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Family / Re: Advise Needed Urgently by moremi2008(m): 4:50pm On May 17, 2012 |
nonyJ: Yes its her first time and she is really disturbed about it. Yes there was good communication before pregnancy. And now its like 2/10. Its really hurting her The first thing you should tell her is that her husband's reaction is normal! A lot of men don't like to touch their wives when they are heavily pregnant. Once she understands this, the situation will be much less bewildering and she can start to approach the issue they way she would approach normal relationship issues: by open communication. To be honest, I am beginning to suspect that your friend has been pestering the husband for sex and that's why the man has shut down. Now that your friend knows why her husband isn't sleeping with her, she might need to back-off from demanding sex if she wants to re-open communication channels. |
Family / Re: Have you Ever Lost Pet a That Was So Dear To The Family? by moremi2008(m): 3:04pm On May 17, 2012 |
I hate pets! They are gross and needy. |
Family / Re: Advise Needed Urgently by moremi2008(m): 2:44pm On May 17, 2012 |
MRbrownJAY: not every man is "ok" with making love to an heavily pregnant woman, some even finds it repulsive and dangerous. i doubt there is much this person can do but to communicate with her hubby and possibly reassuring him that all is ok. Ditto. Ask your friend to chill-out and calm down with a cold drink. I find the thought of making love to a heavily pregnant lady a bit gross and perverted. Her husband probably just doesn't want to have sex with her until the baby is out! Is this her first pregnancy? She should know the rules by now! |
Family / Re: She Is Hell To Live With. by moremi2008(m): 2:33pm On May 17, 2012 |
Your experience is a rather common occurrence. Some women are just horrible people; there's nothing you can do to change that. Thankfully, life usually treats such women unkindly. Just thank God you're out of their house. At the end of the day, she was doing you a favor by hosting you in her house. At least now you know what a horrible person she is and you can avoid her like a plague going forward. |
Family / Re: True Life!'single SISTERS DATING MARRIED Men' (got This Off Someone's Timeline) by moremi2008(m): 2:27pm On May 17, 2012 |
Sad and touching story but I find it difficult to believe that God would punish only Fadeke and leave Jude. The story sounds a little self-serving to me; as if Jude was this innocent man standing by the wayside and a hungry Fadeke clubbed him on the head and dragged him into her liar. It always takes two to tango and Nneka should have been on her knees interceding for her husband before God, not seeking revenge on the woman he is cheating with. I also find it hard to believe that the prayers of Fadeke's parents and pastor did not move God to show mercy. Nice but fake story. It has a good moral lesson though! 6 Likes |
Family / Re: Help . . Im Dying Slowly by moremi2008(m): 2:07pm On May 17, 2012 |
afdman: moremi SHUT THE FUCKUP........ How e take affect you. Leave the man to solve his emotional issues. Titan handle your biz man. Its all good. This man has zero interest in solving any emotional issues. He came here to pine and seek sympathetic ears. Too bad I have zero sympathies for a grown man, the future head of a household, who is unable to handle romantic disappointment with some modicum of dignity. What is he going to do when life throws him a real tragedy? Throw himself off 3rd Mainland? I am not in the business of coddling grown-azz men! Sue me if this upsets you. |
Politics / Re: Coal City, Knowing Enugu[pics] by moremi2008(m): 5:36am On May 17, 2012 |
Looks just like Ibadan, or a dozen other Nigerian cities that haven't seen much progress since the days of the 3 regions! |
Family / Re: Help . . Im Dying Slowly by moremi2008(m): 5:29am On May 17, 2012 |
titans: Not your fault Of course, it's not my fault! It's your fault! You're the mugu pining for a woman that not only cheated on you but disrespected your family! You my man, have no self-esteem and no shame! As a man, I would be livid if a woman treated me and my family this way! |
Career / Re: Joining The US Army by moremi2008(m): 5:26am On May 17, 2012 |
OYINBOGOJU: If you see them in Japan,they have pride more than the president To be completely honest, most low-level military men and women are recruited from the poorest neighborhoods and backgrounds. They are only "forming" in Japan because they are in uniform and have the backing of the most powerful government in the world. In the US unfortunately, they are nobodies. This is the sad reality. 2 Likes |
Autos / Re: Make Sure You Inspect Vehicles Before You Buy Them by moremi2008(m): 5:24am On May 17, 2012 |
Nairaland is full of honey-tongued scam artists! The moderators and the owner does relatively little to put these thieves in check! I bet you Damola1 will be back next week (probably with a new screen name) to sell another "perfect condition" car to an unsuspecting Nairalander! @ OP - your mistake was trusting a seller to sell you a car without actually inspecting it! You're lucky the seller didn't close his GT account and disappear into thin air leaving you with neither a car nor your N2mm! Happens all the time in Lagos! 1 Like |
Career / Re: Joining The US Army by moremi2008(m): 4:25am On May 17, 2012 |
I would caution you before joining the army. There is a reason why American citizens aren't signing-up in droves! Are you thinking about joining for the pay? the papers? If you answers to any of this is yes, then you are better off directing your hustle elsewhere. It's a lot of pain and there is the very real possibility of death. 1 Like |
Family / Re: Help . . Im Dying Slowly by moremi2008(m): 12:40am On May 17, 2012 |
titans: Thanks sisi-kii Then he's your twin brother! Both of you come across as serious mugus! |
Family / Re: When Is it Right For A Child To Own A Cell Phone. by moremi2008(m): 10:03pm On May 16, 2012 |
Sagamite: Louder! The neighbors can't hear your little puppy barks! |
Family / Re: Help . . Im Dying Slowly by moremi2008(m): 10:00pm On May 16, 2012 |
Sisi_Kill: Hey, good luck with the search! You're a talented writer; I am not sure that you NEED a job! Besides, Uncle Mac can't find you a job in the US (of course, you are based in the US, I can tell from your writing). Just write us another Purple Hibiscus, and you're on your way to stardom and riches! Chimanda must have a few million dollars in the bank by now. |
Family / Re: Help . . Im Dying Slowly by moremi2008(m): 9:09pm On May 16, 2012 |
^^^^ All this novel, for fcking what? Una no get job, Aunty Sisi Kill? Good story-telling though (I am going to guess you are some kind of writer). Let us know when you publish a novel (I'll buy it if it's good as the latest Toni Morrison book I started last night). |
Family / Re: When Is it Right For A Child To Own A Cell Phone. by moremi2008(m): 8:57pm On May 16, 2012 |
Just what I wanted. These two puppies are now barking at me! coogar: When last did you get laid? You sound mad bitter and jealous because I can command a harem to serve my needs with a blink of an eye. It's not my fault that you're ugly and have zero charm. Sagamite: Hahaha! Keeping snapping at my heels. Like I told you earlier, dream bigger; reach further and harder. When you've accomplished something besides being a low-level pencil pusher at MBB, come talk to me and I might give you a job. |
Family / Re: Help . . Im Dying Slowly by moremi2008(m): 8:36pm On May 16, 2012 |
titans: Another decison I've made is never 2 date girls who's family can't afford 3 square meals Your story sounds strangely similar to this guy's: https://www.nairaland.com/869488/after-affair Didn't you come here to moan about a woman who cheated on you while you were getting your master's a while back? Why did you change your screen name? So you can get fresh, new sympathy? You still haven't gotten over her after all these months! If you're who I think you are, then you've got mental problems. Let this woman go! Bloody stalker! |
Family / Re: When Is it Right For A Child To Own A Cell Phone. by moremi2008(m): 8:32pm On May 16, 2012 |
coogar: Too bad everything about your posts stinks of mediocrity. I am not impressed. Try harder. Let me know when you've graduated from the best Europe has to offer (not that people think very highly of Oxbridge these days) and have proved yourself in the marketplace. Until then, keep collecting e-trophies from your NL championships! I'll keep having a good laugh at your jokes. Sagamite: How much has internet "intellectual" arguments put in your malnourished NatWest account lately? I am still waiting on your tattered CV to cross my desk. |
Family / Re: When Is it Right For A Child To Own A Cell Phone. by moremi2008(m): 7:53pm On May 16, 2012 |
coogar: Hahaha! You've got nothing to teach me because you're not particularly bright (that's just the honest truth). If I wanted to "gain knowledge", I would consult a book written by an actual pro, read the Nytimes or WSJ, or use Google. This argument is just a blathering ego-fest especially because your sparring partner, Sagamumu, has at least double your wit and intelligence (and that's not saying very much). It's not even a fair debate anymore. PS - My ad hominem sniping serves its purpose well: keeping me (and a lot of other people) well entertained. Thanks for noticing. |
Family / Re: Help . . Im Dying Slowly by moremi2008(m): 7:42pm On May 16, 2012 |
titans: Ronkebp - I now totally understand what you mean.. Bros, let it go! She's gone and never coming back! She won't be apologizing either! Life is not fair but it's still your job to get back up on your feet and face life like a man! Haba! |
Family / Re: Wife Decides To Pack Out Of Her Husband House-hubby Still In Lov With Ex-gf by moremi2008(m): 7:40pm On May 16, 2012 |
tpia@: Didn't even look at the date. One month isn't too old! I have seen resurrected 5-yr old threads! |
Career / Re: Let's Discuss Salaries by moremi2008(m): 7:33pm On May 16, 2012 |
cityofsin: Generally spot-on info. Although I disagree that ACA is the best (but then, I don't have any inside info on ACA's track record so I might be wrong). Most PE shops in Lagos have made a string of pretty bad/underperforming investments (e.g. Notore, Seven Energy etc). Now a bunch of them are (or were) clamoring to recapitalize Union Bank and get-in on the Abuja real estate gold rush. They'll probably get burned (this is just a hunch from conversations with people on the ground). All this capital chasing around a few opportunities is just a recipe for bad investments. PS - I am pretty sure I know who you are. The world is too small. |
Family / Re: When Is it Right For A Child To Own A Cell Phone. by moremi2008(m): 7:03pm On May 16, 2012 |
This argument is neither useful nor entertaining. Abeg, take your gidigbo play to the politics section where people argue just to fill-up Internet space. |
Family / Re: This Statement From My Girlfriend Parent by moremi2008(m): 7:00pm On May 16, 2012 |
Your "girl" needs to make up her mind! Are you ready to marry her? Have you told her this? If yes, then ask her to make-up her mind. If she doesn't choose you, then she doesn't love you and you're better off without her. Marriage is a serious agreement between two grown adults! |
Family / Re: Wife Decides To Pack Out Of Her Husband House-hubby Still In Lov With Ex-gf by moremi2008(m): 6:54pm On May 16, 2012 |
One-sided marriages are unhappy marriages. I wish the lady good luck! With enough hard work, "sacrifice", sexy dressing and weight-loss, maybe her husband will stop loving his ex and love her instead. |
Politics / Re: Industrialisation Will Unlock Nigeria’s Wealth - Aganga by moremi2008(m): 6:20pm On May 16, 2012 |
Liar, liar! I know for a fact that Aganga has already started hunting for bribes from potential international investors! His Goldman pedigree is a bloody front for the business-as-usual of looting the Nigerian treasury or collecting fat bribes! |
Family / Re: When Is it Right For A Child To Own A Cell Phone. by moremi2008(m): 6:12pm On May 16, 2012 |
My baby brother has had his own phone in Nigeria since he was 9/10 yrs old! But then, he's a spoilt brat (and has always been in boarding school) so I can't exactly use him as a standard for most Nigerian kids. My mum wanted him to have a phone for emergencies (but the few times I have been there when he called, it was to ask for more money or just to say hello). They (mum and son) are both very happy with the arrangement (the school has seized his phone twice but my Mum keeps buying him a new one). Mothers mostly do it for a false sense of peace-of-mind. It's little money to pay to calm the nerves! |
Family / Re: Help . . Im Dying Slowly by moremi2008(m): 6:02pm On May 16, 2012 |
dayokanu: Op, This second-round of advice is bad! Lighting up trees can have the exact opposite effect; make him start acting all emotional and st[i]u[/i]pid. I know from experience that smoking trees has different effects on different people. |
Family / Re: My Friend Wants To Leave Her Marriage Because Her In Laws Are Mean. Wants My Opi by moremi2008(m): 5:41pm On May 16, 2012 |
Tgirl4real: Oh... still looking (actually, not really). I have ~5yrs before I become an official prayer point! Plan to enjoy bachelorhood while it lasts. |
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