₦airaland Forum

rickleye:
Haha, it’s called midlife crisis.

Just tell her she is right and start the dating process again.
Many of us think our wives are like our mothers . Marry and keep for home. The game is changing bro. I am sure she has a friend on WhatsApp with whom she has discussed this with already.

1. Plan a date nite every week . Go catch a flick and have someone watch the kids.
2. Do something together with the family once a month. Go to Olumo Rock and Beach . A family outing .
3. Don’t forget her birthday make it exciting ( get her flowers or money - depending on her love language)
4. Make an effort to show PDA infront of the kids. Steal a kiss 💋, slap her buttocks , call her sexy mamacita or siren.
5. Make sex impromptu. After coitus , ask would like a glass of water or wine to relax ( she will laugh and say , thank you yes or no )
6. If you are just Spooning dude , change into missionary or doggy . ( now sex and love are not the same) . Massage and ask her where she may want to be touched to excite her …

Make the effort !!! You might not be comfortable doing any of the above but as you mentioned it appears she never “ lived “ done anything she wanted to do . Her first born is 10.
And it’s been mummy this , mummy that !

I would give her the leg chain *

Don’t ignore her warnings or else someone else will fill the void.

@Op take this advice

Brendaniel:
Tinubu supporters will be the most confused people here, they hailed Wike for dealing Peter Obi's supporters in the same manner for Tinubu, now their APC candidate was treated the same by the same Wike.

Should they insult Wike for doing to them exactly what he did to Peter Obi's supporters for Tinubu ?

The APC candidate in Rivers is not backed by Tinubu. He is practically the Obidient's candidate. Tinubu backed the PDP candidate and was initially backing the SDP Candidate (pre Wike Alliance).

Rivers is the other way around.

Obidients lost in Rivers and Tinubu & Wike won

You guys cannot allow people fasting to fast in peace. The message from peak had no undertone but you guys still found a way to insult the religion of others.

ekolobaba:
Mechionu gi. Aturu like you.

Why the mumu dey call himself traditional ruler for another pesin land? I know say na why him carry chest like voltron before dem give am wotowoto.

Ndi ara.

The Yoruba Community in Anambra State, at the weekend, coronated the third Oba of Awka, Alhaji Abdul Olahan, popularly called Ezechinedu, (Leader led by God) by his admirers.

Before him were Oba Owolabi I and Oba Oseni II whose transition took place about a year ago. The new Oba, who has spent 68 years in Awka, was barely two years when he was brought to Awka by his late mother, Alhaja Afusat Olahan, to join his late father, who was a tailor, Hamzah Olahan, from Ede town, Ede North Council of Osun State.

https://guardian.ng/news/yoruba-community-in-awka-coronates-new-oba-gets-soludos-assurance/

ekolobaba:


Eze gburu gburu of Lagos.

Ndi Igbo get eze for Lagos? Nna na wa oo.

The Yoruba Community in Anambra State, at the weekend, coronated the third Oba of Awka, Alhaji Abdul Olahan, popularly called Ezechinedu, (Leader led by God) by his admirers.

Before him were Oba Owolabi I and Oba Oseni II whose transition took place about a year ago. The new Oba, who has spent 68 years in Awka, was barely two years when he was brought to Awka by his late mother, Alhaja Afusat Olahan, to join his late father, who was a tailor, Hamzah Olahan, from Ede town, Ede North Council of Osun State.

https://guardian.ng/news/yoruba-community-in-awka-coronates-new-oba-gets-soludos-assurance/

naijainstinct:
Only rubbish will emanate from your household. IPOB apologist. Next

your tribalism has blinded you into thinking reason means IPOB.

The world evolves quite fast sha. You'd probably learn from your folly in no distant time

seunmsg:
We are simply doing everything possible to prevent migrants and Yoruba haters from taking over our state. It is a legitimate duty.

it is as tribalistic as they come. Although it is even more ignorant

You are no different from the so called yoruba haters

Meti99:
I wonder why Ibos are not shouting like this in Kano or Kaduna or any other place in the north?

Or is it only in Lagos election is holding??
Or is it that there are no Labour Party candidates there?
Or there are no ibos living in the north?

Northerners have taught them lessons and they can't try shits with them, they can only try it with the gentle Yoruba people..

Chai, Yoruba don suffer

why would a lagosian be focused on Kano when he is voting in lagos

Should a yoruba man in Rivers be focused on Lagos election or Rivers election.

Has tribalism eaten your brains so much

naijainstinct:
Guber elections are holding in 28 states across the federation but na only Lagos videos we dey see.

They have abandoned their region to UGM and IPOB and are bent on determining the fate of Yorubas in the South West.

Two months ago, I was never a tribalist. But these animals will bring out the beast in you. What you cannot take in Anambra or Enugu, don't bring it to South West. Three weeks ago, I saw a video of some elderly men in Enugu saying they cannot allow an Ebonyi man to come and contest in their state. Imo man will not allow Anambra man on his cabinet. They will disown their own for marrying an "outsider" yet you want to tell us how things should be run in our region.

You guys keep playing senseless politics that has never favoured you since the civil war. What will be the fate of Igbos in Lagos and South West after the elections?

This same behaviour is why the South Africans, Ghanaians, Libyans, Indonesians, Indians etc are hostile towards us. This same attitude by a section of the country in bringing disrepute to our nation by repaying their hosts with hostility and crime.

Just yesterday, I saw a video of an IPOB wannabe disarming a South African police officer of his pistol and his fellow tribesmen were there hailing him to shoot the officer. If the SAs decide to pounce on all of you, you will now expect solidarity from the rest of us against Xenophobia.

I am patiently waiting for the animal that will quote me to say rubbish . I get plenty time today. Thank God, it's a weekend.

you are saying rubbish already. There isnt much to add

seunmsg:
Go home if you’re not voting APC. The owners of the land have spoken and so shall it be.

even you.

You guys are terrible and are as stupid as you are wicked!

N3TRAL:
Omoni Oboli dey craze.


Polling Unit no dey Delta State abi Delta State no need good governance?

I repeat that she's very mad.

Abeg INEC write una figures 😂

If there's anybody this olosho should vote against, it's the donkey's stooge , Sheriff Whatever, in Asaba.

There's no difference between me and GRV except that he's a stupider social media troll than me and I speak better. As for Governor of Lagos State - he will not become one.

why should she vote in Delta state when she is a Lagosian?

chiefoga:
He should talk to his people first, once they stop being tribalistic, we’d stop treating them IN KIND.

his people? where do you think he is from.

Oh you think everybody is Igbo abi

God1000:
Too bad

Seeing Igbos and Yorubas fighting each other makes me sick, there's division everywhere in Nigeria today, even among minorities

Tribalism is a big problem in Nigeria, we still have a long way to go, nigerians still vote along ethnic and religious lines

This is why I like Rwanda

I thank God for giving me a good heart not to hate anyone, forget my political affiliation

indeed. These two tribes are the biggest obstacle to true Nigerian nationalism

Dapagun:
7. When you pull down the toll gates, I hope you have a plan set up to generate funds to maintain that road. The toll levy is the reason that road is in great shape and except you are prepared for potholes….oh well….

his plan isnt well thought out but the Lekki-Epe road is in a terrible shape.

That road is the poster project for Lagos state government inefficiencies

MetroLane:
You Put a Muslim in Charge of INEC and you expect a Muslim-Muslim ticket not to win.

All the Urchins that were praising Buhari in the beginning, remember how it ended with you guys swearing for him the past few weeks ago.

Tinubu will be no different, After all, Mc Oluomo's son already said They own Lagos and Nigeria.

Urchins, any of you that dare to leave this country within the next four years. I'm here to tell you that you're going nowhere, if you try it, na Death straight.

can you guys tackle issues without resorting to religious and tribal sentiments?

My Muslim wife has been distraught since the results were announced. Are you saying she would have rigged out an Obi she loved and voted for if she was INEC chairman?

TriCee:
Normal, the gap should have been more than that though, them no meet up with the huge mago mago.
This is not about Igbo/Yoruba issues. Every tribe voted Obi in Lagos.

exactly

Yamiriflathead:

Although disappointing
Tinubu tried to hold Lagos with the figures he pulled so far. Lagos is the Capital of Southern Nigeria, so what were you expecting?
This was a fight between ibos+SS+woke yorubas against Tinubu supporters in Lagos who are mainly yorubas and maybe Hausas in Lagos.

I hope Tinubu and yorubas have learnt a bitter lesson from Lagos Elections not to befriend and feed a cub because it is hopeless and dying. It will grow up and eat u up someday.

The take home from this defeat is..

Yorubas need to stop drafting non yorubas into the civil service and stop giving them prominent appointments. There are always technocrats who can always fit into any political office from the SW

Yorubas need to stop selling their lands to non yorubas in Lagos

Yorubas need to stop giving out local government of origins to non yorubas in Lagos

Yorubas need to stop allowing non-yorubas to contest for Elections in Lagos and

Yorubas need limit the numbers of voters registration of non yorubas going on in Lagos. They can't come and dictate to you on how to govern urselves after creating an enabling environment for them to thrive.

Congratulations to the incoming President of Nigeria BAT the ASIWAJU of Lagos nothwitstanding

the lessons are always tribalistic. shame on you guys.

similar shame to any igbo person who gives the defeat of tinubu in lagos an ethnic coloration.

justlovesfarmin:
A close call between APC and PDP. Good enough for Asiwaju in a state with that much crisis within the APC.

I hope Obidients will learn from this elections.
Insulting people older than your parents and who have achieved more than your parents can dream of, insulting Yorubas, calling hausas almajiri , insulting Muslims and trying to divide Yorubas along religious lines won’t win you elections.


Nigeria will do well under this government. Stop cursing yourself and your unborn children because your preferred candidate did not win.

Nigeria shall be great

we are in this Niegria together na.

Y'all said same about Buhari

Tochitee:
Take this from me, Lagos vote on Saturday is going to be a vote to make a statement.

The vote is intended to determine the actual population of Igbo in Lagos.

The vote will address Igbo/ IPOB religion dichotomy where they termed Yoruba as Yoruba christian and Yoruba Muslim

The vote will permanently address the issue of Lagos is no man's being propagated by our Igbo brothers

Finally, the vote will address the political lies and character smeared of tinubu by the same Igbo people that benefited so much more than any other region in the area of political appointment and elective position in Lagos State.

so all vote for Obi will now be counted as Igbo votes. you guys want to simply overestimate the population of igbos in Lagos

Obi is going to get a lot of yoruba and other non-Igbo votes. Lagos remains Yoruba land (both in history and majority population) and Obi votes would not change that.

FreeStuffsNG:
O ga o.

The directive from the President is an illegal directive that disobeys lawful court order.

Everyone should please call down.

Election holds in 5 days after day . You should all come out en masse to vote for Asiwaju. Only Asiwaju can stop them from turning your old notes into tissue paper.

Once Asiwaju wins, old notes will remain till December 2023 and Emefiele will be fired for incompetence.
Every one should remain calm please.
check my signature for free stuffs!

the problem is that most of our old notes (at least the legitimate ones) are already with the CBN. I fear the CBN would focus its energies on releasing new notes rather than sending back our old notes.

iTommysco:
You sure say you get house whole

I fit be the only member of my household na

madridguy:
It is good, who win bronze for football competition dey celebrate too.

this guy wicked sha

3rd is the realistic position for Obi.

Anyway, as for me and my house, we will vote Obi

Laple0541:
When are they going to arrest Obi?


Afterall that James Nwafor worked for him as a governor to silent innocent souls.

Soludo has been arrested?
Obi was CSP?
CSP's report to governors and not IG?
Police is under states and not federal?

Tribalism is your bane.

Eketem:
The irony is that if she still worked for Aisha and somebody got beaten like this, she will be all writing defence for Aisha and doing damage control. This is the thing with creating and feeding a monster, it consumes even the ones that cares for and feeds it when push comes to shove.

indeed

holatin:
my tribal comment? where is it ? show me. what is it with a lot of you that ur brain has been configured to support tribe and religion even when they are wrong .

dude just check your old posts na

lol @ the bolded. You lots can also be quite delusional

tstx:
This man has gone raving mad

Actually, it is Buhari that really went raving mad in going against the supreme court.

that of El-Rufai is a much lesser madness and is only because legal tender is exclusively within federal powers.

The politicians Buhari is trying to catch already stockpiled the new notes. Most of the presidential candidates have commercial banks at their beck and call. At least one (likely two) of them own a bank by proxy.

Buhari and cabal are just suffering poor masses. The politicians feel it less.

holatin:
how did you even get likes on a stupid comment like this....mehn nairaland has really lose his past glory. Jonathan bleeped up heavily, reason buhari became an option then. stop making him to be a victim. his cronies sucked everything they laid eyes on dry. mehn I feel ashamed reading ur comment

you should be more ashamed about your tribal comments all over nairaland

Acidosis:
They will still go and vote APC.


In 2015, governors ganged up against Jonathan because he refused to share Nigerian's savings and sovereign wealth funds. People refused to listen to Jonathan and his advisers like Peter Obi and Madam Iweala. We are yet to recover from that sharing till date.

We are in 2023 and the same set of criminals that attacked Jonathan are out again to act as 11th hour activists. Pay attention to the trajectory of events. They always come out few days and weeks to another election to "stand" with the people and act as the new opposition party.

Any form of protest in Abeokuta and any other APC stronghold should never be taken seriously.

to be honest, the only thing APC has been good at is in being an opposition party. APC is skilled in playing opposition even when they are ruling. The party has been playing both ruling and opposition since 2015

localbreed:
Why I Don't Support Tinubu for President of Nigeria

Personal reason: I don't like the choice of his Vice, he strikes me as the true face of Bokoharam.

Health reason: He is obviously struggling with his health and memories. It is not his fault that he is old, but it is his fault that he has refused to rest. I won't push him to an office that his health and age will not carry. He will end up ruling by proxy, which is not good for a country like Nigeria.

Reason based on justice: GEJ and his party were voted out of office based on incompetence, it is only fair that with the woeful failure of APC that has superseded that of PDP, the party should not be rewarded with another tenure.

Based on morals: Tinubu has consistently lied. He lied about his age, his education, and his family. They even hired people to act as bishops and priests in one of their unveiling programs. I do not trust anything he is promising. Even more, is the fact that he is an alleged drug lord and he has not denied his dealings with illegal drugs. My moral conscience won't allow me to consider him.

Religion: He is Muslim, his Vice is a Muslim and they both want to take over from a Muslim. In a country like ours with about 50% Christians, they are simply saying that the North has no Christians. And to make it more obvious, El Rufia in one of his recent interviews described the northern Christians as an "enclave".

Issue base: His major drive to be president is based on the fact that he considers the presidency as his turn (emi lo kan). Even on issues he has spoken about, none is coherent. And even if you think anyone is coherent, they don't seem to have emanated from him.

Note: I have the right to my opinion on the candidates.
This is my personal opinion.

fair point

Ekemini11:
Link to poll: https://redfieldandwiltonstrategies.com/peter-obi-leads-decisively-in-nigeria-polling/

3351 Nigerians. lol.

What sort of sample size is this?

There is no way that sample size can capture Nigeria's voter demographics.

yarimo:
Obedient attacking each other looking for sympathy votes, this tactics won't work

the way you guys lose your conscience because of tribe and/or political handouts is disheartening

Antoeni:
The Sweet thing is 99% of the Northern Christians are OBIdient.

Add that to SE / SS And 60% of S W , Then you Will Understand Why Peter Obi Already Has His inauguration Speech Ready.

you lots are funny. How can Obi win 60% of the south-west

I am Obidient by the way but the stark realities are that he will come third. Not a bad third but a third with millions of votes