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who was doing all dis before u met her?

great story and touching small o.... u don't have to tell us what u do Na. biko!

anyway, this story is same with a good friend of mine I met while at the university of Abuja. he was conceived just two months after his mother gave birth to his elder sister and everyone wanted him aborted due to d fact DAT the pregnancy myt poise a threat to his mother's health. they actually did everything needed to be done to remove him but miraculously, he survived.. on the last day for him to b aborted, while on their way to d hospital, his uncle came from another state to stop that move,and today d guy is great guy. extremely brilliant, courageous, stubborn, intelligent and fun to b with. I forgot to say how good looking he is. during exams, if anyone around him didn't know anything, dis guy would single handedly feed him or her with answers, no matter the crowd around him who didn't know what to write. he hates to to see someone in pain or need. he can give his last kobo to put a smile on someone's face irrespective of tribe.. he was a man , sorry, student of d students..lol!
as a port Harcourt guy, he loves women and alcohol as I do, so we clicked well.
and like OP, dis my friend HATES abortion with passion.

cape Verde, Seychelles or mauritius

she told u d prices of every item she bought for u and u say she is nice..... I bet u, she is only letting u how much she bought dem so that when u r buoyant enough, u can pay her back every kobo she spent and more...u must not go below DAT amount.

must u tell me d prices of items bought?

NYSC..... breaking relationships since 1973....

guy, if I don't give my gf gift during festive period, Na wahala o..

Xmas ,I must give gift , birthday I must, new year self I must give gift.... today is sAllah and I didn't give, am afraid it doesn't cause wahala cos we r Christians.. all though she responds too with gift but I don't see anything in gifts....

loooool.... apologize! apologize!! apologized!!!


when u de date "under-immature" girl, wetin u expect Na?

guy, abeg apologize jare!

can't stop laughing

@Solomonbrown, yeah, that's what the pastor said... but he ended it with the statement that, " do u all know what it takes to win a soul"?....

THIS IS A TRUE LIFE STORY .......

Am not going to mention the name of the church. the essence of this is to let people to stop pretending as if they have no sins or they are clean..

A prostitute gave her life to Jesus Christ, repented and decided to leave her former life. The Pastor, Pastor James (not real names), who preached to her and led her to Christ, succeeded in bringing her to church where he is the head Pastor. She was brought in and started working in one of the departments in church, Women's ministry to b precise. She was determined not to go back to her former ways of life, so with this, she put in all seriousness in her new found faith. The women in that department treated her with contempt and disdain and hardly had anything to do with her. so many of them gossiped about her and she became a regular topic of discussion among the women. She noticed this and as a human, she felt segregated, alone & extremely grieved.

One morning while service was going on and time for testimony, this lady stepped forward.. Some of the women were already murmuring. She took the mic and said....... my name is Mary (not real name), I was a former prostitute, the church went silent..... she continued, while I was a prostitute and living in the hotel with fellow prostitutes, we shared everything together, we lived together and loved ourselves. But since I repented, stopped prostitution and started worshipping here, I have received no love among the women of my department and in the church. Everyone talks abt me and don't want to have anything to do with me. I am not angry with anyone but I have come to the conclusion that there is much love among my fellow prostitutes in the hotel than here, and for this reason I am leaving this place and going back to the hotel... seriously, she left that very day.

The pastor all this while didn't know what was going on,and when the woman said all these, he was furious with the women in the church but it was too late.

its her time to come and her eat her cake in Nigeria. Nigeria has turned to a fertile ground where foreign stars come to make money when their careers are dieing....

Even though marriage aint my thing., I don't see anything wrong with it. If God for example, come down from heaven and say Jennifer you must marry........I can marry a guy 15yrs younger. As long the guy sabi comb my eden and we love each other...love and combing is all that matters age is just a number...



This is brilliant..... am a guy, but I still think age is nothing between lovers. whether d lady is older or not. As for me, I have always loved older ladies... like jenny said, "Wey sabi comb men ontop "...

what a touching story.....

u said she is a school lever Na so what do u expect from such girl? she is a girl not a lady..... u self u no see adult go toast?

one problem I have noticed about guys is that when a Lady toastes a guy, he becomes proud and with that the relationship doesn't last. in my case, I believe for a lady yo summon courage to ask a guy out, weda by letter o, or by text messages o, or by whatever means, her boldness toasting u should be enough reason a guy should agree for her and take her serious, respecting her and showering her with love.... but instead d guy go start to de form too much fine boi.... childishness! am a guy o.

Dis OP mst b an ijebu man who read economics in U.I
Y? Dey where der b4 d OP buh d OP was able 2 give acct. Of their bill, u mst b ludwig von mises.

As long as a lady feels grown nd capable to chop man monii, she mst as well b capable 2 chop ABUNAA..[/quote]I no b ijebu man o..... seriously, I wasn't supposed to look at them but what actually made me to was that they were audible in their discussions.... also, I didn't pay attention to what they ate,but it was d cleaner who got frustrated and said it and that's when I got know... lastly, even if u want to do anything, u should wait till u get home,and not to start in public.. except he was trying to make her b in d mood

Some few days precisely on the 19th of September, I was taking a walk around the neighborhood here in Festac Town as a result of boredom. While I was heading back home, knowing fully well I am the only person in my home as my parent both work in Abuja and therefore are based there for the main time. Am not a good cook so on this day I decided to eat my dinner in one of these fast food outlets (sweet sensation to be precise ). I ordered and took a sitting position facing the television there. While I was eating, i heard the voice of a girl not more than 21years and I raised my head to see where she was and why she was laughing, immediately, I saw that she was with a guy years older than her.

Both of them where so happy that I think they both forgot they were in the public. To my amazement, the guy was busy touching this naive "innocent" girl inappropriately and she seemed to be enjoying the flow of things. within me, I was like this guy is taking advantage of this girl whom to my suspicion she just graduated from secondary school and thinking she's a "big" girl.

The point I want to make is this, at first I thought the guy must have spent thousands of naira for the food and drinks bought, but to my surprise this guy spent less than 1500 on both of them as they only ate meat pie and took soft drinks and he wanted to take it back from her body by all means available. And as they where going out, i over heard the guy saying " guess we are going to my place now"? and the girl was so happy. To me, i knew he was going to "devour" her...

As they left the place, one of the employees who came to clean up their table just looked at me and said that girl own don't finish today. For how much Na?

u r a cheat right from time but u just didn't know,..an opportunity came by and d real u showcased himself...

u tell him straight.... friends tell friends d truth.

u just met her and expect her to say yes to you and start calling back?


no b so Na!

if u love her, let her know and if u have been calling her regularly, keep doing it. with time she may start giving u a thought.

[quote author=LaurelP]Wat exactly is ur point?
Are u saying d girl is right and d guy is wrong
Wud u tell a guy u luv dat he's not ur type.


thanks jare

my first love loved me like hell but I was dull and a juu guy den... didn't even know how to go abt it until she left o.


why wasn't I smart self?

u know putting your hand on fire will burn u, u have done it several times but each time u feel it may be different that it won't hurt u....so u continue. issoriat!

technology has made us all forget our "traditional" way and ways of doing things.... the guy is shy but that's his own way of conveying his message and i guess it works properly for him.

at this age and development, u still de think of writing letter.... guy man up jare ... if u want her back, can't u go, see her and talk with her sensibly?