₦airaland Forum

Nauttyprof:
When you lose your culture and morals, you end up with words as yours.

She has said nothing wrong. We are gradually losing our culture to copy western practice whereas some of these westerners are gradually imbibing our culture. Respect and values are key.

Of what use is culture if it doesn't bring progress. We should have continued the killing of twins and child marriages since they were part of our culture.

State that it's a preference and be done with it but don't come and hide behind culture. Is culture divine, isn't it man-made?

I think too much respect (or reverence) for elders is why we are in such a mess in this country. You see old people misbehaving and you look the other way because they are old.

I don't think there's anything wrong with referring to a person by their name but if it's their preference that I don't, fine. It isn't a dearth of respect on my part.

Karlifate:
Shaffy Bello, a wonderful actress. I enjoy her movies.

The "age is just a number" crew will soon arrive in 3, 2, 1...


Anyways, since youngies make money at an early age these days, and the parents that are supposed to mentor them, look up to them for handouts, the resultant effect will be truancy.


Also, when a young girl start riding her father's age mates and/or her elder brother's age mates d!cks, they begin to feel fly.

If a gal is riding a 60 years old Senator like Yamaha power bike, she'll begin to see those at that age range as her mate and also equate herself to a Senator.

Do you know the meaning of the word "truant"?

soccerlite:
But they will be giving him some goodies

He gets brothers he can approach if he's short of cash

Who even knows if that's the deal



Abi na politicians you trust reach that level

Lp played a key role in tinubu being president

Short of cash? You must be joking.

Flood damaged cars

abbeymighty:
please how gan i test the actual watt of solar panel

The most reliable way to get an accurate reading is to measure the current with a multimeter and multiplying that by the measured voltage.
But make sure the multimeter you are using is rated for the short-circuit current on the solar panel and don't keep it connected for too long. You also have to select the appropriate range if you're not using an auto-ranging meter.

Using a charge controller (pwm or mppt) might not give you the actual power that your panel can output. There is also a dedicated tool for measuring this.

These guys are clueless.

The narrative is that people are hoarding forex and hoping that the Naira crashes.

How many Nigerians have savings of up to a million naira? How many can afford to speculate on the dollar?

After wonderful revenue figures you still need to issue a commercial paper to raise working capital? What am I missing?

Some journalist don't deserve to be journalists. How is what he said in anyway a defense?

MS247:
See cruise

Someone was caught performing rituals birthing with blood

You convict only the people that exposed him as whitsblower

And

Refuse to Jail the ritualist

The court is not Father Christmas, it will not grant you any relief not sought for.
If they feel he broke the law, they should take him to court. He took them to court because they broke the law. If they had just exposed the video, it would have been a different thing but this is blackmail and advance-fee fraud.

So before now, the country wasn't governed properly without a yacht, right? How can you guys be so insensitive? Looking at the current realities on ground, was the yacht needed knowing fully well that the country is broke?

Pierocash:
To me 16 yrs old girls are no longer kids.

I keep saying that the Senate should review age of consent downward from 18 to 16, because 16 yr olds of this days are full grown babes ,except we just want to continue deceving ourselves

A 16-year old is very much a child even though they look fully developed physically. Perverts will prefer to pick on this inexperienced and naive children instead of going after those within their age range.

folmus:
What happened now?

e dy owe

chimex38:
Osmosis is the movement (of solute) from lower concentration (of water) through a semi permeable membrane to areas of higher concentration (of water)
and vice-versa(if i may add ).

Fixed!!!
@ositadima1

It is the solvent that moves not the solute. It diffuses from an area of lower concentration solution (higher concentration of water) to an area of higher concentration solution(lower concentration of water) until both solutions are isotonic.

Higher concentration here means a higher solute concentration and lower concentration means inversely the same.

forgiveness:
$7.3 billion of subsidy would have benefited Nigeria more!? Of course, for the main time but for how long?

Borrowing money to pay subsidy?

I hope you saw the recent news about the supplementary budget that was sent to the Assembly for assent. I hope the funds will be gotten from IGR.
I still stand by my statement, the subsidy would have benefited Nigerians more than whatever sham policies or programs the FG plans to come up with.

forgiveness:
Make provision from which budget? Do you mean to borrow money?

Who removed subsidy from the budget?

It would have benefited Nigerians more than borrowing money to buy luxury SUVs for the lawmakers.

forgiveness:
If provision for subsidy was made to last until June and Tinubu was inaugurated as president on May 29th, how will Tinubu insert subsidy in the budget from June till December?

Use your brain.

The truth of the matter is that the plan was set in motion by Buhari but Tinubu made the decision.
If he had wanted to continue with the subsidy he could have. A supplementary budget could have been created, he had enough time. So, in essence, Tinubu stopped the petrol subsidy.

FreeStuffsNG:
I know she will be deliberately and inadvertently misunderstood, especially by the lazy youths and cyberbullies, for her sincerity that borders on her personal insecurities in romantic relationships with someone living on Lagos mainland and that this her personal opinion is not necessarily based on whether the man is rich but simply based on distance and her needs for easy access of support from her man.

Some other ladies may not mind. In this same Lagos, some people were born and raised in Ikoyi but , for love ,left the Island to marry and live on the mainland and in later years, God blessed them and are back living and raising their own children in Ikoyi. Some people living on the mainland are even far richer than some people living on the Island.

I am aware that some folks on the Island don't like coming to the mainland unless they're travelling out or using the international airport in Ikeja.

The day an international airport takes off on the Island, many of them may not even step foot on the mainland for decades! Check my signature for free stuffs!

The fact is her reason, though hers, is not reasonable. You should be ready to make sacrifices for love, that's the way it works.

kingi777:
No wonder he doesn't care about the plight of workers. For example, some staff of Dalhatu Specialist Hospital (DASH) who got promoted since 4 years now are yet to get any addition to their salary. I like governor Sule as a person considering his intelligence, polishness and interaction with the western world but it's like there's a force that make most of our leaders to underperform in governance.

That's asides the various allowances accrued to them that has been stifled.

Please do you have the 60Ah Bosch, what's the price?

Bullshit

Prettycute90:
Since we got married, everything about the upkeep, rents, bills, feeding, general upkeep. I mean everything is on me and he has refused to provide for us as he always claimed he doesn't have. I have always be an understanding person who believe, I should be doing while I can, pending when things gets better for him.
I never knew he was getting little little, but was gambling away with it.

We really do not date for a long time before we got married. Because I knew him back then in school from a far distance. And we liked each other but didn't date. So, meeting again after graduation and in a different environment, made me believe I already knew and the fact that we already liked each other.

He was struggling with a little job when we got married. My foresight then was to grow with him. I supported him in all ways. Infact, during our wedding, most support came from friends and relatives.
Because I'm not the type of a wife that pressurized, It took me a very long time to know the nature of habit he had that has kept him low even before I married him.

He is a chronic gambler.
No money stays with him. He wouldn't even care about himself so long as he can afford little money to gamble.
Now, I don't have a job and too much burden has crippled my business.

To be honest, I'm losing myself. Sometimes I feel I need a therapy myself.
My husband has refused to change or make effort to make this marriage work.
Before I had my second child, he was pretending as if he has changed. But immediately I took in, he continues this lifestyle. I almost died due to emotional breakdown and responsibilities shouldered by myself.

I have done everything, (both family members have adviced him severally, I have prayed, fasted, cried, shouted, talked with a calm voice, all my efforts. but non is working.


Presently, since two weeks ago now, I don't cook for him. I source for food for just myself and my children. We barely have decent conversation in this house. I can't even remember the last time we had intimacy.
I always avoid him, each time he tries to get close. Because of the situation of things in this house.
We had two children and I don't intend having any other.
The cost of taking care of myself and the children all by myself is emotional hurting me so much.
School has resume and I can't even afford all the expenses of taking my first son to start a new school and I know, he would watch our son stay back at home. He wouldn't care.

We're in the house, but he's only concern is how to get little money to gambles.

Are these not enough reasons to divorce him?
During one qurrel we had recently, I told him I want us to separate for now, so we can work on ourselves, and he said he will be with our children not me.
I see that as way to make my children suffers.

What can you advise please?

I just want peace of mind.

I don't want to waste my youthful life in a loveless marriage. Where myself and my husband can not support each other to grow in Love. Rather, stressing me.

Why don't you tell him all these. Try to make him understand what he's doing wrong from your own perspective. Give him a chance to see if he'll turn a new leaf instead of just cutting him off. Communication is an integral part of any relationship. You've been holding your hurt in, it has been eating you up and making you resent the person causing your pain. Just let him know that his actions are ruining your relationship.

Any addiction is difficult to overcome but you have to make a choice if you should bail or work it out with him.

lonelydora:
Na wa o

This should have been a police case na.

There's a big problem with Nigerian security personnel. Once they have gun, they think themselves as demigods.

Also, that Tavor series gun DSS (I also see some NAVY officer with it too) use should be handled carefully. It's not a gun to threaten someone with, because it discharges at the slightest trigger.

God will continue to punish Muhammadu Buhari wherever he is. He brought all these nonsense upon Nigeria

It is not even a police case. This is a civil case, the right thing to do is to go to court not to intimidate the tailor using security agents. We just don't know the right process in this country.

Zionmdde:
It's a lie
No evidence
Where exactly did it happen, of the complainant cannot produce the geographical coordinates where the incident took place, then the accusation has no merits.

Moreover borrowing from the wisdom of our amiable judges, since the university still allows him into the gates of the school, then he committed no crime

I'm guessing you missed the part where the report says he confessed to the crime. That is admissible evidence.

Dala has a stellar reputation and it has a lot of experienced professional. I would have been surprised to hear otherwise.

SmartPolician:
Why are cryptocurrency companies so vulnerable to cybercrimes despite all the cybersecurity measures developed for securing traders' and investors' funds? How can an online platform lose coins worth $2m and the world isn't shocked? That's a lot of money. These cybercriminals have to be stopped.

Any cloud and cybersecurity experts who can give crypto and blockchain companies unhackable techniques for protecting their trustless platforms will become an overnight million in USD. This is a clue for Nigerians who plan to study network security in postgraduate taught or research outside Nigeria.

There is no such thing as an un-hackable system, with sufficient incentive and resources any system anywhere in the world can be broken into. Iran's nuclear program was sabotaged by Stuxnet even though their systems weren't connected to the internet.

Think9ja:
Ashawo everywhere.


These bleeding creatures won't seize to amaze me with their love and display of immorality

cease not seize

Jewessgratitud3:
Now I know where the problem is coming from. Parents!!!!!... Allow us breath!!!!

You claim summer lessons are not important or beneficial now but tomorrow you'll go and start complaining to the schools that your wards are not doing well in their studies and threaten to withdraw them meanwhile you're here discouraging what will help the school to help your wards excel academically

If a child cannot read and understand basic English, how will he thrive in other extra curricular activities?
If he can't solve maths, how will he be able to do quick mental calculations during the so called activities? I don't get it!

Little wonder why we teach from morning till noon still nothing sticks and they can't retain much in their memory because all you parents do is let them play throughout after school and on weekends and they come the following day/week with empty brains. Please!!!


Your wards need this lessons so they don't become mentally lazy and forget the little they were able to gain before they vacated so all the money you spent the previous term doesn't go to waste. Now, you coming here to discourage this simply means you don't care about their academics which is the leverage and foundation any child needs to climb the ladder of success in a system that works.

I'm shocked to say the least. To think this is coming from 21century parents who know very well that the moral standards of the society has dropped so badly that children no longer have interest in going to school and all they want to do is play and do social media. Na wa o.

You can use weekends to send them for creative activities not this long summer Biko. Before one pikin go come dey tell me, Miss, I'm in number A.

Vacation is meant to be just that, a time for the students to rest. Parents can create study time for their children during the vacation but going to school from morning to evening during vacation is just pure torture. You're not helping them, rather you're just raising anti-social humans that will have no true life skills.

siofragspot:
Congratulations!

AVOID fvcking a female colleague unprofessionally, so you won't get sh!t rubbed all over your face someday at work place.

Do it professionally.

Elvis2kay:
All dollars account must be close. This is Nigeria and Naira is what we spend. No Naira account is allow in USA.

Your logic is very flawed. Can Naira be accepted for settlement of transactions internationally?

It this type of thinking that has gotten us to where we are. So if the government bans its citizens from holding foreign currency, what's next? Does that suddenly stop the country from hemorrhaging it's resources to wanton corruption? Or does that fix the fact that we have no other viable source of income asides oil?

And you can open foreign currency accounts in the US and other developed economies, so I fail to see your point.

Reeefe:
is the area waterlogged?

No, not particularly. There's just an open flowerbed round the building that I'm suspecting to be the culprit.

Please I'm looking for a solution to water ingress in the walls of this property. I don't know the right way of going about correcting this problem. The plaster and paint is flaking off, could this be as a result of low-quality mortar being used? There is also an open flower bed around the building.

IconicR:
I deal mainly on dried cat fishes and fresh ones for pepersoup. The locally bred ones is still safer because it won't have to undergo some kind of preservation processes which is dangerous to our health

Just so you know, some farmers use dead fish for smoked fish.