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isidiwent:
Please if there is any corper girl that finished NYSC without cheating on her fiance, type #Hardworkingyouth.......Many corper girls cheat on their fiance. A corper girl can be on doggy while making call to her fiance, saying "I missed you"... It could be that her boobs are being touched while she is on phone with her fiance......So let's stop all these hypocrisy faithfulness

KillaBeauty:
Pls stop quoting me people would think I know you and you’re not on my level

Oyindidi:
Watin be your own?

Oyindidi:
Watin dey worry you?

BrainnewsRadio:
Read his story Below:

Source: https://www.brainnewsradio.com/im-sleeping-with-a-married-woman-and-she-is-too-sweet-youth-corper/

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Oyindidi:
E don't happen

Diamond294:
There's nothing so special about London. I prefer an Americana (real talk).

KillaBeauty:
Please stop talking to me I’m not on your level. You’re just an angry midget

KillaBeauty:
I’ll have you know that I’m a 100% wife material and you’re just jealous that you cannot afford me. No offens.

ladygudhead:
THIS IS GOOD.

Netanyahu1:
Op. I understand the single mother aspect. I have come to realize that 80% of all single mothers have one of two problems. Its either that they are totally dull about everything in life to the extent that no man is interested in managing their intellectual deficiency, or they are outrightly wayward to the extent that no man wants to be a party to their stupid ideology about what a marital union should look like.

In your own case , however, you just dodged a bullet. As far as "Nigeria" is concerned , church is where you find the most useless and heartless con artists, starting from the pastor, therefore , the combination of a single mother you met in church is equal to natural disaster .

Again op. You just dodged a bullet. If I were you I will be dancing like David for this new life god has given you.I mean the real God and not the god of Nigerian pastors.

1x2x3:
I'm sorry I'm saying this and it hurts my heart to agree with the warnings of marrying a single mother. I'm not the best writer but I will try to narrate my experience and findings.

First of all I would like to point out that there are very few single mothers who can make a good wife while majority of them will ruin you and make your life miserable if caution is not taken.

I've been dating a single mother of a 5 years old boy for about a year and half she is 30 and never been married. I wouldn't just jump into such relationship but for the fact she is someone I knew back in my School days however, we lost contact for about 10 years before we met again and I kind of understood the story she told me and the circumstances she had the child (Till date I didn't bother verifying her story of course I don't care).

We dated for about a year and she got talking with a few of my friends and sibling but the striking thing is she is yet to introduce me to any of her friends or siblings even though I knew she have many siblings and some friends (I did question her about this and she said she doesn't have someone she can really call a friend).

Looking at the kind of reserved life she lives I felt this could be normal but still something kept telling me there's more to these whole pretentious reserved life because I'm introverted and can easily figure out who's pretending to be one. Mind you, she is the church going type who prays and wants my well being yet I could still figure out there is something not clear thus my reason for taking my time to propose to her. This is actually not my fault as there is no way I can figure out who she is unless through someone close to her.

About 6 months ago a pastor that is yet to meet her in person told me that if I marry her I will end up divorcing but being the doubting Thomas type I gave no ear to whatever the pastor has to say until recently when something unfolded.

She lives 3 hrs drive away and comes visiting most of the weekend. Here is the major problem which I must admit I'm at fault but I thank God I was at fault because it paved way for the revelation. Throughout the time we've been dating I only visited her once which she complained about, I wasn't just too comfortable going there to spend time and do certain things (I didn't just find this right but I'm very much comfortable if she visits alone or with the kid). She complained a few times about me not visiting until 2 weeks ago she told me she was traveling to Abuja.
I inquired about her reasons of traveling and she said she needed to rest since she's on leave (Redflag). Her reasons didn't sound logical so I objected, I told her I wasn't comfortable with her traveling, she kept insisting and she jokingly said she will go and face the consequences when she returns. We talked about this for days and she eventually went against all odds and traveled.
On getting to Abuja she started acting funny like not taking calls or calling and when she finally returned my call I told her not to call me until she is back from her trip (I needed to avoid unnecessary worries)

She returned after 4 days and called knowing fully well we've got issues to thrash. She started complaining I don't give her attention as much as she wants (she seems not to be able to deal with my introverted person anymore). The ranting was becoming rude, sounding like a different person from whom I thought I knew. We got to a heated point I had to ask for any of her siblings number, she immediately became defensive and threatened that if I dare contact any of her siblings (7 of them) that I won't like the outcome . It occurred to me she isn't in good relationship with any of her siblings even though they talk sometimes. She just doesn't want me to contact anyone. Out of her rudeness I asked her if she is ready to be under a man since she has brought up marriage issues on few occasions. She said she isn't ready to tolerate bulllshitt of men afterall she has a child, marriage is about children and if things aren't working in a marriage everyone can find their way . The pastor's words occurred to me instantly. I took about 2 hours telling her how much she needs to adjust and understand she isn't supposed to tuzzle with a man else it will be hard for things to work in a home.

She said so many unimaginable things that it dawned to me she was pretending to be nice all these while. She said she wants a man that can take alll she does, I then asked her if she is ready to take all a man does she said no and I told her to look for a man and pay his groom price since she wants a man she can control.

Still scary to me she pretended all these while, going to church and acting very responsible hoping I marry her which I genuinely had intentions to but for the fact something kept telling me I needed more time to know her.

At the end its obvious she is used to being a single mother and if she divorces tomorrow it will be nothing new to her.

Guys make sure you scrutinize that single mother before you jump in. There's a reason she's single and in her 30's.
I found out she's not in good terms with her siblings because she doesn't like taking orders or listening to advice. They've talked to her about being rude and disrespectful but rather than listen she drew bad blood between her and all her siblings.

Hisduchess:
aswear Nairaland don suffer.just imagine the short engine.anyway that's why he is always angry.

Hisduchess:
aswear Nairaland don suffer.just imagine the short engine.anyway that's why he is always angry.

Oyindidi:
Go sleep abeg

seivey:
Please guys be careful of a guy called Adekola James, he is fraud.
He claims to sell data bundle. He will take your money and never deliver any bundle.

This is his details;

Adekola James
Bank acct: 8011046359
ECO bank.
His mobile; 07032061538

He will soon be tracked down. Till then keep safe guys.

Hisduchess:
am single but not searching for your broke love.so swerve biko make I see road see fine boys.mtchewwww.broke pekam wannabe with ur keke maruwa that u call a range rover.don't mention me again Mr troll

Diamond294:
I don't need a short nigga like ya! I'm 5'7" tall and prefer taller guys (true story)

Ishilove:
You really are are a troll. Amazing!!

Durchess:
Say all you want I still prefer private Uni .

Toks2008:
Many ladies are quick to use the words "I don't need a man in my life" but I see this as a funny statement cos every woman in the real sense needs a man and visavis.

Even lesbians sometimes need a man to do some manly things in the house or in her life considered too hectic or complicated for a woman and will definitely need a MAN's fluid for procreation and those who are single yet claim not to need a man ends up having male friends and sometimes have a male sex mate somewhere.

I know many ladies will argue that they can always hire a MAN and pay him for some manly duties and I wonder if this is not the same as needing a MAN .

But maybe I'm still ignorant of some facts so I would like to read more views from nairalanders. .

Can a woman truly do without a man?

Hisduchess:
Broke nigga abeg stop mentioning me from that ur ajegunle location. pekam wannabe.mtchewww

Diamond294:
MrCork...is that you? You and your bae are fvcking ugl... (no oofinse)

Hisduchess:
Broke nigga abeg stop mentioning me from that ur ajegunle location. pekam wannabe.mtchewww

moriton:
Crazy replies here by Nigerians

Let nobody come and tell me this is the wrong section to post this. I can't imagine a more romantic reply to the consensus agreement on here!

Gaspardd:
Now i feel sad, u rubbing my failure on my face and stuff, thats sad man, and u shld feel sad too

highqueen:
geeze,dwarf.