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Family / Re: My Dad Asked Me To Leave Because I Want To Be Successful by moremi2008(m): 12:57am On May 05, 2012 |
Oluwa4sure: Guy, like seriously you don't need this. Age has got absolutely nothing to do with a man's ambition or whatever!!! How can you critique an argument that you didn't bother to read? What does this say about you? The crux of my issue with this guy is not really the fact that he isn't a university graduate (and has ABSOLUTELY NOTHING to do with his age). Not everybody gets the privilege of a university education and there are very many successful people out there with little formal education. I think you may be mistaking my responses to some other posters with my responses to the OP. You would know this if you had actually READ the thread before commenting. My biggest issue with him is that he has spent 4yrs since graduating secondary school at home, eating his father's food and living rent free; and then comes here in anger when his father finally draws the line by threatening to kick him out. He not only comes here to complain, he implicitly accuses his father of being against his "success", an accusation that is not only grave but also very daft. It doesn't help his case that his alternative to going to school is a relatively poor one; he isn't trying to learn a trade or make a honest living. Instead, he is infatuated with a "media career" that is little more than a scam and then has the audacity to peddle a "website" on here that's only a collection of incoherent, semi-deranged declarations that have zero basis in reality. I just lost my temper with his foolishness; that man needed a good doze of undiluted truth. I am not afraid to hurt his tender feelings and I hope he is a stronger and better man for it. |
Family / Re: If You Meet A Genie??? by moremi2008(m): 12:22am On May 05, 2012 |
These threads about money are getting really tired! |
Family / Re: Motherhood by moremi2008(m): 6:51pm On May 04, 2012 |
Blah, blah, blah... Fatherhood nko?! The cabal don start with PR campaign! |
Family / Re: The Things Men Consider Before Making Their Move by moremi2008(m): 3:41pm On May 04, 2012 |
This is why Aboki's shouldn't be allowed internet access. Dumbest post ever! 2 Likes |
Family / Re: She Wants A Maid I Don't Like by moremi2008(m): 3:02am On May 04, 2012 |
Thanks for reviving this old thread! I read some things on here that made me really question the wisdom of women. Tell the wife he finds another woman sexy? For what? Hhahahaha... dumbest advice i ever heard. |
Family / Re: I Need A Wife by moremi2008(m): 2:47am On May 04, 2012 |
I knew even before I opened the thread that it was going to be a broke Igbo man looking for awoof bride! So predictable! No money for bride price! So sad! See what a backward practice is forcing single men to do? Hunting for Lagos wives on the internet is a sure sign of desperation. PS - Mr. Ucheeeee, if the upper-end of your age requirement is 34, then you must be at least 40. Pray tell, how old are you since you fail to mention it in your post? Inquiring minds want to know. |
Family / Re: Am I Supposed To Pay For My Wedding? by moremi2008(m): 4:18pm On May 03, 2012 |
Wow! This thread has really opened my eyes into how Nigerian women think. No wonder we keep hearing these horrible stories about domestic violence and spousal abuse. Why won't the man treat you like a pet dog when you've completely resigned yourself to being a financial leech? Why won't he want to marry another woman after he becomes rich, after all, he bought you and he should be free to buy another one? Nigerian women need to think carefully about their marital expectations. You can't eat your cake and have it too. You can't demand to be treated as a partner but refuse to act like a true partner when the chips are down. Life just doesn't work that way. You can't expect your husband to pay an exorbitant bride price, pay for a lavish wedding and then pay for housing, rent, food, clothing, and school fees at AIS and when he starts resenting you, you start crying foul and acting up!!! 6 Likes |
Family / Re: by moremi2008(m): 9:10am On May 03, 2012 |
OMG! There are way too many crazies in this thread. Some of the things I have read are just gross! |
Family / Re: Am I Supposed To Pay For My Wedding? by moremi2008(m): 9:05am On May 03, 2012 |
andromida: I dont know any woman that will be happy that she paid for her own wedding, however you are very aware of your husband's situation so you should support each other. I also wont be suprised if most of the frivolities come from your end as most of us carry that mentality its my day, so simply cut it down. I can never understand why a wedding should cost so much when people have so little and are just starting out their lives it simply does not make any sense. Now if you have enough to throw around by all means have a big party but if you have little why waste it on guests who wont be around when you and hubby start fighting over money. I quoting this as another example of why Nigerian women get beat-up on the regular. You don't know any woman that will be happy that she paid for her own wedding? In what fcking world do you live in? My buddy got married in Florida last week and he and his wife split the costs 50-50. His wife was plenty happy and glowing at dinner last night. Please get out of here with this nonsense! 11 Likes |
Family / Re: What Age Is Overdue For A Man To Marry? by moremi2008(m): 8:36am On May 03, 2012 |
Basic: [quote author=blacklion] Are you Igbo? I have heard that Igbo men only start considering marriage after becoming rich. I don't know how true that is though. |
Family / Re: Am I Supposed To Pay For My Wedding? by moremi2008(m): 8:30am On May 03, 2012 |
Aren't you both going to live in the house he rented? Aren't you both planning to build your lives together? So you want to hold-on to your own money but want your husband to go borrow money for your wedding? You're coming across as a selfish and wicked woman; I feel sorry for your husband-to-be. This same woman will run-up here crying if the husband starts to treat her anyhow once he starts making the big bucks! Why won't he? You weren't willing to share the burden when things were down and now that things are up you want to come and feast on honey?! Some women are just tiresome beasts. PS - I have never heard this claim that the man pays for all of the wedding (except the wife has absolutely no money of her own). In the US, the bride and the groom both contribute in proportion to their incomes. Or is this "man pays for everything" an Igbo thing? 22 Likes |
Family / Re: My Marriage Finally Collapses by moremi2008(m): 8:05am On May 03, 2012 |
I think it's somebody from the politics or romance section. |
Family / Re: My Marriage Finally Collapses by moremi2008(m): 6:24am On May 03, 2012 |
OAM4J: These are your version of "big boys"? Chai! See low standards. I think you're mistaking active members with "big boys". 1 Like |
Family / Re: My Brother Is An Acoholic, I Need Help! by moremi2008(m): 4:01am On May 03, 2012 |
Ohhh, you're barking up the wrong tree my sister. I am no cabal-hunter. In fact, I am pro-cabal! Market women have stuck together for all eternity! Why stop now? Why should Nairaland be an exception? Please keep "cabaling"! More power to your elbows! |
Family / Re: My Dad Asked Me To Leave Because I Want To Be Successful by moremi2008(m): 3:57am On May 03, 2012 |
c.fours: Bloody dullard! Aren't you the same person that recommended he lie to his parents that he is studying medicine? And that he should move out of his father's house and support himself with part-time work? Oh, so now you've changed your mind and are suggesting he go to school this time? Hahaha! Dodosh! How can he quit school when he has been trying to pass JAMB for the past 4yrs without success? What school is there to quit? Assuming that he can get into a university, you're also suggesting he simultaneously pursue his "passions" part-time in addition to part-time employment?! You have clearly not thought through your recommendations (and I seriously doubt that you have done much thinking your entire life). Stop trying to give advice when YOU yourself need counselling. PS - Yes, I am a tool: the sharpest tool you'll ever meet. Come back to me when your brain breaks down again and needs fixing. Ode! |
Family / Re: My Brother Is An Acoholic, I Need Help! by moremi2008(m): 10:40pm On May 02, 2012 |
The "Cabal" is slowly hijacking this thread with errant nonsense. |
Family / Re: What Age Is Overdue For A Man To Marry? by moremi2008(m): 10:37pm On May 02, 2012 |
Busy_body: Revolution in what? Biology? Cultural attitudes towards the biological clock? You're going to have to get more specific because the male and female biological clocks are so fundamentally different, they aren't even remotely comparable. Men can have healthy kids into their nineties!!! 7 Likes |
Family / Re: What Age Is Overdue For A Man To Marry? by moremi2008(m): 9:49pm On May 02, 2012 |
A man should marry when he is ready and able. That said, he doesn't want to have small children at the age of 60 when he might too old to provide for them. The absolute upper limit (i.e. the worst case scenario) is 40. By the age of 40, you should have a solid career/business and should be able to support a family. At 40, there are no more excuses except impotence or homosexuality. The ideal target for a highly educated man is between 27 and 33 yrs. By 33, the man should be done with graduate school and should be established in a decent career. I have some friends that married earlier than 27 but almost all of them had to spend some time away from their families to get graduate degrees abroad. I honestly don't see any reason why a man should wait beyond 33 except for financial issues (or in some rare cases, an ill-timed emigration to another country). In that case, then he has until at the VERY LATEST 40yrs to get his finances/papers in order and start a family. 10 Likes |
Family / Re: Why Do Akwa Ibom Guys Like Dating Akwa Ibom/calabar Girls Only... by moremi2008(m): 8:09pm On May 02, 2012 |
OP has clearly never chopped a Calabar babe! If not for prayers, I was almost converted! God has blessed them with obanje pussycats! I don't blame their men for sticking with them; why go shopping for a new flower when the ones in your backyard are the best ones in town? |
Family / Re: Please Help Ayomide - An Abandoned Child by moremi2008(m): 7:55pm On May 02, 2012 |
Thanks for getting back to the boards. My instincts about the child were right. She is a special needs case and she isn't "abandoned." There are two approaches to helping the girl here: 1) Provide some financial aid to the grandmother (this is probably the most straightforward approach but there is no guarantee that the girl's condition will change even with money) 2) Removing the child to some type of orphanage with her guardians' approval: Are there orphanages that open to taking in a child with special needs? I prefer option 1. I don't think it's fair for a child that has family to take up a spot that would otherwise belong to a truly abandoned child. Just my opinion though. Carry on! Good job Mother Theresa! |
Family / Re: Signs To Know A Marriage Fails by moremi2008(m): 11:19am On May 02, 2012 |
Number #1: When you stop having s[i]e[/i]x with her; you're prolly fcking somebody else. Number #2: When NOTHING she does can make you angry; it means you don't give a fck about her anymore Number #3: A marriage hasn't failed until you've signed the divorce papers. There's always hope if there's still some kind of love buried under the rubble! |
Family / Re: Pls Ur Candid Advice by moremi2008(m): 11:15am On May 02, 2012 |
taryour: Even this your reply gan sef get comma. Somebody is insulting you and you're rolling right over to "take correction". Hahahahaha! You're such an insipid darling! There's nothing wrong with being sweet and slow. Just be careful oh. The likes of tigress Jenny will use you to make peppersoup (it's the law of the jungle). |
Family / Re: Pls Ur Candid Advice by moremi2008(m): 9:22am On May 02, 2012 |
I think it's pretty clear that this Taryour person doesn't have a single thought in her head! I noticed this ages ago but I just assumed she was somebody else's back-up screen name, set-up just to support certain types of opinions. I honestly didn't know there was a real person behind it. Hahahaha!!! The poor lady is just a follow-follow. Abeg, leave her alone jor. |
Family / Re: How Do You Cope With An Exceptionally Jealous Girlfriend? by moremi2008(m): 11:46pm On May 01, 2012 |
LOL @ the insane girlfriend. Why doesn't she just keep him locked up in her basement so she can have him all to herself? To be fair, the guy might have given her solid reason to be this insecure. If they both like it, then who are we to comment and give advice. It's a free world jare. |
Family / Re: How Do I Handle This Issue by moremi2008(m): 11:12am On May 01, 2012 |
Gaggi: Anyway, good advice has been given already. Tell ur SIL to go to blazes. You see hornet's nest hanging there, jeje, you go poke am with a stick! You like trouble! |
Family / Re: Pls Ur Candid Advice by moremi2008(m): 1:43am On May 01, 2012 |
kitty kat: Pls let's stop being hypocritical for once and be truthful. As much as I want to enjoy a MIL since I hv no mother, I wouldn't fail to agree that there are Monster Inlaws. Yes. I hv seen a MIL in front of elders tell her son that she wishes his child was aborted nd she means it till today cos she never liked d wife. In the family sec on NLD we have a recent post about a MIL who almost poisoned her son's wife. LOL! I love you already! |
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