Blessedmercy8: Op, don't let anyone make you feel bad about your actions. Some times when human beings behave like animals, there's need to reset their brains back by giving them some form of discipline.
From all you said, it's like your wife is taking your gentility for stupidity hence her incessant tantrums and disrespect to you.
I know her type. Once they see you're not the type that beat women, they'll want to climb your head. So it was necessary you beat some sense into her. I'm also a lady and don't support domestic violence of any kind but your woman overdid it and it was best you called her to order in the language she understands better.
My advice, if she raises her voice at you again over any argument, get a proper cane and flog her on her legs. Since she lacks home training, she'll have to get it all over again. Afterall as children, we were flogged as corrective measures to reset our brains and make us respectful children. So no biggies if you introduce the same measure to tame a rude adult. Flog her on her legs. Nonsense!
I wonder what some married women were doing in their youth and singles days if they didn't learn to be respectful good wifes and virtuous women to their husbands.
It is for this purpose churches organize youth and singles programs and seminars. Some will not attend, some will attend but will only go there to look for a guy or lady to toast, learning nothing at the end of the day and tomorrow they'll be rushing into marriage with empty heads only to start misbehaving.
Please no body should mention me to say trash cos this is how I feel about the whole thing and I've only given my sincere take on the matter. I'm not one to sugarcoat my words to please anybody or gender. Just say your own and pass.
FIRST OF ALL I LOVE YOU SO MUCH FOR THIS.
Your gender is very troublesome. A matter that can be resolved calmly in low tone, your gender will choose to be disrespectfully shouting at the man who came to marry her. I am not saying the man is allowed to do anyhow because he paid for marrying a woman or went to get the woman. Only very few are wise among your gender.
They will tell you women are naturally lovers of drama and their mouth is their own weapon. I will keep saying this: If a man thinks the remedy to it is ignoring, he is doing himself. Match her craze with fear of you. One single serious beating should do.
Some are so stupid to maintain their troublesome character despite beatings. Dem neva born the woman that will deprive me peace of mind, I will seriously beat her thrice and end the marriage. She will return back to her father's house because I don't tolerate rubbish.
But inability of his government to tackle insecurity will affect the general elections. Will the environment be conducive for elections?
This man na terrible mistake walai: Education, Economy, Security, Power - All Zero. Nigerians, we f.ucked. up to have fell sooooo flat for the Change trick. The matter dey seriously pain me everyday I can't lie.
Hausa's loved his Muhammed name so much and they are already warming up to bring in another Fulani Atiku instead of their own Hausa brother Kwankwaso. Are Hausa's under the domination of Fulani's?
Chimeluv: She has kids so she doesn't really care about any man...........
Can you imagine what you are saying as a woman. Women and your brain and sense of reasoning. Don't underestimate family. Any child without his/her father and mother together will feel the consequences... from bad upbringing to sadness and shame etc.
Arysexy: If you followed their conversation after their first sex, you will know the premise. If she was not, Khalid would not have asked her , how she feels after the sex and her response of now feeling like a woman gave credence. If she was not, Khalid would have confronted her with her lies
She said he made her feel like a woman, that remark goes beyond deflowering a woman. Making a woman feel like a woman also means she Came (I heard her saying "finally I Came" to him at one point in time).
[quote author=seunmsg post=115649803]Like I have said severally, the president is just one man who will be locked up in Aso Rock most of the time and far away from reality. The president’s appointees and those around him will ultimately determine the direction, success or otherwise of his administration. Atiku has a lot more of bigots around him than Buhari. He will be worse than Buhari in terms of nepotism and religious intolerance.
WHAT YOU CALL SOUTHERN EXTREMISM CAUSED BY OBI IS WRONGLY CALLED SO. IT'S ANNOYANCE OVER THE THOUGHT THAT SOME PEOPLE ARE STILL OUT THERE NOT TIRED WITH WHAT NIGERIA HAS BEEN THRU AND WANT IT TO CONTINUE IN THE HANDS OF ATIKU OR TINUBU, 2 OBVIOUS DISASTERS WAITING. THESE 2 HAVE PROVEN THAT THEY CAN'T WORK FOR NIGERIA'S BETTERMENT. WHAT MAKES THE ANNOYANCE EVEN MORE SERIOUS IS THE FACT THAT PETER IS NOT PLANNING TO DECEIVE NIGERIANS (LIKE BUHARI). PETER'S PAST GOOD DEEDS ARE ON RECORD, IN PICTURES TOO THAT HAVE CIRCULATED THE SOCIAL MEDIA. 2023 WILL MAKE OR MAR NIGERIA MORE.
Jeon: Sorry Men are also damaged physically and spiritually.. That's why you see young men suffering with nothing to show because they have slayed their destiny in the bed of bad sex.
So shameful to be putting your private part in to different vaginas .How do you ppl do that? getting with someone you are not bond with in spirit realm.
Not to talk about
teenage pregnancy, abortion, STIs, HIV/AIDS, regrets, guilt, loss of self-respect, depression, loss of family support, substance abuse And I will say it again.
I won't accept a damaged Man that will make me to be suffering from what I know nothing about like that Op crying he can't get a woman pregnant. Because I'm not damaged.
Story. You are lying to yourself telling fake untrue story. Channel more energy on your gender, they are the victim and the cause. Many other wrong things can be responsible for a man's failure or downfall. Not women. Other things like: Curse, Karma etc.
This is the definition of a damaged man. Not only by physical view.
MNDY
A damaged person is a damaged soul.
Rubbish explanation. Physically and spiritually, who is Damaged? It is your gender that many different men deposit their different sperms inside her. NOT A MAN
Jeon: And a Nairalander is complaining that he got someone pregnant.
Regular lie. This same sweet talks was said to the previous lady.
You thought you can brainwash anyone with your sweet lies ? FATHER OF AN ABORTED CHILDREN.
THIS WAS WHAT I REFERRED AS A DAMAGED MAN.
First of all, that your thread was rubbish! Damaged man my foot! Is the aborted child living in the man's stomach before the abortion? Do you know how many babies a man throws away by masturbating? We are talking of abortion, killing.
Secondly, nobody is forcing a woman to open her own legs or live inside a man's house to be giving him vag.ina.
It is you with your gender that is responsible for these things.
limeta: Something very odd with this shittima of a person his shifty eyes very wicked face expression don't take my words for it watch his eyes when he's talking I just don't get it This guy could be another Hitler
Nwatachoba1: And the hoelosho feminist couldn't see a simp to dig her hole abi
Ndi feminist... if u like be a feminist from now till 100yrs, if u dey find real men,u go submit except you find a SIMPle man... and u can't change the fact that y'al can't do without the MAN.. WHEN UNA CHANGE WO-MAN AND FE-MALE,I GO TAKE UNA SERIOUSLY..AND WHEN UNA START DEY USE UNA MONEY MARRY AND TAKE THE OPPOSITE GENDER'S RESPONSIBILITIES.... feminist wey still dey ask man for urgent 2k,is that one a feminist
GoodLife4live: U don go hide gun for house... BECAUSE of your ipob candidate , you want to burn down nigeria... even your ancestors tried it and they failed.... Goodluck to u..
See you... I nor be Ibo. Una go dey tink say na only Ibo's be Obidients or dey carry Obi for head pass. Mek Tinubu and INEC try any rubbish fes, dem go see weyrey 4 dis country dat time. E go be like ENDNigeria like ENDSARS.
You can't even pity your (un)born children if you don't pity your own self, you are seriously campaigning for this man to become president, after he brought the greatest disaster of a party APC and man Buhari upon us, after all he is doing in Lagos and SW where he has established himself as god over the people extorting them, denying the common citizens of gains of government and implementing only things that benefit his cronies, loyalists and family, and after he has been unable to tell us in videos his plan to make Nigeria work as president.
Deceiving people that he made Lagos what it is, Lagos a former capital of Nigeria that was very good and Tinubu came to make it uninhabitable actually.
He generated and is generating staggering revenue figures for Lagos with the governors he imposes on them but how are the average Lagosians feeling its impact?
Dialpad: This election will shock a lot of people, during Jonathan's time people shouted more than this.
Remember, elections are not won on social media.
God bless all regardless of your political party
Campaign has not started. When it starts, Nigerians will know that the ObiDatti Movement is beyond social media, massive and overshadows any of and both APC or PDP.
Many Obidients including me are just waiting and ready to vigorously campaign with their own money/resources for this man. Any game-plan by Tinubu and APC and INEC will be fiercely resisted by the people and if the country will burn for that, so be it. Nigerians have had enough and are waiting to take this golden opportunity.
advanceDNA: Lol.....the thread is so funny....These women willfully hoe themselves but dont want to face the consequences.. ..see them getting angry that men have the choice to choose virgins.....If they want to rant...they should face the countless men they spread their legs for for damaging them.. I have no business paying bride price and settling for the damage of another of several other men....
Don't mind them. Next thing you'll hear them say is, they spread my legs, I am not the one spreading. Lolz.
The power to make sex happen or not is held by the Female gender - that should make these things clear to them and make them see the main role they play in these things. But they've chosen to just envy and blame men in these things. One even said men deceive women as if women are meant to allow themselves to be deceived. Just like a man, any sl.ut wanting a 'virgin' man still stands the risk of getting chased away by the man even.
MrBrownJay1: nobody is forcing anyone to either get damaged or marry such man. is it?!
just because some women are willing to become "damaged" doesnt mean thats what a man wants for his life. its all fun and game and a learning experience... when that man is ready, he has the right to NOT want a damaged woman (just like the neighborhood slut has the right to demand a virgin man to marry). to each their own!
Her point of view and that of majority of her gender is, the man is to be blamed simply because he approached the woman and usually makes the move for sex. But the truth is, you can't blame the person who requests equally like how you'd blame the person who grants the request. The latter holds the bigger power and should be blamed more if not blamed only. A sl.ut who wants a virgin man still stands the risk of being chased away by the man. The point to make in all these is, the female gender should stop shifting blame unreasonably and admit their task.
TMTR: If there's a slightest bit of chance that you are a virgin, you won't be on nairaland wailing and crying about men wanting to marry only virgins cause you are in the favoured choice but because you aren't a virgin that's why you are so pained and bittered about men wisening up and wanting only virgins and not paying premium price for a pussy that has been fúcked by thugs and area boys for next to nothing
It's because you aren't a virgin that's why you are so pained that men want only virgins after banging the hell out you trust me we know and you know but you can continue lying to yourself if it helps you sleep better at night, by all means carry on
Lolz...you are very foul-mouthed NO CAP! You really hit the nail on the head in your first reply. VIRGINITY IS NOT TOO MUCH TO ASK.
pansophist: It is men that approach women normally, hardly the other way round, so why can't these women say no to these bad men? You cant eat your cake and have it back. Nice guys are boring, right? well, there is always a price to pay. A snake will always give birth to something long.
These women choose these men, not due to the content of their character, but the extent of their status, flashiness, depth of the pocket, and a good toy to show off publically for a prolonged dose of an ego boost The good guys who they've locked in friendzone will probably treat them far better, but all they get is rejection.
Accountability will always take anyone far, and a woman who instead of looking at the mirror and reflecting on her ways chooses to point fingers will get damaged even further. Woman-up, up and realize that humans, and in this case, women are the architect of their own misfortune.
pansophist: It is men that approach women normally, hardly the other way round, so why can't these women say no to these bad men? You cant eat your cake and have it back. Nice guys are boring, right? well, there is always a price to pay. A snake will always give birth to something long.
These women choose these men, not due to the content of their character, but the extent of their status, flashiness, depth of the pocket, and a good toy to show off publically for a prolonged dose of an ego boost The good guys who they've locked in friendzone will probably treat them far better, but all they get is rejection.
Accountability will always take anyone far, and a woman who instead of looking at the mirror and reflecting on her ways chooses to point fingers will get damaged even further. Woman-up, up and realize that humans, and in this case, women are the architect of their own misfortune.
NwaAdazzi: So hw will u know the Guy is a Virgin.. This Reminds me of one of my Seniors Ogacheko. He always played the M a Virgin card on gals,Ogachecko had An innocent face so most gal believed him,My Guy Got laid lyk hell.Till d day an argument ensused when one of his ex gf fought with his babe and told her Ogacheko still loved her because she was d one dat broke his Virginity.His babe was shocked as she taught she was d one hu did.I laughed so hard dat day,i had a pee stain on my Trousers .Ogacheko is married now,he went to his village and married a so called Decent gal.Guys hu do this deserve a spot in hell fire.Lmao.
Hahahahaha. Thanks for making my day with that story. But really, like someone said above, virginity is not too much to ask from a woman by the man who will shoulder the responsibility of the family from the point of marriage, wife & kids upkeep. Ogacheko must be my Igala brother by the way. Some Benue Idoma's bear Igala names too tho