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no big deal here, and she should have the common sense to abort that baby... and the fact that her guy is pro life is irrelevant to her doing what is RIGHT by her. he must accept that, and move on if he is against her actions.

quickly go and buy MORNING AFTER PILLS, they are valid up to 72hrs after the "accident"

ErnieSmallzz:
Hmmmm op, tell ha to go for a pregnancy test Asap, and pls if unfortunately she become pregnant, dnt try to abort it pls ..

what a very clueless post. so you actually think that a test after 2 days would show positive?!

let me educate you: after ejacu1ation, it takes less than a day for the sperm to travel up the fallopian tube, and can be there up to 5 days until it can hopefully meet and egg, aka fertilization ... then it will take no less than 7days for that fertilized egg (aka embryo) to travel to the Uterus and attach itself there, known as implantation... and only THEN can anyone A) be considered pregnant, or B) have their body produce what will be used to turn a pregnancy test positive.

hkidola00:
well as for d HIV and std stuff, I met her a virgin tho and she ain't gat dose

a virgin can be HIV+ and carry STDs, pls educate yourself before you hurt yourself, bro

IMHO, it all depends... a man who beats a woman for no damn reasons is indeed a beast, but if a woman has the AUDACITY/DISRESPECT to raise her hands on a man, then she deserves exactly the same treatment .... so she can taste her own medicine and learn to NEVER EVER try that nonsense again.

invinzible1:
Recently, I submitted my cv to a travel agency company, I never studied anything related to what they do but I was told to go and learn either sabre or amadeus. Please I need somebody that can teach me any of these packages or direct me when I can get free tutorials. Please nairalanders I need your help.

asking for such question shows exactly how clueless you are about the travel industry. thats like asking someone to teach you how to operate Windows or Mac

oleeverking:
her sister in law said ... “They used to quarrel a lot. The husband was always beating her. We severally told her to leave the house for him but she declined, preferring to endure for the sake of her children. It was her resolve to endure that eventually caused her, her life.

her brother said ... We have been asking her to park out all along but she refused.

sadly, this is what happens when deluded women wanna stay "married" with mad men, at all cost. "divorce the bastard", she didnt want to listen to reason..... ok. i guess she can flaunt her "happily married" status in heaven.

Izen:
I'm sure if it was the woman that was being flogged, you won't ask for the man. Nigeria and double standards

i suggest you educate yourself (about MBJ's views, at least), instead of quoting me and writing rubbish on NL. i dont discriminate, below is the reply i gave when the opposite happened (wifey beating mistress):

MRBrownJ:
unless the cheating hubby is dealt the same punishment, all of what is done to this lady would be in vain.
deluded wife foolishly and cowardly focussing on the wrong person here!

https://www.nairaland.com/3045625/girl-brutalized-sleeping-married-boss/3#44663360

Tolexander:
Thank God she had a safe delivery!

fine innocent baby!

Make dem no allow that paedophile father near the baby o. Cos no one can guarantee the safety of the baby's "tutu" with the father.

as much as the baby daddy isnt the smartest out there, i think he should be allowed to spend SUPERVISED visit with his kid, until they feel safe having him around his child. sadly, as much as the guy broke the law, we need to also figure out if she was really kidnapped or did indeed elope willingly? is it so far fetched that she could have fell for this older guy and escape willingly with him?

of course, her parents are gonna say it was rape/kidnapping (and forced marriage), but it may simply be because they dont approve of what happened? many of these young clueless babes (and their virgin brains) easily fall for the BS and attention thrown at them by these older guys

@manee2
the important question you should answer is DO YOU STILL WANNA BE WITH HER OR NOT? then, you should now put your feelings and love aside, and only use your BRAIN to answer the same question again. if you get the same answer twice, then find a way to do exactly what your brain and heart wants you to do about this issue. if the answers are different then follow your brain's choice, and stick to it at all cost.

btw: if you decide to drop her, then knowing WHY she cheated is irrelevant...as for turning her into a cuum dump, it cant ever work due to how you feel about the babe. its either you forgive the babe and give her another chance OR you cut ties and remove her from your life.

imho, if your gf has no respect for YOU or the R/SHIP you guys have, then you shouldnt waste any more time with this deceitful babe. it aint easy but sadly, thats LiFE!

the good ones may do it for reassurance, to fully enjoy and do things that really matters that day, or to make her feel good about seeing you, to understand why you are there and what you may seek, or maybe to figure you out because she cant read your mind, sometimes just to know if you guys should meet more often (if he did miss her and she did too), but the reason we adore is... if you indeed missed her, and she cares about the "difficult" time (lol) you guys spend away from each other, she can then turn around and give you (or do) something that will help you get by and/OR get enough of her, until the next time (yes, mad sex is greatly appreciated too)

as for them babes who just wanna know how you feel so they can use that against you to make them feel powerful, on top, in control and/or treat you like shiit and belittle you every time you do something that she doesnt like ..... then, why they act that way shouldnt matter, since they aint really worthy of your attention/affection etc, and cant/wont be part of your life for much longer anyway (unless you are the type of guys that stick at all cost with these damaged babes that have no respect for their partner)

KingCheezyPuff:
[color=#C45AEC]MjBrown
..here you are again [/color]

lol, so you want all single babes of NL to apply for the position, without knowing the type of babe he is seeking? think of all the incompatible babes his post may attract.

kudos to you my broda for being honest about who you are, and what you are looking for. many of our brothas prefer to fake it, to hopefully fool or impress babes (but then again, they often just want to chop and clean mouth)... but my advice would be that you should equally write extensively about YOU, like physically/emotionally (you didnt even write how old you are OR the city where you live), what kind of babe you dig, the character/traits she should possess etc... if you dont, it may attract babes that are a NO-NO for you, and waste each other's time (unless you have no particular preferences with the type of women you desire)

wilybebsy:
If you ain't a salary earner and a broke ass dude, you better not

Zceesneh:
if u ain't working, don't think about it

arent unemployed guys the right people (with plenty of free time on their hands) to check the odds and place bets, while dreaming of getting the jackpot doing very little? many people think its easy to predict the outcome of matches, or the final score etc. you need to be an expert in that particular sport/field, check the latest news, have the right intuitions, and a bit of luck on your side too.

any novice can win once (beginner's luck), but it takes great skills to get paid more often than you lose!

maximunimpact:
that would'nt be necessary..... she's on her way back to her parents

so, you think its fair that this guy gets humiliated and physically punished, while wifey only gets to go back home to her parents?
nah, she needs to taste a bit of pain to get rid of any future desire (she may have) to cheat again.

Flashh:
[color=#1970BC]I'd expect to see both of them being flogged at the same time.[/color]

tosyne2much:
I'm also of the opinion that the woman in question should also receive her own portion of lashes

yeah bros, i cant understand why they dont even bring her out there, at least to make her never try it again. the shame that the cheated husband must be feeling, as well as his bruised ego, must be part of the reason why she isnt anywhere near there.

Zlatan is an unofficial Man U new signing... he can listen to all the other offers he's probably already getting (and use it to possibly squeeze more money out of Man U), but he has already given way too many hints about his desire to play in England, especially for the red devils, his views of his former coach Mourinho, which he said was the man to go to if anybody wants to win.... while being the man who brings the glory back to Old Trafford (every man has the right to dream, right?).said many times (indirectly) that this is where he wants to go after Paris).

as for Chelsea, their bad run of luck isnt over just yet, as they will have to still settle Mourinho this year, if his salary is less than the €13M he was getting with Chelsea, kai!

the cheating wife should be laid right next to this guy, and receive just as much lashes, as she is just as guilty!

what were they really thinking was gonna happen? millions of Nigerians watching that show about a lifestyle that the majority of Nigerians are against? the ratings were probably so bad that they simply used that excuse to cut the show off. such a predictable outcome.

so long as you stick to the golden rule of betting, then there is nothing wrong with that.....

NEVER BET MONEY YOU CANT AFFORD TO LOSE.... even if/when betting for a match that a team "supposedly" cant lose (like a Brasil vs Mongolia, for example)

@Festivalofholi

my brotha, let me clap for your above post and nod in agreement with all what you've written, as this is almost exactly what i would have typed on the subject... and although i am not fond of the idea of handing money to a babe, just because she opened her legs (team MBJ, aka only offer babes a gift when YOU believe their ways/being/actions deserve one"... if me and that babe had sex, and we both were h0rny and looking for bedroom acrobatics, then this is a mutual "gift", where both are happily giving and receiving, for maximum satisfaction (unlike an ashi who would do as little as possible simply because she's been rewarded financially to do so)... therefore, imho, sex with your babe shouldnt get her any extra points. think for a minute about the atmosphere/vibe (and possible monster) you are creating here, and all the gifts she will expect from you in the future, every time you guys have sex (even if you cant afford it any longer or dont think she deserves any)

the important question IS: why? why would you give her any gift/money/handout, if she hasnt done anything that warrant a reward, or a kind gesture from your part?

let him face the firing range wall, one bullet to the back of the head, clean and clinical, no questions asked... and let that be a warning to all these perverted demons.

IamOpemipo:
Congrats tiwa, i'm not ya ardent fan..but i'm feeling you for this. I keep sayin it as an artist talent is not enuff, networking and brandin is what will draw the bigshot in the game to you, na that same package dey EPP d'banj, davido, wizkid, ayo jay ( jus gt singned to Roc nation) so Tiwa Ride on and make us proud


P.S: dem mavin goons and dumb jazzy recharge card beneficiaries wnt like this news, but can the do??

And to the lady above me, d'banj made more money than the whole mohit since 2012 when jazzy disbanded the team, his endorsement sky rocketed and got more shows than your fav artiste.FACT! U knw why? Dude invested in his brand through packaging..

No b by song my guy, infact wen last tiwa drop HIT

woah really, i didnt think his signing to Good music was great since he hasnt really evolved worldwide/musically, as many thought he would. making it in Nigeria is one thing, succeeding worldwide is a compete different ball game, especially if you aint got the backing of the music "godfathers". Kanye could do some crossover tracks and/or bring out and work more closely with the talented Dbanj. i feel this partnership aint musically beneficial to Dbanj... its like signing to Man U, but being on the bench most of the season.

she is indeed going places, and her great knowledge of the music business + her business degree, sure does come in handy. i sincerely hope Hova wants to fully exploit her potential, and not just have her idle, without really putting his superstar touch/savvy, or pushing and promoting her worldwide... like Kanye/good music poorly did/doing with our brotha Dbanj.

Slickest:
This generation is committing unforgivable atrocities, grown men now find pleasure in raping underaged girls, this is so so inhuman, there should be a law regarding rape, with a death penalty attatched. So people are just a waste of existence.

i am fully with you on the death penalty for such crimes, but sadly, too many countries around the world allow kids to get married to grown folks, thus allowing such pedo acts to go unchallenged, and these marriage deemed legal. didnt that Nigerian polithief go to Libya (or wherever) to legally marry a child, and the marriage is "legal" under the Nigeria law? too many muslim countries allow such abomination!

Cutehector:
I just duno, what if she gives birth and she dies of complications during childbirth..

I'm just thinking tho. Ain't saying abortion was right in her case still..



Just thinking.. pls no bashings

herbie27:
I think the best option is to abort the pregnancy since the aunt already has kids with the useless man.
That shld be after he has faced the law.
Bashers don't

wasnt the child aborted already? the initial post stated that:

The girl underwent a scan before the abortion. It was a failed process because she began to bleed at the nurse’s place. The police were informed on that Wednesday and the two women were arrested, while Johnbull fled.
“The policemen took Favour to a proper hospital to get rid of the remaining foetus. As it is, the suspect is on the run because he knew that the girl is with the police.”

and this woman didnt report this bastard criminal to the police?! i guess her own marriage, and getting rid of the foul play evidence (aka the baby) was more important to her than than seeking justice and saving this child... as if this mentally sick beast would have stopped raping this child after the abortion.... let them ALL (demon, his wife and even the BS nurse) rot in jail!

a DNA of the aborted foetus will confirm who really abused this child, but the fact that the sick husband ran away is highly suspicious (an innocent man wouldnt run away like that).

Pharoahhhhhh:
we have many african women who are independent, so i dont really understand your point

i feel you my brotha, but could you please answer the below question, if you may (and we could take this discussion from there)?:
knowing that, as you said, many African sistas are independent (which i dont/never doubt), in the African family setup, can a POOR man get prospective dates to value/marry him? we are talking about in the general "African" sense, and not whether it has ever been done before. if NOT, then my 2nd question would be: is the reason it aint common among African women because of their GD tendencies or because thats the way marriage in Africa is setup/viewed?

golddust6000:
exactly bro! I am really confuse on this aspect, especially the level of poverty in the land would made any woman to look desperate. I will try as much as I can to know her well. Thank you so much.

thats exactly the point... look around you to understand that 95% of single women in Africa are seeking for someone like you. someone ready to marry and take them away from their misery. knowing that, you must be careful as the majority will desperately become whatever woman you desire.
if you are hellbent on this lady, then why dont you set traps and see if she falls into them. example: bring a friend along and pretend that he is some millionaire's kid also looking for a wifey OR pretend you like your women a certain way (opposite of what you really desire), and see if the take the bait OR claim you are moving back to Africa because you are tired of being illegal in Europe. in desperate times, you need desperate means to figure out who is after you for the right/wrong reasons.

cococandy:
What's your point?

Do you not see us condemn jungle justice against both men and women? Or maybe we should ask for the girl to be killed too so that it will be 'equal'.

Really? This post is beneath you.
Not everything is a joke.

What's bad is bad.

Up until today I still hurt when I think of those killed by mob action especially those aluu4 boys.
It is terrible and shouldn't be joked with.

what joke are you talking about... this is African reality: JUNGLE JUSTICE. you steal you die, no questions asked!
the Aluu4 has absolutely nothing to do with this issues as they didnt steal anything. but if someone is wiling to steal in Africa (where thieves are lynched ON THE SPOT) then they should accept the consequences of their actions. this is Africa let us not pretend or fool ourselves.

now the important point, whether you like it or not, is to agree whether male and female thieves should be dealt with the same way.

MarieSucre:
98% person of the people in that mob that stripped her are men. Check the picture yourself. So Its you that needs to answer the question.
In other news. This shitt is f**king barbaric. We can't keep burning and stripping people for petty crimes. Lets act like we are citizens of the 21st century

do you really think that it would make any difference if it was women there? bwaaaah! thats the ammo of women, just read NL (here is a thread for example: nairaland.com/3046284/concubine-should-not-made-pay)
people can only use what they have, to deal with their local issues. these practices should be a sound WARNING to thieves out there, who think they can defraud people and go unpunished. death is the only available solution to all these criminals who think they can cut corners and enrich themselves by stealing from hardworking people. but hey, if you guys have a better solution, i'd like to hear it (pls dont offend us by mentioning the police as a solution)

golddust6000:
but i don't live in Nigeria, how can I know her more?

the reality is that you cant... there is NO WAY you can get to know this person properly, in such a short period of time. the problem is that you are desperate, thus not focussing on what is important here. it is best for you to take however time it take to properly know "any" woman, than end up with some psycho who will be glad to kill you as soon as she get what she needs from you. marriage is not a joke, dont make that grave mistake.

hedonistic:
Of course they are related. Ever heard the expression, fattening up for the kill?
He didn't increase the rent because of the party. He organised the party and invited the tenants to 'chop and quench' in preparation for the rent increase.... Pretty much the same way you feed a goat before slaughtering him.

so what is the issue here.... he shouldnt have a party before raising the rent? he shouldnt offer free food and drinks before raising the rent?
the important question is: would it change the outcome if there was NO party?!

skywalker240:
Misconception 3 follows in line with what d op said or dont u think so?

in the African family setup, can you be poor and get married? and is the reason for such because of women's GD tendencies or because thats the way marriage in Africa is set up?

women are born and bred to be auctioned off to the highest bidder, and the bride price is a confirmation of that. young girls are brainwashed that this is their duty, and thats what a man must do before he can marry them. in Africa, your house/car/job etc represents how "strong" a man you are, your power in the ranking of eligible bachelor. you cant blame women who are seeking for such men in their desperation to get married, as the bride price alone will run into a few salaries. you must instead blame the AFRICAN FAMILY SETUP which dictates that a man must be financially able if he wants to get married, as it aint cheap to marry in Africa. money talks and love/other BS walks.

furthermore, that same AFRICAN FAMILY SETUP values the cooking/cleaning and child bearing abilities of a woman, rather than her financial stability. so, having kids is the obvious route to validate (to both families) that the union is sound..... the majority of newlyweds certainly aint making plans for anything other that starting a family.

Festivalofholi:
----Yeah dats true. Women will always depend on men for money, its in there dna. They need our money badly. So y give her wot she wants without getting wot u want frm her? Are u not a fool??

-----If she asks u for money, politely ask her for sex. If she hesitates, stand ur ground, dont budge. She will respect u and know ur not a maga. Works all d time. Before u know it, she'll make a u-turn and end up in ur bed. Make sure u fucck her like chicken, na ur money. When u r satisfied, u can go ahead and spend on her, take her out, buy her wotever she wants if u can afford. She will value u more than anything. In fact, she will find it difficult to let go of u.

----Don't be a fool. I speak frm experience.

as much as men madly want sex, if anybody expects sex in return for the money/gifts you give her, then you are just foolishly paying for an undercover ashi....but let us be honest for a minute, compare the price of a round at your local ashi joint with the price you are paying here... to realise how you are being conned anyway. the minute ANYBODY pays for sex, whether directly or indirectly, then they are being taken for a ride, because there are gazillions of women out there who are throwing their totos at us men (like frisbees) for FREE!

as if only us men enjoy sex anyway, NONSENSE!!!!!