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bukatyne:
I really don't know why we think there should be a standard of decency for mothers/married woman and another for single women.

Dress types (maybe) though I am more of dressing for occasions/profession and how you want to addressed than by status.

For instance, the woman in the OP is dressed as a prostitute; are prostitutes mothers? Yes. So her motherhood really has nothing to do with it.

That said, my question is always: is this decent or not for me as a (fill in the gap).

That way, the OP can answer her question herself.

We are saying these things because of the influence it has on innocent children that will be influenced by it spoiling the society the more even before they become adults to choose between right and wrong.

Unfortunately, your gender is naturally created with personality disorder that you rather than condemn will always find a way to defend your misgivings as a gender, unlike the male gender. Some of your gender are even here blaming man for making her a single mother on this thread.

If she is a prostitute selling her market, you find it hard to condemn her dressing like this for her daughter to be seeing and later take after her too. Your gender always right, don't take blame, confused and mischievous.

chival:
As women, it is our responsibility to take care of our bodies. Fornication is wrong in the first place and should be avoided. For ladies who insist on indulging, the onus lies on them to ensure they protect themselves to prevent unwanted outcomes including pregnancy.

I love you for airing such objective view.

Unfortunately, your gender is naturally created with personality disorder. Only a very few like you are different.

They are confused, mischievous, don't take blame, always right even when wrong etc.

jaxxy:
Depends on where she's going to. in this scenario is it more than wrong dressing like that to her child's school.

It's not right to dress like that anywhere. We are saying these things because of the influence it has on innocent children that will be influenced by it spoiling the society the more.

Botking:
Most women has personality disorder, but they won't admit it even if you point it to them

I think they are naturally created so.
They are confused, mischievous and don't know what they want.

Woke women taking submission for slavery when in submission, both parties have their say and the Headship has the final say. Before you find a good woman among this generation of woke and highly manipulative generation of women, you go suffer. I understand that times are hard and finance plays a key role. But the issues I highlighted above have also become issues of serious concern.

jikins:
You disagree because you have what is called narrow vision. So basketball is played by one player ba? Or they don't have individual skills. Rugby or American football nkor? Baseball is played by one person. Even in esports like valorant and the likes.

The ball is on the legs in football. Maneuvering their way with their legs makes it complex and distinct from the other sports you mentioned.

jikins:
To you that's fine. But literally many other sports have what you just described about football. Heck even esports competitions share similar sentiments. Sweetness dey everywhere

I disagree.

In football, a team comprises of many players to assess their individual skills making it all fun the more.

Iniobong34:
Football na him mate?

Whydid you use that picture?
Remove am now with immediate alacrity before Ogun go baff you now!!!!

Melap:
Does watching the sport put food on the table. I am one of such men. Since I know nothing about the sport I won't be caught staking 2 odds or sport betting only to open threads asking for help so my wife won't leave me.

I don't bet too.

But football has to be most fun thing on earth. Don't you just like the idea that two sides come to clash with each other determined to win the other but without an idea of how prepared the other side is?

I don't fancy other sports much - wrestling and other sports but you see football? The individual player skill and teamwork coordinated by the coach to win the other side and ignorance of the other side's preparedness is the sweetest thing on earth I swear down!!!!

Mufakirnaqdiun:
Your God is useless and you know that.

So, the Islam God is the authentic God....right? Because I can see your wrote things in Arabic in your signature.

Fiscus105:
And for men like u defending their wrong doing?


Because ur wife not good in bed u tempted to go outside

But it's abomination for wife that her husband not bringing money home to be tempted.

What's good for geese not good for ganders again abi

Sex is different from money. Many women are working and earning good money. Every woman should learn how to make money.

If he starts cheating because of a problem that she can solve by herself, she will still be the one to be angry and be complaining. But to solve money problem, she can be earning money and supporting the family together with him. Moreover, she will enjoy the sex too if she improves

Going after another man for money is a shame on her. When she is an adult that can get a job and earn money for herself as an adult. It's very wrong way to punish her husband. No respect for her own body?

Common sense should tell you that the girls outside are using "good in bed" to snatch men from their wives. A man loves sex very much and his wife will make him addicted to her and not look outside if she is doing it well. She will enjoy it too and she will also be able to keep her man.

Fiscus105:
Hope u read well before you comment Sha?

I pity people around you because they are interacting with "devil in making", must you always support ur gender? Even if he/she is going wrong, I will advice u to go back and reread and possibly give it to any of ur neighbor who knows how to read and comprehend for better explanation.


If u come out from family where female giving husband problem, does it mean all females are giving husbands problem?

What are you even saying?

I am talking about women defending their wrongdoings especially when it involves men. Men usually condemn something bad done by the male gender.

You are saying what I don't understand.

Fiscus105:
The same way you should overcome temptation of poor skill in bed from ur wife.

I biliv u re a "good man."

This gender sef...

When will the female gender ever accept a wrong instead of defending your gender against the male gender. Defending your gender and making matters worse in everything.

I pity any man who argues with a woman back and forth. The female gender that always wants to win an argument.

Men condemn something wrong pertaining the male gender easily but the female gender rather defends (especially if it is connected with men too).

IF YOU REALLY ARE TO COMPARE THE ISSUE AT HAND WITH TEMPTATION FOR HER TO GO AFTER ANOTHER MAN WITH MORE MONEY, IS SHE AMPUTATED THAT SHE CAN'T WORK TO EARN MONEY HERSELF?

Rozross:
There’s a redpill thread and I’m not talking about thegidredpillers toxic threads

I pity any man arguing with your gender and going back and forth with explanations. Your gender that will never agree to be wrong and always want to win argument. Defending yourselves as females (against men) and making matters worse.

So that he will make you Minister of Transport for you to spread Agbero's everywhere in Nigeria. It will not work. If Tinubu attempts to play games and bring himself and APC into power, THIS COUNTRY WILL GO UP IN FLAMES!

jujustical:
[color=#990000][/color] when she was alive nobody knew her not until she died ......oh lord let me be known while am alive for good in Jesus name Amen.

This is one behaviour of people that I don't like. Using another person's predicament to talk about yourself.

Have pity on her and pray for her. Not seeing her as unfortunate and wishing yourself not to experience what she experienced.

It's very wrong, insensitive and uncalled for.

Omonieme:
Where? Is it in Anambra where he could barely raise the IGR? Kindly list his achievements for me please

He generated and left very big money for the state treasury after leaving office. I am not Ibo. I am an Igala and my area in Kogi shares border with Anambra. This is the man for the job. It's a golden opportunity for Nigerians to put this country on the right path.

Omonieme:
When I watched Shettima's NBA speech, I had to applaud his intelligence.... Same with Obi's. The problem is, we Don too hear nice speeches and plans but zero execution of these plans. If not for Tinubu's rumored state of health, he'd have been the best option at this time considering his fame of being able to spot talent and harness the best human resources in administration. However, Tinubu and his handlers are yet to convince us of his physical and mental ability to handle the rigors of the presidency. As for Obi, he gives me a sense of dejavu of 2015 happening all again. There's this messianic complex around him that might end up disappointing everyone. And governance is not by quoting statistics and highlighting problems but also proffering workable solutions to the highlighted problems.... He's yet to do this. Well, maybe he would when the campaigns start proper. As for Atiku, his policy document is brilliant and he might do well. But, from what we know from him particularly from that Obasanjo book which a keen follower of Atiku will at least agree has some truths and his zero ability to even lead his party the PDP, can he be trusted to implement what's in the policy document? Wo, 2023 presents Nigerians with the hardest of choices abeg. However, there's one easy decision I can help you make before 2023 and that's an auto decision. I've got this awesome Toyota Camry 2004 for sale. First Body, Chilling Ac, reverse Camera, mp3/Mp4 sound system, clean used,(This one na my personal ride) for sale. Click on my profile, check it out and send a whatsapp message let's deal.

Obi has not only stressed on the problems but also proffered solutions one of which is moving from consumption to production amongst others.

Buhari deceived Nigerians in 2015. He has no track record of achievements. Obi has. The people were just tirwled of Jonathan/PDP and then allowed Buhari with mere hopes that he will be good. Obi has not only performed before, he exhibits the character of someone willing and ready to do well.

It will not be easy for Obi I must say, considering what the country has been plunged into but I believe he will make frantic efforts to turn things around for good. He is a good man.

virginprincess:
The deal has been done already,the idiot has learnt his lessons in a very hard way,i hope you men also learn from this,if you want sex get a steady gf and stop patronizing sex workers.

To maintain you Nigerian girlfriends is hard as you all like money too much. And man must f.u.ck, so that's why there is Hookup for alternative services.

The world just favours you women. If it was a fellow man that collected money and refused to deliver something that he beat like this, the police would carry the 2 of them and let them enter into agreement that what the money has been paid for must be done.

Islandlady:
Lol Abi, that's the truth

It's not any trutht. Being an Alpha Male and/or a Redpiller is interwoven. Red pills are the nuggets that makes an Alpha Male an Alpha Male.

Hydroxide:
Omotoyosi Ogunbanwo wrote:

I actually genuinely feel sorry for BAT. Maybe he was a brilliant man at one point in his life. Maybe he was coherent many years ago. Maybe he did have the blueprint for Lagos and was never able to finish building it �. Maybe… just maybe. But we are not risking the lives of 200M+ people for maybe.

We are addressing the reality in front of us. And the reality says

1. BAT was involved in money laundering a criminal offense.
2. He is a very sick, very old man who needs full care and attention from at least 2/3 nurses daily.
3. He is very incoherent. Mixes up his sentences. I think his brain understands what he wants to say but he just can’t find the words to explain himself. Missing neurons and connections between the frontal lobe and left hemisphere can do that.

I do genuinely feel sorry for those who have to sell this bad product. Can’t be easy but I will be praying for you. Namaste my lovelies.

Everytime I hear Peter Obi speak, my heart just dey go gidigidi bambam. This man is so brilliant Kai. I need to find time and be in New York next weekend oh.

The universe has blessed us with a man of such high caliber. Well brought up, brilliant, educated, an entrepreneur. An older generation who understands what the millennials and Gen Z’s in this country needs. A man so focused. So intelligent. He is filled with facts literally. We truly do not deserve the caliber of man that Peter Obi is. Because if not for politics! Wetin concern a brilliant entrepreneur with a professional drug money launderer? If not for Nigerian politics, Tinubu should be languishing in prison. If not for Nigerian politics, he has absolute no business being compared with Peter Obi.

As a matter of fact, like everyone at old age, Tinubu has returned to a child. It manifests evidently from declaring himself as next (Emi lo kan) and his inability to talk straight.

Nigerians cannot afford to hand over a dying country to such person that will use play-play to govern like a child.

Anyone who has stayed around the aged very well will understand how they are no longer sound in mind, spirit and body to be in charge of anything.

LegendHero:
Lol.

You go fear Yoruba group.

They even printed two banners Leemao.

Elder Arokoyo should understand that the ship already sailed. Asiwaju had to do that because of the equation, you cannot win an election on a minority-minority ticket.

The SW will vote Asiwaju whether Muslim or Christians and we are voting him based on his track record as governor and I can beat my hairy chest today that Asiwaju Bola Ahmad Tinubu is the most qualified candidate among the contenders.

The SW is a force no doubt. Only RCCG Yoruba Christains will deal with Tinubu in 2023 for insulting the Christian faith.

nighthawk1:
The mall at Amuwo Odofin is a pick up zone .
My friend own two single room self-con at 1st avenue.

The girls who rented it run their things 24/7.

The girls see it as biz and the economy doesn't help matters.

Finally we guys too share in the blame. If NO PATRONAGE, NO BIZ QED.

I think much of the responsibility is with these girls offering themselves. It is hard to resist even for the holiest person, nature makes sex a very sweet thing.

Racoon:
"The Fu­lani causing security problems in the country were Influx of Fulani from neighboring countries like Sierra Leone, Mali, Senegal, Niger and Chad brought into the country for election purposes in 2015.

After the election, the Fu­lani have refused to leave. I and other like minds wrote and warned those we started APC with that this was going to hap­pen but nobody listened,” https://www.independent.ng/apc-brought-in-militias-from-mali-s-leone-others-to-win-2015-polls-baraje/

"...The reason Buhari won’t do anything about the growing insecurity is that the perpetrators of the crimes that have held the region hostage have been identified as Fulani.Buhari is a knee-jerk ethnic jingoist. He has a twisted idea of ethnic solidarity....

The truth is that he doesn’t care. The government Buhari leads can’t and doesn’t want to stem the rising tide of insecurity in the northwest or anywhere else in Nigeria...." https://www.farooqkperogi.com/2020/02/insecurity-will-only-expand-and-fester.html?m=1

Exactly
Buhari threatened to destabilize Nigeria if he was not declared winner. El-Rufai was the middleman that organized and kept them for that purpose with even funding by Emefiele. Now, the situation is beyond their power.

The mumu nor know say wetin he write contain indirect insult at Atiku.

confluence:
Useless elders, you all know the disaster called Buhari can never change, and you supported him .I remember when we were young when Buhari overthrow Shagari government all of a sudden you will see soldiers breaking into shops or warehouses to effect price control, in most cases we had to que to buy certain items then , when you get to the front you discover it’s soldiers that are auctioning or selling those items

I don't totally blame Nigerians. Some people warned. There was just no other option and the people were tired of Jonathan/PDP.

I think Nigerians just wanted to give him a try plus the Change deceit was very powerful people fell for it sooooo much.

Also, I strongly believe that northerners loved Buhari's Muhammed name immensely along religious sentiment to have given him cult-like followership.

OrdinaryNigeria:

Hes was power drunk.
Just want to be president violently , he became but no idea

I don't totally blame Nigerians. Some people warned. There was just no other option and the people were tired of Jonathan/PDP.

I think Nigerians just wanted to give him a try plus the Change deceit was very powerful people fell for it sooooo much.

Also, I strongly believe that northerners loved Buhari's Muhammed name immensely along religious sentiment to have given him cult-like followership.

Power drunk and violently wanted it, he and El-Rufai with funding from Emefiele organized these criminal elements from neighboring countries to destabilize Nigeria if he was not declared winner. He threatened it in a campaign before 2015 and Jonathan had to surrender to save the situation. Now, his brothers he invited have resorted to causing insecurity in the country and the old incompetent Baba is unable to control the situation anymore.

SmartPolician:
There is a limit to what an old man can do. Old people behave like babies - some even pee on themselves as we have seen Tinubu do sometimes. Many of them don't even remember anything.

If you make such people your president, just know that they will only be ceremonial heads because your country will be in the hands of their wicked handlers who will give them fake reports and gaslight the citizens.

Any man or woman who is not bold and strong enough to personally supervise things unannounced (like Professor Zulum does) has no business being Nigeria's president because Nigerians in government are too insincere to be left unsupervised.

Exactly.

The brain deteriorates as one ages. This whole idea of putting the old in power and positions of authority in Nigeria and by extension Africa cannot augur well for the common people. Give people that are sound in spirit and mind and brain power and authority and see things turn out for good. Another example is Lai Muhammed. People don't understand that the man's old brain is making him come out every now and then to either lie or defend any wrong happening in Nigeria as a normal thing happening in other parts of the world.

TenQ:
And knowing this, you people voted for him in 2019.

Is that stupidity or witchcraft!?

Stupidity.

As devout and brainwashed Muslims, they loved his Muhammad name so much. They knew his previous government was not enjoyed but still gave him cult-like followership/support and voted him in.

Someone like me and many other young Nigerians, we did not experience his previous government and would not want to believe people demarketing him based on that in 2015. I drummed support for him because I was tired of Jonathan and PDP's 16yrs of nothing to show for. Many people followed him for that reason. But as for elderly ones who knew him before and still voted him and northerners that voted him along religious sentiment attached to their love for his name, I leave them to God

ceaser:
Well, king Kosoko in Lagos State around 1500 faced 500 British ship armada, twice in six months and defeated the British on both occassions. The second attack was however brutal on King Kosoko because the British after the first campaign went back to great Britain to gather more arms and ammunitions.

This is true history from the libraries of the UK. Go and verify.



You forgot to include that Russia and France fought on the side of Biafrans, so the war was not of Igbos alone. Nigeria also had Britain on her side, so it was a balanced war; well a little imbalanced because it was in favour of Igbos that had two countries for them as against the Nigerian government that had just UK with them.

Similitude of Russia-Ukraine war lingering on for weeks because NATO, the US, UK and France are all in it on the side of Ukraine by supplying them arms, ammunition and personnel. Ukraine alone stands no chance against Russia just like Biafra alone stood no chance against Nigeria alone at that time.

Please these are not from distorted history. Go and verify.



Even if she says the bolded, it will be wise and mature for anyone not to pay her any attention. In fact,
informing the authorities should be the next step and she will be rightly charged for disturbance of public peace. Wisdom profiteth much and at a time when the air is a little tense like this, trying to bring harmony should be the watchword for both sides.

If a scuffle were to break out and the two sides are to use their advantages in Lagos, one side clearly will trash the other, but like I said that is where wisdom comes in.

It will be foolhardy to brag to someone you know has everything to get you humbled when there is an alternative approach of peace. Knowing your boundary is one way to attain that peace. That is why Yorùbás living elsewhere outside the south west in Nigeria have tried as much as possible not to draw undue attention to themselves by trying to claim undue ownership in the lands of their hosts. This is despite the fact that as Nigerians, everyone has a right to live peacefully anywhere in geographical Nigeria. Any Yoruba person that wakes up one day and says Kano or cosmopolitan Onitsha is no man's land just because he has had generations of his family born and bred there is on his own.

That is what is causing serious problems for Fulanis in Nigeria of today that they have become an anathema to every true born Nigerian, even to the Hausa that they're closely knitted to.

Ojukwu's father was the backbone of the Nigeria Stock Exchange and attracted very many Ibo with their businesses and companies into Lagos at the time. He was so rich and by his net worth then he would still be richer than many Nigerian billionaires now. From this, many Ibos came to settle in Lagos but geographically, Lagos remains southwestern and calling it NO MAN'S LAND is an insult to the Yoruba's. It caused a serious quarrel between my Yoruba friend and an Ibo lady during my NYSC.

Claiming the area belonging to the Yoruba's as a free for all territory is not only wrong but also a very unintelligent thing to say. It should annoy any Yoruba that hears it. Even if your forefathers stayed there, it's wrong to consider it yours or no man's land. We have regions and a majority tribe dominates in these regions.

Non-Yoruba's in Lagos may be more than the Yoruba's there but it's still no justification. Lagos is situated in Yoruba southwestern region.

bbode1:
This the only time he can sustain his political relevance. And his doing just that. No hate

All this talk-talk up and down portray him as a very irresponsible man. I admire him a lot but I don't like this too much talk.

Thank God say she just wear am around without going about in it foo.lishly saying things like: "If dem born any Ibo well" etc.

How can an adult be senseless enough to go out with the intention to instigate violence in Lagos where Yoruba's and Ibo's are already at loggerheads.