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Chioma4eva:
I mean they toast you for weeks endlessly and try to get your love and attention and when you finally give them the attention and give them the chance to win your heart and maybe after dates and probably sex, they lose interest and go cold. Why is this so? Is love dead in Nigeria?

How many Nigerian guys did you allow to vandalize your punna before coming to this conclusion?

Tussle over BBC. If you know, you know.

Corridon:
This guy too like attention.

If a whole legal practitioner (an advocate of the law) was treated in such manner, then what will be the fate of an ordinary citizen who is not a legal advocate? This is why such injustice and abuse of power must stop.

If a male "Muslim" suicide bomber is to get "72 virgins" after death, then what would a female "Muslim" suicide bomber get? Just wondering.

SocialJustice:
I don't get, a sissy boy kills himself because he is called what he is? Is that not what he is, a man that wants to be f*cked by his fellow man and behaves like a girl, is that not a sissy boy?

This world needs to stop shielding people from the consequences of their actions. If you do not like being addressed as what you are, then be something you are confident and proud of.

He even went further to prove the teacher right by taking his own life.

The changes he made to the Chelsea team was too drastic, hence there's need for more time for the team to blend together.

FEGNO:
And what remains of the marriage after that if not to go their separate ways. For one the wife will lose respect for the husband. And the husband will never see the wife in the same way again.

You are among the few wise people left on this forum.

sofiscatedmoron:

Buy your wife was and is a porn star sir

Probably his addiction was what influenced his choice of life partner.

Irupetepete:
she works in an hotel... How sane is it to train my kids in an hotel? I rented a 2bedroom with everything needed in a home in it..their mom stays with her mother and my kids sleeps on a mat cos they live in a room apartment with no security.... The day I went visiting, I couldn't cry at what I see... The kids stray on the street... There are things I can't even mention... She can't stay with a husband because she believes she deserves someone like dangote or otedola....it is clear we can't be together and am not against that but you can't train my kids from an hotel

If truly you are bothered about your children's welfare and upbringing, then let this be a motivation to you to:
1. Work hard to increase your income and your living.
2. Seek legal action with enough evidence to secure your children's custody.

It's not easy raising children, that's why I stated point one above.

mariahAngel:
For me, my favourite part of the chicken is the wing.
Not just any wings, the orobo type of chicken wings that have enough skin.

Photo credit:

Chicken breast/chest.

Michelle70:
With the likes of Obi, Atiku and Tinubu as our next president.

Why we no go jappa?

We must not blame this on the leadership of the country alone, after all it's from the country's population that these leaders emerge. The leaders we have (we voted) are the true reflection of who we really are.

1. Fufu and beans : saw this back in my high school day
2. Rice and garri : saw this in Ghana
3. There is this Maggot-like insect some people eat alive

Blessedmercy8:
He's earning a 100k and wants to settle down. Can you as a lady earning a little above him agree to marry him?

Is it advisable to enter into marriage with such income considering the situation of the economy?

For the man's sake it's not advisable for you (so as to make him available for another lady that's matured enough for marriage) to accept his marriage proposal, because obviously it would later be an issue if things do not improve in the near future.

Secondly, What do you intend to do per adventure no man that's earning "enough" approach and proposes marriage to you?

Rozross:
A thread was created by blessedmercy asking if it would be wise to settle down with a man that earns 100k and all she got was insults and jabs from guys, like seriously?

Should a guy who earns 100k think of marriage or how to double his hustle ? Why are most guys unrealistic, can 100k fend and cater for yourself alone.

Please I’ll want those who think it’s ok to come break it down for us on how the 100k will be managed monthly, I maybe learning a whole lot from this. Thanks

Dear Parents,
If you have a daughter, please give her sound education and raise her to be self-sufficient, so that she won't be a liability to the society, used and passed around amongst guys. As for the male children, it's non-negotiable.

Back to the OP: look at the foolish question you are asking in the year 2022.

grop1040:
Hi guys,

Something happened 9 months ago, I decided to keep mute or probably just wait for the right time to commence my investigation to actually know what is going on between my step brother and my wife.

So I'm 9 years already into my marriage, and we have 3 kids. My step brother who is the 2nd of my mum has temperamental problem.

He's bossy and very vulgar plus he's controlling, everybody knows him for that, he was married 13 years ago, however after his family relocated to the USA, he later found
out that his 3kids aren't his, the marriage ended like that, ever since then he's been traumatized, emotionally and any other way one can describe him as. Sometimes in order to at least feel that children presence around him, he would ask me to have my children come over to his place for some days, and I could witness how that really helped him over time, but then I noticed the absence of his wife started making him familiarize with my wife in certain odd manners which I was not really down with.

For example, if he comes to our house, most times comes around with a friend, either female or male, my wife seems not to be the attache type who would sit with us in the living room, she will rather be upstairs in the room, I have witnessed cases where he will shout at her, saying how can everybody be here and ur there upstairs?

There was even a time when one of the visitors he came with sighed and made face in a way that defined, wow, "was that necessary". Or times when he will ask her to cook stew for her, if she forgets or probably didnt want to do it because she knew it isnt her duty, she will be yelled upon, you'll here things like, where
is the egusi i told u to make, even the one you made last time, u didnt put enough this and that

Now yall might think am a dullard or a simp, or someone too relaxed as gentle and as patient as I am, I be original demon, if I start my madness, the result will end in eternal damage, and our family background from my mums side where this my brother was born, we tend to uphold unity over adversity, so when things like this occur, mum would rather have us calm and not fight so unity can continue.

So sometimes last year, the major issues started grooming that made me start to think if there was something going on with my step and my wife, it started with when the kids were with him, so madam and I were suppose to go for outing, so we decided to branch at his place to check up on the kids, on getting there while in his living room, he said to my wife "I like your hair" she responded thanks, he was like are u guys going out, I was like yea am taking her out, next thing she asked my madam, so when are we going on
our own outing? I shrugged and didnt understand where that came from, though she didnt answer him.

While we were leaving, I was waiting for her to bring up the topic and put it to me that why did ur brother say such a thing, even if its a joke, its too expensive, but she didnt, I brought up the topic, and she was like shes surprised too that she never thought he would say such a thing.

5 days later, we had a family party in his house, my other brothers, cousins and my mum, my children were there, while the
caterer were cooking outside, and we were all in his living room drinking, he opted to get some meat to dish and give everybody to at least be chewing something, he served it round but when it got to my wives turn, the one he already bit off from was what he gave her, funny thing is, it was only my mum and myself that saw the scene, my wife was not aware, that was when I knew something could be going on.

Afterwards, I put the ish through to my wife, she acted disgusted and said she cant blv he would do such, that although my mum already called her to say the same thing. So I asked details of what she discussed with my mum, she said my mum advised her that whenever he calls her, she shouldnt pick, that when he knows its obvious that shes avoiding his call, he probably would want to report to her, and then she will now break the silence of what she my wife have been experiencing with him thus her refusal to pick his call.

So I called my mum and I was like being calm, patient and cooperating with the useless policy of the family doesnt mean that the recent things happening won't seat any longer with me, that am gonna have to confront him and put him in his place. My mum begged me and begged, cos she's 76 years old, I considered and I had no choice but to cooperate with her advise.

The funny thing is, after this whole ish, I asked her that if he calls, will you pick, she answered yes I will, but I will have to see what he has to say first to know if I will continue the conversation or not, I was like for real? You must be kidding me, it means something that I am not suppose to know of is happening, she was like oh well its ur fault, why didn't u confront him instead of listening to ur mums advise.

Since then, I have let it slide, but what actually made me bring up this issue again, was when I went to my bros house to pick some stuffs my sister sent from the USA, madam was off to the market, I called her to ask if she would like the only size 10 of the shoe I saw cos she wears 9, she didnt pick after calling like 4 times, immediately my brother called her with his own phone, she picked and was like sorry when you called I try to pick but it was nt connecting, I just weak at that moment sey wetin dey sup.

Guys, ladies, from deep experiences u guys must have gone through, what do u think could be wrong and what do yall think I should do, something could be happening
that if I dont unravel early, it might be the cause of ones demise or destruction.

Some points I noted from your writeup
1. Your stepbrother is the domineering, control freak kind of man. In my honest opinion, his profile doesn't fit the kind of man that any woman would play paternity fraud (3 times) on without getting found out immediately. Is that the true reason behind the collapse of his marriage or just what he told his relatives?

2. He found out that his 3 kids were not his biological children. Could it be that his ex-wife told him this probably in the heat of hot argument and desperation to facilitate a divorce, because of some thing(s) she discovered about him, if yes what is/are those thing(s)?

3. Request/enjoys the company/presence of your children. Does he do the same with the children of your other siblings or just yours, if so why?

4. He is exhibiting a strangely possessive behaviour towards your wife and she obviously feel intimidated by him. Could it be that he has something on her that he's using to blackmail her?

Without jumping into conclusion, I advise that you carry out a thorough investigation just as suggested by some other members of this forum.

candidtalk:
Lol. Cuppy is delusional. Who does she think she is?
The self-made and successful Nigerian male is the most indulged Nigga in the whole world.

Why? That 230 million population no be beans. It translates into far more beautiful and stunningly sexy chics than Cuppy can ever hope to match.

A nigga like me that does not need her dad's money or connection will never look at her twice when sexy Nigerian ladies yapa on the street queuing for buses who would appreciate 'shine shine bobo' in shiny car.

Cuppy, work on your character and be ready to give ordinary guys a chance. You're not special, no disrespect, and guys who do not need your name or family profile will never consider you. Be humble.

Niggas who are self-made need a woman to bring something too. If you think your papa name is that 'something' then you must know some broke, weak and lame-ass niggas.

@Niggas.
Never stop trying to make it. When you do, the world is yours. Especially if you're a Nigerian male.

You are blessed.

OgaDeyVex:
Source: https://www.lindaikejisblog.com/2022/8/58-year-old-woman-kills-her-husbands-side-chic-in-adamawa.html

If she gets herself a good lawyer, this is a case of manslaughter not murder.

He is a fool! Why did he join the army in the first place, he probably thought being in the army is all about putting on the uniform to oppress the civilians or posing for pictures on the social media.

Rice, beans and fried plantain.

Southernigbo:
How will some just carry sexual smells up and down with out taking adequate bath.

For some of these people, it's only handkerchief they used to clean up and gbam they are in markets, banks and their religious places intermingling with people not caring about the sexual smell that they are carrying about.

It's due to the deception of perfume/ deodorant spray.

If truly the woman wasn't having an affair with Augustine as claimed, then she has the right to press charges against him, because that statement he made publicly is a heavy one that could tarnish her image.

Timialaye:
The story is so fascinating that i don't even know whose report to believe

Though senator Ekweremadu is not a saint, but I don't believe this guy's story at all.

lavylilly:
What scam has become so normalized that people don't even notice it? �

Companies hiring social media managers and expecting them to do photography, videography, graphic design, copywriting, brand strategy, monitor metrics, host YouTube, make tiktok dances. The work of an entire marketing team, w/little to no pay

1. Bank charges
2. Caller tunes for a fee : "to copy this tune, press 1", why not press 132 or something more than 1 digit, they knew it'd be easy to unknowingly press 1 and fall for the trap.

kenzysmith:
Good evening guys went to my ex wedding yesterday and I saw how happy her husband was I dance to congratulate them and as soon I shook hands with my ex
I remember those nights she will beg me to sex her, I remember the styles I use her to learn, I remember how she gave me bj , I remember how I use to smack her ass when she use to give me doggy , I remember the countless time I have Bleep her then I burst into laughter the husband was impress and taught my laughter was joy and he thank me after I shook his hands why my ex shook her head towards the ground

I want to tender my apology for falling the wife brea....st drastically and the pu ...ss y I have handle with aggression I tender my apology to the unborn children for the brea...st I have su ck beyond repair am sorry they should forgive me

From your write-up, it's obvious that you are hurt because she chose to marry another man over you.

YoudeyVexme:
She left home since 2006 nobody heard from her... not even when our father died. There was no contact at all.

Surprisingly she came visiting yesterday looking thin and sick with a swollen feet. After much pestering to tell us the families whats the cause of it she said she's HIV positive since 2011.

Now the thing is what's the Implication of living with an hiv patients and if it's you would you accept such situations even if it's your blood to live with you?

With proper love, care and medical attention, she can live long and appear healthy. The treatment and medications of HIV AIDS has advanced, there are drugs she can take to control the virus.

BadRadio:
I am 100% correct about her cheating... my brother is out of the country for a year now... I am just about the only person that knows about it in the family, do I keep shut and continue minding my own crap, or do I burst bubbles?

If you must tell, then you must ensure that you have a concrete evidence to prove it, else you will be become the villain.

Happy anniversary

I expected to see a web link to a reputable news source/agency, but of course some clowns in Yahaya Bello's payroll created this thread to repair his (Bello) already battered reputation.

Congratulations! Penisteroy

It still baffles me how yahaya bello was able to get up to 47 votes, I expected him to get Zero votes.

Johndagr8t:
check out my glowing skin now



wow till death!!!!

Please don't stop O! Just make sure you are posting update for us here on nairaland.

You just won the ballon 'd' or of the most foolish boy of all time.