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During the battle for Child custody does the husband ever win?

If yes, under which circumstances?

I have never seen a divorce case on fp where the husband got custody of his children.

I am still single, but I don't think I would be able to separate from my children when I have them. I might just stay in a toxic marriage just for my kids.

Don't get me wrong, I don't plan for divorce when I get married, but it is only foolish not to consider it's possibility, with it's ever increasing incidence.

You are a good story teller.

Don't go into a marriage before settling the past relationships fully. Go to the baby mama parents, tell them the whole thing without mixing words.

This is for them to know what happened, and not for their approval.
Let them know that you have moved on and nothing can stop you.
Then go on with the new girl.

You even try beg 3 months, you fvcked up. But I don't think it's reasonable getting married to a lady with this kind of ego, 3 months and you could have begged more, WTF? Did you come to this life to beg a woman. If na me fvck up, carry my hand tell you the truth and I beg you reach 1 month, we are done, I hate begging more than anything.

As for your daughter, contact a lawyer, he/she is in the best position to advice you, and forget about getting custody of her, unless the baby mama willingly gives her over to you.

Prectega:
soon to be here ..

You welcomed to be my patient

If u know what i mean

Guy, you are good

I won't even make either parent notice what I saw. I go just code like say nothing dey happen. I can't come and spoil my family by myself.

Nigerian police is the most stupid in the world.
As if the ones killed in South Never do, them join hands begin kill.

I just wish this would spiral into a full blown revolution! Nigeria have been greatly dealt with this administration, they don't protect citizens within and outside the country.




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Somalino:
says someone who is intellectually lazy to comprehend.

I won't share banters with you. The comprehension could have been more interesting if the writer chose to use plain words.

The purpose of the article is not for the writer to show case his knowledge of English, but rather for him to pass his information.

This is one wrong notion that scholars have. USING BIG WORDS DOESN'T IN ANY WAY MEAN YOU ARE INTELLIGENT

Bestie93:
Governor Ifeanyi Ugwuanyi is not lazy please. He is proactive; bearing in mind that it's not like before that we have pdp government at the federal level. For the present security challenges in my state I personally blame the apc thugs as well as some big elephants in the Western senatorial zone that are eying the lion building by 2023 by all means.

Gov Dave Umahi is not an APC governor. Federal might doesn't deter him from doing his duties.
He changed Ebonyi even under APC.

Let's stop blaming other people and hold our leaders accountable

This looks like those jamb English comprehensions.

I had to read the opening paragraph a few times and yet it wasn't quite clear.

Does writing articles in a quite difficult to comprehend manner manner make it seem more intelligent?
You can write in a plane words, intrigue your audience and pass the information across.




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By the way, Enugu have never had this kind of lazy governor

laughitall:
why do we have this bad mentality of the husband dieing first

Because the life expectancy of men is always lower than that of women.

And, I was just talking theoretically

Whether you want to back up your statement with your story or not, it doesn't mean that what is said is far from the fact.

Atleast in 90% cases it's better not to tell your wife all that you have.

My only question is, when/if you die, how does she recorver your wealth? mostly those put in the bank, bcoz I am pretty sure most dieing men would love to leave their furtune to their wife and kids.

So, this ladies now define success with cyber oloshoism.

They now water down the meaning of success to stupidity.




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Had it been she died in your custody, there is this thing called autopsy, and it is done in hospitals all over Nigeria.

It's ignorance that makes people allow themselves to be victims of such occurrences. If this kind of thing happens, make sure you are the first person to call for help, and if they start throwing fingers, opt for an autopsy ASAP.

And I think that as an adult, you should have the contact of a lawyer handy, so when poo blows, you will know your line of action.

Nne, it's not your fault. It's nature that might have not been favorable to you.

If you menstruate once in a while. It means you got a womb, because the flow you see comes from the endometrium which is a part of the womb. It might also still be possible that the flow you see once in a while isn't actually menses, and if that is the case... It's bad.

I will advise you to do some things, but everything I advice depends on the understanding nature and how rich your husband is. Or how rich you yourself is.

1. Look for a very good gynaecologist in your area, test for your ovulation. Like test whether you still produce eggs atall. If the ovulation is fine and the womb is defective, then I think you have got a hope.
2. I really wish you well dear. How often does the flow come? Like once a year?
3. If you are positive in ovulation, a good gynaecologist would know what to do from there. But I know the rest of the steps would be very costly.
4. Pls mind what and where you sort for help, it's a crazy world and people want to cash in not minding your predicament. Also mind the medications you take.

Pls to all Nairalanders, if you notice an abnormal finding in your body, checkmate it on time. Don't wait till you think it's an issue before you visit the hospital. Some things are easier corrected at early stages. In this case, I expected the op to have visited the hospital since she was a teen

I would advise you go for medlab. I don't think the health sector segregades those that are looking for Job based on age.

In industrial chemistry however, if you mistakingly reach 30 without securing a job, your age would start hunting you.

See as she wowo reach. Spits!

I think the law is over protective on women whenever it comes to sex, that's why any stupid b!tch can just wake up and start throwing accusations anyhow.

Until something is done about this useless trend, men will continue to fall victims.




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Op that lady is the wife to Tobi's elder brother

And he managed to look lifeless and clueless in all the different faces





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I still don't know why Africans have stupid and illogical traditions.

I want to believe that our ancestors were not stupid.





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If you catch your wife cheating and sue for divorce, who retains custody of the kids?

GraGra247:
So you mean Android don't have viruses.

They do, but you gotta admit, android software protection is bae.

Let's be practical, since you started using android, have a virus ever crashed the system?

One thing android gave us over java, Symbian and black berry that you guys seem to take for granted is protection from viruses.

U will be with ur files this instant, next your phone will go blank.

I would use android 1.0 any day above the costliest Symbian device.

This op too like suffering




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For the pain in your hand while pressing, I have thought, and there is no logical explanation I can offer, a person higher than I am in learning might be able to explain that though.

For the cramps and thigh jerking, it could be that the phone emits too much radiation, and the muscle cells have to adapt by sporadic contractions.

I advice that you confirm that the jerkings only happen when the phone is there, and if that is true get rid of the device ASAP. And pls don't sell nor give it to anybody, destroy it completely.
Ionic radiations though might seem minimal, but ones it supersedes the level the body can deal with, it would become a problem soo big that you would wish you never used a phone in ur life.

Phone manufactures try as much to reduce radiations to levels the body can comfortably deal with, but mistakes can happen at the point of production.

Oyindebrah:
Startimes is giving out $100 to everyone that watches a movie on their app and give a review about it on their facebook page and then you’d stand a chance to win $100. That one can even help you to startup a business.

Instead of prostitution

literally all you have to do is drop a review of any of the movies in the Pan Atlantic Online Film Festival as a comment on that post. rate it and say why bla bla bla and you can win

One question
Have you won or do you know anyone that have ever won those give aways ?

Some of them are staged and then the unstaged ones, the probability of you winning that is like 1 in 10,000 if not more.

Feminists in Nigeria will soon get a patron.

After throwing herself all over AJ, as a sharp guy AJ will fvck her.

After he leaves Nigeria, we will be seeing quotes like men are scum and all that.

Then when other men start running from her bcoz of her bitterness, she will lack prick and this would turn her into a feminist.



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Bia op!

Mind your self oo
We already have Tonto to deal with, you wan come dash us tacha join?

Do male refrees officiate female football?

Dis females sef them too dey like show themselves



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romenna:
Edo. Dnt know much abt edo's age of consent

But I thought Nigeria has a general age of consent?

Mumu people

They will not protest against ruga settlements, neither would they protest against the incessant killings in the country, or the new order police intimidations, nor against corruption and embezzlement by leaders.

No is against a man yet to be convicted by the court of law.



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romenna:
we live in separate cities. abuja n Lagos. Takin her out won't be possible. Do u tink i shud call?

In that case, relax and allow the thing die off, especially if it has been long since she threatened. Don't come and restart what's already dieing.

If she threatens again, try and see her