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AnnieBeyonce:
What do u think about a guy dat is always doubting u..he always wana kwn abt ur way about, even wen u tell him d truth he kep askin.." ar u sure" "hmmm".. and always tinkin u are dating anoda guy...is it dat he dosnt love u at all?

aniagoluaustin:
wait!! u ask me question n answered it always..seriously ur really a d*ck head..ahhahahhahahahhahah...

LaurelP:
Guys have a lot of wrong notions about ladies especially Naija ladies. These beliefs most times are partially or totally incorrect, but because of societal norms and our culture, most ppl still believe them anyway. There are many of them but I will just mention 10 and leave u to mention urs.

1.Ladies who are social are promiscuous: The average Naija guy beleives dat ladies who are very social and confident are wayward and love sex a lot. This is actually wrong as many girls who are free and mingle with guys are actually virgins.

2.Ladies with big bosoms is a result of constant handling by guys: Even me I used to have this impression before I got to know that a lady can be busty naturally without having guys constantly handling her breasts. Those days, we will be making jest of girls with big bosom and calling dem all sorts of names. That's wat ignorance can cause, now I know better, lols!

3. Ladies with big bottom is a result of excess sperm: Many guys believe dat ladies who have big backsides get it from excess sperm from guys. But this is not true. There are ladies who acquired their assets naturally, not a result of guys sleeping with them.

4. Ladies who are quiet are decent: This is not always true. My experience with women have taught me that quiet and calm ladies are usually worse dan the social and talkative ones. Its when u are alone with them dat u will know who they really are!

5. Those ladies who cover their whole body and don't wear trouser are decent: If I hear! It could just be as a result of fear of parents or religious beliefs or just lack of modernity. Decency or being responsible has got nothing to do with whether a lady wears trouser or Mary Amaka! Its in the mind.

6. A rich young lady must be a runs girl: Not in all cases oo. There are many ladies who are working hard and making their cool dough legitimately. I know of one in my town who's building a house for her family. She's d only female in a family of 7 men and she's the only one dat got a very gud job in an airport.

7. All Naija ladies love Money: But really is there anybody that hates money? Both male and female? The way guys paint it is wrong though, as if all they care for is money and no other thing. There are still Naija ladies who will love you for you are, and even support you (financially) if need be.

8. Naija ladies can't do without a guy that has got a nice car: That's for hungry ladies. I've seen ladies who have turned down guys who have really nice rides for guys with Legedez Benz, lolz.

9. Thß
ey are not smart or brilliant: Na lie! The last time I checked, more ladies are making 1st Class these days than guys. Besides we have many ladies who are doing pretty well in their fields. I no get power to type their name abeg, u know them.

10. They are too pompous and proud: This may be partially true, but not all of them. Besides, what guys mistake as pride may be a result of shyness. Many of them are shy but they cover it up by putting on a facade of pomposity and pride to avoid guys taking advantage of them.


Feel free to add yours.


LaurelP

LaurelP:
Guys have a lot of wrong notions about ladies especially Naija ladies. These beliefs most times are partially or totally incorrect, but because of societal norms and our culture, most ppl still believe them anyway. There are many of them but I will just mention 10 and leave u to mention urs.

1.Ladies who are social are promiscuous: The average Naija guy beleives dat ladies who are very social and confident are wayward and love sex a lot. This is actually wrong as many girls who are free and mingle with guys are actually virgins.

2.Ladies with big bosoms is a result of constant handling by guys: Even me I used to have this impression before I got to know that a lady can be busty naturally without having guys constantly handling her breasts. Those days, we will be making jest of girls with big bosom and calling dem all sorts of names. That's wat ignorance can cause, now I know better, lols!

3. Ladies with big bottom is a result of excess sperm: Many guys believe dat ladies who have big backsides get it from excess sperm from guys. But this is not true. There are ladies who acquired their assets naturally, not a result of guys sleeping with them.

4. Ladies who are quiet are decent: This is not always true. My experience with women have taught me that quiet and calm ladies are usually worse dan the social and talkative ones. Its when u are alone with them dat u will know who they really are!

5. Those ladies who cover their whole body and don't wear trouser are decent: If I hear! It could just be as a result of fear of parents or religious beliefs or just lack of modernity. Decency or being responsible has got nothing to do with whether a lady wears trouser or Mary Amaka! Its in the mind.

6. A rich young lady must be a runs girl: Not in all cases oo. There are many ladies who are working hard and making their cool dough legitimately. I know of one in my town who's building a house for her family. She's d only female in a family of 7 men and she's the only one dat got a very gud job in an airport.

7. All Naija ladies love Money: But really is there anybody that hates money? Both male and female? The way guys paint it is wrong though, as if all they care for is money and no other thing. There are still Naija ladies who will love you for you are, and even support you (financially) if need be.

8. Naija ladies can't do without a guy that has got a nice car: That's for hungry ladies. I've seen ladies who have turned down guys who have really nice rides for guys with Legedez Benz, lolz.

9. Thß
ey are not smart or brilliant: Na lie! The last time I checked, more ladies are making 1st Class these days than guys. Besides we have many ladies who are doing pretty well in their fields. I no get power to type their name abeg, u know them.

10. They are too pompous and proud: This may be partially true, but not all of them. Besides, what guys mistake as pride may be a result of shyness. Many of them are shy but they cover it up by putting on a facade of pomposity and pride to avoid guys taking advantage of them.


Feel free to add yours.


LaurelP

NaNaYaaah:
Hey guys..i have a frend...shes super cool but recently she started acting weird and always up against me for no reason... she befrends everyone i befrend and gets closer to them...lil sis told me it could be jealousy...
Question is how do u know if someone u really cool with is jelous of u?

NaNaYaaah:
Hey guys..i have a frend...shes super cool but recently she started acting weird and always up against me for no reason... she befrends everyone i befrend and gets closer to them...lil sis told me it could be jealousy...
Question is how do u know if someone u really cool with is jelous of u?

popcake1:
hello everyone, pls i need ur advise because am so hrtbroken, i dated someone for 2yrs , we wrk in the same company, so wen my rent expired i moved in with him,we were to get married wen we found out we r both AS, so we agreed to move on, we broke up officialy december but i stil stay with him because am still looking for a hse. but why am so hrtbroken is because my dear bf has already started chatin and getting to know someone else in the same office ....dat girl has always liked him even though she knew we were going out....it really hurt soo bad am trying so much to move on but is very difficult...pls advice me

deathstroke:
PLEASE NOTE:
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NO INSULTS OR ABUSIVE WORDS

JUST MENTION THE PERSON OR PEOPLE'S NAME.

LEMME START THE FUN


sarimah
najiaboiy
benromeo
valmunich
chealseabmw
mariolea
temigracie
richommie
logicalmindy
rozzay
mirexx

let's not spoil the fun


your turn please.

deathstroke:
PLEASE NOTE:
NO PICTURES

NO INSULTS OR ABUSIVE WORDS

JUST MENTION THE PERSON OR PEOPLE'S NAME.

LEMME START THE FUN


sarimah
najiaboiy
benromeo
valmunich
chealseabmw
mariolea
temigracie
richommie
logicalmindy
rozzay
mirexx

let's not spoil the fun


your turn please.

farano:
I just don't get it. Ladies can't get pregnant without men. If he can't put on protection or abstain, he's to be blamed. Yes because he got aroused and put it in her. He's just mad that he's unlucky. Science definitely should create a birth control pill for men because some men don't just care.

badassProdigy:
Nollywood actress/singer, Omotlola J Ekeinde,
had a lavish dinner party at Sandralia Hotel,
Jabi in Abuja yesterday, to celebrate her 20th
anniversary as an entertainer.
The dinner party had in attendance Larry
Koldsweat, Osita Iheme, Uti Nwachukwu, and
footballer Joseph Yobo.
Her husband and children were noticeably
absent from the dinnerdont u people hav light skin wom party.

source: http://stargist.com/celebrityphotos/photos-omotola-j-ekeinde-celebrates-20th-anniversary-lavish-ceremony/

Ormorlehwah:
During a wedding reception; the
groom was called upon to give his vote
of thanks to his guests and this is what
he came up with:
1. I want to first of all thank the Lord Almighty for
creating my wife and to
also thank the pastor and his wife for
lending us their wedding rings.
2. Special appreciation to my landlord
who lent us his car.
3. I am most grateful to my boss for... approving the
loan I used for the
wedding.
4. Big thanks to the committee of
friends for the appeal fund they raised
on my behalf.
5. Also to my brother's wife, thank you for lending us
your wedding gown.
6. Am so grateful to the cake designer
for the cake. I promised to return it
tomorrow morning as agreed without
cutting or eating out of it.
7. Special thanks to my friends who brought food from
their homes to help
me feed you all. Please for those who
were served food good luck and for
Those who didn't get any, well we will
make it up to you during our child
dedication ( hopefully next year). 8. Very big thanks to
my parents for
bringing the village cultural band to
supply the music as well as entertain us
all here, today.
9. Not forgetting the church marriage
committee, thank you for persuading my wife to marry
me.
10. Appreciation to the married men in
the church for rushing me into this
marriage.
11. The women are not left out, thanks
a lot for teaching my wife how to dance.
12. To the youths, thank you for
sweeping and decorating this venue
with palm fronds.
13. I am also grateful to my teenage
friends for helping with the Zobo drink 14. Appreciation
to my co-tenants for
contributing money for the cameraman
15. Well, I wish you all safe journey and
I pray you don't experience what I
suffered for this wedding.

Thank You.

clevvermind:
i'm no gay man.

popcake1:
hello everyone, pls i need ur advise because am so hrtbroken, i dated someone for 2yrs , we wrk in the same company, so wen my rent expired i moved in with him,we were to get married wen we found out we r both AS, so we agreed to move on, we broke up officialy december but i stil stay with him because am still looking for a hse. but why am so hrtbroken is because my dear bf has already started chatin and getting to know someone else in the same office ....dat girl has always liked him even though she knew we were going out....it really hurt soo bad am trying so much to move on but is very difficult...pls advice me

LexaP:
So you worked up the courage to approach an
attractive woman and start a conversation. But as
soon as you opened your mouth, she found a
reason to get away from you. There might be a
specific reason why she rejected you. The simple
point is that most guys cause rejection by what
they’re doing. Here are five common reasons why
women are rejecting you.
1. You have bad breath
Although the right words may be coming out of
your mouth, bad breath may be what’s turning
the ladies off. Bad breath is one of the biggest
turnoffs you can display to the opposite sex. If
you have foul breath no matter how rich you are
or drive a fancy sports car, women will avoid you
at all times. An
2. You’re overly
aggressive
Women don’t like it when a man they have just
met insists on touching her too often. There is no
need to touch a woman if you just met her.
Women mostly prefer cool, calm, gentle and well-
mannered men. When you are too aggressive
with a woman, you creep her out, get pushed
away and you get rejected.
3. You’re using the wrong approach
Most men approach women in the wrong fashion.
Most women are really tired of hearing played
out, cheesy pick-up lines. Also, being an arrogant
man who is always talking about himself and
knows it all is sure to make the ladies run far, far
away. Women like confident and not cocky.
4. You’re being too needy
Women are not attracted to the type of man who
needs too much support, validation, and constant
reinforcement from women. If you come across
as the kind of guy that is going to have to be with
her 24/7 and you do not have a life or interests of
your own, you are probably going to face
rejection from a woman.
5. You’re using the wrong body language
Your body language has a huge effect on
attraction, and if you start talking to a woman and
your posture is slumped and your eyes are
darting around but not meeting hers, you’re
probably not going to get a favorable response.
Keep in mind that a man’s appearance actually
means a lot to a woman when she first meets
him. If you are dressed sloppy or you have your
pants pulled up to your chest with your shirt
tucked into them, a woman may not want to be
seen with you.

Feel free to add to the list please.

Source:
aquavibes..com/2015/01/dear-men-5-reasons-women-are-rejecting.html?utm_source=&utm_medium=facebook

LexaP:
So you worked up the courage to approach an
attractive woman and start a conversation. But as
soon as you opened your mouth, she found a
reason to get away from you. There might be a
specific reason why she rejected you. The simple
point is that most guys cause rejection by what
they’re doing. Here are five common reasons why
women are rejecting you.
1. You have bad breath
Although the right words may be coming out of
your mouth, bad breath may be what’s turning
the ladies off. Bad breath is one of the biggest
turnoffs you can display to the opposite sex. If
you have foul breath no matter how rich you are
or drive a fancy sports car, women will avoid you
at all times. An
2. You’re overly
aggressive
Women don’t like it when a man they have just
met insists on touching her too often. There is no
need to touch a woman if you just met her.
Women mostly prefer cool, calm, gentle and well-
mannered men. When you are too aggressive
with a woman, you creep her out, get pushed
away and you get rejected.
3. You’re using the wrong approach
Most men approach women in the wrong fashion.
Most women are really tired of hearing played
out, cheesy pick-up lines. Also, being an arrogant
man who is always talking about himself and
knows it all is sure to make the ladies run far, far
away. Women like confident and not cocky.
4. You’re being too needy
Women are not attracted to the type of man who
needs too much support, validation, and constant
reinforcement from women. If you come across
as the kind of guy that is going to have to be with
her 24/7 and you do not have a life or interests of
your own, you are probably going to face
rejection from a woman.
5. You’re using the wrong body language
Your body language has a huge effect on
attraction, and if you start talking to a woman and
your posture is slumped and your eyes are
darting around but not meeting hers, you’re
probably not going to get a favorable response.
Keep in mind that a man’s appearance actually
means a lot to a woman when she first meets
him. If you are dressed sloppy or you have your
pants pulled up to your chest with your shirt
tucked into them, a woman may not want to be
seen with you.

Feel free to add to the list please.

Source:
aquavibes..com/2015/01/dear-men-5-reasons-women-are-rejecting.html?utm_source=&utm_medium=facebook

clevvermind:
ladies are always attracted to guys with pink lips. they always wish to kiss them. i know what i'm talking about. many ladies have told me that they like my lips and you know what that implies. i know many ladies will not say the truth here but that is the fact. guys with pink lips are sweet to kiss by the ladies. they love it. that is why i love kissing them too. i'm a good kisser too.

2dice:
deep one..
Thanks amuch
One answer..but not yet convinced totally

2dice:
bro i don't do school...
So back to question..any answer?

reminiscing:
Please say what you wish to say to me,maybe It will make me shed all the tears and never make me repeat such mistake....
I met with this guy online and we just clicked,it was as if we had know each other for ages.He called me every morning and we also spent enough time chatting online.it was great,I felt I had finally found Mr right.He asked me out but I turned him down with much excuses that I don't want to be broken hearted again.To cut the story short,I gave in and it was wonderful,he invited me to his place and I did.
He warned my sometime ago when we were chatting that he could be touchy,we did kissed and a few touches.After like a week again,I went visiting and I don't know what came over me but I gave in and we had sex.When I left,He didn't bother chatting with me again and has changed the way he talks to me,As I type now I can't control myself because my tears are just giving way
please advice me,scold me,just say something that will make me think straight cos I don't know what to do.

reminiscing:
Please say what you wish to say to me,maybe It will make me shed all the tears and never make me repeat such mistake....
I met with this guy online and we just clicked,it was as if we had know each other for ages.He called me every morning and we also spent enough time chatting online.it was great,I felt I had finally found Mr right.He asked me out but I turned him down with much excuses that I don't want to be broken hearted again.To cut the story short,I gave in and it was wonderful,he invited me to his place and I did.
He warned my sometime ago when we were chatting that he could be touchy,we did kissed and a few touches.After like a week again,I went visiting and I don't know what came over me but I gave in and we had sex.When I left,He didn't bother chatting with me again and has changed the way he talks to me,As I type now I can't control myself because my tears are just giving way
please advice me,scold me,just say something that will make me think straight cos I don't know what to do.

2dice:
Hey peeps
have been reading alot of write ups..here on this Romance section...The problem i got is i feel most stories are fake..
My point is how will you knw he/she is trolling??

SPINA101:
It was just yesterday that I decided to go and
chill out in Mr Biggs when I saw one guy with
his babe enjoying themselves. Not too long, in
front of them was the waiter with the bill which
was about 20k.to my surprise the girl quickly
opened her purse brought out 21k, paid and
told the waiter to keep the change. After the
waiter had left the guy started asking her baby
why didn't you allow me to take care of the
bills.it was then the girl said something that
impressed me,she actually told the guy that she
is not after his money that the only thing she
needs from him is his love,care and attention.it
was then I just heard a voice ''cut cut cut
cut !!!!!! that was the director and right behind
me was the camera man it was then I said to
myself okeyyyyyy so na movie una they shoot,
no wonder !!!!!!! because the last time this kind
thing happen for real life na late 70s during the
time of Babangida...

MhizVee:
you?Nt you

MhizVee:
He is understandn,loving and
caring