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i get so bored when ppl think love is all about money.

MizEmerald: i don't need advice from a hypocrite like u,so seal dat ur maggot infested mouth

whether u r happy or not, i will say what i feel like saying. take it or lv it. yo choice. stop selling yourself short. u r better than u actually realise. have pride n brains , u'l go far

she must just stop loving friends so much. there is a way a married woman must associate with ppl and once u get married u cut down on certain types and the way u just hang out

wats the use of marrying someone u dont love and wats the use of marrying someone who dont love u ? i dont wana toture nobody

wat will make u buy the car if u r already getting it for free. the only thing u have to do is buy fuel to keep it going and when its broken u can just get rid of it coz u never bought it in the first place. sisters spend yo youth wisely

m about to but i am not ready. i feel like delaying it for a year or two. plz dont judge me coz u dont know me

op what would u do if he started being there for u financially ( even if u dont ask) then you get married but 2 years after marriage he goes through some difficulties which result in him being broke for another 2 years? would u still be there or would u walk? have u ever felt the pain of taking your hard earned cash and just gave it to someone just like that ? is your sex for sale sugar?

not every nigerian man who asks an american girl out is paper or evil motivated. U have to know again that men hate it when we nag. if yols r meant for marriage , just be patient it will happen naturally in its own way. By pushing him into it u r only pushing him away. just go along , take it 1 step at the time. open your eyes and your heart and allow nature to take control coz the last thing u want is to get married to a man who is not ready. No need to ask many questions. Just go with the flow.

carlos1: Hehe! Hehe! Thank God Say I be man o, because me sef no go fit carry water melon for belly for nine months den come shit am out again. lai lai, I no fit o, But as a man, Na to just enjoy put the tin inside dia come encourage and assist my wifey tru d nine months till she born. Abeg my people, e no easy 2b woman o. I hail all women here. Una too much o. **Dancing Azonto**

atleast someone understands. Thanks bra

buy a gun and kill the one attempting the molestation. sounds harsh but i am tired of all this abuse sisters face. why do men think they can get away with everything? why do we allow them to get away with things. i know wat i said above about killing is not reality but goshhh m just so tired of how the society sees ladies. just because she allowed u to give her a lift, it don't mean she is your free gift

pasqal09: Hw much come b brideprice kwanu?

differes from one person to the other. Its the family which decides and non of the ppl getting married

guys m still soooo scared. Can u blv that my 19year old sister just told me that she is pregnant. she is just a baby and i want her to continue with her life without any problems. i wana ask her to allow me to raise the baby as my own but i do not know how she will take this coz as much as she is young she might bond with the baby and even wana raise her

look exes will always say stuff. ignore it if u dont like it

y does this list seem as if there only husband here is the one on the last item. what about the other types?

listen brother man. your family turned their backs on you when u needed them and she was there for you. now all is well and they r back in your life again and they dont want her? like really? the only person who was there for u and u r willing to loose her because of ppl who have showed that they can never b there for u when u need them? come again biko. u must b kidding me.

wow so when we hear these lies what r we supposed to do? advice plz

i can't make fun of such beautiful babes. they r cute

honey old question. i have seen a similar thread here on nl b4. yes i would marry outside my tribe

for a guy i know how u ppl always make it seem as if u r they main man if u play a woman but for a lady is kinda bad

if it means one has to pay their brideprice to be married. then i'll pass. i can help out financially when it comes to other matters but not pay my own brideprice m sorry m just not that desparate

seniourman: Girl plz is dat an advice

its not advice. its just how i see it. this is not a new situation

[quote author=Mrs. Mango]What about the kissing aspect?[/quote]it might have been just figure of speech. u know how us ladies talk. sometimes i can say ooooh my word i am so hungry i an eat a cow. do u think i will really eat the whole cow? no darling. ohh maybe we say oohh i am so angry at so so i am just gona kill him when i see him. do we end up killing the person? no

its sad enough to find your man two timing u with someone now for u to date him even after he has told u his situation. ouch for me i feel that is a case of low self esteem coz i always wana b number 1 in my mans life and can never ever ver tolerate him having another number 1 else where. the funny thing is that married men never hide it. they always tell but some sisters think they r just cool by dating someone who sees the as fiftysecond best. I am sorry but i value myself more

yah if the husband can afford it that would be nice. but if he cant't we can help right?

she was talking to a lady not a men. she said she loved the dressssssss. she ain't cheating sweetheart. we use words like darling all the time when we talk to our girls

50calibre: You are in dreamland, just wait till grey hair and wrinkles begins to appear, you'd see the logic behind paying your own bride price.

I have seen up to three women who not only paid their dowries, but imported the man.

its all a matter of pride sweetheart. Will u be proud to tell your kids that u paid your own brideprice? so if u r willing to pay for yourself y organise a brideprice anyway. y dont u just to wersten wedding then end things there coz u r lying to yourself by paying. There is a reason y your man shud be the payer after all u r not marrying yourself. that is abomination. do u think our forefathers were stupid to design things this way? abeg na

maybe when u dance u should try dance with one of your friends and not alone as dancing alone may send the wrong msg to some guys. they might be thinking u r looking for someone to dance with

i love this thread. Thank u sir

druid06: This is a woman behind the cloak of deception and parading herself to be of the masculine gender. No real man would write to those utter garbage.

hahahahahhaha funny.

i forgot my first love when my second love came along. humans r so easy to forget. it might take long even up a year or two but honey u will forget blv me

Richfella: My sister no mind them, you are not greedy. He told you to make a WISH and you did. It's left for him to say "Babes, I can't afford that one at the moment, how about ABC phone, OK?"

You didn't make a 'gold-digging' demand out of the blues. No mind them ok.

i agree

lol wat a question. stingy i can tolerate but cheating ohhhhhhhh myyyyyyyyyyy gosh