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THANK U OP

well if he could see my first ever thread he would run.

amanda2013: word

pardon?

ankpask10: Some women just love to ask stupid and irrelevant questions.

How can you ask a guy who is about to insert his d*ck into your vagina if he trul
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y don't u just finish the question instead of making us curious

why do bzns people go in to bzns? don't u think the answer is already infront of your face?

thats harsh and demonic. what right does she have to cut up someone's member just because he did her wrong.

that is y one is supposed to be ready before starting the dating game. Its nice but can hurt sometimes

all relationships have ups and downs and heartbreaks are a huge part of the dating game. BLB it or not time is the greatest healer of all wonds and one mustn't force themselves to heal quickly. Allow her to cry and have all those negative emotions but try persuade her to stay away from suicidalthoughts. Normally when a friend of mine goes through such i always show her my own heartbreaks. I count all the heartbreaks i have had and show her that in 3 months she will not even remember the guy's name. The world is not your momma's kitchen and before u get that 1 good guy u gona have to go through a lot of rubish first. I know when a heartbreak is fresh it looks like it will never end but honey no pain is in your life to stay. Ask her to hold on to the pain, feel it deeply and tell u how she feels in 3 months. Bet she will not even remember the guy's name

what do u have to gain by giving fake advice to someone u will never even get a chance to meet?

cinammon: An HIV positive mother or relative is different from a total stranger who u r employing as 'a help'...haven't u heard enof bizzare stories to make u cautious U can't keep an infected relative away because U love and TRUST them, it's d natural family bond...but U can't rate 'd help' same as u rate a family member...this is because no matter how u try to b nice, evrybody has their own intentions @heart...I knw of a frend whose house help used needles to puncture ha eyeball wen she was just 3yrs old, now she's a full grown lady wit jus one eye...u take in a stranger who is HIV+, what if they decide 2 secretly nd deliberately transmit d disease to the innocent kids?? Testing 'the help' doesn't mean discrimination, u can't totally trust a stranger wit ur family.

lets us just hope u or anyone close to u will never be rejected for a job just because of their hiv status

Tejufemi: wts up wt d way i think?i shud b asking u dat....i am not saying I'll stigmatize dem,make dem feel unwanted&terrible,but show dem love....not 2d extent of exposing myself wen wisdom will say don't share sharp objects,else,contraction....bring it on

well if that is how u feel. So how would u feel if u did not get a certain job just because of your status? So an hiv + mother should never cook for her kids?

In life i have realised how much other people's views matter in helping me make the right decision so before i give advice anytime anywhere i put my self in the person's shoes and wonder how it would affect me if i were on the receiving end. So yes i do practice what i preach. NB: Its never a good idea to advice someone and be telling them '' dump him, divorce him etc'' advice should be about making sure that both sides are treated fairly and logically and ending a particular relationship before exhausting all the possible solutions is never a good idea because love is a matter of the heart and its not some oil company where u can get read of an employee and never miss them

Tejufemi: me i agree 100 times,because if d person is cut by the general knife d whole house use,what's d assurance that d virus won't b contracted if d househelp has d virus

wow. SO there are people who still think like this. Tell me when last did u check your hiv status? You brother? sister? cousin? uncle? or your lover? Let me ask u, what would happen if your cousin contracted the deases? would u never allow them in your house? Would u never eat their food? What if by some mistake u end up in hospital and they accidentally inject you with the wrong needle and gues wat u contract the deases? would u resign, kick yourself out of your home and never eat your own food?

i love most of the things stated here but i am just worried about the house help being tested for HIV? I just wana ask. So what if the person is HIV , does that mean they do not get the job? if your answer is yes. I disagree with u

Not all men are dogs and not all men are saints either. No one can even be able to read another's mind to see what their intentions are. The only thing i can say is that ladies must make sure that they are ready mentally and physically before dating because each an every relationship will bring its own ups and downs. Happly ever after is mostly for the movies. People must stop playing victim to circumstances. That is y i say before u start MAKE SURE U R READY FOR WHAT EVER WILL COME YO WAY

i am normaly so natural because i want him to wake up next to the person he went to bed with last nite. We all know that make up comes off when sleeping and in the morning we see the real u but now and then i do some artificial stuff just to keep him knowing that i can be all woman in one and when i do i dont realy take that long. Guys like to exagerate and make us seem like we sleep infront of the mirror. God bless all the make up manufactures

nice read i love the last one more. Most good relationships do well because those lovers have become friends as well.

I am scared of being with someone who does not seem to love me so the moment i realise that i am too busy loving someone who does not love me back i would run. The funny thin is most of the time people are in such situations but they can't see

this thread should be closed. It such a load of racist shit. Why must everything be about black and white? i hate this thread with all my heart. Black woman are human too. Yes i said we BLACK and Proud women are humans too and there world would be a better place if racism would end. This post has nothing but racism. Black sisters never listen to such bull as this, even those white women who feel as if black sisters are hating, yols wake up and make the world a better place. It does not always have to be about colour u know.

op seems u have been doing a lot of dumping

its when someone wants to be nice to u only when they want and they are rude without considering your feelings then they wana turn and make as if you are the one who is wrong when u tell them to stop that shit

Eze so u love her hah but you are willing to risk her getting anal cancer. Wow u r really inlove

Tyche: Nice talk Sister

Thank you sir

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Fkforyou: @OP...Are you trying to console yourself?....*no offense*

non taken. Yes i am consoling myself. I am a woman and i go through things which other woman go through. Its time to break the silence and understand that whatever we go through is not new but the solution can start with us. A new tomorrow starts with me as an individual. Those who wana take something for themselves from this can, those who wana mock can but i will not hide issues which affect so many and so many still go to bed silently as if all is well

Most of the time us sisters are being scared of being alone. Sometimes we are depending on the guy financially. Low self esteem and sometimes it happens that the lady was heartbroken or dumped before so she is scared that she will never find love again but in life i have learnt that men are like taxis. You miss this one, you can count on catching the nest one. No guy is worth u fighting for , it will only swell his head and i am not in the business of stroking the male ego so i refuse to fight. If you go , good riddens to bad rubish and plz dnt come back, dnt even try make small talk when u see me coz honey even old widows always get hungry men running after them so what would stop an opposite off that from getting

ideamaster: No. I am not the only one. So many others have seen it too but they choose not comment.

What prompted the write up?

coz i realised that most sisters always sell themselves short

lol

There is nothing wrong with you sugar. I doubt if you will be able to breastfeed if you go for implants and its not as if they will last forever coz you will dfntly need to go back again. Please love who God has made u

ideamaster: Hmmmmmm. Monica, how come I am just seeing this?

lol by the looks of things, it seems you actually the only one who saw it.

can u please explain y number 3 please