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i used to think that it was a waste of time and good feelings of joy but when you actually sit down and compare relationships and marriage i realise that they can never be the same. In marriage you are proud to have sex , in a relationship you feel like you are loosing something precious especially you realise this when you breakup with the guy or when you are having trouble with him. You actually realise that should you have not given him the cookie he would treat you more differently. BLV me honey a man will always treat you better if you wait till marriage. I was blind now i see, as for me i wana wait for that ring first now. I am done playing. Thank God it did not take me long to realise this

fear paralyses you but bravery is for the achievers

girl would meet boy. Fall in love. Give her self to this man even if he is not all that. Most woman are romantics at heart and would do anything to be with the one they love. Guy would see this and be stupid enough to take her for granted.He will neglect his duties as the man and expect the woman to do all and even suck up to him coz he thinks he is God's gift to her.A wise man will understand that a good woman is hard to find and he will want to hold on to this diamond but a fool will take her for granted, the woman will eventually wake up and realise that she has been foolish and been deceiving herself by stayin. Gues what, she will leave him, relocate and go start a new life. She will cry sometimes because the heart is very foolish but she will bounce back and God will bless her with the loves she knows she deserves. Dump the zero and get you a hero. . This sounds like a very beautiful woman i know. Baby you know yourself.

then my dear poster there would be more divorce and unhappy married couples. If you do not know what i mean, find out exactly what goes on in marriage then come tell me this your small story

but there is a simila post to this one right? so y post 1 thing twice?

hun she is not playing you at all coz you are not yet in her game. You just need to stay away from her. Stop making feelings sounds like they are such a huge issue. You can get over her if you try. Now go and try

you my dear poster sound like a child who needs to keep doing the phone thing and stop the hotel . The way you wana do it ( 2 hour hotel) you make things sound like she is a prostitute. Now tell me since she stays with her folks and you wana pay for an hour at a hotel what will you do if she gets pregnant coz a baby is not a 2 hour responsibilty but a life time responsibility. Then her daddy will dfntly know you have been fucking her baby and she go shot you. Just keep it in the pants pal if you wana preseve your babe

mofolorunshoabi: It is over! My only joy is this outcome. When a man concocts so much lies just to have his way, it is this kind of result that you get. Thanks

so now where to? whats gona happen now?

SINCE WHEN DOES se*x kill babies?

mofolorunshoabi: The divorse petition was thrown out (dismissed) and no mention was made on custody.

so wil you continue being married to a man who stay with another woman and meets you at hotels? what kind of marriage will this be? are you only married by name coz honey the actions says you are just a side thing

[quote author=Mazi_Omenuko]^^^u got it right! Those responses from OP are feminine. We guys don't shy away; even if we don't love you and have no hope of returning your love, we can always reach a compromise somewhere.

So our reply, with a smile on our face, 'I love you more...' Then the kisses, then the caress, then the fvckk...

Then the question, what was it you said 30 minutes ago...?[/quote]true that. Anyway i have learnt that you can never actually read a person no matter the words from his mouth you count or his actions which you observe. Someone people are good pretenders

i doubt the 4 kids from the widow are not his, why would he lv his own kids for kids who are not his? its either you stole this man from someone and now she is claiming him back or you just need to move on. Stop meeting him at hotels coz it makes u sound like a hooooo. If he wants to take the kids let him , provided you are allowed visiting rights but if you want your babies, fight till the last drop of your blodd for you kids but honey this man is treating you like a side thing

this story is old and getting lamme by the day. Why are most of man always doing the same thing over and over again. Can't you learn from what the others have done

hahahahahah i agree with the last part more

these sound shallow and sound more associated to girls. To guys also say these? i think guys would me '' me too'' if you said i love u but i am not sure if i am correct with this my statement

kismo: please how am I selfish?

coz u r impatient

tell her. You do not wana blame yourself once the girl has done something bad ( not saying she will though) but she should know there is a difference between her being at work and her being at home

yah it depends on the level of trust.

theodore david: is not what people say that matters is who u r, if u askme i will tell u 2 continue with your life,cos the truth is dat there no special gain having a woman jst for sexual purpose it will rather mar u and cos u 2regret

love this responce

if i got all these while i was still with him i would not dump him but if i got all these before i met him i would obviously need to get someone who fits my status.

be patient otherwise lv her alone. She is yet to see what life has to offer and there you are with your selfishness

a person is a book that you can never be able to read so you will never know a womaniser even if he had it tatood to his forehead because people are good pretenders

get her to stop

thanks especialy for point 10.

[quote author=Atheist:-D]I dunno... It will lead to some serious problems on all sides. Better to keep quiet on this one.[/quote]and what if she contracts Aids and the friend blames herself that she could have prevented it

different strokes for different folks. Its upto an individual and you must respect her views. If she is not ready do not force her, if you feel ready go ahead and get someone else, blv me honey you do not want some girl to blame you for making her do what she did not wana do

some truths need to be told and some don't need to be told. If you care about her i suggest you tell her. If she reacts bad or thinks you are jealous or trying to break them up, just inform her that you just wanted to know and its upto her what she does but she must not regret her decision. Make her understand that you just wanted her out of the dark and its up to her whether she blvs u or not

just forget hi ass. When you see him pretend you have never met him. No time to hear why he broke up coz honey he did lv after all. No time to he his victim twice. Life is too short. Just forget he ever existed. If he says hi, you say bye

kaboninc: Hey honey, I think you misunderstood me. I said situations can cause one not to work but that doesn't mean you should not be careful on how you spend. Haba...take it easy.

When you run a non-profit organisation, you do get rewarded and in one way or another you bring in income. Non-profit organisations do not exist for profit sake but still do not make them not function like every other business.

hey k wats up? you and Ath must enjoy the weekend hey. m out. c yah

i think this thread is going too far now

[quote author=Atheist:-D]Ok babes. I have to go for a paaaaarty 2nite

So what are you up to 2nite? I am sure partying wildly. Just take it easy and dont party too hard.[/quote]lol am actually still at work. I am going home now and am going to enjoy a nice quiet indoors friday evening with my boo

[quote author=Atheist:-D]You've got me blushing now [/quote]hahahah sorry dol.