Politics › Re: Revolution Now August 5th Protest: Omoyele Sowore Gives Updates by ModestGal(f): 3:22pm On Aug 04, 2020 |
adioolayi: BlackLivesMatter protests still ongoing in USA, three good months after....The protesters resisted the police, the military and even the National guard. They weather against tear gas, bullets, beatings and all sorts of brutalities from security agencies...and yet, they did not back down. That protests has achieved lot of reformations in USA, laws are being changed in States and all sectors are removing anything that promotes racism .
Now in Nigeria, we keep shouting bad governance and all....and we are waiting for a "Jesus" to sacrifice his/her life, while we sit at the comfort of our homes, sipping burukutu...Make we continue ooo...We are not tired of bad governance in this country....when we are truly tired....We will be ready to dare consequences of forceful change The change is not only in the US but all over the world |
TV/Movies › Re: Eric Took Advantage Of My Weakness - Lilo by ModestGal(f): 3:18pm On Aug 04, 2020 |
I think I'm the only one that actually like Eric and lilo together, even Lilo herself is regretting why I'm here unhappy that they got separated, to me they look so cute together and I can't wait for them both to get married. NAWA for me o |
Fashion › Re: The Beautiful Men Of The Afar Tribe by ModestGal(f): 9:41pm On Aug 03, 2020 |
Omoluabi16: Ethiopians and their kins are known to be beautiful people.They have the arab/caucasian look
cc ednited You are wrong, this is why there's black racism and everyone see black people as ugly. No, they don't have the Arab/Caucasian looks, they look like who they are,they look original, that's their feature. You don't need to validate beauty with the Arabs or anything |
TV/Movies › Re: Did You Have Sex With Erica? Bright Asks Kiddwaya by ModestGal(f): 9:09pm On Aug 03, 2020 |
Lol |
Romance › Re: 5 Guys: Which Should I Choose? Help A Confused Girl by ModestGal(f): 10:16am On Aug 03, 2020 |
Op |
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Romance › Re: Advice Needed: Should I Go Ahead With The Introduction by ModestGal(f): 5:32am On Aug 03, 2020 |
Frankyboy1: You, the Alfa, bisi, your fiancée, your pocket, are all mad! Must your destiny be connected to women? You came into this world alone,and you alone is responsible for your fate and the outcome of your life This op is stupid wallahi, imagine that rubbish statement, his pocket is linked to a girlfriend even if the girlfriend is a cheater |
Crime › Re: Zainab Justina Adeyemo Raped To Death In Ondo by ModestGal(f): 1:09pm On Aug 02, 2020 |
Hmm |
TV/Movies › Re: BBNaija 2020 Live Updates Thread by ModestGal(f): 10:08am On Aug 01, 2020 |
I really love Eric and Lilo together. |
Romance › Re: A Nairalanders Fitness Challenge by ModestGal(f): 7:32am On Aug 01, 2020 |
MJBOLT:
na man dey behind this account 
Lol, so a lady cannot wish to have some packs again abi. Girls six packs are usually sexy. But I understand, you are naive |
TV/Movies › Re: BBNaija 2020 Live Updates Thread by ModestGal(f): 6:43am On Aug 01, 2020 |
Please I don't understand, is Nengi also snoring? |
TV/Movies › Re: BBNaija 2020 Live Updates Thread by ModestGal(f): 6:39am On Aug 01, 2020 |
I have a question, is that Erica snoring? |
Romance › Re: A Nairalanders Fitness Challenge by ModestGal(f): 5:20am On Aug 01, 2020 |
I want six packs and I'm knd of sad I don't have it yet. I hate wishing |
Romance › Re: UK Family Arrives Home From Holiday To Find Two Africans Hiding In Their Roof by ModestGal(f): 4:59am On Aug 01, 2020 |
Hmmn |
Romance › Re: I Want To Leave My Boyfriend For A New Guy. by ModestGal(f): 4:50am On Aug 01, 2020 |
PoliticallyInco: Two things control human behaviour
1. Instinct 2. Reasoning or Higher Intelligence.
Instinct make us behave like the lower animals. We see a male with a bigger mane and we want to mate with that male. We see a female with a broader hips and fuller body and we want to "impregnate" them. Step on a snake and instinct makes it in such a way that you will bitten 100 out of 100 times. But step on a human and you will get various responses but hardly a fatality.
Reasoning is what allows us think as humans. This is what we have that other animals don't. This is what sets up apart. So, listen your behaviour and feelings are not strange. Do not let anyone deceive you that your feelings set you apart as strange or deranged or ungrateful.
Those in relationships see people far better than their mates. However, you have to have the reasoning ability to understand that this is normal occurrence and there are guys out there that even have more than the new guy. There are guys that are more handsome, richer, will even take care of you better than he can and you can dream. Now when this happens. When you meet a lot of these guys what will you do? Dump this one and jump to the next? Or lie to yourself that "God this is the last one"? Let me make something clear to you. Forget all that bone of my bone and flesh of my flesh bullshit. That "made/ordianed in heaven for each other" crap. On earth there are many people you can get happily married to OR be happily in love with. Whenever you are ready you search within the possible areas of influence and sphere of activities you make a choice. If you don't like the choices you keep searching. Until you find the requirements you want. But when you choose to, please stay with the option.
Listen, temptations will never end. But if you feel this guy will treat you better and has better plans for the future which works for you both, then give it a shot. Now the question is what do you even want from these relationships? Towards what goal? Dating experience? Marriage? Just having company? Is he worth the wait and the trouble?
This will determine if you should simply end it with your current boyfriend or stick with him. Why don't you reply mentions now? You are the only one that said something very sensible here, you can chat me up through my signature |
Romance › Re: Please Why Are Many Nigerians Hateful On Social Media? by ModestGal(op): 8:15pm On Jul 31, 2020 |
lefulefu: biko i dont have that type of mentality.for you to eat u need to work and as for naija"s politicians they are a reflection of the nigerian society. Okay sir |
Romance › Re: Please Why Are Many Nigerians Hateful On Social Media? by ModestGal(op): 7:48pm On Jul 31, 2020 |
lefulefu: wich one is american ass licker again?  dont nigerian girls treat unexperienced guys or even worse more than that american girl gave that young dude? look if it were a nigerian girl she would have so much embarrased the guy that the guy would shed tears she was even nice sef so cos she is american i will now bash her? look the guy is green and inexperienced and the lady just played him for his inexperience next time when he"s older he will use a more matured method to woo a girl The fact that a Nigerian lady would treat someone worse still doesn't make it right. This is why in a post of mine, I wrote that wickedness in Nigeria is what we call smartness. Its not wrong for someone to like you, or soft for you, or put you in a position of power, or vote for you. Simply decline if you don't like it rather than take it as an advantage to act in a wicked manner. Its this same mentality that makes many Nigerians monsters, and the most annoying is that, it is people like you, that would complain Nigeria is bad, our leaders are wicked bla bla bla when you are also the one supporting and condoning training that made people become like that. This behaviour is mentally deep if you don't know, thesame attitude the lady manifested is same with what your politicians and leaders are manifesting. Nigerians don't support working for it, but want to eat from there. Well, if agree with this attitudes, then please stop complaining about bad things happening in the society, that ritualist is smart, that politician that looted you is smart, that rapist is smart. So please, stop complaining about anything bad happening because you are in support of behavior that could lead to that. An average Nigerian need to study psychology |
Romance › Re: Please Why Are Many Nigerians Hateful On Social Media? by ModestGal(op): 3:50pm On Jul 31, 2020 |
lefulefu: Actually i like this video.The girl is actually ahead of the game .She actually likes the guy but she considers him too young for her hence she is just playing around with him to pass the time.the part that got me in the video was the part the guy claimed he was living alone and the girl brought his attention to a lady that stood behind him while they were chatting and he was mumbling that it was his mom .Lesson to be learnt in that video its not by force to make friends with a western girl.When u know u not that exposed dont force urself on a girl who might be more exposed than you.Though i dont blame the guy cos he"s quite young..he is 20 yrs or he might even be much younger cos i suspectr he inflated his age to impress the girl.by the time he is 25 or more he will be matured and sensible enuf not to embarrass himself like this.I am not sure a 25 yr old guy or older would have embarrased himself and let a girl weda american or what have u play around with him like that.He is just young. Well, my problem is why do people like you actually think what the lady did was right, the lady did a very wrong thing. The fact that someone is innocent or immatured, naive,dumb,young or lame, is not a reason to take advantage of the situation and play them dumb like that, and that is why in the comments, you would see that many whites were talking bad about the lady rather than the man. It means an average Nigerian has been trained with a wicked heart, that is why we see guys actually sleeping with a girl they have nothing for and would probably hurt because they find the girl mumuish and likewise ladies, they would collect money and scam men that are soft for them and they have nothing for. Well, to me, you all are no different from a rapist,kidnapper, ritualist, just that your own degree of wickedness is not as high as theirs. And for you to like the lady, then you are an American ass licker |
Romance › Re: Ladies, Do You Prefer To Be Very Rich Or Have A Very Rich Husband? by ModestGal(f): 3:43pm On Jul 31, 2020 |
Just here to book space |
Business › Re: ||SCAM ALERT!!! Don't Be A Victim||*UPDATES ON PAGES 1-7* by ModestGal(f): 1:19pm On Jul 31, 2020*. Modified: 10:22am On Aug 03, 2020 |
Please there's a scammer trailing me, what can I do? This is his number 09 |
Romance › Re: Playing Mind Games In Relationship. by ModestGal(f): 1:10pm On Jul 31, 2020 |
Op, you are so sweet. |
Romance › Re: Why Do We Cheat In Relationship? by ModestGal(f): 12:33pm On Jul 31, 2020 |
Hmmn |
Business › Re: Graduate Of ABU, Zaria Selling Kunu by ModestGal(f): 12:09pm On Jul 31, 2020 |
K |
Travel › Re: Vehicle Falls Off Gwagwalada Bridge by ModestGal(f): 11:58am On Jul 31, 2020 |
Hmm |
Islam › Re: Happy Eid-el-kabir by ModestGal(f): 9:10am On Jul 31, 2020 |
ibrutex: Eid Mubahraq .... check your pm Taqabala llahu minna wa minkum Chat me directly through the link on my signature |
Islam › Re: What To Be Done If Eid Coincides With Jumuah (friday)? by ModestGal(f): 6:31am On Jul 31, 2020 |
Ok |
Islam › Re: Happy Eid-el-kabir by ModestGal(f): 6:28am On Jul 31, 2020 |
These mods are funny o, so you put beggers post on front page. Begger that opened his account this year and this month, who is likely to be one of the online liers and scammers.
Begger, your own don good for today, Enjoy |
Nairaland General › Re: Eid-el Kabir: Haske: Oil Business Mogul Greets Muslims, Calls On Adamawa Faithfu by ModestGal(f): 5:29am On Jul 31, 2020 |
K |
Foreign Affairs › Re: Breaking News President Trump Is Now A Social Media Influencer by ModestGal(f): 4:44pm On Jul 30, 2020 |
Lol |
Investment › Re: CHYMALL Everything You Need To Know About This Laucrative Mall by ModestGal(f): 4:41pm On Jul 30, 2020 |
Nackzy: Okay join the WhatsApp so we can chat on WhatsApp You can chat me directly through my WhatsApp link in my signature |
Properties › Re: Land For Sell by ModestGal(f): 4:40pm On Jul 30, 2020 |
kingspark72: I Got A Land That Is 4 Sell I can help you with what I do. Check my signature for details |