idtiwo:
Guys, are there married people hear that have secured fully funded foreign academic scholarship before Were you able to cope with your study abroad and still have enough to take care of your wife and kids back home ?? How easy was it ??.

I got a fully funded PhD scholarship and am wondering if it will be a wise decision to quit my job and go for the full time scholarship. Will I still be able to meet up with my obligations to wife and 3 children back home while studying abroad

Socratiz:



Is there any one he respects that you can intervene in this matter?

If you're Christians you may wish to inform your church leader or any elderly person who has some influence on him.

If not, you can think of a family friend but I advise such a person must be someone he respects.

I don't advise you inform his family member because his attitude may be a reflection of the family, in which case they won't be able to help.

You can send me a mail if you don't mind

ante56:


I have Calle his attention times with number but all to no avail
I can’t remember the last day he asked
“How was your day?
Even when I’m sick he doesn’t care at all
I have cried
Still no change
Reason why I thought of cheating so I wouldn’t care anymore
I won’t disturb him and I’m sure he’ll be fine

ante56:
What would you do if you are married, but your husband isn’t nice to you
Doesn’t show you attention, care or love but he has time for the ladies around him, gives them enough attention and care even though he claims he is not cheating
As a married woman who is lacking all these from her husband, is it okay for me to cheat on my husband?

ceejay80s:

I can't, it's far , from egbeda to surulere? Because of election, where will I run to when fight starts, after voting by 9am ,I go just dey hang around till 4pm ? I no fit

ceejay80s:
What of those that moved away from their house to another distant location, how will they vote?
This voting thing should be a card and thumb print thing so once u slot in card and thumb print, and try it else wher , u will be disqualified. I used to stay at surulere now I reside at egbeda, how do I vote?
A lot of lagosian moved from the former apartment to a distance place from last year to dis year, how would they vote?

Misunjay:
Plz guys where can i download Homeland series season 7 and 8

Omoluabi16:
I thought that ISTANBUL final in 2005 was football's ever greatest match until Today.

DAwest7:
same here my self and my lovely wife we are OBIdiently waiting for February make God spear our lives Amen

dirtydiva:
because most of them will disappear with the project fund, talking from experience

dirtydiva:
I wish to see Soludo achieve big but he should learn to leave other people ambition alone and focus on Anambra

Sweetvie:
5-6m is too small for Canada

Bokeeto:
Greetings Nairalanders, I would appreciate your candid advice about traveling to UK for my post graduate studies.

I come from a family of 4, all of us are graduates but none is gainfully employed, thanks to Nigeria's bad government system.

We've been struggling to make ends meet for a long time, no notable achievements from we the children.

My mom is late and my dad is a retired civil servant, so recently my elder brother's friend and his wife migrated to the UK.

He told my brother about the process, now my elder brother wants me to be the one to travel to UK so things can change for good in the family.

My people are planning to sell almost all of the landed properties we have, we're looking at 5-6 million naira or more.

I'll be 27 by March next year, I want to know if this is a smart move.

Would this venture worth the risk....

What is life in UK like...

What do I need to have to make it there

What should I expect studying in UK

Which soft skills can fetch me more money

I'm a guitarist here, can I do anything with over there?

Aside from UK, which other countries I can be studying and working part-time to make a living and help my people down here.

Please I would appreciate your contributions, God bless you all.....❤️��✊�

fakum:
Sorry my people this might be a bit long.

Yeah, be careful, just like every other addiction. Anything your partner do while dating will most likely continue in marriage, be warned.
I had sex an explosive sex life with my wife when we were dating and few years after marriage. We makeout everywhere with any little opportunity. Now we are almost 5 years in marriage and things have changed, though it has been coming gradually.

The last time we had sex was like 3 weeks ago, make I suck, NO, make I use hand, NO, and na she give me signal to come do ooo, I vex run my thing, cum and told her sex with her is now more of work. she got angry, I no send. Later in the morning, she brought the matter and I told her yes, she is making sex look like work, that she probably don’t enjoy sex with me anymore. She started saying its pressure, stress,….but I know it’s all lie, I had my suspicion (she doesn’t cook nor wash, virtually does nothing at home now aside her work which closes early and baby who we all look after).
3 days ago, I had a dream abut her, I prayed about it, she asked me about it and I refused t tell. Guys, throughout yesterday, conji wan kill me ooo, I just busy myself with phone. Later in the night, I came in and saw her sleeping, I surf net small , come sleep. I had another dream about her, woke up and time check, past 1 am. I saw her pressing her phone, probably doing her facebook as usual, that her fav app. Na so my suspicion start to play ooo, she started masturbating right there again, I vex but keep calm (this is not the first time ooo, normal level).

Now, this is why I’m angry, I LUV ORAL too much, its my favourite part of love making, for sometimes now, anytime I start my movement going downward on her, she will stop me, make I use hand na, NO, but see Aunty put her hand for THERE now. I’m not surprise, why? Because she confessed to me when dating that she is addicted to masturbation but working on it, that she will stop. Out of love I didn’t judge her, no one is a saint, I also saw it as maybe we can work things from there, bringing it in to our love making to spice things up in our sex life but now, I see my wife prefer masturbation to my oral and sex in its entirety. Guys forget, I’m not hyping myself but I dey try for oral. I can be there, 30min, 1 hr doing my thing (magic), and the result Is always awesome, as I gain more satisfaction in seeing my partner having orgasm than anything else.

Prior to now, because of excuses and stuffs, I have stopped asking for sex but anytime she gives signal, I go deliver. Now, I have made up my mind kind of, make she continue her masturbation, anytime conji hook me, I will find someone to give me mouth action till I’m relieved and movee. Worst case, 3k or 5k. You cant be starving me giving excuses while doing your thing. After all, this is one of the sins of marriage we were told during our class and she know.
I’m not a fan of f*cking outside, I neva enter another woman since we got married though I had enough changes and the pressure and I still don’t want to, not because of her though because she probably doesn’t deserve it but I’m going to get my BJ and have myself relieved issa decision I don’t think I will stop unless God says otherwise.

I will continue to be the loving husband she know, I wont change, I will even get better just as she continue to be the loving wife that she is, but we all have urge to be quenched.
So guys, don’t overlook anything you cant overlook in marriage, e get why! Once most people get what they want, they tend to change or show their real self and marriage isn’t an exception. Some just want the name “married” and have kids (like my wife, after all, she don marry, don get pikin) and once they achieve this, anything can follow though it ought not to be so. Its all my fault sha, I overlook everything ( probably because I know non is perfect and I saw some good traits in her) I wanted companionship as my main reason for marriage but hers were different(though see like attention die), I should have known better. Please marry who have same marriage goals as you.

Finally, this is not to discourage anyone from marriage , marriage is a beautiful thing and I’m happy I’m married and I love my baby (make una no think am oooo). Just pray and marry a good wife like me (even better).

#Peace!

rukyboy:
3 million. Cash is ready if its clean

daroz:
Just one picture?

alanto:
I remember when Buhari barred the borders to allow production and self sufficiency, there was literally no bad name existing they didn't call him they even called him new invented names now Obi is making it seem like a new idea and his zombie followers are projecting as such...

Peter Obi was talking about lifting all restrictions on importation and going into production and consumption and his followers don't see the contradiction.

iLegendd:
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Sunisonflex39:
Goood day my country People..
As you all can see how hard the country is, that these days we eat for survival, not enjoyment..

This is how I spent my last 1500 naira for food that will last me for two day I think..

I wanted to get dried fish, kpomo, prewikles, and leaf..but the money was not enough, so I had to buy half deica of garri first of 500..as garri is life saver..

I went to Tank market at rumukrushi in Port Harcourt

Priced this catfish for 800 naira...haba..things cost o..seller was telling me 1200. We letter aggred for 800 naira..I have 200 left.. bought Palm oil 100 naira and knor cube 50 and onion 50..very small Onion..

As no money to get the rest..man must survive..
Below are pictures of the food.

Picture 1 is the fish in a pot

Picture 2. Sliced onion, salt, pepper and Maggi

Picture 3. Palm oil and offor

Picture 4.. preparation

You can also do well to check my other thread as per bachelor cooking and managing money skill.....this is a 1k food..minus the half derika of garri...it will last me till tomorrow evening..

seborrhic:

Of course,now he is a tactical genius,but u failed to mention his failures with the same zambia team,same moroccan team he took to the world,disastrous spell with lille etc
Yes,he is definitely a good coach,but lets not because he led saudi to defeating argentina now attribute genius to his coaching resume

Workch:
nextier poll conducted in some people Ogun and Oyo rural areas with people who have voters card suggest that Obi has rural presence about electorates in the rural areas in SW.
Tinubu had 37% people with voters card saying they will vote for him while obi was second with 24%.
I am not saying that this survey should be totally relied upon, however, it’s a huge indication that Tinubu is not as popular as you think in southwest.
It gives a rough image of what’s going to happen

Naijapolitics03:
Hi everyone. I'm a popular moniker on the Politics section, however, I am currently going through some turmoil in my marriage. I cant use my main moniker because of politics ish...

Few years ago (about 4 years now), I moved to Canada with an F1 Visa. At that point, I was only 28 and married with the woman I loved. We had a daughter. However, While I was in school doing my MSc, my wife came in the second year as a dependant, together with our baby. A little over a year, she started complainning about the mundane and boring lifestyle we were living in Canada. I convinced our stay in Canada is not forever, as I equally planned to move back home once I saved enough and had a child while we stay so the baby can be a citizen. Figured she could no longer cope, and perhaps the Winter wasnt really helping matter. Because of her, I wasnt staying in a Shared appartment and was paying heavily for rent, bought a decent TV so she could occupied herself with that while I am in school. Despite her mum's and family pleas, she turned deaf ears decided to move back to Nigeria, a situation I didnt find so comforting because I became terribly lonely after she left. I started working shortly after my program and made plan with her family to set her up in business in Nigeria.

Early this year, my guys back home started telling me how they often see her in club royale partying with friends. I didnt take this serious untill I started to noticed some strange whenever I called her. She stopped doing video call with me without reasons, and there are times when we would have plan to have some sexy talks on phone during the night and she would dissapoint. I asked her about the party things and she excused that with loneliness. I planned to go visit Naija by December because I missed my daughter and wife too, but tbh, I dont know the situation of things as I am scared my wife has probably been cheating on me. And I have not inform her yet of my coming home.

NB: for clarification F1 in this case is a study permit. I used this so everyone could understand since F1 is mostly common in the USA