₦airaland Forum

Beze992:
And you think yours measures up?.........Let me leave you to your delusions

Your gender na Adult-Children. Yes, men are logical in reasoning and your gender are emotional in reasoning.

tollyboy5:
you need to learn. The population of civil society in Lagos is larger than that of Abuja.
The population of uncivil society in Lagos is also larger than Abuja .

Lagos and Abuja are not mate in anyways.
Don't drag lagos to the mud

I am not talking about population. I know Lagos has more population than Abuja. Everybody knows it.
I AM TALKING ABOUT THE HIGHER RECEPTION SOMEONE TENDS TO RECEIVE LIVING IN THE TWO PLACES GENERALLY.
And besides, the people in the Lagos civil society (according to you) will still enter the uncivil society there too. And that also means a lot. I don't know if you've lived in the two places for a long while before or you are in only one of them (Lagos I think). And trust me, I know the areas you are calling "civil societies" in Lagos.

ANDREW91:
He provides the money. He made u a full time house wife. You are an ingrate. He hustle all through the day to make sure u guys are comfortable. He takes abuses from customers from his business or bosses in the office just to make sure you and the kids dont lack anything. Have u in a day appreciated his efforts. Do u know what he goes through to make money? I guess u have never worked so wont know. U are here telling us rubbish. If u wanted a househelp, y didnt u get a job so u can be payin the salary of the househelp. U want him to go to work everyday and get u a househelp y u seat all day forming madam.
Reason i will never marry a full time house wife. Let both of us work, do the house chores and share the bills.

My brother, are you minding her. To be honest, I don't know what is wrong with females. Their reasoning faculty does not measure up. A vast majority of them are all the same. She must have nagged the man so much. She wants him to be involved in the chores too after making money for the family.

tollyboy5:
You mean from scanty to overpopulation?

No.
I mean from civil behaviour of people to very uncivil ones

ForeThinker:
ABUJA no be Lagos

Lagos is a direct opposite of Abuja aswear.
I just moved into Lagos from Abuja. From organized to crazy.

ImaIma1:
Both.

Both allower and initiator have equal blame as long as they are adults. The initiator initiating doesn't mean the allower has to allow it. He has a chance to refuse except it is also something he/she wants.

Sorry, they can't be blamed equally. And your line admitting that the #Initiator initiating doesn't mean the #Allower has to Allow it, agrees with that and ends the argument.

Rotimi was superb in POWER

ImaIma1:
Who are the people? Males?

Both of them are equally liable. Don't give one a free pass and hang one on a stake.

To initiate a thing cannot be blamed as much as allowing the thing, because initiating it and the thing itself all become useless if it is not allowed. So who holds more power? ~ The Initiator or the Allower?

Many dangeorus groups don form themselves under the guise of IPOB to become terror to the people. And dat na how Boko-Haram start.

I blame the federal government of Buhari ffor not inviting IPOB for dialogue from the onset.

ImaIma1:
Doesn't he have his own house or other things to keep him busy that he always has to be in her house.

He needs to keep his distance now that she's married to avoid "mistake". The fact that nothing happened when she was single does not mean it can't happen now that she's married.

This is one of the many situations people blame you females for, as in unwanted pregnancy, paternity fraud etc too. Can't she tell him to stop coming? Women hold more power than a man to let a lot of things happen and not happen.

Alphafeezay:
LG salaries has been a major issue, not just kogi.... even with the Autonomy granted, LG salaries is a major problem nationwide due to the large wage bill arising from too much employment.

Defending his government because of your loyalty to him is unfair to the suffering Kogites and can attract their curses and bad wishes for him upon yourself too. Even the state workers are not getting their complete money, just slightly higher than the LG workers. Is the state as a whole not under his authority? Or other states paying full salaries are not in Nigeria? Or you think people are not aware of the very plenty money given to him? A callous yahoo governor that God will punish for the hunger, suicide and hardship he has brought upon Kogites.

Alphafeezay:
Bello pay salaries, ask questions or be truthful to yourself.

I am a Kogite bro. You call the change he is giving LG workers salary? God will judge you. A person who is supposed to be earning N45,000 is receiving N6,000 salary alert. Which level of wickedness is that?

Alphafeezay:
Governor Yahaya Bello stand on Covid 19 is legendary.

He never allowed the pandemic to ground Kogi state., hence Kogi is not featured on the daily livescores of Covid


On a serious note, Bello believe Covid exists but prioritising it in Nigeria where the virus is not very potent was going to take a chunk of our resources and it did.

Bello also warned FG not to lockdown totally, if the FG took Bello's advise, Nigeria wouldn't have witnessed the destruction and looting that followed the EndSARS Protest..... this is because the destruction was majorly as a result of the lockdown and hardship.

Bello's stand on Covid19 is legendary

Still doesn't change the fact that he is callous, wicked and a stupid fool mistake of a youth governor. A yahoo governor. He has refused to pay workers/pensioners in a salary-driven state without companies for casual jobs. The people are dieing.

I remember alighting from the car to stroll to Kawo Garage on my journey to NYSC service. Kaduna fine sha.

Candidlady:
how am i defending them?


oya i have heard you! I'd start a movement 2mao! "say no 2gold digging, work4ur gold".

but you reason am, how you wan use get gold if you no dig? am opened to suggestions

There is no dignity in Gold-digging. I wonder how your gender is so comfortable in doing it. If you make and spend your own money as a woman, no man (or pesin) fit talk to you anyhow or do you anyhow. Abi una nor dey reason along that line?

Candidlady:
am nat quareling with you nau! Why you come turn am to pasport something. No need taking it personal!

you didnt answer my question!

when you dated the "rich ^s$ shawty" did she place her life/family bills on you?

She did not, and that is what we want and want you to join your voice in encouraging your gender to hustle like men too. The mentality of Nigerian girls/women is weird. I know many rich females like that who still uphold the belief of keeping their own money and billing a man. They seriously think and beleive that God created woman for man to take care of. Defending them and not encouraging them will only make things worse.

NIGERIA:
Politicians are not stealing and circulating money in fear of being hunted because Buhari claims to be fighting corruption.

Candidlady:
so the "rich ^ss shawties" you dated were they leeching you?

and i never said you were poor/rich. Idnt know you from EVE

We are talking about the very low percentage of your gender lazying around out there. Stop saying different things entirely.

Candidlady:
<<this is on you>>

ididnt want to drag nada with you, but you asked for it!

ever heard the saying "you attract your kinda individual"?

a wealthy family marries into a wealthy family. On rare ocasions will you see the wealthy having anything to do with the poor(cuz truly love is blind)!


bros check yourself if you are always getting broke girls e mean say you sef broke! Although some people are just all bout DEMANDS and no SUPPLY(male&female)

again have a lovely evening

No matter how hard you try to deny it, you can see it all around you. How your gender lazies around billing men. I've rolled with rich as.s shawties so I don't know what you are talking about the rich marrying the rich. And besides, you don't know if I'm even rich or poor. We are talking about the laziness and leeching of your gender in this Nigeria.

Candidlady:
lwkmd

your case is critical. It is beyond me, please refer up.

do have a lovely evening

You don't have anything valid to say than to ask questions and pretend that what I am saying is reality.

Candidlady:
yes am doing you a favour! By enlightening your dark/enclosed mindset!


"oyinbo and females in some african countries"!

leads me to another question. So you havent seen/met a lady who works/earn money in a legit way(a working class girl)?

For Naija here, na 2 in 10 females.

Candidlady:
am replying you cuz i have a question to ask!

what other places are you talking bout please?

Oyinbo girls and females in some African countries. And why are you making it sound like replying me is a favour you are doing for me?

Holluwhakemmy:
so sorry, you are mistaken me for your mother and sisters. There is no such business in my entire family Hope you are taking your medicine always and sorrounded by people to avoid stories that tourch. Have a nice day ahead. Bye

Encourage your fellow Nigerian gender to work for your own money like your gender in other places instead of unnecesarily being foul-mouthed up and down. Na only bad mouth una get. Na so I watch video dis afternoon of 2 young fine ladies shamelessly dragging payment with a guy in a hotel.

Candidlady:
Here to read lies



seems like 98.9% of men on this forum are all toxic!

They are not toxic. When will Nigerian girls/women develop the culture of hustling like their counterparts in other places? Instead of being lazy and putting eyes on a man's money.

One-F*ck-For-The-Road

Rydermaverick:
My thoughts exactly..but Nigerians keep heaping the blame on Buhari..

Yes he should be blamed. For not taking charge. For allowing them take advantage of his old age to control him the Oga.

Rydermaverick:
I just thought of something right now..what if Buhari is not the kinda man we take him to be?

The main people causing Nigerians pains in this government are his brothers/relatives in the cabal that oversees the affairs of the country. He supports whatever they table before him.

IPOB may not know it but they played an amazing media propaganda game. If IPOB had not called off the sit-at-home a day to the election and encouraged people to vote, Buhari and APC would have capitalized on that to impose Andy Ubah on Anambra people. But IPOB took APC and Buhari unawares.

AlphaAlex:
Makes sense, my own is as far as they are the majority in power and their clerics are not condemning this atrocities openly then they are gaining from it

SENTIMENT is their big problem. I remember a time when northerners seriously spoke out against the killing of Boko-Haram members because they say they are their sons and brothers. According to them, terrorists/bandits and criminal elements in the north can and should be pampered and talked into changing their ways and not killed. However, the sentiment will not make them support such same treatment for IPOB and criminal elements in the south.

As long as HOPE continues being governor, the state will continue boiling. The injustice that brought him to power is very annoying.

If na me be Nnamdi Kanu, I go just join APC

AlphaAlex:
The fact that this guy is a Muslim and You don’t see Muslims on here condemning him will tell you something. What’s worse is the fact that the government knowable where these Shameless cowards are and they won’t flush them out and kill all of them will tell you another thing . But only naive people will defend Bubu and his Muslim brotherhood of terror.

My brother. Only the people turning the doctrines of Islam upside down that support these wrong things. The true Muslims condemn these things. I am a Christian and I have friends from the 2 sides. Just as some denominations of we Christians condemn the bowing down to images by Catholics, barefootedness of the Cele's and they feel it's right, same thing in Islam.