he's been reiterating ‘we'll be going the way of our father's family’. This was last year April, 2½years after our mom's death.
He told our elder sister (last year Sept. precisely) that, ‘you and your husband should not dump your family problems on me o’. This was coming off the back of a request to borrow 300k to do business that my sister made to him, she's not been engaging in anything since she first delivered her first child in 2011, she saw the loan as an avenue to get back on track.
Prior to him hitting high, he was heavily dependent on my sister's house for financial inputs in his school, rents, even transportation whenever he lost his job and needed the tfare to start another one.
Long story short, my sister was deeply depressed for almost a year as the shock was unanticipated. Their relationship is so strained right now because of his back breaking words. Hurtful! Sorry dear |
Crime › Re: Driver Masterminds Boss’ Kidnap Over Failure To Get Loan by MissJoy29(f): 7:29pm On Sep 27, 2019 |
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Business › Re: Woman Arranges Her Eggs In Style (Photo) by MissJoy29(f): 6:39am On Sep 26, 2019 |
malcomxjr: That picture is from Ghana... The white powder is use to protect the egg from the sun I thought the "white things" is salt. |
Business › Re: Woman Arranges Her Eggs In Style (Photo) by MissJoy29(f): 6:36am On Sep 26, 2019 |
I think this is Ghana and not Nigeria. The plate in the tray which they usually put the pepper for the eggs points to it.
That's if those things are eggs and not ogi or soap like some people said. |
Crime › Re: Man Kills His Only Brother Over N100,000 Debt by MissJoy29(f): 9:07pm On Sep 25, 2019 |
donstan18: Lol. Ada bekee 
Drop me your mail address to enable me reach you. Yes nwoke oma You know where to find my mail address |
Family › Re: My Wife Is Using Excuses To Abandon Me by MissJoy29(f): 8:07pm On Sep 25, 2019 |
PrimadonnaO: How can you say it's not a bad idea that he wants to take a child from its mother...and not to raise this child himself, but a granny?  The child ALSO has a father. But then, that's why I asked for the little girl's age. And I said "not a bad idea" because granny is still family not necessarily because he's taking her from the mother. Maybe he will be too busy to raise the girl himself especially if she's still very young. Again, I have seen young girls who give birth out of wedlock & leave the baby for their mother (the baby's GRANNY). It's common. |
Crime › Re: Man Kills His Only Brother Over N100,000 Debt by MissJoy29(f): 8:03pm On Sep 25, 2019 |
donstan18: My runaway girlfriend  My MIA boyfriend...  |
Crime › Re: Driver Masterminds Boss’ Kidnap Over Failure To Get Loan by MissJoy29(f): 8:00pm On Sep 25, 2019 |
mediclife1987: Are you sure about this? Almost everywhere you park gonna get you a parking fee, and illegal parking gets you a ticket.
You could say some places in Yankee necessitate the use of a car, due to absence of public transportations & metros; I think places like Texas fit this description, but my Aunt in Chicago rarely uses her ride except on important occasions.
The liability on it is damn crazy. Na Naija we dey even enjoy car as a necessity due to our cheap PMS and forgiving attitude.
Nothing like abegabeg for Yankee oh, you must pay everything! I like the first sentence of your second paragraph. That's why I said it's a necessity. The stress of getting to a bus station, waiting & all. It's not like you can just come out and hop in a bus/keke/bike or something that easily. The alternative is taxi & that's expensive to use all the time. But you are right also in your other point. A place like New York, I guess it's better to use public transport than owning a car mostly cos of parking nightmare. There was a joke about a guy who went to a bank to get a loan. He wanted like say $500 or so. He was asked for a collateral and he gave his car: a limousine & it was parked in the bank's premises. He went away for like a week or so & by the time he came back, the bank had researched about him 'cause they were wondering you would drop a limo for just $500. They found out he was worth millions of dollars. When asked why ge did that, he said, "where else can I park a limo in New York for a week for just $500? In other words, he didn't need the loan, just a place to park the car. You can imagine! Although I don't think this is possible 'cause if you can afford a limo, you should be able to afford a big house with lots of parking space. |
Family › Re: My Wife Is Using Excuses To Abandon Me by MissJoy29(f): 8:52am On Sep 24, 2019 |
MYDEBBY: I planned taking my little girl of 4yrs to her grandmother to look after her.if I live her with that evil woman,she may influence her negatively and use her to siphon money from me. Not a bad idea although the "evil woman" part got to me. But you didn't answer two of my questions: 1) Will your fiancee let go of your daughter without a fight? 2) How old is the little girl? |
Crime › Re: Man Kills His Only Brother Over N100,000 Debt by MissJoy29(f): 8:50am On Sep 24, 2019 |
donstan18: Very well dear , felt the need to say hello to you.  |
Crime › Re: Man Kills His Only Brother Over N100,000 Debt by MissJoy29(f): 8:49am On Sep 24, 2019 |
donstan18: Very well dear , felt the need to say hello to you.  Hello  |
Family › Re: My Wife Is Using Excuses To Abandon Me by MissJoy29(f): 7:30pm On Sep 23, 2019 |
MYDEBBY: Thanks you said it all,but my little girl cant be allowed to stay under her present situation. Do you plan to take her? Will she let go without a fight? Btw, how old is your little girl? |
Family › Re: My Wife Is Using Excuses To Abandon Me by MissJoy29(f): 7:26pm On Sep 23, 2019 |
healthserve: Hahaha. There's something called loyalty. Something ladies these days lack. You'll see them married yet flirty, you'll see them with a guy, yet imagining being with another at the same time. You no how many side affairs this year alone I don turn down? Don't let me blow ladies open o
If you knew the crisis the family of your so-called enjoyed woman's marriage faced, you self go run. Its stability in spite of external crisis. Pure loyalty. We still saying the same thing honey. It goes both ways...ladies and guys now misbehave tok much....period! |
Family › Re: My Wife Is Using Excuses To Abandon Me by MissJoy29(f): 9:51am On Sep 23, 2019 |
healthserve: We know. Check the complains of relationships and start counting the culprit/party at fualt from today. You the defender of all women If it isn't madness, should ship sail in a sealed relationship? We're asking you ladies of the present age.
I was with a friends mother Twp weeks back and was hosting with the old woman almost 70. The husband just died last year, but I saw the confidence in her husband still standing strong in her like he was present. That's loyalty. Its what folks are complaining about these days.
Make una dey follow una selves dey talk o. Even you Aweleawkaetiti You know eh, these complaints go both ways. Stop making it look like it's only ladies that misbehave these days. Las las, una go marry unaselves. I no follow. You know I'm different  That woman with her confidence ENJOYED her marriage. That's why she is proud & confident in him even in death. How many people enjoy their relationship/marriage nowadays? Everything is now fake, endures, forced & all for the gram. There's actually no need for comparison between our generation now (male & female alike) & our mothers/fathers. |
Family › Re: My Wife Is Using Excuses To Abandon Me by MissJoy29(f): 9:05am On Sep 23, 2019 |
healthserve: Another ladies palaver. After you ladies will start saying guys pointing out kadies wrongs are faukt finding, Aweleawkaetiti MissJoy29. Cone and keeo defending your sisters needlessly
Go and give thanksgiving and end it Op. She doesn't love you and hasnt grown up. Is easily influenced by outside sources, hence may not be loyal for the long term and can be easily swayed. That's assuming all you said is true and she is guilty of all you wrote. Cause it takes two to tango
Thank God its early. Her ship has sailed... |
Family › Re: My Wife Is Using Excuses To Abandon Me by MissJoy29(f): 9:01am On Sep 23, 2019 |
No need stressing yourself sir. She's no longer into you. |
Politics › Re: Aba; The Sleeping Giant by MissJoy29(f): 8:40am On Sep 23, 2019 |
DozieInc: Give Aba roads, power supply, properly waste mgt system then watch her blossom Exactly! |
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Health › Re: 5 Ways To Get Rid Of Cockroaches At Home by MissJoy29(f): 9:11pm On Sep 21, 2019 |
akanniade10: I have been to 2 local shops in my area now, I can’t find sniper. It's been banned from counters. Most shops no longer sell it except those that are stubborn or those that have old stock. 2 weeks ago or so, after going to about 10 shops & didn't find it, the one that looked like they have were scared to sell because they thought we were from a task force or so sent to spy on them. |
Crime › Re: Driver Masterminds Boss’ Kidnap Over Failure To Get Loan by MissJoy29(f): 8:23pm On Sep 21, 2019 |
mediclife1987: The crase to buy a ride in Nigeria is just strong. Thank God my late dad sold cars when he was alive, cars have never freaked me one bit.
If you like say I no fit afford am, na your wahala be that.
I watch foreign movies primarily and my mentality has been shaped by their way of life. Car na liability for Yankee, not an asset at all. Please, car is not a liability in yankee. It's not even really a luxury. Rather, it's a NECESSITY. |
Phones › Re: Weirdest Thing You Have Caught Your Friend Doing With Your Phone? by MissJoy29(f): 4:45pm On Sep 21, 2019 |
cassyrooy: I just have this confession, in 2009 when Nokia C3 was reigning, I used my sister's own to browse and download nonsense then and delete everything (leaving no trace) without her noticing.
Battery will be drained, and data and airtime spent. And she innocently go to work without getting to check.
If she knew then, my naive mind never stopped that act.
God help me.  |
Romance › Re: "Men Are Gold Diggers Too" Woman Shares Her Experience by MissJoy29(f): 1:32pm On Sep 21, 2019 |
cassyrooy: MissJoy29 please come o.
At the topic, see, it really disgust me too. I have lived in Abuja since I was born and I really hate the way people package their being broke and leech and live lives of indebtedness. There are well to do people who live within their means and don't golddig. But the numbers are really scaling up, see those boys with tattoos, some of them belong there.
You're adjudged the broke one if you don't play along, they knock at your door very early/late in the night to beg their guys for monies. They run generators on fuels bought from borrowed monies and all.
She's right, ladies in Abuja are really trying to have a stable lifestyle but gigolos will trace her and destroy her.
Abuja has one of the most pathetic, yet unrepenting people in Nigeria. I'm leaving that City for good.
You don't fix your financial issues by cutting or drawing up alternative solutions but through transfer of debt Wow. Is it that bad? A very close family friend fell victim to their deceit. She lost ALMOST all. |
Romance › Re: Painful Sex Or She Doesn't Love Me? by MissJoy29(f): 11:24am On Sep 21, 2019 |
cassyrooy: Yeah, like we were discussing here, same was happening right to me on the other side.
Na God go help we guys. Exactly! That's why I feel bad about it. Hang in there dearie. |