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nop. i would pretend as if i do not know the nigga. I do not need my baby feel inferior for someone who is the past

coz i love him and i know that i wana spend the rest of my life with him coz my heart feels fed when i think of him. He brings a smile to my face and i want him to be the one who walks with me through this journey of life. its too long when you are alone but its enjoyable when there is someone there with you every step of the way. I want him to be the one i go through ups and downs with him and i want him to never lv my side again

ibkaye: Fair enough, still discuss it with him. Ever considered alternatives like surrogacy or adoption? Bear in mind that many expecting mothers have the same fears first time round but then consider it 'worthwhile' when the baby is born, allegedly anyway lol

Yah i love your advice thanks. I honestly have never spoken to him about it, i am kinda scared that he will not take it well. I love the surrogacy part more but the adoption part i wonder how he will feel about it as you know how most of our african men are. They always want their blood

Poster you keep refering to us as '' you people'' and you keep dissing us and our home. What are you trying to prove, achieve or do? Someone who does like you is someone who is seeing something for the first time. You making so much noise. Its just like if someone is really rich they will not keep making noise about it and dissing others. I think you are very immature with these your comments. So what is wrong with the way we do our things? does it mean that you are better than the rest just because you stay in london? you sound like the kind of a guy who would lie just to score brownie points with his girlfriend's dad

ibkaye: It's normal to be afraid and your fears are perfectly justified, discuss it with him that's one of the reasons he's there for. Is it that you are scared of the process or just don't want children? If it's the latter you need to let him know NOW it won't be funny if he finds out after you're married, good luck.

thank you so much sister. Well to answer you i do love babies, with all my heart but the whole 9 months pregnancy thing and labour ooooohh girl i am so scared of pain, heavyness, throwing up etc. I just wish the was a place where i can buy babies already made. oops life is just hard since we can not buy humans

dear ex

Stop making up lies just to get with me coz m gone baby and gues wat my current bobo is ten 10 times the man you can ever be. I was scared to dump your dumb ass but now i am glad i took that brave step coz honey you just were not worth this black diamond hey.

stay away from me coz your lies can't work nomore.

tis was nice while it lasted but now , i am rolling with the worthy one and if he turns out like you at least being with you tought me to never waste time with shit

this guy is making me say nasty things now but here i wil say. Just keep him until you get another one who will cherish you. I was in a similar situation 2 years ago. I was dating this guy who '' was busy than all human beings''. He made me feel like i was unwanted or as if he was doing me a favour. I made him aware that i did not like the way he was treating me. I still stayed in the relationship for another 6 months and funny coz after i tell him my concerns he would change for a day or two. So i noticed that he knew what he was doing. I decided to dump him and before long i was dating my now fiance and gues who was now running after me? mmmmm the busy brother but honey it was already too late coz i was in another person's warm hands. So maybe you should date other people while u are keeping him around, maybe just until you meet someone u are comfy with. Since he does not have time for you, he will not even notice maybe but this would depend on the type of community you stay coz if you stay in one of those communities where everyone minds everyone's business they will call you ashawo but if you stay in an area where nobody cares about any other person's activities you will be just fine. I hate men who think they are doing you a favour by being with u

kreami diva: I don't understand what you mean by "my health means more to me" do you have a health condition that will endanger your life when you're pregnant? Take your time.one has to be psychologically,mentally and physically ready for marriage and the baggage that comes with it.think things through but rest assured,unless u want to get a surrogate mum,u can't have children without going through the 9 months course.let God guide you.

thank you so much. Just to answer your question, no i do not have a health problem but i am just scared that pregnancy will start one. I have seen how people get and shooo i am sooo scared.

Most girl's dream. Marriage , wedding etc . Well i am 26,have a good job and i am planning on taking my studies to another level after next year ( in 2015 when i will be 28) because for this year and next year i wana sort out my finances properly. My boyfriend and i were friends for a year before he made a move and we have been together for a year as well. I have cheated on him and i later realised that i was doing him wrong so i changed my ways. Now just on sunday he did what most girls would be happy for. He got down on his knee and presented a modest ring and ask for my hand in marriage.Ohh my goshh i was sooo happy and accepted immediately but now i am scared. The whole of yesterday i have been thinking about what marriage means and to be honest i am scared. I do not mind living my home and go into his home and do all wifely duties but there is one thing that brings fear to me.Pregnancy. I am scared of the whole 9months, morning sickness, my body changing and the labour pains. Ohh my word. I so love kids but i am scared of the whole pregnancy and labour thing and us being Africans and knowing what kids mean to us makes me scared that i will not be the wife he is expecting. Please guys is this normal, are my fears justified? what can i do now coz he is good man but i am scared of disapointing me but my health means more to me

poster maybe you can tell us more about yourself so that people who wana be your friends can decide

you were the guy she was kicking it while she was searching for the guy she was really gona be kicking it with but unfortunately for her it back fired. The are plenty fish in the sea and so so many good ladies lookng for good guys. Tell her to stay away from you. Honey your current tears will dry some day just keep her far from u

baby God never makes mistakes and blv me hun , he did not make a mistake by creating you. Love your self coz if you don't nobody is gona come and do that for you. You are the only person who has the power to make yourself happy. Take care of your skin, nails and hair. Take care of your health by eating right and workinh out 1 hour day. Then spoil yourself. Go shopping and buy clothes that suit you. I know its hard to find plus size cheap clothes but hey look around maybe you will fine and if you don't then go on and buy the quality ones which you know will last. Work on self love and confidence. Take your mind off silly stuff and focus on your best qualities. Then relax and whatchém disturb you

why do u wana compete with the next person while you can just be the best of you? You are here for a reason and the sooner you realise that the better. Yeh yeh so u are not like all those which the media makes sound as if they are perfect, so what? even they do not look and live the way the media wants you to believe. Stop allowing him to treat you like trash and stop allowing her to treat you like poo. Stand you ground and say no coz honey no one can ever make you feel inferior without your concern. Just let it all go , dust your self and move on

everyone must lv their dream, calling and ambition coz one day you will wake up and ask yourself what did i do with life?

tell her to run abeg

i wish you dump her, then get a beautiful girl but i want her to treat you like shit then you will learn that true beauty comes from within and a woman on the outside is just clothes, weave and makeup

sister girl you made your bed lie on it. Didn't you know that you was making a baby when yols were doing skin on. Look honey girl , you should be more worried about your health coz sugar paps has been skinning you and the wifey. What if he gave you aids?. You knew you was getting preg when you were skinning him , or did you think you was busy playing with water

honey girl never try change yourself for a man . never be wat you not coz later on your true self is bound to come back again. That guy ain't for you if he don't want you the way you are.

SO you did not see that she was slim when you proposed her?

walk up to a lady and make small talk. e.g: Its sooo hot today hey? then start talking about the whether after that ask for her number if she refuses let her go she don't like you but if she gives , take it, call her and ask her if she would like to join you for a movie or whatever you find easy

poster how can you ask this but your profile says you are a man

depends on the mood

let the fool go. The day he realises that virginity is good but charactor is better he will shoot himself

m still waiting for the story to be continuedbut nothing. is the thread over or what

360command: I am happy for them . I hope they live happily ever after .

which might be sooner than expected

most ladies love a guy's body more than face. If you try build those muscles and show good caring charactor any girl who lets you go would be a fool

sometimes its knowing how to cook but cooking bad tasting food coz i think anyone can cook but not everyone can make good food

he can marry but the wife must pray that he does not turn into a little player afterwards coz men just like playing too much

i know someone who has always been a housewife and now the husband left and went to stay with a younger woman and this woman i know starves and is poor now all because she allowed a man to deceive her. No matter how rich the man can be , i will neva eva b a housewife in my life. I am just scared of what will happen when things go wrong in the future

Idowuogbo: Story story o! Stoooooooory!!!!

Liv grammar abeg! Go and dive na!

My '' stroy'' aplies to life in general. The man who ever got far, was the man who dared to be different and take a chance

lefulefu: All this one na jege
if we no do wen we be boyfriend and girlfriend then how i go take know wether u sabi yansh

honey even cats and dogs know how to do this. Its something that is way easier to do. That is why you find more early pregnancies than girls with MBA

pray. This is nothing to be proud about