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Addme:
Could not recharge my meter first week of this month. I had to contact them and I got my KCT 1 and 2 and my meter was upgraded easily.

Be kind enough to update us if you noticed any changes.

jmoore:
It is a worldwide update.
For the date, it is next year.

Can you please enlighten us further?

LewisHamilton15:
Late last year, the company I worked with decided to reduce workers as a result of the high inflation. I happened to be one of the victims of the mass reduction.

I decided to use my little savings to buy a tricycle so I can be using it to do town service but my fiancee outrightly rejected such idea stressing that my societal standing is above that. After intense argument I went ahead and bought the tricycle. Since that day she has not picked my calls, call me or come to visit me.

I have moved on.

Just thank God that you haven't gotten married to her before you experience such challenge; it's women like her that gives their hubby hell at home, just because he's undergoing financial challenge.

Part 1:

1 - Love is not the sole recipe for a good marriage.

2 - Physical attractiveness is good, but In finding a life partner the desirable trait/spirit doesn't always come with the desirable vessel (person), you need to look beyond physical attraction when choosing a partner.

3 - As you seek virtues in a potential partner, also probe into their vices to consider if they're what you can tolerate, because it's those virtues that will be your consolation any time you are confronted with your spouse's vices.

4 - Be mindful of the hurtful words you say to your spouse, because those words may be forgiven, but cannot be forgotten .

5 - It's easy for your spouse to plant an idea in your mind, with you thinking you originally conceived that idea, e.g., you may dislike a neighbour for no reason, but it is actually your wife that really dislikes that neighbour.

Every customer should try everything within their power to get a prepaid meter; if all customers (or 90% of them) are using prepaid meter PHCN will sit-up, because it means they will only be paying for what they actually consumed and not an estimated bill.

Picture the scenerio when he attempts to kiss his "wife" in the mouth or asks his "wife" to give him a bj.

What most people don't understand is that it's not dignifying to be doubl-dating (or have extramarital affairs). That other person you are cheating with will never trust you or take you serious, no matter what you do.

If you are fed up with a relationship (or marriage), then end it and move on with your life, instead of deceiving your partner (or spouse).

dre11:
Police Inspector Jailed For Impregnating Daughter, Killing Baby



https://leadership.ng/police-inspector-jailed-for-impregnating-daughter-killing-baby/

"The Magistrate said Fajuyi was found guilty of three count charges bordering unlawful sexual intercourse, incest, criminal intimidation and murder".

So he's getting just 22 years for all the above mentioned crimes, IMO 22 years is too small.

vibrant40:
Okay. I met this girl in an exam hall, we were both writing exams, so we did the student things, she asked me a maths question which she was kind of afraid of and me being a maths person answered her question and moved on with with my exams. After the exams she search for me to say her gratitude and we moved on. I think after the results was released and she got an A in the exams was when she had to find me and got me on Facebook. She chatted me and introduced herself, so we began chatting from there and that was how I got to know she is my kind of woman.

I asked her out, we started dating or lemme say I started dating her because at a pint she told me we were only friends during the time, be she do come to my side, we do touch and kiss but no s*x. Down the lane I got to know she had a guy whom she was dating but she could not marry because she has so many revelations and dreams that he is not the one and according to her, the guy had so many red flags. At a point I put it to her she should choose what she wanted on time, the guy or myself.


According to her she choose me. Along the line, she told me about another guy disturbing her for romantic relationship, because no matter what she will tell me anything even if she knows I am gonna hurt by that, although I do take it that she is trying to literally tell me to do quick and pop the question if I really want to marry her. All of a sudden I observe she was receiving a Seyi call till like 12midnight, and I would want to call her only for her to be busy on another call for a lengthy period.


She will not stop talking about this guy whenever we are together, how good the guy is to her, she even was like we have the same character but only that the guy is taller than I am and she had also never shy away from talking about the physically height of her dream children.


I saw all these as competition and keep letting her know how much I love and want to marry her. One afternoon, she just rang me and said just a sentence, 'I will marry you'. Well that gave me the assurance I needed, I met her mother (dad is late) and I must confess she has a very good mother, the mom checks on me everyday (infact she did while I was typing this epistle). I popped the questions and she said yes. We had our introduction and currently planing on getting married.


The problem now is, she would still not stop talking about this Seyi guy. She even called me one to tell me she went to his house, that the guy called home to come, I confronted her so many times to tell her how I felt about it, she kept saying sorry and keep repeating the same thing of no cutting loose from the guy, she even claimed that at least she is not having s*x with now that they are just talking..


Some days ago we had a serious argument about this matter and she was like maybe we should even end the relationship if I don't trust her (and this has always been her anthem whenever we have serious arguments, she would say maybe we are not compatible). She later apologized and promised not to let that happen again that she would cut loose of the guy, only for us to be talking via whatsapp last night around 11:40 for to receive this guys call and they spoke for like 10mins. I ended my call, she called back later and was like it was just an innocent talk they had....


Seriously, I am tired and confused, what should I do? Please help me with your candid advice. So sorry for the long epistle and some bad grammar.

These are some of the things I can deduce from your writeup:

Both of you are not yet matured enough for marriage (NB; relationship is different from marriage) ; She's in her whoring stage (she's finding it difficult to be loyal to one partner and couldn't resist the urge to flirt with multiple guys), while you feel insecure and can't stand firmly to take a bold decision.

My advice:
1. Love is blind but marriage is the eyeopener.
Give it some time, don't rush into marriage, don't even allow anyone to pressure you into doing that.
2. She doesn't seem to me as the kind of person you can practice abstinence (waiting until wedding before having sex) with.
3. If she insist on keeping male friends, then you too be open to keeping multiple attractive female friends.
4. Work on your self-esteem.

I love this man already. He is an inspiration to all real men trying to keep things real out there, I am proud of him. I know for sure that God Almighty will lift him far above those who are mocking him.

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It takes the child of an officer or a resident of the barracks to attempt stealing in a barracks

Or someone under a curse.

What generation?

Hello. You didn't include your contact.

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Supremos:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wQuBReXQjzI



Security operatives in Orsu local government area of Imo state has invaded the house of a terror kingpin Chukwudumebi aka Odumodu, who is suspected to be among those killing police men.

He had forcefully adopted & married off four (4) girls whom we believed that he forcefully adopted, based on their confessional statements.

The girls who are from within Orlu zone of Imo state had narrated how he adopted them at different times and places.

Odumodu made them swear oath of secrecy and allegiance, they said.

Some of the girls had already given birth.

It is not really necessary to show these girls faces, and to think of it, the culprit's face wasn't displayed.

There's no point in circulating an obscure video via the internet without naming the lecturer or institution involved (calling out the parties involved), there's the need for netizens to hear from both sides.

I am Gonna be Somebody by Travis Tritt

TOPCRUISE:
It's better the matter should go to court.
Both parties involved are giving contradictory accounts on what happened.
The Lady said Babex hit her and told his boys to beat her. Babex said he never hit her or make sexual advances at her and the person that beat her was not ordered by him.
It is foolish to be one-sided on this issue.

If a woman tearfully accuse you in public for assault and battery or rape, you are done for as a man. Who is going to believe your own side?
That accusation will hung unto your neck for a life time.

What's your boss's full name ?

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concho:
We started dating when she got admission in 2018. She was a novice and a church girl then .
There was nothing like intimacy till 2021 and that was when I deflowered her ,

Since I promised my self that I must marry who ever I deflowered , I started taking care of some parts of her needs hoping that I will get financially stable and settle down with her .

She was the type of girl that everyone assumed to be an angel . I trusted her more than anything on earth .

She is too jealous that she suspects that I’m cheating even when I was not . She misinterprets everything an opposite sex sends to me

Fast forward to 2022 . She visited one day and got upset that another girl referred to me as “babe” on chat instead of saying “hi” . I insisted that she brings her own phone so I check if a guy has never called her babe

On getting to her chat , I noticed this guy that she saved as “my favorite” . They had no chats (she deletes everything) . I decided to dig deeper only to find out that this guy has been going to her house (family house ) to sleep with her . It’s not once , it’s not twice . And it was frequent the period she even said I should give her space that they were doing family prayers

The worst is that I told the mum and elder siblings out of anger. They did absolutely nothing . The mum only denied knowing that the guy comes around when everyone is out

A month later, I saw a chat of the mum asking her why she doesn’t pick the guy’s call again . I almost ran mad

She has promised and vouched that she won’t try such again and doesn’t know what came over her her .

I have tried everything possible to forgive her since no one treats me the way she does , but I keep loosing weight and falling sick by day .

I’m currently depressed and don’t know what to do again

MY ADVICE: RUN!

If you are a keen observer, you will notice a new disease/mental disorder where a person will do or say anything just to be liked or trend on the internet or public space.

But the harsh reality is that the internet never forgets.

In my books, this dude deserves the MAN OF THE YEAR award.

Rapmoney:
It is a normal work rule for employees not to use mobile phones during work hours, except using mobile phones is part of your job description.

However, due to the fact that some employees tend to flout the rule, some employers, especially in one-man businesses, have deemed it fit to ask employees to submit their phones when they arrive work in the morning and collect back after work.

As a worker, can you work in a place where it is required that you submit your phone?

Drop your opinion.

Of course, they must have clearly stated it in their rules and regulations or code of conduct, and made it known to you at the time of your employment.

So there's no point asking again when you already know the rules.

1. Cheating or flirting
2. Too many friends or acquaintance.
3. Lying or dishonesty

Candidlady:
If ihad the chance to be a man for a day I'd hope and pray idont come with a dvck..

That withered stick make these men think less!!!

The "withered stick" that makes you scream in pleasure.

The "withered stick" that made you spend hours in front of the mirror, trying to look or dress sexy.

Hypocrite.

Ezeama400:
Source: https://saharareporters.com/2023/02/03/tinubus-loyalist-and-lagos-parks-committee-chairman-mc-oluomo-writes-electoral-body-inec

The MOD should do the right thing by moving this to the joke section.

jeromestarks:
Mine : Will Smith.

Who would you choose?

Samuel L Jackson.

1. I don't think the OP has anger issues, as purported by some members of this forum, if not it would have been in record that he's physically assaulted her before. I think his problems are that he's emotionally insecure and having a habit of saying hurtful words to his wife at the slightest provocation.

2. In these days where adultery/fornication is on the rise, I don't think it's too much for him to demand explanation from her for not picking his several calls, what matters is the manner in which he did it (this is where I think he went wrong).

My advice:
1. Work on your emotions, self-esteem and stop/reduce drastically that habit of always saying hurtful or demeaning words to her at the slightest provocation. But still have it at the back of your mind to quietly investigate why she didn't pick your calls for that long duration of time, that day. She gives the impression of someone who has a plan B, I wonder what that plan B is/was.

2. For posterity sake, try all you can to bring them (your wife and son) back. Also be careful not to lose your dignity in attempt to do that - I mean, do not let her or her relatives give you unrealistic conditions before she can return, if you do, they will use it against you in the near future.

3. After making genuine effort to reunite with your wife and son, if it doesn't work out, be prepared to move on, in my own little understanding, letting go is also part of loving.

If you love someone and you can't let go, after having genuinely proving to them that you love them, then that person has become your god, and she has the power rule/ruin your life.

May God Almighty guide you.