₦airaland Forum

adekhingz:
It doesn't matter na. After all, reporting the matter here makes no right of the error committed. But calling the teacher's attention may save him/her from committing same error in future. Or what do you think

boyjo:
I know dear.
Which goes to prove that teenagers are the culprits of the silly comments.

adekhingz:


So as a government owned person, you decided to report it online You can't correct the English teacher in private bah? Later una go deh shout one stewpeed "Solidarity for ever"

boyjo:
@bolded, do they?
Is it not 50-50 we have in terms of providing in the home between men and their wives these days?

HaneefahRN:
It's not easy being a woman, even if the man has no job and the woman is the sole provider in the house, she is still expected to take up all the home tending roles and chores and the husband and children grooming just so she won't be seen as proud or making the husband a 'slave' just cos he doesn't earn.

How many men are sole financial providers in the home? How many are even responsible enough to provide the needs of the wife and Children. And with this Economy it just isn't easy so one way or the other the woman contributes to helping the man with 'his' responsibility. But a different tune comes up if the man helps the wife with 'her' responsibility just to make life easier for her and the family as a whole.
Then we wonder why women age so fast.

TheMenCode:
Yet you're reading an essay written by a man. Just can't handle the truth?

Men should understand women not so to hate/bash them but to love them for whom they truly are. Understanding her superficial contradiction, sexual dynamics etc.

This is the core of my blog www.themencode.com.ng (Only for women who can handle the truth though) it's for men regaining their masculinity, unplugging from preconditioned sexual beliefs and become red pilled and game aware.

Thoniameek:
Since all my stay on Nairaland men have always had one advice or the other for women

From our Vaginas up to our hair extensions, there’s something either Toks2008 or/and Tosyne2much X33LM and Unbunja have to say...

Here I’ve been made to feel I’m worth nothing more than my Vagina and how tight it is...

Here I’ve also been made to understand that a man can blind his eyes to every of my flaws if I was educated and had money...

Here I’ve been made to feel I don’t need too much education - just proper training on how to be a full time housewife (wife material as they like to call it), it’s my only guarantee of having a man want to marry me...

Here on Nairaland I’ve been confused - I joined as a teenager, a critical age. I hated being a woman at some point in my life. Because everyone had something to say about my life and want they wanted except me!

I’ve risen from self pity anyways...

Now, I wonder who Nairaland men celebrate when they celebrate Mother’s Day or international women’s day... News flash, your mothers were once young girls like us and we are our mothers daughters

We should create threads to uplift our women, threads with gentle rebukes done out of love and maybe no feminist would exist again

olasaad:
Lol....you like better thing

olasaad:
Kerry are you sure you are not controlling this man the way you control Fitz Grant see the guy too looking like Jake Ballard

chocberry:
vice meaning channels

chocberry:
Lol @ always have time. What if i say i'm really really busy at the moment nko?

I replied him say twice, seeing his mind, i eloped

chocberry:
Society to me guides individuals even adults more than another vice.

Parents

Religious Institutions

School

Clique.

Originalsly:
Hmmm..... many have parents but are the parents parental figures? And yes...there are those without parents/guardians ... e.g parents died in accident.... then it is for the society to raise the child and in such cases it is for the orphanages etc to guide the child. And yes...regardless... some will always be bad.

chocberry:
Lol @ Like me.

Na wetin be my offense here o?

BlackAfrican:
You think what she did is trivial? To me it's not, especially as there's no way to contact her again. If you call a senior bachelor young no problem.

millomaniac:
You people should keep quiet and stop pretending to be psychological scholars. Because you can speak english does not make you better than everyone else. Every human being on earth raised in a society has a sense of right and wrong. Yes Some people have criminality in their DNA they cant help it but they still know right from wrong and they would never hurt their loved ones. Yes once in a while there are cases of brain malfunction which when proven too can be an exception. But mr chocberry here is saying that lifes hardship should be an exception too which only points that he has a tendency to commit crime. As long as it is proven they commited the crime, there is no justification for it. People that try to defend these criminals(with the exception of lawyers of course) often have a tendency to be like them.

chocberry:
Deep @ Time & experience has taught me that judging when the full story or reason behind the action is known is bad & not right.

In wrongs, there's right. In right, there's wrong
Not quick to appoint blame, but in every issue, there are faults both parties are guilty of, both the seemingly guilty, and the seemingly innocent.


Seeking right or wrongs is the spirit of judgement. Rather, evaluation and commenting on issues is much better cause it extracts judgement on individuals involved, and it's more about talking about the experience and not condemning a party we see/feel is guilty.


In the end, do we really know the innocent and the guilty if motives and intents are hidden? What appears to be wrong is a turning point, when dug deeper and the intent of the seemingly innocent is seen and known, it incites another perspective shift. If you don't know the motive behind actions, you can never know who the real innocent or guilty party is in any event, Never !

BlackAfrican:
I met one cute girl, chatted and asked for her number. She gave me one aboki number. What a heartless person.

May something like this befall her sha

chocberry:
I searched for just one person to understand what i was saying all along. Joy, what's wrong with this generation? Why don't people understand these things?

Originalsly:
If someone must take the blame.... it has to be the parents.Bend the tree when it is young. How many people have gone thru dire poverty, homelessness.... are presently going thru the same but have never ever consider attacking or killing others? Get rich quick or die trying is the motto of most of these bums.

chocberry:
Thus they got kicked,not in accordance with the law

Is man made for the law or the law made for man?

For the law was meant to produce righteousness where it seemed lacking, to provide light in darkness, not to destroy even the wicked. The law is a tutor to teach righteousness and " impute " them in the ones that lack it. Thus, if the law is to produce righeteousness, this goes without saying that the law is for evil men not for good men who have no need for the law, whose acts have become lawful in itself. Thus. the law is meant to rekindle dead flames, or impute a flame and then trim it to become a wild fire. Thus, if there's the possibility of correction, then this is the function of the law. Thus mankind was also not destroyed after the fall for the same reason, the possbility of a change. Should ny man be denied this even a killer?


Should a candle be lit during the day? Or isn't light meant to illuminate? Thus before light, darkness takes eminence, and thus, people get enlightened only cause they have been lit...but what about before then? Thus is the story of anyone that perishes in evil. But though, it's not the will of the Almighty that even the wicked should perish, but be converted to righteousness. As He said, a bruised reed He wouldn't destroy but rekindle its flame and cause it to glow better



So every good man is capable of evil before he got enlightened, the same way every evil man is open for improvement if he encountered light


bottomline no one is entirely evil, but evil is a phase, and people remain in their conditions until awareness comes and then repentance, correction and then imporvement

So why kill a man when he could have been setenced to a correctional facility and then re-introduced to become a better person to a society? Does God authorize killing as recompense for any evil act beside murder?

donnaD, you dey read?

MissJoy29

chocberry:
It's not just choice. People act the way their exposure opens them to. I.e you are how you are cause education opened you up to better and purposeful living. When the brain matter isn't developed people become less than they can be, and it results into these kind of vices.


Thank God for your life, as a lawyer, a had working husband, but don't judge people by your own standards. It's so wrong


What do you think NaijaMutant RadicallyBlunt donnaD MissJoy29?

Badboiz:
You are not Dee one’s fans, what about being his radiators?..

Lionessza:
Perhaps people tend to marry people they don't fully trust , I seriously don't get it.

I believe transparency in finances reduces a lot of problems, including cheating. Remember , the single people who date married people often do it for the money not love or attraction. I'm not saying it will totally stop people from cheating but there's less chances of it happening if he doesn't have accounts that you can't monitor or access. When one makes a significant withdrawal or purchase , then he /she must explain what it was for and proof must be provided lol.

Fitbillionairep:
In my case, I paid her to stop working. I don't like my lady doing all that job shit man

ElPhoche:
Of course, that's their modus operandi- get few correct fact, add their own 'maggi and pepper', and you have the teeming gullible masses falling over. That's how all those 'goko cleansing' crew operate, giving the j fortunate ones kidney issues.
During my house job, we had two popular herbal practicioners in the East in our facility. One came with a diabetic foot ulcer (which he claims to treat to people), and asked to be admitted in a private word, because he didn't want people to know he had DFU

chocberry:
Anything God, Science, Medicine, Politics, Business I'm cool

ElPhoche:
You are wowing to a post that simply mixed half-information with some mumbo jumbo about what he doesn't know about. Beware. That is how they go around deceiving you people with big grammer

AntiNormal:
Trust me... It's one for the ages...
Who doesn't?

I've sent you an email...

AntiNormal:
It's a long, slightly confusing, inappropriately hilarious, and overall sad story...

You are?
God... I'm off my game...
True that...

I'm not a fan either... Just thought you'd know the song...
Oh well...


How 'bout this?
I'll email you, and then if you reply, I'll give you my number so you can hear the full gist?

AntiNormal:
I would, but I've had a really bad day and I don't think my head is in the right place... I literally had to run for my life at one point...
So, please just tell me...
What do you mean?

P.s.
You can read the last line in Justin Bieber's voice if it'll help any...

Lionessza:
It may sound somehow to you , but I personally don't get why one shouldn't withdraw money from their spouse's account . You are married and your finances are separate ? Maybe you could help me there.