negro77:
ha ha your mouth like helmet
Na lie go kill you
Go bury your generals
Una go hear wen for this Benin
Ask your people how scores be no dey lie

Wetin dey so special about Ayes,you funny when the so called green generals meet any ayes nur be say na concrete go dey flow for e vein oo...if them hit am e go down,all over Ayes Sabi deny

negro77:
Lol omi empty gongo
Hope say you dey hear Benin scores like this
When you hear wey some people say their own motto na Forgiveness is a Sin
You still get mind go find dem trouble 😆

Comot for road, Maphite don drop four ayes go confirm am lol
...una umu Ayes never see this kind war ,big head

IconicR:
Mtcheww is it byforce to practice the isese something in a land they are not wanted

Mumu

addmole:


Why are you laughing. This is not funny. I need help. What do I do?

Find a partner outside and Bleep her brains out,make wild sex , just get a crazy partner,spend more time with the kids let them know their father loves them,less time with your witch of a wife,don't eat her food again eat only out of the children's food she can't poison them,stop asking for sex,don't report to anybody find extra income sources,go out with the children but make sure she stays at home give her family members who are supporting her attitude.that is exactly what you should do

addmole:
I and My wife have been married for 5 years. We are based here in Lagos. She's 35 years old. We are doing very okay and living comfortably. Since we got married, my wife hated sex so much. I am not even trying to sugarcoat this. She doesn't want to hear you talk about it or she does it. There's no one in the family that haven't tried to settle our differences since we got married. She was never like this when we were dating. It's been 1 issue to the other. She doesn't initiate sex, and when she does accept you to have sex, it's missionary style and it's just 1 round. Ah, me wey dey like knack wella. This woman begin change am for me. Lol. She doesn't want to hear you discuss sex.

Anyway sha, lets move on...

5 YEARS ago, her mum came to my house to kneel down and tell me I am stressing her daughter that I should not kill her with sex. Her then-unmarried sister then asked if I ama dog? Ah, insult. Anyway, I don forgive her. I spoke to my wife and told her what is the meaning of this? What kind of lies are you feeding your family with? This is the same person who happens to make just 1 round of sex. Just 1 round. She lies flat on her back. Once you are done, she quickly pushes you away if you stay on top of her for more than 10 to 15 minutes. There were times she would hit me if I try to initiate sex. I reported to her elder brother. He elder brother warned her. She stopped. She moved to kicking me anytime we initiate sex on bed, i reported to my pastor, he spoke to her and then, she stopped. My pastor told me i have to be patient with her. I said OK.

Omo...
The only time we make love is just 1 round, missionary style and that's it. She says she has pain on her stomach. I have been patient for 5 years with her. I told her anytime she's strong enough, we can make out. That there's no problem.

I have been pressured to cheat on her many times. i HAVE BEEN REALLY PRESSURED. Its just not easy. Her family have insulted me for demanding sex from her. Lol. The thing tire me. I see no where i am demanding. We don't do any other position apart from the missionary style. We do not even kiss. This is a woman that doesn't want you to kiss in in anyway. Even sometimes, she shouts at you when you try to be romantic to kiss her unexpectedly just to spies up our love life. She doesn't even want you to cuddle her on bed. She wants to be alone. Make money, attend to her business, vibes, laugh with friends and family and that's it. When it comes to sex, don't go there discussing that with her about making out.

I even had to retort to preparing her mind for sex by sending her a position we would try on WhatsApp, she would leave the message on read and not respond. When you talk to her about what you sent to her, she would just tell you, she's not strong to make love.

ANOTHER PART OF HER:
My wife is a very bitter person full of anger. If you try to tickle her when she's cooking in the kitchen to play with her, she gets angry and warns you not to try such. My wife doesn't want you to play with her. I am not writing all these to make it look I am a victim here. But all these are my experiences. I have to pour it out. I NEED SOME ADVICE.

There were many times, we agreed on separating. But we have already children and we used to think about these because the quarrels and the disrespect, sex and everything is causing a whole lot on us.

We do not have any form of healthy discussion very well. Before you know it, we are quarrelling over the place, she's shouting. There was a time we quarrelled that after throwing a Gotv remote at her, she fainted. She woke up before we got to the hospital. She almost died. I told her, she needs to stop her anger and control herself and enjoy her marriage. She just won't listen. She's an Edo woman.

I have tried many times to leave the marriage because it's affecting my mental health. Sometimes I regret about getting married to her. Sometimes, I just feel, maybe I CAN TRY MORE and give her a chance. When you call her to discuss our sex life, about her anger and bitterness, she doesn't apologise. She hardly apologise. Even when I get to explain her part on why she was wrong, she claims she's right until maybe someone hears us arguing before she would reluctantly apologise.

I have been battling a really starved sex life, full of a woman with bitterness, anger and pride who never apologise. She's quick to advice other women on Facebook, She would video call friends, give them advice and her family how they need to maintain peace with their relationship. But she never seem to give me respect in anyway in her own own. Hmmmm.

Recently, my wife brought out another timetable that she cannot cope making out with me the way she does. Which is 3 times a week. That she can only be available to make love 2 times a week. This 2 times is just 1 round each. This is how she wants it. I immediately responded to her that I feel her pain. I understand. She cannot be pressured just to make it look like she wants to please me that I would rather get a side chic. Yes, i know this was wrong to tell her, but i am frustrated. She disrespects me and starve me of sex and she's even bending the rules again. She responded that 'ok that I am free to do what i LIKE'.

i decided to bring this here to know the comments from people. I would like to get advice from persons who are going through similar things like this and advice me on what to do.

Some of you might say, call her and talk to her. I have done that several times since in the last 5years. I did it last night and twice today. I have spoken to her. She promised she would change, she would not only repeat the same thing but make things worst the next time.

She disrespects me a lot. I have sometimes left the house but come back after families get to call me. She would change for a week and return to her old self.

What do I DO? Please make your responses constructive enough.

Ladies and gentlemen she is the devil 👿

IconicR:
You obviously don't like truth that's why you have problems with my post

Which Truth?

IconicR:
I don't believe in friendship or trust people anymore. I use to be so carefree and very generous till I learnt my lessons the very hard way.
My mom is my best friend and gist partner, any other friend is an acquaintance and they know it.

No wahala,but that doesn't mean you should be posting rubbish on Nairaland

Kobojunkie:
Na reason why your policemen dey use una as punching bag every chance they get.

Them no born the police well,lol... faceless forum,ask your lastma people wetin them chop for my boys hand for Lagos.
If my cane no good I go use my rifle (my wife)

Kobojunkie:
1. Stop telling this lie! In saner climes, men use their egos to showcase their intelligence and ability to respect other humans. Nigerian men on the other hand use their egos as the format to bully women and others who they consider lesser beings -- unacceptable behavior.

If I flog you ehnnn.....

Verokeena:



I have never ever nortured such thought.. I have endured countless insults and provocations..

What else could I have done.. ? Like I said I regret my actions but I just wished he had never touched me or raising his hands to the kids.. saying he doesn't even know if the kids were his.. since he lost his job it has been one issue to another.. but I try to see through his eyes .. to understand what he is going through..

I do not have excuse for my actions.. I just need a solution

Thanks for your contributions anyways

A man's ego is like his life,trust me you just bruised it.being a man I can give you a manipulative solution,but I'm a real nigga so I won't.just invite someone he respects and let the person speak for you that you only did what you did because you felt that in that state he could have hurt you and the kids.even cite the fact that he stayed for two days the policemen elongated his stay because you couldn't provide a bribe,let him tell your husband that you still love and honor him, reason you have not run away since he Lost his job.Do this and come back and say thank you

AdeoyeAdefemi:
Good Morning All

I got my dream job in a financial institution, I will be resuming on Monday.

From your experience, kindly share the things I must and must not do in a professional setting.

NB: This is my first professional job hence the reason for the question.

No,go and get your own experience and learn!!!
I'm joking ooo.... avoid office sex and relationships, don't be too attached to the job,be polite punctual remember respect is reciprocal

Nilon:
do you suck her pussy

What do you think??

cheque:
In meet this new chick, we are getting along closely, but she dislikes underwear, she wear jean without a pant On, shirts / blouse without a bra On, please advise me on how to remedy this condition.
Shirts without bra
Trousers without pant, although she wears tite in her skirts

Na clean girl,I don't like my woman on pants...I mean if she is coming around she knows she doesn't have to wear pants , unless she is on her period,whether I'm having sex with her or not.
Let the vagina breathe

IconicR:
This traditionalist should go and do their shit in osun state abeg.
Illorin has always been a religious state and I support the Emir on this
The Emir can never go wrong in my eyes

Your madness has directed you here again,lol.....the traditional worshippers should be allowed to do their thing in peace

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Dumbie!!!

Jewessgratitud3:
So sorry for your loss.

Just make her understand how she's making you feel with her constant crying and how its affecting you badly.

Ask her if she doesn't value you that is still with her and wants to risk losing another son ( God forbid). She'll not want to hear that and watch how she'll quickly stop and recover fast.

May God protect you and your family.
Affliction will not arise a second time. in Jesus name.

Don't blackmail the poor woman emotionally.let her cry and let her pains out,you must allow her be it's not easy losing one's child.... sometimes crying and letting your pains out is the best way to get better after the demise of a Loved one.its alright to cry

IconicR:
😭 sorry dear, just tell her that if she wants you to succeed in life and excel in whatever you are traveling for then she should stop crying and move on with her life. Tell her that's the only motivation you need from her.
Tell her that her refusal to stop crying and move on is haunting your soul and causing you depression. Tell her only a positive energy from her can help you forge ahead.
Tell her to be strong and take everything in her stride and move on with life.
Sorry for your loss

You come here to dish out good advice to the young man on how to help his mom move on,but you go to other threads and mock the people of Nigeria suffering from the stupid decisions of an illegitimate president who you support in your stupidity,you are not serious...what do you know about pain ? ,if you mock Nigerians everyday with your posts and responses to posts concerning the wreck Tinubu's government is doing to our economy.
Foolish child
Negodu this 🐄

IconicR:
If I see you in that protest ehn I'll break your marriage

Shey you dey craze abi??

Ikaeniyan0:
Yes, I prefer the brain of a man who graduated with a first class in CSU, worked for companies like mobil, became a senator and a governor and now a president to that of your daddy.

Another 🐄

Ikaeniyan0:
Is these not the same lady who told Nigerians Tinubu is losing his memory? She's now part of the wailing wailers.

Tinubu won a free and fair election, even obi and his oga atiku didn't dispute that fact at the tribunal.

🐄

E be like say all these arobagas been prepare for Ayes oo

IconicR:
He may later reject this, I still don't like what they are doing to him. Mallam was the main man who stood his ground for Asiwaju. I hope Obi is not having hand inside all these because he has been using those unfortunate LP national assembly members to orchestrate evil in Asiwaju's government.

I have finally come to a conclusion that you are held in a mental facility,the doctor who allowed you access to an Internet enabled phone is to be blamed.....tufiakwa

IconicR:
He was just being transparent but trust Nigerians to come for his head because of their natural hatred for successful men and women.

I don't know why you just always show a great level of foolishness, Nigerians are suffering and senators are going on recess with plenty pocket money and the government including the senators are telling us to be patient with tinubu's government,if we are suffering let us all do it together,where are the palliatives to cushion the effect of subsidy removal,men IconicR you have to respect yourself on this faceless forum and the mental health of Nigerians who are being trampled on everyday by our useless politicians without conscience,if you don't respect yourself,one day certainly karma will come for your big head

LegendHero:


Lol your own delusionn is the worst among you Obidients. Which of the rerun? Rerun in Nigeria or Biafra?

By the way, Tinubu lost in both Kano and Kaduna where Kwakwanso and Elrufai hold sway. Infact, PDP won 2 senatorial district in the last election in Kaduna state.

El Rufai will still be confirmed as a minister and he will work with Tinubu. All this one happening na just normal political gimmick and Tinubu will sort that out as he already met with Malam today. El-Rufai is very important to Tinubu and he is the only man Tinubu had to beg to be in his government. El-Rufai is not brainless like Obi, he knows Jagaban has nothing to do with this confirmation issue.

Lastly, stop expending your time on useless hope. There will be no rerun and Peter Obi cannot be Nigeria president even if he is the only one printed on INEC ballot. Until we Yoruba and Hausa/Fulanis agree to give power to an Ibo person, no Ibo person living or dead will be president.

Look at your statement, go through it again and see that you are a foolish person,it is people like you that causes war

scoobyblogspot:
My ex was having some issues with me cause of my addiction to alcohol and a lot of times I misbehave then, although I have changed now that I am married.

Well, she asked us to take a break from the relationship which I refused and she said she has made up her mind already, I pleaded but she refused so i respected her decision but I kept calling her and chatting with her so we don’t go far from each other. The feeling was fading as contact wasn't regular anymore.

Let me caught the long story short

I found someone else, now my wife and she is so understanding and caring towards me, when she got to know this, she hated me and called me all sort of names and wept via chat that is it because she asked for a break just to test me that I broke her heart and she also didnt give me S**?. Don’t judge me yet, I found some missed calls from a guy who kept calling her by 12am on video call at night and sent her gifts upon gift, even took her out secretly. I missed her anyways and I know she misses me too, we have both moved on but I can’t stop thinking about her months after our break up.

So you are one of those mumu men that still exist,why will she be testing you,you are not even fit to be a married man what a betrayal of the love, loyalty and understanding your wife shows you btw you are a 🐄

Acekidc4:
Even if he doesn't apologize, nothing their father go do. He will still be screened at the end of the day.........No amount of Senators from the Potopoto region fit stop Keyamo from becoming a Minister. They will only shout and shout and shout and shut up at the end of the day.............Their Noise is like tissue paper, it doesn't have any weight 🥱🥱

Negodu cowboy

Nemesis0147:
God when 🥹
When will thy son of man leave this shithole🥹

Stop being a cultist give your life to God and begin to pray and work every day,I say you must first renounce your membership of that secret cult,it is no allegation bro you know what I'm talking about abi??

Darren95:
Fact

Worlds dumbest OP

DrKKK1:
Some of you here passing judgment on the senator, do that for the hate of GYB. The Senate was a successful bank executive until his people lured him to vie for Kogi governorship. He was stripped off his entire investments, denied governorship and became pauper. It took GYB's benevolence to rehabilitate him, made him a Senator for two time and recently made his son-in-law a ministerial nominee. What is wrong in simply kneeling down in appreciation for the massive elevation? Many of the people condemning his show of gratitude will roll on murky water for a mare salary job.

Why was he denied governorship,this nigga had won only the primaries and was making commissioners list ready when he had not even won,it showed that he would be a rebel to Ibrahim idris who had made sure he emerged as the party's candidate

IconicR:
Ever since Peter Obi started chasing shadows with LP different unholy things have been happening in Anambra. I hope Peter Obi goes there for deliverance. Hian Anambra Ikegwuru

IconicR, sometimes you make sense other times you don't completely, I'm sure this church will help deliver you from this self inflicted mental illness fueled by hatred for a man 10× better than you can ever be

charlesdinho:
the place go just de smell shit anyhow. instead make e de scent normal female pus°sy smell. death to all homo$

Normal pussy smell if the girl clean o

raskymonojendor:
Let them protest from now till next 10 years. Fuel subsidy is gone forever 🤣

They are protesting a planned invasion, 🐄