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chimere66:
Image Credit: Michael Tubes Creation

Fela's son and Afrobeat star Seun Kuti and Egypt 80 Band performed at the 13th London African Music Festival this year.The star showed off his massive stomach tattoo at the concert.

Source: http://trezzy2..com/2015/09/seun-kuti-shows-off-massive-stomach.html

no matter d resemblance, d lizard can neva b a crocodile.

ChiSun27:
It all started sometimes early this year...it just happend and we connected. On my own part....I never knew she was a runs girl. She's jovial and caring.

I actually took her serious until I discovered her true identity and ever since that day....my emotional attachment to her reduced speedily.

I confronted her and she admitted living such a life but that she's willing to change if I'm ready to make her my 'one and only'. But to my utmost dismay, this girl no gree change. Her urge for money is on the high side and she believes that all those her runs yields faster income.

Wetin dey pain me be say, this girl get better handwork. But she doesn't want to manage her life with the income that comes from her handwork as she tags it 'not enough'.

I have tried my possible best to advise her on how she can improve on her hand work because the income is mouth watering yet she is not satisfied with it due to her extravagant life style.


As a matter of fact, I don pursue her on countless occasions, but she will still come back with her stylish way of begging, change kwanu...she won't change.

Peeps, I'm tired...I want to send this girl away from my life (but not the wicked way) because her life style is gradually tarnishing my good image and reputation especially amongst my friends.

Don't know if anyone in the house has been in this kind of crossroads before...if yes....how did you solve the problem?

She's not ready to change, all she wants is a permanent guy, while she continues with her wayward life. My advice is dt u run for ur dear life.

Toks2008:
When a man shows interest in a lady and tells her that he would love to know her better,most times in his heart this is exactly what he is saying: "Hi lady, can i get to have a taste of your goody-bag and have the feel of your body to know if you are good enough in bed and decide if i should keep you for long or dump your ass in a jiffy because i don't really care whether we end up together or not".

I honestly don't believe in dating and even as courtship sounds more reasonable,it is still not really necessary and i will try to list logical reasons why ladies should avoid this lie from the pits of hell called dating or courtship and i hope you learn a great deal from this.


1. A man usually knows if there is a huge possibility of marrying you or just want to use you to pass time the very first day he sets his eyes on you and a man who is really interested in a purposeful affair with you will give you the sign almost immediately with the body language except you refuse to be vigilant.

2. Many Men use dating and courtship as a means of exploring you sexually and probably after he realizes that your bosoms are not as firm as he wants them to be or your sex performance is below what he wants or after he has really used you to his satisfaction then he tells you it can't work out because his mum does not want him to marry from your tribe or just brings up any lame excuse and decides to walk away to get another lady to "date"

3. An Angel can turn to a demon: Many people have argued that dating period is a period where you will know the type of person you have but this assertion is very funny because a good person can turn terrible and most times even if the person seems bad many ladies will still go on and marry him with the hope of changing him.

4.Dating and courtship is a disguised miniature marriage because in many cases when a guy starts dating or courting you,you will be doing some stuffs that wives do and i keep wondering why they still see the union as dating or courting when he is practically having all the benefits he should get from a wife hence the need to continue dating and courting and dating and.. until you suddenly realized you have spent your honey years married unofficially to a man who will probably dump you to marry another lady still in the name of dating.

5.A thousand years of courtship is no guaranty that you will know the man and until you two stay under the same roof as man and wife,you will never come closer to knowing who he really is so why waste your years dating and courting.

6.Most of the marriages of our parents are great examples as most of our parents hardly knew each other before getting married yet many of them had a lasting and loving union but these days despite the celebrated dating and courting culture,many marriages hit the rock.

7.A good union is not hinged on the number of years both of you spend sleeping with each other in the name of dating or courtship but its in learning to love whoever you choose to marry and making up your mind to be with him against all odds.

8. I believe that for a man to ever propose an affair to you then he must have found you good enough to have to himself and for a decent lady to agree to an affair with a man then she is definitely ready to be with the man except she is a slut so why waste time fooling around with each other all in the name of getting to sleep with each other in the name of dating and courtship?

9. A sexless date or courtship is the ideal form of courting where both of you try to know just a peripheral detail about yourselves hence once sex comes in then its no longer dating but unofficial marital union.

10.The responsible and matured guys at heart knows the type of woman they want and do not get involved in baseless dating but simply go for the lady of their choice and marry her.

If you are not ready to marry a lady,don't make advances towards her just to waste her years sampling her and if you are a lady,stop fooling yourself thinking you are dating him whereas you are just giving him your body to be used and probably dumped and understand that dating and courtship are just facade from the pits of hell aimed at destroying the lives of ladies by becoming single unmarried mothers,losing their lives through abortions and many have contracted deadly diseases all in the name of dating.

Lets face it,a year of sexless courtship should be enough and one year is not too much to deprive yourself of sex in order to know that guy better and if a man does not start the process of marrying you within a year then it means you are either dating a small boy for the sake of having sex or you are probably with a man who is not sure he wants you.

I know that all the sermons in the world will not bring sanity to the facade of dating and courtship and if any lady sees this piece and shoves it aside,my advice to such is to continue to serve herself on the alter of sexual ecstasy for as many guys as possible in the name of baseless dating or courtship

My humble opinion and i hope this helps.

@Op: most of ur points r valid, just dt there's much bitterness in ur post, as if u r talkin from experience

Jhanny:
A case of a thief stealing from a thief..hehehe

the man may have made those allegations to implicate his boss or perhaps justify his actions. One thing is clear, in a sane world there is no justification for crime.

skelewu404:
I work in a private IT company , i joined the company like seven months ago. My boss is a bit advance and he is married to a much younger and fine lady from what i heard from other staff in the office, they have been married for more than 7 years but they don't have a child, some people believe the boss is impotent that is why he never wanted to get married but due to pressure from friends and family he had to. After about 3 months working with him i met the wife and since that day my boss has become too nice to me, now he is always sending me to his house to deliver one message or the other, something he could have just call his wife and tell her he will want me to go to his house and everytime I went there the wife is always trying to seduce me. One a particular day he ask me to go and download whatsapp for his wife he told me to take my time and not rush back to the office, sometimes he will tell me to wait for him in his house knowing fully well that he will not come to the house anytime soon, now its getting out of hand because what happened the yesterday was not funny. I know what they are up to but i can't do it and i also need the job. Am confused

If your story is actually true, I want u to know, that your boss' next plan will b to eliminate you, after d deed has been done (after u must av impregnated his wife). A word is enough for d wise.

jnrbayano:
You were making sense until no 2.

"Igbos" are not expensive. The bride price paid to the bride's family is returned to the man in a 9 out of 10 situation (the bride price paid in the head of each of my 3 sisters were all returned)

**yinmu**

realoke:
source> http://rangeblogz..com/2015/07/this-policemen-are-not-only-disgrace.html

the so calld 'little girl' in d picture, luks more like a dwarf to me.

khemisty:
It could be an error

my tot exactly. it may b an error from d date code machine setting, used in printing d expiry date on d products.

11. Gambling , e.g naira bet.

bigmodo:
Guys help me, I suddenly started developing strong feelings for my salesgirl. both of us are not married. I have fallen in love with her, please what should I do?

guy don't dull ursef, if she has most of d qualities u want in a woman, don't hesitate. d right spirit don't often come in d desired personality.

elijah24:
I've been dating her for six years. 3 years ago i found out she was seeing someone else, but when i asked her she said she was going to stop seeing the guy immediately but till date she still goes to see the guy, sometimes even in the guy's school.

I am in my final year while she is in her 3rd year. The other guy is in his OND1.

i feel betrayed and wanna end the relationship but all her friends are begging me to give her time to put an end to the affair with the guy. She also begged me to pardon her that she will end it. My problem is i can't share my girl with someone else especially in this era of STDs and even HIV. I love her and anytime i ask her to stay away from me i fall sick after a day or two. Please guys and babes, i need sincere and genuine advice. I don't wanna act and regret later.

I am confused that's why i brought it to the house for good advice. Please pals help a bro that is helpless now

My brother all I can tell u is that no being is irreplaceable, except God. Move on with ur life, & forget about her she's not worth it.

highmood:
What can I say? This has been in existence for long. But for them to have graduated from the university, they are assumed mature to accept or decline any offer that is morally wrong. If they keep calm, then I believe they love it and I have no issue with that.

well said, u took d words rit outta ma mouth.

SMH, som pple think they will bcom famous by doin somtyn strange & crazy. Instead of working hard & stayin focused in their chosen career. dis 's d dumbest & lamest joke ever.

agarawu23:
how I wished female "website" could read meter

Haaaa! som meter go blow o

mirexxx:
I would! thanks 4 understanding

it's OK, i appreciate d fact that u r been sincere .

mirexxx:
No i won't

wot if he gets broke & decides to move to a cheaper apartment( a self contain) with u, would u leave him?

uselessgoat:



THIS IS HOW THEY CLAIM TO RUN THE NIGERIAN ECONOMY AND BOAST OF DEVELOPING EVERY REGION EXCEPT THEIR OWN WHICH IS RAVAGED WITH EROSION


YES BY COMMITTING CRIMES SUCH AS DRUG TRAFFICKING, PIRACY AND ROBBERY

I no mention any tribe oo

Aaaah! see wickedness, there's God o

uselessgoat:



THIS IS HOW THEY CLAIM TO RUN THE NIGERIAN ECONOMY AND BOAST OF DEVELOPING EVERY REGION EXCEPT THEIR OWN WHICH IS RAVAGED WITH EROSION


YES BY COMMITTING CRIMES SUCH AS DRUG TRAFFICKING, PIRACY AND ROBBERY

I no mention any tribe oo

Aaaah! see wickedness, there's God o

Olaztan:
pls i need you to recommend to me a software i can use to code programing language "C" ON MY WINDOWS 7 OS. THANKS

download Pelles C IDE or CodeBlock IDE they r both rich in APIs esp wen u r also keen abt coding in Win32 (Windows API) with C.

Acekidc4:
A friend of Mine at Kaduna Poly Shared this with me and I don't know how far it's True!!! It Read Thus:

Dear Readers,
Well my mom is 42......she and my Dad just recently divorced. My friend was at my house playing Ps3 and I went out to rent a movie to watch.

On my way to the Movies store, I met an old classmate and we discuss for like 40 minute. I manage to go to the store, rent some Movies and I headed back home. When I entered into the house, I find my Mom on the floor Unclad and my friend unclad.

I almost run mad, was so confused and could not believe my eyes, My friend hurriedly put on his wears and left my house and my mom too left for her room.

I have not been eating at home for 1 week now and I can't even talk to my Mum or answer her when she talk to me, I lost Respect for Her.

PLEASE HELP!! WHAT SHOULD I DO??

d guy can best b described with one word, a "mother fucker"

m so happy for u, may God almighty bless ur marriage.

4. failure to work out ur algorith or pseudocode eithr in ur mind, on paper or on a notepad in ur pc bfor startin to code.

lordZOUGA:
There have been posts about how to learn programming which featured some pretty good tips on how to learn programming.

So, what are the worst ways of learning programming?. Your tip might help someone choose the right method by process of elimination.

I can think of: Reading a lot of books and not actually practicing. This leads you into a false notion of believing you can actually do all the things you read correctly on first try. Destroy that notion. You have to practice.

2. copying and pasting of codes
3. using too sophisticated IDEs e.g. netbean

bellamafia:
Hello Romancelanders,

I am in dire need of serious, unbiased advice to avert making a lifelong mistake. Serious comments only please, no trolls, judgemental people, immature guys and girls, religious extreemists NOT allowed in here.

Im a young lady, 27 years of age, have a nice job in a good company, very goodlooking. The reason for this description is to give a background to my plight.

I'm at that phase in my life where im ready to start a family. I always imagined that i would meet a guy randomly, fall in love and get married, but that has not been the case. With age, i learnt that marriage is not a fairytail and that one must think thoroughly, and venture with the head and the heart.

I have a guy whom ive dated on and off for 2 years and hes asked me to marry him a couple of times. We are very good friends, we have a certain kind of understanding, his family likes me, we share the same beliefs, ideologies and outlook on life. He can trek from berger to ojuelegba is that would make me happy.

However, we are not sexuall.y compatible. i mean the se.x is nothing to write home about. Ive tried many times to help him out, tell him what to do, etc but he never ever gets it right. That is a major issue for me. Hes also not so physically attractive, but im ok with his looks.

Im confused because i have a lot of other men flocking around me, showing indications of seriousness, but you know what they say about the devil you know and the angel you dont know.

I need advice please

Thank you

d qualities u mentioned abt d guy r gud enuf to acept his proposal. nobody is perfct thr ll always b a trade-off somwhr. 2ndly i sense frm ur post dt u r comparin him wt som1 whom u av tried n d past, perhaps durin 1 of d 'off' periods of ur relatnship, bt u did nt see othr gud qualities in. 'his sex is notyn to write home abt' compared to whose? dt's d part u r leavin out.
however, if u feel sex is of top priority in ur marriage & he'll neva b able to catchup, then let him go, nobody is gonna blame u for dat, aftrall it's ur lyf ur decision.

EggovinMma:
OGA, PLEASE PLEASE , I TAKE OGUN BEG YOU, SHUOOO UP YA BUCCAL CAVITY.Take a good look at women getting raped this days, it's either they are children, heavily pregnant or advanced in age.Rubbish!ABI YOU BLIND NI, didn't you read where he intruded to rape the poor woman in her own home.

dnt mind him, wot else do u xpect from a fellow rapist...smh

pcguru1:
that's because your knowledge of the market is limited, walk into any Enterprise organization in Nigeria and find out what they use most are either java/.NET either ASP.NET MVC or (Spring/Structs/Grails/Magnolia) the list is long, Oracle,NHibernate,Hibernate PHP is just used for their front public sites. maybe till when PHP can handle async processes is it even possible to create Thread in PHP ?

bro to answer ur question it very possible to create thread in php, for further reading u may check d online php manual at :
http://php.net/manual/en/thread.start.php

missclassy:
I don't understand why guys always drool over a woman that has big bosoms.

Yesterday, my boyfriend made a comment that really annoyed me. He told me that he wished my bosoms were bigger. I felt very bad hearing him say that but I just hid my annoyance
My bosoms are not that big but I have a nice body and a pretty face

Must a woman's mammary gland have to be big before she can look pretty?
Does having big bosoms add to the beauty of a woman?

wen it coms to takin dcisions about a lyf partner, matured & wise men see beyond big boobs & big butts. IMO it's myopic & ridiculous to use dis as a criteria in choosin a partner.

Lala247:
Its true sha, ave seen girls dress like they r going clubbing but its church they are going to , lol u shud b happy they even go to church self

am not happy cos they r causin d innocent brothers in d church to fall.lol

Lala247:
Haba even i the house of God really?

yes nw, tho not all of them, bt som of ds ladies av ulterior motives for joinin d church workforce

part of d reason is dat most women really lyk bad guyz, they r jst too ashamed too admit it, and pastors do not possess dat quality. do not b dcivd by thr excuses

11. They r always quick to join d workforce in their church, esp d choir, usher dept. somwhr they wil b easily noticed.