₦airaland Forum

Millenniumlady:
Can you imagine what a youth of this 21st century is saying Instead of him to think of ways to create vaccines for the corona virus he's trying to shoot his shot where his greatgrand father tried and failed.....He should have asked ote to bless him with job instead........Nigerian men are the worst thing to ever happen to this planet earth........Bunch of sex starve fools.

You are truthfully the real deal my Lady

barnny:
i didn't remember to edit that. That is what they send to me

Don't mind them, don't get depressed dear. Great things will surely come your way. Don't allow some company's corruption to weigh you down

dierich:
sorry to quote u, but I've been into a relationship like dat, my gf still communicate more with her ex, I later found out they are having no string attached. women have taught me a lot of lessons and I'll never take dem serious in my life and my next life if I'm lucky to have another life..

Why do I come across good girls then? I still believe you get attached to people like you. Upto this moment, I have never sat and talk with a bad corrupt girl before. So where are you all seeing these bad girls?
In fact, there's this lady I feel inferior to because of her kindness, and I always try to emulate her. But on Nairaland, you all say you meet bad ladies up and down

Hmmn
Happy Children's day to all children
As for me, there's nothing I love about childhood, nore teenagehood. As far as I can remember, I have always have this my adult mind, childhood was a bondage for me.
There's no sweetness that can be compared to myself at this age with total freedom and privacy. I greet who I wanna greet, I stay in door and close my door once I don't wanna mingle or engage in conversations, having my room to myself, locking myself up when I want, pursuing my interest as I wish.

I remember myself as far as I was 2years old, not like I didn't play at all as a child and wasn't depressed, but I was psychologically present and aware of the world. I remember how much I wanted to be an adult and live exactly this way, whenever I see old females then, I always think of when I will become like them and I felt sad when I would measure my height and not as tall as those older females.

I would prefer to die than to go back to childhood/teenagehood. Adulthood is everything I want

MajesticKris:
Sent money to my Ex 2yrs ago, Bleeped Her last Month

Why did you bleep her? Don't forget the law of Karma

MajesticKris:
I can never date a girl who is in talking terms with her Ex...

not to talk of sending your account number...

Why now?

H c d

Genset:
My ex-boyfriend just me money out of the blues, should i be worried? We broke up since the beginning of the year and haven't spoken since then. All of a sudden he texted me asking for my account number and then sent me money. It's just weird.

Lol, you are funny sis. Why you send account number to him?

Hmmn, Oga o
This is as a result of bad parenting, especially by people who abuse children in the name of being a disciplinarian.
As a result, they turn all their children into monsters without pity and they become judgy. They don't want to know if you make a mistake, so far it's something they are good at doing, they bash you for not being able to do it. They turn to monster wives, husband etc

Kirinwa:
Considering the government minimum wage of #30 000, it's understandable that it can only afford a Self con apartment. Ladies, assuming a man proposes marriage to you and cares about you, are you willing to marry him in his Self Con apartment?
Your opinion does count. Let the comments begin...

Yes

Hmmn, I guess topless old women protest helped. Wike should have mercy

kiddkash:
everyone wants a sad story so that people will rally behind them and say well done.
i'm not saying she is telling lies.
just like rappers saying they came from the gutter. while they really went to private schools
and their parents have a really good marriage.

there is no such thing as half way crook

I agree with you, truth is that it was her parents that helped her. There's no one with good parents that won't be successful no matter the number of rapes and pregnancy. There's even one in my Street right now, she currently has 4 children, got pregnant 6times, 2children are dead. But her mother did not relent, and made sure she has an NCE and a degree. Meanwhile, we have another in my Street, with two pregnancy and she wasn't even able to finish the Jss3. They both got pregnant around the same time, and shes even more brilliant that the other girl but no good parents. I watch both of them walk across the street daily, and sometimes, I usually feel like crying for the other girl who couldn't finish JSS3.

Those are the kind if people I really want to help, and they are the kind of people I want to read their stories one day in Nigeria. Because they are the truthful ones from the gutter.
If you share the same with me, kindly quote me please

Tabbaz:
Maybe ecurrency thread

Yea yea, never knew you were a Muslim. How have you been? How's business going?
And also, you have changed your profile picture of money

Tabbaz:
I agree with you

I think I know you somewhere on this forum?

Marknsukabag:
They lied to the rest of you that igbos are your enemies,and you believed them, and hated igbos with passion.
Now you've seen who your real enemies are.
We're just passing.

I never hated Igbo until I see how an Igbo man is culturally raised to hate, and feel superior to everyone else around.

Hmmn

onegig:
It's all apparent to everyone that what MOST Northerners practice is not Islam but a cult like religious fanaticism devoid of common sense or even followings of the same sacred Book they claim they are following.

There was no Ummrah this year, 95% sure there won't be Hajj this year. A "lesser" non obligatory Prayer like Eid is what our so called brothers would endanger the lives of others for? Like seriously? How would you enforce social distancing in the hundreds of Eid grounds on that day with the multitude of people who would attend?


Isn't this contrary to what numerous Hadiths say about conduct during a Pandemic?

Isn't protection of Life no matter the circumstances one of the cardinal points repeatedly made by the Prophet(SAW)? The prophet clearly stated in one Hadith not to place a "sick" person next to an healthy one. How would you verify who is carrying the Virus and who isn't on that day?

I think at this point the President should step in and enforce a total lockdown. Seems Ganduje is actually the stark illiterate they call him both in terms of education and religious intelligence.

I'm glad the eyes of Muslims is now opening.
And yet, the Northerners believe they are the true Muslims, just like the Arabs thinks they are the best Muslims

DenreleDave:
Oh my God, why is this happening in my state anambra?

Only us, baby factory, drugs factory, chinko assembly plant, eba n soup as palliatives and so many evil things.

God pls save anambra state we pray

Holy Mary Mother of Jesus, deliver our anambra from this evil

Hmnn

Hm

Congratulations to her

Congratulations to mother and baby.
Some people do not have any illness and might still not make it, for her to make it, it is indeed miraculous.
I hope no one was infected though

For your branding and social media needs and training, check my signature

Agric program for where?
Nigerian government and politicians scamming Nigerians since 1960.

Am

Lamanii22:
God knows I can't marry a first son/born.... Too much burden from his family... He'd answer you last....

Me that I'm now dating first son nko? You are scaring me o. His family's responsibility is on his shoulder and I am happy hes taking care of his family especially his mother. But I'm afraid, I hope he doesn't turn like that. I do advise him to make sure his siblings are well taken care of, and wish he would secure them well enough

Jabioro:
Give to him sex and food only,to you and your children planning for tomorrow is now ... don't give him money whenever he broke..get your land include your children name..He would soon realize he is not yet financially stable to accommodate the world in his personal experiences..When you get the land don't informed him,build it .. soonest he shall listen to you in tears..then he would love you more than before..Keep praying dear..May the good Lord crown your efforts..

I don't know we still have reasonable people like this. Thanks.
These women will continue to marry fools and enslave themselves in the name of wifey. Someone who doesn't care for his kids but love his family more, you are still asking if you should include his name?
No, she should kuku include the husband's sister as the owner of property

promzy555:
Buying a land won't solve the problem, instead you want to cause problem for your self. Someone advise you to engage him on a project. I think is a good advise, think about that very well.

My wife has away of engaging me into buying properties, she will take me there and tell me " Hot let buy this, don't worry, take and add to what you have. And one thing about me, is.. I always want to complete any project I start.

Women, she still find away of collecting her money back. My sister you know your husband weak point, quarrying won't solve anything.

so it is the wife that should study psychology before you know what is best for both of you? She should be the one to be doing all the tricks just for you to the right things?
I don't blame you, I blame the senseless women doing all that nonsense, if you like don't use your brain to know you should have a land and create a good future for your children. Abi is she a full housewife?
You people will make all our women go into depression by giving them too much responsibilities to carry. I cant even Imagine this nonsense you just typed and even proud of.

She needs to trick you before you do what is best for your family. She needs to take you to a land before you think you should get a land to build house? You are a shame to humanity

Women stop marrying fools please, marry responsible people so you can grow and nyuse your energy and brain to be plotting tricks for your husband to do best thing.

Anni3e:
Hi, I have been married for 9 years now, the problem I have with my husband is that his family members keep sucking him dry and the way he neglects us his immediate family.

He is the first child of 7 children, his siblings even the married ladies keep asking him for money. He keeps spending money on them and their husbands. His brothers keep crying they are broke, they keep leeching off him.

His two junior brothers that always ask him for money, one of them built a house in Port Harcourt and the other one built a big house in the village. Still they won't let him rest.

His married sisters are the worst. If they cough they would call him to send money, every minor thing they would expect money. Just this evening his sister called him to ask for money. We don't have a house of our own, I keep telling my husband to stop giving in to all their demands and invest the money on something, he would say I am turning him against his family.

We have 2 kids and I have told him we need to start saving for their future, I pay the electricity bill, foodstuffs, and most times the children school fees, he pays the house rent and rarely keeps money for home upkeep, he sometimes drops two thousand and that's it for the whole week. He always complains he has no more, but once his family calls him he sends money immediately.

I have saved enough to buy a land and I am not planning to include his name in the property. I don't know what to deal with, his family entitlement mentality or the way he neglects the kids and I and treat us like outsiders.

I am really pissed off and tired.

Sorry for the long post.

In this 21st century, you still asking if you should include his name or not?

If you like, include his name, let him die, maybe his family members won't claim the land is for their brother. But don't come here to tell us how you bought land and how your husband family snatch it away.

You are busy funding the house and yet you want him to be responsible? No, men won't be responsible unless they see what to be responsible for. If you like, don't abandon some house expenses for him and keep asking

Some women sha, they are the reason why males see us as idiots, because their ego is fuelled when they enslave themselves.
You are in slavery sister, and nothing is mutual in your marriage, you are carrying the higher responsibility. Abi no be you get pregnant, and breastfeed? How much would he pay for surrogate mother? And yet you still join him in paying for the bills. Mtchew

Hm

Ok

rolams:
You better stop hating men before it turn to another thing. Don't you know you will be the one to eat most of the fruits (gain more from your children). Men only impose their name on the children!

The children is for both of them. That is if the child becomes rich and how many people become rich in Nigeria? I don't even understand the kind of inequality marriage is and yet, men will still be misbehaving. I feel like cursing any man giving his wife emotional problems. Pregnancy is pains, labour is double pain, and yet one man will add to all the pains? Child's care is another mental problem. Then the man will still expect the wife to contribute to the house expenses, is that not wickedness? What is now the role of the husband? The wife will be expected to cook, respect the husband, serve him, lay his bed, wash his cloths etc. And with all these, the wife should still contribute? And when she gives attitude, its because she's a bad woman. Those idiots that made those African rules should be arrested and jailed I swear

SolidGains:
Can you imagine such a wicked advice.
How could a human think this way beats my imagination.

So a man ought to be mistreated once his pocket is either not big enough or lacked replenishment?

The way this world is treating the male species, they might soon go extinct.

That extinction would be better. I'm starting to hate men, rubbish people. So women would go into all those labour pains and still expect the wife to do 50/50? When the child will become both theirs? I'm sorry, it's a No and No