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hdrifter11:
Oh is it not better than for a pastor to be using it and blackmailing them while requesting for bjs and the other stroke wiping them anyhow he likes

Are the Alfa's caught defiling the children punished too?

Christianity upholds the principle that each man (including the pastor) should be left to face God for judgment each. No compulsion and extremity. Religion should be just about preaching without taking extreme compulsive measures like this.

Iamziggy:
U dy mind dem... And las las pastor go snatch dier wife join am...

This is the problem with Islam. Taking very extreme measures to curb sin. These Alfa's are capable of flogging a child to death because they beleive they are training the child to follow the path of Allah. But we still have Muslim alcoholics, adulterers, fornicators etc from Ile Kewu.

You are comparing. Do you punish the Alfas defiling the children like this too? Extremity and compulsion in Islam are very big problems. Just preach and leave each person to face God for judgment.

matm:
Students left the school compound for celebration of birthday without permission.What co-relation is there b/w school and birthday celebration.If u want to attend a birthday celebration,attend that from home and forget anything about school attendance that day.
If anything happened to them,the whole internet will be agog calling for the crucifixion of their teachers.
People talk about alternative punishment.Like what?
Give them manual labor,and watch them chatting and laughing and leaving d work unfinished and parents will blame u for denying their kids class attendance because of punishment.
The celebrity shld please come to school and teach today's teens most of whom are cultists using alternative punishments so dt teachers will learn from them.
I don't support brutality,but let's not forget dt handling hundreds of teens is not easy,and no one appreciates their teachers as they do well but everyone will call for their killing with a single mistake.

You must be a Muslim who supports these extreme assaults on Islamic children.

What are you even saying? These extreme assaults will not change them if that is the aim. In some cases, it will harden the heart of the child more sef. Armed robbers are killed everyday yet we still have armed robbers.

So you are saying they need someone to come and show them alternative ways of punishment. Can they not devise the alternative ways by themselves?

These extreme ways of doing things in Islam is what Muslims like you should be discouraging to give the religion a good image.

Arrangee

I take God beg una.
Make una pity us all (including yourself join).
Make una nor vote dis man o.
Make we for fit enjoy dis country small after the severe torture from Buhari hand abeg.

Jman06:
Did that in 2017. A girl worked her way into my heart, had me fall helplessly in love with her,not knowing she was already planning marriage with another guy. This is a girl I never offended to the best of my knowledge.

When I finally got winds of what she was up to, I was completely devastated. I cried, knelt and begged for offences I never committed, but she had it all planned out to punish me for no just cause.

I finally let go, but I placed a curse on her and that curse is taking effect right now in her marriage. Yes, I cursed her because I didn't wrong her in any way and what she did was deliberate. Despite all the love I and my family showed to her and her family, she treated me like though I was her sworn enemy.

With that experience, my heart is now hardened and I'm very sure I'll never stoop that low to any lady ever again in my life.

I can imagine. Nigerian girls are very fond of keeping more than one guy for backup purpose and their insatiable love for money to cater for their needs. They don't care.

osuofia2:

CC NwamAipke

Hahahahaha
No allow NwamAikpe reply this guy o
E go bloody o

I almost deleted the App, thinking my own app had problem.

BROAD DAYLIGHT starring him and directed by Teco Benson was a very dope a.ss movie back then. I think it was banned because of the unique style of robbing a billion van Teco exhibited in it.

jmoore:
So you had a bath, got dressed, sprayed perfume and walked out of the hostel to head to the class for lectures.

Then you meet someone dressed in rags with the most offensive smell ever. He says to you "being clean is not a guarantee for a successful graduate".

That marks are not given for being clean doesn't mean you should be a dirty pig. You being clean is for your own good, it's healthy to be clean.
Is being dirty a guarantee to be a successful graduate?

Now, you can see where I am heading to. Being a virgin till marriage is a healthy lifestyle. Borehole doesn't guarantee anything. Therefore, let virgins be free to virgins.

[1] Falling prey to hypergamous temptations for a married virgin. Your Virgin Camp will want to defend that with her self-control which made her keep her virginity in the first place. But I tell your, her self-control is not guaranteed to not want to explore other "things" now that you've introduced her.

[2] My only problem with this topic is that: A virgin with a sweet and amazing character and her ability to have kept herself till marriage, is not a guarantee that she will not get curious to want to explore other men and dic.k sizes after she has been disvirgined. A non-virgin can do that too. But imagine the bigger disappointment/heartbreak a virgin who would do that will give.

[3] Some men don't care about or even want virginity but just want peace of mind from a virgin or non-virgin. Please don't ask who men would choose between a virgin that gives peace of mind and a non-virgin that gives it too. I already said some men DISLIKE virgin (emphasis on dislike). Someone wrote: The higher her body count, the higher the chances of her divorcing. A virgin too can divorce for opportunity for her to explore.

lawkenoz:
Now you're coming closer to the crux of the debate. No one says virginity doesn't matter. The topic of discourse was virginity isn't the sole requirement to a successful marriage and the answer is yes!

The other side talks were just rants in response to what some silly boys were attributing the virginity status to, like women who married as virgins don't fall prey to other hypergamous temptations women typically are known to fall for.

And please don't presume for all men, I know men that left virgins for non virgins (married), I dated Virgins and dumped them as virgins as well. Virginity means nothing to some men, you really need to discuss with some men around you and figure this out.

It doesn't take away anything from a virgin. For those who value such.

Falling prey to hypergamous temptations for a married virgin. The virgin camp will want to defend that with her self-control which made her keep her virginity in the first place. But I tell your, her self-control is not guaranteed to not want to explore other "things" now that you've introduced her.

My only problem with this topic is that: A virgin with a sweet and amazing character and her ability to have kept herself till marriage, is not a guarantee that she will not get curious to want to explore other men and dic.k sizes after she has been disvirgined. A non-virgin can do that too. But imagine the bigger disappointment/heartbreak a virgin who would do that will give.

Some men don't care about or even want virginity. Someone wrote: The higher her body count, the higher the chances of her divorcing. A virgin too can divorce for opportunity for her to explore.

Rhozabeth:
Oga, ur analogy is nonsense!
Haven't u seen a virgin that is disrespectful, disobedient, disloyal etc and a girl with borehole as u called it that is exactly opposite in behavior? Which would u pitch ur tent with?
E be like say woman never dey on top ur case b4, u go know what's up!

Haven't you seen a virgin that is respectful, obedient and loyal?

jmoore:
I will choose a virgin with a sweet and amazing character.

Lol. You got him with that reply.
My only problem with this topic is that: A virgin with a sweet and amazing character and her ability to have kept herself till marriage, is not a guarantee that she will not get curious to want to explore other men and dic.k sizes after she has been disvirgined. A non-virgin can do that too. But imagine the bigger disappointment/heartbreak a virgin who would do that will give.

Tzar:
So, why did we submit the monopoly of violence to GMB?
Isn’t he supposed to go after the ‘bad politicians’ on our behalf? If he isn’t doing this PRIMARY job of the president, he is the PRIMARY PROBLEM!
Why are Nigerians & their polticians this stupid when excusing failure?!

My brother. You just said the exact thing I wanted to say. The height of it was when Buhari the Oga Kpatakpata and his party and cabal and party stakeholders (Tinubu, Adams) allowed Yahaya Bello return to power to inflict more pain and torture on my people despite the begging and outcry from people. The thing still dey pain me like maaadddddd!

A good president would charge everyone in his cabinet to do things for the places where they come from. He will see to it. That is why he is Number 1 and even though it does not form part of his duties, for humanity sake he should do it. A certain governor did that.

I am from the north-central where this man is speaking for. As long as the north has produced presidents, that also covers the north-central, a sub-part of the north. I think the Igbo's actually desire to be president (like the other 2 major ethnic groups which the Igbo's is third of) and not just vice or cabinet members.

LokoH:
To stop banditry in the north, FG need to send 80% of nigeria army to South East to wipe all Igbo youths and rape their women.

My brother, I no be Igbo o but the thing dey seriously vex me anytime I think about am.

What kind of idiot human-being does things like that? Concentrating on only secession and leaving the other because he thinks secession is more serious and national than nationwide insecurity.

If na secession, what happened to dialogue? My joy is that his north is feeling the heat of the insecurity more.

Buhari's damage is so severe he may have ruined chances of any northerner becoming president in Nigeria again.

jesusjnr2020:
The second I would share happened when I had grown up, while I was about to cross the road one day. Now I had looked to the left and thought it was clear, and then to the right, but just as I was about to cross, I had "voom", as a car pass me in high speed. I was in shock and wondering where the car came from, because it was that close. The car would have just carried me along to where i didn't plan to go, but thank God things didn't pan out that way. However what happened that day is something that's still vividly on my mind because up til now, I can't explain how that happened and where the car came from.

God bless.

Mine was even recently when I wanted to cross the very dangerous Lagos/Ibadan Expressway. My very fast charger's head fell down in the middle of the road that I was running to cross. I bent down to quickly get it, it was slipping off my hand like twice. Na so my head quickly warn me I quickly use leg push am. People were shouting: O fé ku fun Charger. Lolz. The thing funny me too.

A speedy car was already very close (all cars speed fast and furious on this road) and before you see chance cross sometimes, you go don wait up to 2minutes sef. Because of the accidents I have seen happen, I usually trek to go and use the pedestrian bridge for crossing, no matter how it unfavours me to get to where I'm going by making me trek additional distances.

DoctorDree:
Na Nigeria made me realize say human disasters worse pass Natural disasters!!!

Lol. You mean it.

In fact, I no know say one person (Buhari) fit affect plenty people like this.

Offpoint1:
I honestly hate making calls, I hardly call ANYONE, in fact the last I spoke with my mom was 6 months ago... Is worse with my siblings and relatives. I can go a year or more without calling them.

I don't pick any call I didn't expect, neither do I return missed calls.

I hate sending people wishes, be it on social media, text or physical.
All my social media handles are in ghost mode, except my business WhatsApp.

I hardly reply messages on my personal WhatsApp line.

Although I get really busy most times, but I don't
think it's an excuse enough. I've tried changing, but it isn't working.

It seems the only place I reply to people is on Nairaland, I've never clicked a "Like button" on the internet before... I have phobia for it.

How can I adjust? I spend 99.99% of my free time Alone in a quiet place soul traveling to universe.

Seems you've given up on mankind. Many people have because of experiences of betrayal, disappointment etc. If that's the case, I'll tell you one thing. There are still good people out there, very good people. I almost gave up on people too but I refused to by living my life based on the principle of choosing my friends (and enemies) carefully.

AmazonTopaz:
First and foremost I don't support cheating and deception I can never support deception or paternity fraud but I wonder why some men are outraged over paternity fraud.

We live in a society or some of us grew up in a society that gave excuse or justified infidelity amongst men under the guise of "men are polygamous in nature"they forget that men can be used to refer to women too and that polygamous is a gender neutral word for men it is polygyny for women it is polyandry.

When you justify infidelity or adultery you reap paternity fraud because these married men sleep with married women who are wives of other men who are at the receiving end when it comes to paternity fraud.

You men cannot always eat your cake and have it you feel bad when cheated on and call women who commit adultery all sorts of names but hail men when they cheat on women what happened to what is good for the goose is good for the gander.Some people seem to forget that the cheating men don't sleep with themselves they sleep with people's wives and girlfriends too so maybe that shows that women are polygamous in nature and two can play a game.

You cannot be preaching morality and chastity on women while failing to hold yourselves to account as well it doesn't work that way because it is a small world afterall if boys are not taught morality, decency and chastity we will continue to hear tales of paternity fraud and infidelity.

As we try to shame and tell young girls not to follow married men let's not forget to tell young boys and married men to leave married women alone it is the same polygamous men that are sleeping with these women and another man is at the receiving end of this disaster men don't sleep with themselves they sleep with women

As for the married men and women depending on your vows if you promised to be faithful try to be faithful and stop cheating beautiful women and handsome men will never finish in this word try to stick to one be contented,committed and try to learn discipline.


I think we should ask men why they are outraged

A woman has 95% power to make sex happen. She decides whether to allow the man enter her or not. No matter the persuasion from a man, the woman has the final say about what will happen - TO MAKE THE SEX HAPPEN OR NOT. That is why we are outraged and blame you women squarely in issues of infidelity, paternity fraud etc.

bishop4life:
My heart bleeds!


We are talking about children!!
Yes, children!!!



Many idiots are busy talking 2023 while we lost 300,000 children

Innocent children my brother

He dey use style blame past government still.
Even if you met an an empty treasury and debt. Does it mean you should go on an uncontrolled reckless borrowing with no economic blueprint to utilize borrowed money on and stop continued borrowing?

7victor:
To me, one of such character is Unnecessary pride.

It only requires a proud person to believe that every other person is below him/her.

It only requires a proud person to imagine that he/she can insult and abuse everyone because he/she is higher than all.

For example, you can see a final year student of the University,

and you try to relate with him, but he would be insulting you, with the mind that he is higher than you academically.

He doesn't even stop to think that you could be a Masters student.

He just conclude in his mind that he is higher than everyone in the school, because he is in final year.

I remember when in camp, some corpers were insulting one of the officials, asking why someone like him have to address them on an issue which I have forgotten.

It turned out later that the man was a PhD holder.

This is the kind of pride that characterizes human interaction.

People don't want to know, they just assumed things out of pride.

I know some people may use pride to characterize their new promotion, job, and etc.

But must you characterize your next level with pride?


Although I know some people who became very humble due to promotion, good job, and etc.


Please share the character people exhibit that shocks you.

Saying: "I forgive myself, I forgive everyone who has offended me, and I FORGIVE EVERYONE I HAVE OFFENDED."
The last part is such a stu.pid thing to say. Pride will not allow people ask for forgiveness. I hate it with passion.

mercyib:
People went to farm and the food is at the high side.

My brother, this nightmare of a president is the worst thing to happen to Nigeria/Nigerians

Which farm for God's sake?
Is this man and everybody in his government just stup.id ni?
Have bandits started allowing people go to farm? Are we not still struggling to get by everyday with high cost of foodstuffs and everything because of that.
Jonathan made giant strides in agriculture. You nor get any economic blueprint at all.
Just there doing anyhow.

HitlerGaddafi:
As a corper, if you allow a mere lieutenant bath you water like this then you're nothing but a morøn. It's like you don't know the power of that NYSC khaki. Many corpers don't know.

Most Coppers don't know the power in that uniform truly. On two different occassions, two particular guys in my camp in Katsina back then stubbornly reacted to soldiers who tried to roughhandle them. Others that know the power in the NYSC khaki use it to get favours very well.

kmcutez:
VAT is not included in the sharing formula, just mineral resources. No state should share their vat with others.

What then made Wike take FIRS to court if VAT was in the exclusive list before? If mineral resources were shared before and VAT was not.

ayzTIGER:
you will always be chased away when you lurk around in someone else's property it doesn't matter if your son of the soil or whatever

I know. It was an additional reason why I left peacefully.
The way and tone he spoke to me with was what I did not like. That is how Igbo's talk and behave in another man's land as if they they hail from there. A very dangerous thing. I have travelled to many parts of Nigeria and it is what I have observed.

THE NIGERIA JUDICIARY IS RUBBISH:
Maintaining status quo is not returning to collection of VAT by FIRS. Enforcement of the previous judgment by FHC in Rivers ordering Rivers to start collecting VAT is the status quo to be maintained.

The law given to Rivers by the FHC to collect should have been the subject of litigation. The Appeal Court is pronouncing a Stay of the Execution of judgment of FHC - a very baseless pronouncement without material. The application lacks basis. How will you drag just the judgment of a court to another court? What is the issue?

If it should be a valid case, they should make the law now in force in Rivers the subject. From there, we can delve into the constitutionality of the matter. Whether FG has right to interfere in revenue generation in a state or not. No, it does not, constitutionally. And that is why the FIRS already approached NASS to put VAT in the exclusive list, a wayo move.

ayzTIGER:
you should have told him you are son of the soil while he was shouting at you to leave make he use heavy slap correct your foolish son of the soil mentality. Thief waiting for what to steal while using I dey wait person as excuse

What will I steal from closed shops? I was in a very good mood that day and did not want anything to spoil it. If not, we for fight and I would have made sure that he lives in fear until he apologized.

You Igbo's don't know how to comport yourselves when you are in another man's land and that is a very dangerous thing. Nobody is saying you should be soft. Just know your boundaries when you are in a place where you are not from.

Klass99:
No, it is not a gender war for me.

I just like it when shallow thinking and minded people are called out on their BS and properly schooled.

If you were female, I will still feel good about the outcomes on your thread.

Calling me out will not change what is constant. If you derive joy from it as quarrel/gbas-gbos/name-calling is what your gender naturally likes, continue enjoying it o

Biglittlelois:
Mndy try to sound educated, Emotions is a feeling, there is no difference, you have been schooled on that yet you obviously like to argue for the fun of it or better yet, like to type long epistles to be seen as intelligent when you're actually far from it,

I saw this thread yesterday and immediately knew this Op is looking for an unending war of gender wars by directly attacking women, in fact, going by your Op, you seem like a full time gossip with a lot of time on your hands then, and you still are even now, e.g look at the way you're speculating and assuming things that happened or didn't happen in the life and marital lives of women that chose to leave, to the extent of concluding they may be at fault years later, mehn emancipate yourself of idleness and set your mind on thoughts and arguments on productive things not just to you, also to your environment and the society at large,

Our way of life, thought process and emotions doesn't affect you in any way, it shouldn't be a basis of your assumptions on our behalf, everyone makes decisions with emotions, any logical thinking human will always arrive at a decision and conclusion based on emotions, humans cannot function without emotions/feeling, you guys have to stop feeling like RoboCop, even RoboCop made use of emotions when woman was involved, no one is made of steel, kobojunkie schooled you well, but you have adamantly refused to learn.

POINT OF CORRECTION: It affects us in many ways. They wouldn't be separate in the dictionary if Feeling and Emotion meant the same. Emotion is deeper than Feeling.

All we ask for is for y'all to have/take control of the Emotion in your nature. You have allowed your emotion take control of you by attempting to insult me because you feel this thread is a gender war thread even as what I wrote did not contain any insult.