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Klass99:
To all the ladies who tackled OP like football with sound and valid points to a logical conclusion ,

I say cheers to you, for treating someone's bullshit accordingly and appropriately!

@ MsFaith, Emancipate yourself from this mentality had me LOL . Nice one, I will steal that phrase for future use.

Lol....See you...
For dat your small mind now, this is a gender war and you are winning.
Truth is bitter.

Obatala7Kronos:
The answer is very simple. The only Nigerian tribe or ethnicity that worships money and that can kill their father, mother, brother, sister, neighbor & king for money are the despicable, incestuous & cannibalistic barbarians that originated from the East of the Niger.

I despise these bunch of loud-mouthed & harebrained people so much because they shout the loudest, yet they are the vilest & the most atrocious of all creatures that walk on the Earth’s surface.

I have never seen any tribe or ethnicity justify crimes like these filthy & greedy people.

If you accuse them of a misdeed, they will quickly remind you that your own people too are culpable of such crimes, as if you’re in competition.

Their industrious nature and much vaunted “Business Acumen” are covered in the spectre of lawlessness & malefaction.

They are experts at removing the specks out of other people eyes but do not know how to remove the beams from their own greedy & covetous eyes.

They hate Buhari more than anything you can imagine but sincerely speaking, they are ONE BILLION TIMES worse than Buhari.

Now that Governor Wike of Rivers State is championing the fight against the FG on VAT collections, he has suddenly become their darling once again. This is the same Wike they were calling for his head with an 100Million Naira bounty just a few months ago.

Fight for them or massage their ego today, you’ll become their hero. Chastise or try to correct them tomorrow and they’ll demand for your head on a spike.

Such is the characteristics of the I.Q of an average Igbo man - which is minus 20.

Lastly, If you find yourself overseas and you decide, out of foolishness & stupidity, to commingle with the Igbos, (be it their men or women), then your chances of ending up in jail, being killed or being deported is 97%. You can take it to the world bank.

My brother, you completely described their true nature. I was shocked when one embarrassed me a son of the soil in Lagos here recently.

I was sitting and waiting for someone in a complex. He has a shop in the complex and was working with his boys all the while. Next thing I knew, he approached me and asked me what I was doing sitting there, I told him I was waiting for somebody. He asked me leave and was even shouting at me.

I asked him why he was embarrassing me even after telling him I was waiting for somebody. He said I should leave because I did not have a shop there. I was like WTF. I calmed down and left and refused to engage him because truly I took so long sitting there waiting. But any other person could have overlooked me staying there. It's a public place. I was just in a good mood sha to have allowed a non-Yoruba harrass me like that on my own soil.

Igbo's are a very problem. I knew it a long time ago. Claiming strong head in another man's land is their work.

Ade3131:
In a nutshell all you've been posting on this thread justifies the continuous borrowings of this regime abi?

True we have extremely bad and wicked politicians or leaders but what's more scary to me is that the followers are 3x worse than the leaders.

One can only imagine what those who are very close to Buhari will be telling him when you that have never stood 50 metres away from him is spewing all this rubbish. We're not only in a deep shit in this country, I feel we're buried under the septic tank that houses the big shit.

My brother, I am sincerely dumbfounded by those dudes defending PMB here. So, because someone meets an empty treasury and debt, it means he should go on an uncontrolled borrowing spree. And even go as far as borrowing to a tune of amount never borrowed before. No economic blueprint to utilize borrowed money on to yield gains and stop continued borrowing

Jonathan made giant strides in agriculture. He was not perfect. By the time PMB leaves office, investigations will reveal how Dasuki and the looting under Jonathan were child's play compared to looting under Buhari.

Fahdiga:
You don't know what you are talking about. Is it because boys hardly open up about what elderly women do to them maybe because of shame attached to it. I was a victim of rape from an elderly woman when I was younger but no one heard of it

Me too. My cousin lady abused and molested me very well when I was little.

Abalado:
That Man Utd coach won't die well,I don't knw why he sell lukaku,now see the glory way the guy they carry go that useless team called Chelsea,,

You dey craze?
He has returned home.

ademidedavid:
Its not a matter of being weak or a simp its just appreciating and treating your woman right especially if you are brought up that way.........whats the essence marrying her if you cant make her feel like a queen only that shes feeling like a king in her queen's zone

That is exactly the problem you have caused.
Pamper her and be hot with her when it is necessary too.

GeneralPula:
Wizkid will always be wizkid..

That Big Wiz no follow jare..

With his stature, he was not happy being called WizKID by members of his team. One of the errand boys staying in the house he lives says Wizkid ordered to be called Baba Nla (big man).

Trevor012:
You are a rapist and a mad man for typing that nonsense. Hausa cow

That was where you got it all wrong. I am not a rapist. I want my woman to enjoy s.ex. i beleive in pre-intimacy. I only advised women not to blame only men. I no be Hausa too.

You are as a big mistake as your coach Ole in MAN-U. If una carry any cup dis season, make I bend.

Trevor012:
You are a big fool and an idiot. Just imagine the nonsense this pig is writing

Lack of home training is the problem you are having. Did I say I'm a rapist in what I wrote before you quoted me to display your lack of home training?

safarigirl:
You can go to this thread to see what sexual abuse can do to kids:

https://www.nairaland.com/3194624/child-abuse-parental-support

You can visit this thread for sexual abuse on men
https://www.nairaland.com/2534228/neglect-male-child-rape-molestation#37074437

DO NOT DERAIL THIS THREAD Thank You

Since 1973 to 2020, of the thousands of rape cases that have occurred and been reported in Nigeria, only 65 have led to convictions.


This thread is something I have been thinking of since yesterday that I've been reading on the horrible things done to women in this country, but seeing that Genevieve thread and the responses on Nairaland, from the same men that hide and support these rapists amongst them, I am now moved to start the thread.


NIGERIAN MEN, CALL YOURSELVES TO ORDER.


It is bad enough that most of you are totally ignorant of the ingredients that constitute rape, but the fact that the few educated ones stay silent, thereby encouraging these fiends, is even more disturbing.

WOMEN LIVE IN FEAR OF MEN. Women cannot go out at night, because of fear of being raped. Women cannot walk down a street filled with men, without the fear of being molested, women cannot go into a car filled with men, for fear of being kidnapped or being molested. A woman goes into a room filled with men, and the entire time, she is on edge, looking for other women. Women cannot go to clubs, unless they are in groups, and they still have to look out for eachother. You can not go and have fun, without thinking of worst case scenario as a woman.

Men, CAN YOU RELATE?

CAN YOU RELATE TO LIVING IN PARANOIA FOR MOST OF YOUR LIFE? CAN YOU?

DO YOU FEEL FEAR WHEN YOU WALK INTO A ROOM FULL OF WOMEN? DO YOU SEE A BUS OR CAR FILLED WITH WOMEN AND DECIDE TO WAIT FOR ANOTHER ONE? DO YOU CROSS THE ROAD WHEN YOU SEE A GROUP OF WOMEN AHEAD OF YOU?


There is NO AGE of women that do not feel this fear. You are not too young or too old for a man to rape you. From one day old to 101 years old, rape can meet you anywhere.

At HOME, you are raped
At SCHOOL, rape
At your job, rape
Even In CHURCH, RAPE.

Where is our sanctuary? When does it stop? Does being a woman mean a life of constant fear? Did we choose this? Who trained these men?

WHAT IS WRONG WITH ALL OF YOU?

Then, when women say they live in fear of men, you lot come with the usual trash:

"Not All Men"
"Some of us are good"
And my personal favorite, "Plus your father and brothers"

Is it not fathers and brothers of people, raping others?

How do we know who is and who isn't a rapist?

If a SARS or Police officer stops you on the road as a man, do you know who is dangerous and who isn't? When you call for the END of SARS, do you care which of them is good and who is bad? Why not say "Some SARS officials?" Why not say "Not all Police officers?"


That is what Genevieve and many women mean. Not all men arerapists, but are we supposed to wait and find out who is dangerous?


AS WOMEN, WE LIVE IN CONSTANT FEAR OF MEN.

Rape happens to all genders and either gender can be the aggressor, but if you did a survey today and asked 10 Men and 10 Women, if they had been molested or raped, more women will have faced these things than men.


If you walk down ANY street and ask MEN, "WHO IS MORE LIKELY TO BE A VICTIM OF RAPE BETWEEN A MAN AND A WOMAN?" YOU, the same men, will admit that WOMEN are more likely to be victims.

Why do you think so?


DON'T BE AN INSENSITIVE TW#T, DON'T TELL US MEN ALSO GET RAPED. THAT IS EQUAL TO WHEN BLACKS ARE PROTESTING THAT BLACK LIVES MATTER, ONLY TO BE TOLD ALL LIVES MATTER.

We are not saying men do not get raped, we are saying, in this moment, the topic is women. STICK TO THE TOPIC

It is convenient, that men will never bring up the abuse of other men, unless women want to talk about women getting abused.


We Are Fighting One Cause At A Time. Do not distract from one cause, or reduce the weight of it, by bringing up your own. THIS IS NOT SUFFERHEAD OLYMPICS. YOU WILL NOT GET A MEDAL FOR BEING THE MOST RAPED GENDER.


Men, CALL YOURSELVES TO ORDER. REFLECT ON YOURSELVES. YOU KNOW RAPISTS.


That your friend that drugs women when you go out- RAPIST
The one that threatens unwilling women to have sex with him- RAPIST
The jokes about "If she chop my money, I go chop her"- RAPIST
" She spent the night in my house, she dey mad wey I no go smash?"- RAPIST
"Wetin carry her go there?"- RAPIST
" Dress well and you will not ksgfjsozndoxn"- RAPIST.

AS A MAN THINKETH, SO IS HE




It's all fun and games in Nigeria, until you need to travel abroad and someone brings up your Rapey posts from the internet.


DON'T WORRY, YOUR RAPIST FRIEND WILL NOT GO TO JAIL, THE NUMBER OF CONVICTIONS IS ON THEIR SIDE, JUST TELL US, CALL THEM OUT, LET US KNOW AND AVOID THEM. DON'T SIT BY AND ALLOW WOMEN JUMP BLINDLY INTO DANGER.


NIGERIAN MEN, CALL YOURSELVES TO ORDER


MODIFIED:

We Appreciate All The Sensible Men That Are Standing With Us In These Times. We Appreciate All The Men That Are Not Quick To Pick Offense And Attack Us For Speaking Out. Plenty May Be Useless, But There Will Always Be Those Who Have Sense.

Women will always blame men in everything. A man is moved by sight. You think we are moved by touch like you females. You should also be campaigning for decent dressing and non-exposure of sexual and sensitive parts of a female's body for men to see. You will say fully covered women, children, old and mad women are being raped too.

But I tell you this, such rapist must have seen sensitive parts of a different female somewhere else and the enjoyment of seeing that one can lead him to rape someone else. How many times do you as ladies tell a child to sit properly or advise or cover a fellow lady's exposure of her brea.st, pant, camel toe, walking and shaking of bum in a loose dress. You can't advise random people like that because of unnecessary trouble. But that there is the origin of it all.

Women should do well and condemn the roles they play in some wrong things too and not blame men all the time. Again, men are moved by sight and what we see triggerd our imagination. Don't even talk about CONTROL because we are human-beings. Play your role as females too

IJOBA11:
DOES THIS MAKE SENSE TO YOU

Do you expect God to look like a human? He, Jesus came as a human to earth to make man able to accept Him.

IJOBA11:
CAN SOMEONE PLEASE TELL ME WHY CHRISTIAN WORSHIP JESUS CHRIST INSTEAD OF HIS CREATOR

In the Christian faith, God is not like a human being. The Trinity means God is three beings in one (God the Father, God the Son, and God the Holy Spirit). One of the Being (God the Son) was sent to mankind in human form by God the Father. Therefore, Christians see Jesus Christ as God and worship Him.

kenzysmith:
The only person that can stop manutd for winning the league this season is Chelsea and ole our attack this season is one of the best in Europe if we can get a win and a draw against Chelsea I kW we surely beat city home and away and Liverpool . honestly I see no reason y we just can't. If we finish second this season is below expectations for me . manutd fans should not take it



Give us conte#

And you think Chelsea will just look at you and let you go and carry the Premier League abi?

The Premier League is my main target this season.

We're the baddest b.itch in this round leather game; we're the baddest in this b.itch.

All these other clubs are our sons mehn.
#ThePrideOfLondon #cfc #BlueForLife

athaboi:
Can we in all honesty elect someone from the south east in 2023? I think it will do Nigeria a lot of good....let's try it and see! My thoughts though

Almost everyone wants this but the Igbo's are not working on it. An Igbo candidate may not get enough support from Yoruba's because they want it too.

VTJN:
Teach your gender bro to control their dick. Those prostitutes for hotel shey na them go dey drag men come ni? Na men like you and i dey carry our leg go meet them.

We Africans focus much attention to the female folks leaving the guys behaving abnormal. Even a mad man on the street will never allow her daughter have a child for such person

God forbid on behalf of the girl and her family

You are comparing another different thing entirely (a brothel). It's business. It's transaction if an Ashawo is involved.

Some women have strived to maintain no sex before marriage with their partner. Talking about CONTROL. It should be for both genders. Many women can't control urge for sex too. Not only men.

But you see consent for sex to happen, it lies solely in the hands of a woman. She has the final say when a man requests. And that gives her immense power. Emphasis should be on the girl-child. Teaching them a lot of things will go a long way to curtail many things. Defending them and blaming the male child jointly only worsens the situation.

Midas01:
You did not advise your own gender not to be sperm donors.

A request is nothing until it is granted.
A woman has more power to let sex happen or not than a man.

Olunmercy56:
Wahala. Prove to them that you are responsible, since you could lift legs and impregnate someone's child, be ready to provide all her needs. Or she will give birth in her parents house?

You will not advise your gender not to give consent to sex anyhow and other issues.

Everything na the man una go blame.

Did he rape her?

xpressionx:
You wan ride bicycle from kubwa to wuse 2 every morning to work.

Hahahahaha
Ask am for me o my brother

Limassol:
Tales of a fickle-minded simp, how irresponsible of you to cut her off for no apparent reason? You don't joke with people emotion like that. Its inconsiderate. That said, what stops you from blocking her on every channel completely? If you are serious you know What to do than disturbing us with pathetically dumb tales.

This idea of not playing with people's emotions/feeling and not cutting people off is why people tolerate toxicity and deprive themselves of peace of mind. Not me.

Apart from love relationship, I cut people off every now and then. It makes people work on themselves to become better. I am not perfect too and I work on myself everyday.

debbydams:
this is what happen when a lady makes herself too available..

She told you she did not enjoy it all through? Only in Nigeria women will make you want to think sex is a favour they are doing for men.

Charmingrascal:
I didn't want to share this but I was motivated by someone who created a thread on how his ex has been calling him
https://www.nairaland.com/6722392/ex-never-stops-calling-me#105224144

It's a long thread but please read to the end.

I dated this girl when I was kind of younger around 19-20 years while we were still dating she travelled out of Nigeria (to Libya) without informing me, infact without informing any of her family members according to what I found out. After like Three years I, got her message on Facebook requesting for my number (I was in the University then) I gave her the number and we started chatting.

She pleaded that I should forgive her that she still loved me and all. We got along real good because she really changed, more matured and fresh. The girl I was dating in school then got to know and we had issues. The girl picked her number and called her to leave me alone but instead of living me alone she blasted the girl and even involved one of her friends then they insulted the girl and told her that she met me first and the girl should leave me alone.
She was working and was always sending me money then and promised to come home soon.

She also confessed to me that she had a baby for one guy there but they were not married.
To cut it short she came to Nigeria around 2018 and brought many things for me and we continue our bleeping spree. (I got an STD through her then). Then I had to go for service (NYSC) in 2019 we were apart again, unfortunately while I was serving I got to know from her close friend that that she was cheating (the friend wanted me too) Infact I was told that she was constantly sleeping in the guy's house.

I told her on phone that I knew about how she was cheating, she begged and ask me to forgive her (that was 2019).

Fast forward after service I stayed back in Abuja because I got a job. To cut it short I got to know that she was pregnant for another guy in Nigeria, she hid it for me, she wouldn't send me her full pictures but she later told me when it was obvious she couldn't hide it no more, infact the guy wanted to marry her, she told me she wasn't going to marry the guy that the pregnancy was just a mistake, I personally convinced her to stay with the guy since she told me herself that the guy liked her so much and was taking care of her and her first baby.
Then this girl said she would stay with him on the condition that I would still be dating her. I was shocked and surprised I refused and told her that I will never be involved in such an illicit affair.

While this girl was heavily pregnant she was sending nude pictures and was constantly begging me that we should continue having sex, it continued till early 2021 even after the guy engaged her, I refused I blocked her on Facebook where she was sending the nudes to, she started sending it to my WhatsApp and I blocked her there too.

Now she has given birth and I am presently In the state where she resides with her husband, (that's where I am from too) I don't know how she found out that I am around and she has been calling me still begging for sex.

I wanted to report her to her brother and sister who were aware of our relationship back then but a friend asked me not to report her, infact some of them are telling me to give her what she wants (the bad guys that I have) Lol
I have warned her to desist from making such request but she is still requesting to just see my face, as at 2 days ago she was still begging to see me, I told her I was going back to my base yesterday maybe that's why she hasn't called me yet.

I am a young man of 28 years and one of the vow I have vowed is never to sleep with another man's wife except I am not aware that she is married.

I can snatch careless men girlfriends but not to sleep with another man's wife or fiancee.

I fear karma.

I am sharing this to tell men to be very careful with the kind of women they call wife.
Her attitude makes me have phobia for marriage I swear.

A married young lady with a loving husband still begging an ex for sex is too bad and I feel sad for her husband who might be beating his chest that his wife will never cheat on him.

Don't mind the people saying you know what to do and shouldn't have narrated this. People like me get your point.

Women fear nothing in these things. A man fears sleeping with his married ex than a woman. The woman may even want to snatch the ex from his wife.

Don't sleep with her. The consequences may be in other ways apart from another man sleeping with your own wife. Keep your line. Ignore and don't pick her calls if you like. Except if you want to get a new line and be calling your contacts one by one for them to have your new line

Adekaka12345:
I'm not saying you should sleep with her, but because you slept with someone's wife doesn't mean they will sleep with your wife AND because you didn't sleep with someone's wife doesn't mean they won't sleep with your wife.

Just follow your philosophy and you will be fine.

The consequences may be in other ways apart from another man sleeping with his own wife.

FutureIsFemale:
[s][/s]What is your point exactly?

His point is that men fear fuc.king a married ex than a woman fu.king a married or unmarried ex. Women fear nothing in these things.

NobleSeed:
na only screenshots them dey show my guy
The ones way the guy dey do from the other side she no dey show you ooh na screenshot , maybe seif na tinted screenshots seif.

Na where most guys dey gock demselves for girls be dat. And girls use it take guys for fools.

You as a guy should settle your mind that you are not the only one bleeping your girlfriend and STOP CLAIMING AND THINKING ONLY YOU OWN THAT womanliness

A girl (easily deceived in nature) is comfortable and sees nothing wrong if another guy or other guys are hitting it. But one mumu guy will be thinking she is exclusively his. Do you know how many guys toast a girl in a day?

Elock1:

This one should go and sit down.

First of all, all women are beautiful... A beautiful lady to me may not be beautiful to another person.

To the topic... MEN are generally tired of the drama and pride that most women put up wen you wanna likely start a Convo. (even if it's a random Convo)

For most women if a man starts a convo with them, Their guard becomes high as if he want to toast them... And that shit irks the hell outta a lot of men. And that could be the reason they choose to respect themselves

Exactly.
Their sense does not go beyond toasting when a man approaches them. And no man enjoys being insulted unnecessarily.

OssyMalik:
Ethnic groups of Nigerians fighting for pepper:

Yoruba- 87%

Igbo- 7%

Hausa -3%


Other ethnic groups- 3%



God bless Nigeria

Hahahaha
Behave yourself o

Ekejoestar:
Hope say no be initial gra gra u dey do so. After all there was an outside influence when you imposed Uzodinma on the good people of imo state abi u wan deny dat one make we show you reciept

You dey mind dem?

A court is already asking striking doctors to resume. No be outside (FG) influence be dat?

This VAT is very clear. The constitution does not allow federal government interference in revenue generation in states.

FIRS has approached NASS to put VAT in exclusive list. The court may collabo with NASS to spoil this case.

VAT that will make weak states sit up and develop strong states the more and make Nigeria better fa. But the north nor go gree.

SeriouslySense:
There is no proving, for such. Where did you get that from,

There have been such cases, especially a fair couple

Lamanii22:
I noticed recently that whatever my husband likes is what I like, for example, I originally use FCMB and my partner uses zenith, immediately I opened an account with zenith... Another one, I listen to foreign classic songs basically while my partner's more into Tupac and Orlando owoh, I totally love those songs now... I don't eat fufu before but I'm liking it now lol.....

Very soon you will start to resemble him facially from his sperm in your body.

bmdmix11:
I eat out, I don't cook any more.

just rotate the eating

200 to 350 per meal

better than buying food stuff n buying kero just to eat it ones n wash pot b looking @ how much u don spend

Thought I've been f*cking up since. Indecisive about getting a gas and pots in the new place I just resumed work.

If I eat out nack swallow twice a day, nothing do me throughout dat day again. I love EBA and egusi ehn. I no kuku sabi cook.

The struggle to find who will cook for me and the pain of the crazy price of foodstuffs in Nigeria.

FutureIsFemale:
HMMMM! It is well. Dear God please let my story be different. Let it not get to this point of carrying placard IJN

Then be of your best behaviour. And may God give you a good man. When we advise women to comport themselves, they say we hate women, we are one-sided and discriminating.

But the truth is, a man is the one who goes in search of a woman and for that reason he is at liberty to make a choice. Peace of mind and a well-mannered woman is the spec of every man.