In my opinion, I think it is the case of bullying and not cultism, as alleged by the boy's parent/guardian. They must have exaggerated in order to get the required attention and justice. The school should investigate and fish out the boys involved, but under normal circumstances it cannot be a case of murder.
Calibrator: As a jonzing guy, I say with all authority that they are the best set of females you can keep as "Friends".
The guyman abroad is already taking care of her finances. All you have to do is turn up with your D and a little care and attention here and there and you got yourself a steady supply of Coochie and Urgent 100ks,200ks and even more depending on how tight your game is
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oldienavie: I clocked 36 years 2 months ago, I look fit for my age compared to many Nigerians(I realised most Nigerians dont pay attention to their physical fitness). I have been outside of the country and just got back with the aim of trying to get a wife. Am I too old to expect to find a decent woman ? What suggestions do you have with regards to getting a good woman in the shortest possible time ? Thanks all.
My advice: 1. Look beyond physical attractiveness (modest beauty should be enough) when choosing a life partner. Beauty can be deceitful and vain, it covers a lot of character flaws. 2. Do not look for love (most women know how to pretend they love you, when you are giving them what they want), instead, look for good virtues (genuine and not pretence), you can learn to love anyone if you put your mind to it. 3. Look out for mental, spiritual and financial self-sufficiency, in your partner, so that you don't marry a liability. 4. Do not let it be written all over you that you are searching for a life partner, or else you will fall victim of emotional blackmail. 5. No woman is perfect, but as you look out for your desired virtues in your woman, also be aware of the vices she posseses that you can still tolerate. In the future, you will find solace in those good virtues anytime you are confronted with those vices.
kenzysmith: Let face this bitter fact what has been working well in this country before a coach u were owing 7months salary still qualify us for the playoffs and Portugal and ivory coast miss out, what has this coach really done to deserve this hatred from Nigerians? He has assemble the youngest squad in Africa history he has pick players base on form he brought ighalo in to give Nigeria option BAse on his pedigree in Africa what has this man really done? You are all screaming he should look into the local league is the NPFL a serious competition? A league that does not has a resumption date? Even Ghanian league asahmaoh gyan is playing there because the league has a structure . NFF should allow this man excute the playoffs a new coach now will want to change many things hereby distrup the process. I repeat genort rohr has done no wrong I don talk my own.
Allow genort rohr do his job
God bless you. I suspect that the people who are calling for his sack are factions in the NFF who were not allowed to influence (or handpick) his players selection.
Icouldhave: I just can't help myself, right since I was a little kid. I get jealous easily.
I want everything to be just me alone, I want to be the one to have money then give it out to people.
I hate it when people gives me money, it anolds me, makes me feel less.
Please how do I contain this attitude of mine.
Ps
I don't do bad.
Neither do I do evil.
I just want to be the one running everything in my family or any place I find myself.
I want to be the number one guy
I want to be the giver always
Jealousy is one of the inherent human attributes, but when it goes to a high extent, it becomes witchcraft. It will be hypocritical of me to judge you, because I am not perfect.
My advice: You can turn this negative energy (of jealousy) into something positive by letting it motivate you to work harder (also prayerfully) and diligently pursue those achievements you envy in others.
AmericanDad: Hey guys, I just found out my colleague at work iv been sleeping with is pregnant. We were'nt dating tho we were just having fun together. We both came into the organization the same time and we earn very well like well above 500k per month. I'm 33 and she's 28. Shes having double mind about it and thinking of abortion but I told her No. Her reason is what will our colleagues say and how her family will react to her being pregnant out of wedlock.
The issue is she's from calabar and I'm from anambra. I'm the only son of my parents. Iv not told my folks yet but they definately would prefer me to marry an igbo girl. Also guys, we have started talking marriage plans but now that she's pregnant can the church wed us? or should I just do Traditional and court then after the baby is born I do white wedding Time is ticking oo.
Anybody that has gone through and graduated from a Nigerian government owned tertiary institution will know that the best thing for her is to codedly withdraw from UNN, because I trust most of the lecturers (and even the institution) will frustrate her, and make life miserable for her.
Olam09: What does it mean when your girlfriend update her WhatsApp status with Tiwa Savage's music "Somebody son go find me one day" i commented saying what about me and she said it's just a song.. this is a red flag for me oo.. is better somebody's daughter start finding me too.. i no chop breakfast.
She's just playing mind games with you, and you fell for it.
In my honest opinion, Ronaldo is not to be blamed, the coach lacks tactics, Ole is conversant with (and only has confidence) in using his 4-2-3-1 tactics he lacks the confidence and courage to take the risk of changing tactics to accommodate or address the team's shortcomings (defence and defensive-midfield).
Secondly, he's player biased, in Man UTD's most recent games, Maguire should have been on the bench.
Finally, Ole is too obsessed with attack (to the detriment of other sections such as midfield and defence); the acquisition of Sancho was an unneeded luxury.
Afodot0022: Good day my fellow nairalanders. Pls pardon my typo errors and will just make this brief as i can. I need your inputs in this scenerio that is giving me some sort of concern.
I have been married for close to five years now and have two kids to it. My marriage to my wife has been ups and down but have always tried my best to be a responsible husband and also father. I ensure I take care of my home financially to my capabilities.
My wife happens to be a good wife though with her own flaws as she is not perfect. She always has the notion that am cheating on her and have a side chick. But to be honest to you guys, i have never had sex with any other woman except my wife ever since i married her. Though at times the temptation might come to catch some flings out there but will later decline such thought and abort any action have made to do it on the long run.. At times my wife will read chats I do have with some random girls and have the notion that am cheating. I know i have been wrong in this but attimes a man will want to be a man but as i said earlier, have never had sex with those girls. Just random chats that all and it doesnt go further or lead anywhere.
So it happened that me and my wife had a very serious misunderstanding recently that resulted to verbal abuse and also almost physical violence from the two of us. The last time i intended to have sex with my wife, she denied me and this had been in my mind and got me so angry towards her. So it happend that she needed my help for something and did not help, she started shouting and nagging and this got me angry and i almost hit her but i didn't. During those heated moment she started saying things about my cheating and so on. She said if am not cheating that i should swear with bible but i refuse to swear that night.Upon the following day i decided to even swear with bible that i have never had sex with any woman ever sinced i married her. I know i was innocent and i truely swear that very day to make her change her mindset and perception about me.
After the swear, something happened that makes me confused till this very day, I ask my wife to also use the Bible to swear that she had not cheated or slept with any man ever since she got married to me. Could you imagine that despite all my efforts to make my wife to swear using the bible, she refused bluntly that she will never do such. I asked her why but she insisted she is not going to swear.
This got me concerned and was asking myself why is this woman refusing to do this if truely she is innocent and doesnt have any skeleton in her compound. Her excuse was that she cant use the world of God to swear but mind you she is the one that prompted me to do such at first. I even seized her phone that if she doesnt swear i wont return the phone to her but despite my threat, my wife didn't not.
This lasted for hours and I later gave up on the quest. Ever since then have not being myself and have been thinking alot. My wife doesnt look like someone that can cheat on me cos have not seen any traces as such but with this her action, its making me to have a rethink about her.
Pls house i dont know what step to take as i need your mature advice on way forward on this issues troubling me. Every input will be well appreciated especially from married and experienced people.
This matter requires a lot of patience and maturity. My advice;
1. Maintain your calmness don't even discuss (or even initiate any further conversation about) the topic with her again, if truly she's a good/God fearing woman like you said her conscience would really trouble her and she will be desperate to resolve the matter, that's when you can have your way.
2. Let it show in your actions (not in your words, so that she would not quote you in the future) that she has lost your trust, by her refusal to swear (though, personally I am not in support of swearing with the Holy Bible). This will really trouble her mind.
officialwdhtv: This guy poisoned his friends Coca-Cola while he went to pee. A good Samaritan observed it and told the lucky guy to not drink from it. The guy was then asked to drink from the same drink he had poisoned, he refused and he is begging for forgiveness.
wisemum: I am bringing this topic here to see if I can get any good advise from youths of the same generation.
My son returned from schooling abroad two years ago and after completing his NYSC, has been trying to get a job. None has been forthcoming but he tries to keep occupied, trying his hands on different projects. He still lives at home but says that once he is financially stable, he will get his own apartment and move out.
He is generally a calm, law abiding , likeable gentleman until when he recently started bringing home this girl who dresses like a prostitute and who I discovered stays overnight in his room with him. His dad and I have fought him over this subject to no avail. I confronted the girl to tell her I do not feel comfortable with her sleeping overnight in my house especially since I do not know her family and will be held responsible if anything happens to her. She apologized to me and promised not to come to sleep over again. However, I noticed that after that, he started sneaking her in at late hours of the night when he thinks we have gone to bed, sometimes when it is past midnight. He hasn't introduced the girl to us as anything to him even though I have asked him several times what his intentions with this girl is but he will just say she is a friend that makes him happy- that's all.
He told his uncle that he likes the girl. I don't even know what else to do. I have tried talking to him, reasoning with him, but it all falls on his deaf ears. I do not like this girl at all. She comes across to me as a street girl- even though she is generally polite when she meets me at home anytime she comes during the day. I investigated and found out her work place is not far from our house. What I do not like about her is that she dresses, exposing delicate parts of her body and is a chain smoker.
Furthermore, to me, a girl who sleeps out in a mans' parent house, continually disregarding how his parents feel about it, cannot be good news. Once, I caught her almost naked in the night walking along the corridor leading to my sons room. She ran inside his room when she saw me. I was so embarrassed and wondered what if my husband had been the one who ran into her? What kind of thing is this? Only her pant on, breasts bare. It was the following day I traced her to her work place and gently but sharply and firmly told her I do not permit her to sleep over in my house again. His dad also spoke with him. I also spoke to him. Everything has been to no avail.
He still sneaks her in. Or did she jazz him?, Please advise me. Thanks.
I have a few question:
1. Is he an only child? 2. Is he genuinely searching for a job or just claiming to do so?
tenry: Please don't mind my grammatical blunders .My brother in law called my wife and I tonight sobbing profusely and confused about what to do.
He caught his wife cheating on a man erroneously believe to be her daddy's friend.
It all started when his wife's phone was bad and he gave him to repair it for him while coming from work. Engineer repaired the phone and on his way home, he curiously checked his wife's phone and discovered sex chat his wife had with the man she called her daddy's friend.
His wife snapped her private parts and sent to the man. They exchanged so many dirty videos including pornography . All the wife's family members (mother, sisters) all knew the man introduced to the husband as dad's friend.
Her dad is late. Their wedding is one year this month with a three month old girl child.
He is worried about the father of the child cos according to him, his wife had visited the man shortly after their wedding.
My wife and I have been disturbed seriously on this matter. The husband called for advice on the step to take.
Please I need your advice cos we are in shock as we didn't expect that from the lady.
The only thing left to be resolved in this matter is the paternity of the child (through DNA test), as far as I am concerned the marriage is over.
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Time is ticking oo.