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younglleo:

Asapick award of the year
Make una bloggers rest!
We get plenty relationship problem to settle for dis dirty december(frm gay man to hotel room knocking)
But I'll pick burna over them all!
Davido nd wizkid dey sing rubbish!
Everytime Woman woman!
Na to the fill stadium with ojuelegba agbero dat dwarf wizkid sabi

Burna to the word!

Hahahahaha.
Comrade, which one con be your own nau? Why you bring up those matters again?
Hotel door knocking and gay man and I cheated because you can't satisfy me. Those stories totori you like me too ba.

Bellerophon:
I concur with your submissions and find points raised very cogent, However you still have to realize that human culture has from inception lionized the role of the woman to be that of a fragile delicate version of us needing of protection, care and understanding! It is a double standard to inflate the stature of the masculine sex as that of bravado and machismo while also requesting for women to pay their fair share in a word that is intrinsically paternalistic! The truth is society is constructed to the disadvantage of the woman and her reliance on the histrionics and dramatics of wiles and deception is her response in adaptation to a world where her gender has naturally predisposed her to subservience! Imagine living a life where you are told the best you are made to be is a fiddle! All is fair in lover and war!

Men bash fellow men for wrongdoings too, not only women. Fragile as they are and for their own good, women ought to adjust to the virtues which Male Dominance genuinely seeks of them, not falling for clear deceptions. Male dominance itself has come under heavy attack by distorted feminism and that plainly shows that the female gender intentionally wants to relegate the Man to the background.

[quote author=Bellerophon post=108907527]Men bash fellow men for wrongdoings too, not only women. Fragile as they are and for their own good, women ought to adjust to the virtues which Male Dominance genuinely seeks of them, not falling for clear deceptions. Male dominance itself has come under heavy attack by distorted feminism and that plainly shows that the female gender intentionally wants to relegate the Man to the background.

[quote author=Bellerophon post=108905686]It is crystal clear and no rocket science to discern that there is a saturated preponderance of males with the anatomy of adults but the infantile mind of a toddlers on this forum! You masquerade under a perceived collective angst by male folks perpetuated and perpetrated against women under the misinformed misnomer of being RED PILLERS!


You have a very good command of the English language, I'll give you that. Nature will not allow men do without women. Women are bashed in these things because the Woman holds immense power to make what happens happen in these things. Constant criticism of their abuse of this power is very necessary to curb the resultant issues in the long run. The female gender always think they are always right and would rather defend themselves than blame/criticize thereby making things worse. Men are but only coming to the rescue with these rants to see if it will help matters.

Ocholu:
The same s**x you pay big money to get. Comot from here jorr.

Accept it Bro. You f.ucked up for ending your post feeling like you still owe her. Maybe you even thought only you was lashing her as at that time sef. Best thing to do for the gender is to occasionally get them small inexpensive gifts of dresses, clothes, panties, toiletries etc.

Loreettaa:
With all these backward mindset I'm reading here. I'd rather use my virginity to eat yam sauce than date any nairaland male. May God forbid.

Why are you pissed? If you are a virgin, you don't belong to the category of your gender that is being criticized here, or you are lying and belong to the category and you are just pained that your gender is being criticized? Fake love that your gender show each other. No genuine love among yourselves in reality.

CSTRR:
There are different levels of non virgins.

Some of the ladies my friends have slept with, I honestly can't advise anybody to marry them.

Dem too fucckkk those women like no man's business.

You can't compare a woman that has been repeatedly fisted and has swallowed a lot of cumm, to one that has normal sex every once in a while.

There are levels to this.

Hmmmmmmmmmmmm...
Some women can be hyper sexually active and love sex greatly to "allow" anything and everything done to them sexually. No respect for their body and moderation. My cousin once told me that some girls can leave one guy to another guy for more sex in a day because the first guy could not make her reach orgasm. When you talk, they say men should be criticized too, forgetting that in things like this, a man and woman can never be looked at in the same way.

BlaqJosh:
Hmmmm, This is un _ *believable*,
your babe won fvck another client inside the same hotel, now imagine what she will be doing at your back.
but you supposed dey happy that it ended if not for your wedding day her ex alone go full one canopy dey order your rice and beer any how...

Hahahahahaha
You no good at all aswear!

Justkatty:
I swear it is painful considering the fact they've been together for sometime...
But some girls dey get mind shaa including the human being that saw her with someone and still went ahead inviting her.

The whole blame is on her my sister. Stop equal blaming and stylishly trying to partly defend your gender. Defending your gender is what is making these problems with your gender getting worse and more worse by the day in this part of the world. She was requested and she holds the power to agree or disagree and make the request useless altogether by not making anything happen.

Magnoliaa:
You don't even know how to quote well and you want to engage me? What manner of...? I don't fking care for your 'explanation' or bubble-bursting; no be you I dey quote dey follow tok. Dey your dey.

Hahahahaha...see you.
Engage me nau if you have any valid argument. I quoted you improperly because you wrote rubbish and it pissed me greatly I had to take it up from the person you engaged. Don't always defend your gender, condemn wrongdoings like my own gender does and let's make the society a better place together. HAPPY NEW YEAR. I like how you write (not what you write/wrote) and by extension I think I like you too. Lol.

HRSweetness:
Wow. Just can't see Chidinma that way

Even if it was her, people will still not easily believe it because she seriously denied it then, and that was what I expected Tiwa to do too. Unfortunately, Tiwa did not deny it.

HRSweetness:
Did Chidinma really have a tape? I thought I read her saying she was a virgin?

A sextape involving a girl looking exactly like Chidinma in it surfaced years ago. Anybody can claim to be a virgin to other people apart from the person he/she had the sex with because none of the other people caught them. Surprisingly, even most pregnant married women are shy about their big stomach because they feel ashamed that pregnancy announces to the whole world that she is having sex. Very weird. Hahahahaha.

[quote author=Magnoliaa post=108883511]Why don't you start by addressing all the questions I raised before deflecting?

You say NL women are lazy. How? How did you know that? Do you know us? Have you met any of us? Where's your proof of that?

You claim ladies don't comment because of laziness -- can you explain what you mean by that? What's doesyour not commenting have to do with negligence?



Some men and some women are terrible. But let me burst your bubble. Why you hear us bash your gender more is because while we men tend to condemn misdeeds by our own gender and curbe it in the long run, your own gender would defend yourselves (like you're doing) and worsen the problem the more in the long run. More often than not, you and your gender think you are always right.

jrusky:
Pls is this lady alright? She might need help but might be ashame to speak up.

I guess those who are closer to her should pls have one on one heart discussion with her. 30 shoes for just 7 days holiday

I remember when depression or mental issues is loading it always start from either packing of unecassary loads off and on or mute and refused to speak to people or laughing alone or talking aloud to oneself or answering A for C question then trouble is setting in.

I'm not comfortable with her behaviour lately something no right somewhere.

My thought though.

She is very disturbed by the fact that people will not see her the same way again anytime she appears after her sextape leaked. Something she could have vehemently denied until the matter died down like Chidinma did

playapayaski:
Man should answer to God, woman answer to man.. all that changed when religious practices and gender equality trash started coming up.. yes Adam messed up by listening to eve n not seeking God's authority first.. but any stupid foolish man who still makes such mistake cannot be redeemed n doomed to fail in any union with a woman. ALWAYS LET HER REALIZE SHE LOWER THAN YOU IN EVERYTHING AND AS SUCH IS LIMITED, SAME WAY YOU ARE TO GOD. SHE DISOBEYS, DEAL WITH HER ACCORDINGLY N DIVORCE IF POSSIBLE. FUNNY HOW WOMEN OF OLD RESPECTED THEMSELVES N THRIVED IN A POLYGAMOUS HOME THAN WHAT WE HAVE NOW, ONE MAN ONE WIFE STILL CHAOS EVERYWHERE.
TAKE CHARGE N BE THE MAN, BE HER LORD.
PEACE

You are a very wise man.

MummyD2020:
There are lots of things involved honestly. She could be stressed or going thru one issue or the other.
I cant believe a lady will leave the parents house just to be a burden to her man. Alot must have transpired and op doesnt want to let us know. Im not saying we are.always innocent. Thats just my submission

The cases we witness and hear of everyday have shown that woman likes and enjoys trouble very well. As emotional beings, women don't know how to control their emotions and that is where trouble comes out very well. Men love PEACE OF MIND.

MeghaneMorgane:
This Op is not a gentle man at all. I can never marry someone like this man. Oga go and marry your wife and leave the men that wants peace to reign.

Na dat gentleman your gender dey capitalize on to want to be in charge of the man in his own house after coming to carry and marry you from your father's house.

Gokuuu:
There is a simp pandemic in Nigeria, it's getting worse by the day

My brother, I think these women are beginning to use juju. Because it's seriously getting out of hand. The Woman now wants to be in charge of the man. No be juju be dat? Allowing the devil use them anyhow.

MummyD2020:
Coming back late at night doesnt solve the problem. Work on your issues, talk about it. If possible involve reasonable people to mediate. What if she also comes back at night? You wll accuse her of cheating but here you are. What makes you think that she doesn't want to also go out and let the steam off and come back at night? You guys need to sit down and have a long talk and i believe it will end well.

If you dont give her wahala, how does give you wahala?

But you know your gender loves wahala very much on their own. You are supposed to be encouraging your gender to give their men PEACE OF MIND.

Takataka:
Lie how i just told u the truth

Don't mind her. She knows that what you narrated is true but she is still saying it's a lie. Na her gender and she is very familiar with what happened in what you wrote. That gender, they all naturally operate with the brain/sense of a child - stubborn and want corrections all the time. The other day, one was saying women love to be begged and petted and that's why they misbehave a lot.

Newboss:
So her being beautiful makes her valuable to you? You do realise she will only fûck you if she wants to? You can't just fûck her because she's your wife.

She's as useless to you as anything can ever be. Most people come to terms with this truth after getting married.

Na just wahala some people dey look for inside this life. Somebody go just wake up say he dey look for wife.

Hahahaha...
Bros wetin happen nau?
Are you saying men should not marry at all?

bobbybrown007:
Why bring something like this out in a public place, please next time don't do such again

This is a faceless forum and as such there is no disrespect or shaming whatsoever by the OP or from commenters by virtue of this thread.

One at my office is super fat people tell it to her face too often she is getting tired and working on it but unserious at it. Na me wey resume at the office newly posted she go always wan dey use style dey insult me with her own vex unto say I look fit. Wetin concern me? She is jealous of me even when I no be her fellow female.

efficiencie:
There is no right age difference. Age is just a number and, in my own opinion, not a true reflection of how a person has aged biologically, in terms of wisdom and experience. I have met persons with more years that are outstandingly foolish and persons with fewer years that are remarkably wise. I have met ladies in their 30s that look, act and think younger than ladies in their 20s. So age in terms of how many years spent alive is nothing as far as I am concerned. As far as domestic violence and toxic individuals are concerned age as we know it has nothing to do with it. There are 15 year olds with enough bile and malice to kill to 30 year olds and vice versa. Find your match, irrespective of age difference, and live in accordance with the standards of marriage and you will have no issues...breach this, and you sufferings will never end.

Actually, Home Training is what is key in determining how a person is trained to treat people.

phemmyfour:
Outside Sarkodie....no reasonable artiste dey for ghana

E.L, StoneBwoy, KingPromise are also very good. Especially that E.L, he is criminally underated.
I can't lie. I love Sarkodie very much. I am addicted and obsessed with NO FUGAZY (prod. by Rexxie) off his latest album. I also remember jamming others such as: 'Illuminati", "Word of God", "Sarkodie" etc with great love back then too.

[quote author=proxillin post=108829308]Please please...this is very serious to me...I need serious minded and experienced people here.

I have been dating this babe for few months now.

She never indicated any sign of abstinent from sex. We do erotic chat now and then. She even told me how she had sex with her ex. Although she said she never wanted to, but her ex started giving her attitudes, infact he wanted to breakup, thats why she gave in and had se.x with him (disvirgined).

So fast forward last week, she agreed to come visit me at my town (yeah long distance relationship). So she told me she wouldnt want to have se.x with me when she comes. Ofcourse she is the definition of a decent woman i would love to marry, therefore, se.x is not an issue for me.

But out of curiousity, I asked why she does not want se.x with me. Its not because she is a virgin because she had se.x with her ex. She then told me its a spiritual issue.

Your Question No.3 on your mind really cracked me up I'm sorry.

Card7:
this isn't so bad but I think it's relative

Someone I know got killed by a metal that fell on him from above in a factory after NYSC service fa

immortalityk:
u never add factory work

Someone I know got killed by a metal that fell on him from above in a factory after NYSC service fa

Udure2468:
Your wisdom will NEVER RUN DRY. yYou see this life. Enjoy am when you're alive. Happen to engage in a traumatized situation yesterday; i laid down a lady of 38 to rest in a 3 to 4ft. The lessons: Avoid the use to use the most bragging words "DO YOU KNOW WHO I'M?" during small quarrels or misunderstanding. Just be realistic and be modest in dealing with people. And most importantly; Be kind and humble.

How is what you wrote related to the suicide that the comment you quoted was discouraging? Did she die because she used the words: DO YOU KNOW WHO I AM?

I used those words in a small quarrel recently and went ahead to indicate that I am an officer of the law. Some people behave very badly and they need to be threatened to put them in check. People will hurt you if you go through life scared, avoiding trouble and forming gentle.

Kingsuave:
PERUzzi of DMW intro "I'm losing control"

Peru is actually short for peruzzi so him dey always para say him dey lose control,

remember fireboy also said "I'm looo... Even peru don don para"

I no know why some people no dey sidon listen music Wella na to dey skim through dem sabi.

Exactly what it is.

This is a great lesson to badly behaved women out there with character problem. The gender that thinks they are always right. Na you the man come look for to marry. If you use bad character disturb am too much, he will dump you and find a woman who can give him peace of mind out of the very few available ones like that around.