apple30:


. This were men get it wrong ,ur wife need as much sex as u need ,but an average Nigerian homely ladies dnt talk abt dere sex drive with dere partner becus of the Nigeria /African stigma on a lady dat express her sex drive ..no go allow anoda man dey service ur wife in d name of pastor or Broda in chris ,.I rest my case

Agreed. The wife would like variations in the bedroom. From gentle to rough. As long as d hubby is making her feel gud n enjoying it there need be no third party in any relationship.

Moneyboyz:
I remember growing up, thieves robbed our place like 5 times beating my dad mercilessly. These days it hardly happen. We are now in a world where people keep money in banks and stuff, most thieves you see these days are mostly uneducated and petty low life people.

The only way Nigeria will move forward is
1. Stabilizing the Naira - you can't expect Nigerians standard of living to increase if the money we worked hard to save keeps losing value in the bank.
If a naira to dollar is like 1usd = 5 naira, and you can work legally making 10 to 20 usd per day I think many people would be comfortable for a start.

No one will have time doing yahoo for 100 dollar gift card a month when his mates are making more than that in a few days

2. Promote locally made goods and build a favourable industrial environment.
That is make electricity stable, provide agricultural mechanisms to rural areas, you don't expect people to keep farming for a population if 250million plus with crude equipments.


3. Independence of the different arms of government. Efcc and co can't do their jobs because they are in someone's pockets, the judiciary are in someone's pockets, you see lawmakers disrespecting court rulings and stuff.
Nigeria is simply a lawless country.

Political thieves won't get disciplined because the people who are meant to discipline them are in their pockets..

We need strict laws for thieves in this country, petty thieves get sentenced to years in prison, political ones get pardoned.
An example needs to be made from these pot bellied monkeys before the others will learn..

Last but not the least is Education.
The ratio of smart people in this country is 2/10 the rest are zombies who will never learn, they keep voting and recycling bad eggs who have no love of the people at heart.
People need to be enlightened, religion and tribalism needs to be set aside as we embrace humanity and love for one another..

No one will have time for rituals and charms that don't work if they have good jobs, access to good medical services, food to eat and little or more money to come back to in times of emergency.
All these fake alfa and pastors turned ritualists are banking on people's ignorance and poverty to snipe the little they have out of their hands.

U are right. Plus make the country safer for tourism thatd bring in alot of money too

SisterFire:
...why bring bible into this ?? U guys don't learn , its a pity , before we jack Robinson now u have start binding me with holyghost fire.
To be factual if only I stick my bloodlust during the mid prezoic era when I was one female in the atrocious holy Trinity " u would av been seeing book of seraphim 1,2,3 book of sera in ur bible or Book of daughters of Gi
Stop quoting bible nothing is there ,same entities who denied u 98% of ur history are those who uses 0.2% of ur histories to falsify a book called the bible...

If u watched midnight ride on utube youd see y

OurTruth:


Thank you for sharing. But I already have a thread about the interview with the Lacerta reptilian woman

https://www.nairaland.com/7153028/interview-reptilian-woman

I think the Bible story about the serpent was an allusion to the reptilians. The Zulu shaman tribe in Southern Africa also has a similar story of snake people that were around during our creation. They call them the Chitahuri. They claim that the Chitahuri came out of their caves underground and gave man knowledge.

Many other ancient cultures talk about the Reptilians. The Mayans, the Hopi Indians, the Egyptians, etc.

Oh ok i just saw this. Yeah i believe they may exist

OurTruth:
"In the form of man they amongst us,
but only to sight were they as are men.
Serpent-headed when the glamour was lifted but appearing to man as men among men. Crept they into the Councils,
taking forms that were like unto men

Yet, beware, the serpent still liveth
in a place that is open at times to the world.
Unseen they walk among thee
in places where the rites have been said."

The above text is from the emerald tablets, very ancient stone tablets just recently translated.

Google interview with reptilian woman lacerta and theres part one and two. U should find the video from there. It's interesting

OurTruth:
"In the form of man they amongst us,
but only to sight were they as are men.
Serpent-headed when the glamour was lifted but appearing to man as men among men. Crept they into the Councils,
taking forms that were like unto men

Yet, beware, the serpent still liveth
in a place that is open at times to the world.
Unseen they walk among thee
in places where the rites have been said."

The above text is from the emerald tablets, very ancient stone tablets just recently translated.

Well maybe the serpent in the bible who got eve to eat the forbidden fruit was a snake right? And after he got eve to sin god then punished the serpent to crawl on its belly til the end of time right? So it must've had legs to begin with. Maybe the serpent was a reptilian. Maybe they are a real species. Search utube for the interview with a reptilian. There's two parts to it n is supposedly a guy who met up with a female reptilian and she has the strangest name and tells of reptilian living under the ground deep in the earth they have passages to the surface all around the world n there are physical differences in the appearance of males and female's n she talks bout family lineages and social structure of their communities and all kindsa things. True or not it's very interesting and very convincing. Is a pretty long interview and i think the voice is robot cos she wants her identity kept secret but there's drawings of wat she looks like that the interviewer was allowed to do. If u aint already saw it search for it its interesting if u like this topic

OurTruth:
"In the form of man they amongst us,
but only to sight were they as are men.
Serpent-headed when the glamour was lifted but appearing to man as men among men. Crept they into the Councils,
taking forms that were like unto men

Yet, beware, the serpent still liveth
in a place that is open at times to the world.
Unseen they walk among thee
in places where the rites have been said."

The above text is from the emerald tablets, very ancient stone tablets just recently translated.

The emerald tablets of thoth?

OurTruth:
I'll be posting video footage of UFO/UAP, videos of crashsites and other videos that show proof of Extraterrestrial life on our planets.

A lot of these videos were gotten from a channel on YouTube that appeared a month ago coincidentally at the time UAP congressional hearings were being out in effect.

I advice to save all these videos as YouTube will soon delete them.

They're not aliens. They're nephilim. The bible says something about them living between heaven and above the earth. The ufo craft are fallen angel technology. Remember the bible spoke of the watchers leave their place of dwelling and married n had children with human women whom bore the rephaim the giants whom created abominations by having sex with animals and all kinds of perverse sexual things so god flooded the earth to kill them off and cos theyre not fallen angels the rephaim (giants) they can't go to hell as that was made for the fallen and cos they not saved or created by god they can't go to heaven so their souls were cursed to wander the earth, hungry, thirsty, angry, sexually starved n hating on mankind til Jesus returns in the end of days n this is wat is now known as demons. This is why they want to possess ur body as they have none of their own. They were giants they ate mankind and created animation hybrids. Where do u think tales n legends of mermaids, satyrs, werewolves, vampires, demi gods, fairies etc all came from? Legends all start somewhere. Ppl the world over in all kindsa cultures told stories off assorted hybrid creatures for 1000s of years. Also ppl have seen aliens. Grey's tall n short etc. I believe these are hybrids created with alliances between the elite and illuminate etc they created these empty vessels for the demons to possess. The book of enoch details transport that described as a ufo. He talked of travelling thru space past many galaxies to reach heaven wen the angel took him there n showed him across the earth. If u check out the midnight ride channel on utube youll find many videos talking bout this stuff. They only use the bible n books like enoch and ancients transcripts like the dead sea scrolls etc to back up the things they discuss and believe. If u interested in this stuff u should check it out

Threesha:
From DM

U should move on. U dont have 3 ppl in a relationship

pryme:


What's wrong with that,

Nothing. Just losing too much weight i think. N i want to put sum on

PrinxArthur1:
Yea, you read the topic to see what it is all about,Now let me inform you all, it's very unhealthy to give head (put mouth for Toto), I mean using your tongue or lip to scrape the vulva and the clitoris,

A simple experiment to this would be for you, to tell your girlfriend or the person you want to give head to dip her forefinger on the same place that you are trying to insert your mouth (SPECIMEN A) and then smell it, don't even lick it.


To the gal that insist on getting head from his man:
Your conscience is suppose to judge you.
You're making my fellow man to lick the same things that can turn blue litmus paper red (ACID-BASE TEST).
If it can change the color of your over time, now imagine what you're doing to the young man..

Dear king, you can be anything stupid in this life, but don't be a p*ssy sucker.

The neatest p*ssy in the world has some bacteria and other microbes which are INVISIBLE and INVINCIBLE.

Beware my king..

Farano
Rocktation

But it's ok for women to put ur dick in their mouth wen the dick has ben inside many of these bacteria infested pussies

TotoGame:
All these body shapes won't matter in heaven cus we all will be on white extra large garments

Lol

officialwdhtv:
Girls choose your body shape and boys choose the body shape you like☺️

Wish i was a g or an L but am more of a c these days

Cousin9999:


Some women like images and the idea of that, but they don't want it in real life. It's excessive to them and makes them think the guy is a player and self-absorbed. They also don't like how it feels physically. They want softness.

They also find it less masculine in some cases because to them it suggests I guess a less cool and more vain or feminine approach to grooming and fitness. They don't like the idea of a guy looking in the mirror and lifting weights. They want a somewhat muscular guy who built his body from job labor, or who naturally has a bit of muscle and doesn't work out.

Some women don't like visible fitness at all because to them it's not "real" and masculine. They want a guy with a gut, but who is physically strong and masculine.

Some women are scared of big muscle.

No big belle pls
Average normal thin guys are most sought after guys I think. Cute guys. Not the muscly guys or the super hot guys.

VenumX:


I don't find males with six packs attractive. They look gay to me.

I agree. Plus love themselves too much

DominusPrime:
I hope most of you know that the vagina cleans itself and you do not need to add or use any soaps, fresheners, or whatever. It will only disturb the flora down there and lead to the infections you are avoiding...

You still need wash with water atleast otherwise eww

Ndibuna:
Long nails of course won't let your fingers enter well to wash your vaginna. So how do you wash your vaginna with your long nails

U mean those super long nails like cardi b wears?! I wanna know the answer to that question too. In fact I wanna know how they do anything at all.

They look rediculous

Prettylitlady:
Goodday NL members.. I am here for any matured advice I can get as I understand we have matured people here who can talk senses into my head and make me realise one or two things.

I am in my mid 20's, I dated my Ex for few years, we were both students then in one of the West Universities (graduates now) and I really loved him, it was true love I felt for him to be honest, he wasn't working, I don't demand for money from him or anything, I sell clothes, shoes, bags and do other small businesses while schooling, that's how I foot my own Bills and also give him money sometimes when in need. His family knows me, my family knows him like we were so much in each other(or so I thought). I saw no other guy except him, I built my world around him, we were best of friends as I am an introvert and really don't keep friends so he was my all.
Even though it was a tough decision to make, I had to break up with him due to the following reasons;
1. He has beaten me once and promised not to do it again but he still slapped me in every slightest provocation.
2. He wanted to go into yahoo yahoo. That's not the kind of partner I want, I want a legit hustler not a fraudster.
3. He sometimes cheats on me and I will forgive him always. He tells me I am the main while the others is just for cruise that every guy cheats
4. He suddenly started smoking and drinking due to friends influence I guess (Eew, I don't want that)
5. He is Lazy, always wanting big money buh doesn't want to work. I told him to Start from somewhere after our graduation no matter how little buh he won't heed.
6. He always talks dirty with his female friends even in my presence, I wonder what happens behind me.

I ended the relationship after so much talking, pleas and counselling hoping he will change but he didn't. I dated another guy 2 months later, I know nobody is perfect but trust me when I say my current guy is all I ever wanted in a man. But the truth is I really do not love him that deep, He treats me fine and all but I still feel something for my ex maybe because I was already soo used to him. My boyfriend has told me to go back if that's what I want because he doesn't want a divided attention. I know I can't break up with him because it will hurt him so badly and my conscience won't even allow me because he has done literally nothing wrong, yes we normally have our ups and downs but he hasn't done anything worth breaking up over with.

I just need advice on how I can get this my ex off my head for good. We don't communicate, I have deleted all his numbers, We have been separated for few months now but I still think of him every single day even when I have a good guy already. I don't know what is wrong with me pleasee

It sucks dont it? U love who u love even if that person is no gud for you.
Thats how love is. It means u love him more than yourself tho

panton:
Read This Carefully let learn everyday is not about sex.
A man can cheat on his woman and still love her but a woman cannot cheat on her man and still love him. I say this because while men do not have sex with emotions, women can’t have sex without attaching emotions to it. This is the reason men simply need a place to have sex while women need a reason to have sex.Most women who take their husbands to court for divorce are those that cheat on their men. A non cheating woman would most likely never take her husband to court for divorce, unless the man exceedingly abuses her physically and emotionally to the point of killing her.


Men don’t equate sex with love. A man can have sex with another woman but still doesn’t love her. That’s why women who fell in love with married men find it difficult to find happiness in those relationships as they are just being used by those married men. But once a married woman starts sleeping with you, she can even narrates some hidden secretes concerning her husband and she will even tell you why she hates him (her husband). She can even accept poison from you to eliminate her husband.
For men, sex and love are two different things. But for women, sex and love are one and the same things. For men, sex comes first before love (infatuation), but for women love comes first before sex (true love). Therefore, once your woman starts having sex with another man/men, her love shifts from you to that man and she can even start giving that man the best food and love than she gives you.
The fact that your man is cheating on you doesn’t mean he has stopped loving you. But I can’t say the same for women. Once a woman starts cheating on you, she has fallen for someone else and you people will never live the same again. And she can even kill her husband once she starts cheating on him.If your wife starts cheating, you should be a lucky man not to die in less than 10 years. It has been found that 95% of women who cheat wish their husbands dead. That is the main reason why it is dangerous for a man to continue staying with a wife who cheats on him. That is why is now encouraged everywhere in the world including in the Bible, for a man to divorce his wife only once she starts cheating on him. Cheating women are more deadly to husbands than ordinarily criminals or weapons. There are many cheating women in the world who invite criminals to break into her house at night only to come and eliminate her man and police officers plus relatives can’t detect this as the same woman tend to moan more than any person at the funeral so as to attract sympathy and hide her evil acts.
That’s why psychologists discourage women, more than men, from cheating.
Women can’t handle the emotional conflict that comes with cheating.
That’s the reason an observant and intelligent man will notice that his wife has started cheating on him once he starts doing it because most women tend to lose respect to their husbands and try to avoid sex with them in most times.

Continue reading here.... https://infologik.ng/essence-of-cheating-in-relationship/

Cheating is cheating.
Maybe u can love someone n cheat make a mistake in judgement etc but continuous cheating u dont love nor respect the one u love otherwise why would u hurt them like that.

Alaigbopress:
Please Elders in the house I need a serious advice because I don't want to make mistake.

I met this girl about four months ago, I approached her and after some weeks we started dating. She told me that she broke up with ex boy friend last December because her parents were not in support of the marriage. She told me that she has nothing to do with the said boyfriend.

But recently I noticed that she still share the pictures of the ex boy friend on her Whatsapp status and even still use his pictures as her phone wall paper. I confronted her about that and she said it does not mean anything. Since we started dating she has not for one posted my pictures on her Whatsapp status but has posted that of her ex up to o three times.


The one that got me sad and made me threaten to dump her is that she posted a WhatsApp Status requesting that anyone who mention her Boy Friend's name will get a credit card rewards and most of her friends were mentioning her Ex's name and she was cool to post the screenshots of where they mentioned her ex's name. Know it that some of my friends are also her friend and they saw the status and they have been asking me if the girl is actually dating me or someone else.

Please Elders in the House what should I do. Should I quit this relationship or should I confront her and hear her out?. Please Mod move it to front page I beg You.

Seems to me she loves her ex. Im female n if i kept my exes pic on my ph as screensaver n all that as such u mentioned itd be cos i loved him. So if i were u id find someone else u deserve ur gfs full attention not part of it

Cassahav:

I am a fortysomething man in a long-term relationship – nearly 20 years – and have two children. For the past 10 years my partner has been having short-term lovers. These were clandestine, but more recently she has stopped hiding, called our relationship “open”, and currently has a lover who I do know about. But this “open relationship” can only be one-sided, because she is jealous and suspicious while I am basically not polyamorous. So why stay together? We get on, communicate well (other than the no-go zone of her other love life), rarely argue, are bonded by bringing up our children and are financially tied together.

However, the years of suppressing my emotions – of jealousy, rejection, insecurity, being lied to – have left me broken. Sex (which we still occasionally do have) has become stressed: if I don’t perform enthusiastically, it will justify her seeking other lovers. Also, I am expected to remain sexually attracted to her, which gets more difficult when I know she’s been with someone else recently. We had frank talks when she offered to end her extramarital affairs and be monogamous with me – or plan how we might separate without affecting our children. We were both very upset, as we are very much still in love, and wish the sex side of our relationship wasn’t such a terrible mess.

But it has occurred to me that I am emotionally and sexually broken after this past decade. If I was single again – or my partner was to become monogamous with me again – I don’t think I would be a viable person to be in a relationship with. How do I start to repair myself, inside or outside this relationship?

Any advice would be cool.

Youre crazy letting your wife do this all those years. Youre the man ur the boss.
Set ur foot down n take control of your marraige. No matter what there should be no outsiders or third parties in any marraige

zed7:

Women sit on their own whilst men chase them. Learn how to keep your man. It's more than giving him just food and sex.

Lol if i love someone i know how to keep em happy i dnt need advice on that. But yes some men are weak n cant keep their thing in their pants but also alot of women are dirty cheap hoes these days who dnt care whos home they ruin as long as they get material things or money theyll do anything. N its worse for a woman to be cheap than a man. A woman is the one letting men inside their bodies sex is more invasive for a woman and a man cant get pregnant plus i think its just different for a man than a woman.

imagrg:
I recently visited a local club house and what I observed set my jaw ajar and I started to ask questions on where the society got it wrong. I saw young girls aged between 15 to 30 soliciting for men to trade their bodies to for money. To make matters worse, they wore dresses that revealed their sexuality to such extent that even a eunuch could have his libido revived!

From where have we gotten things wrong? These ladies are mothers to be or even girlfriends to decent young men.
Is love now for sale to the highest bidder? What then happens to broke guys who cannot afford to pay their bills?

Cos these days theyre mostly cheap hoes with no morals who are so dumb they dont realise its not an achievement to be lusted after and have ur body used n discarded while the man goes on to look for a nice girl to love and marry and the cheap hoe is left behind with an overused smelling pussy and an iphone 12

Techsavvy1:
https://twitter.com/Global_Info12/status/1512550212933459976?t=-f09lN8m32K5djxw-zWcEA&s=19

Hope d wife beat her cheap ass. I really dislike homewreckers. Theyre cheap dirty hoeees who dont realize theyre only wanted for their bodies and are pretty much prostitutes cos theyre giving their bodies in return for materialistic things. Youre nothing but cum collectors. Once the man screws you he dnt want you until his lust clouds his brain again. Would u prefer a man to love you or just use you for ur body then go bk to the woman he loves. All these kinda women deserve beating and to be shamed in public. If i were that woman id be ashamed cos being wanted just for ur body is no achievement in life. Youll just keep on getting used by all kindsa men who once they cum return to their family while your left on your lonesome with your material items ur pussy brought you and a dirty stretched out smelling pussy

All u homewrecking husband snatchers out there just know some day youll have a husband of your own AND most likely, your very own side chick too. hopefully one that will send herpes into your bed. And thats what you call karma.

NEVER DO INTO OTHERS WHAT U DONT LIKE DONE TO YOU!!!!

Kingozymandias:
are you sure ? Oh my goodness let her slap him back to reality .. I trust our African mothers

Yeah shes alive. She wasnt happy with him over the slap he gave at the awards last week.
I dont like jada never have. She seems like a cun...t

Animegirl:

So many ladies miss out on good faithful men just cos they measure them by their bank acc. Smh

patrick49000:


hi

no she is Yoruba. Since that she a bit humiliate me with fact im white..

Skin colour shouldnt even be a factor in ur relationship if u love each other.

patrick49000:
Hello,

I am french, 47 years old man, and I have a nigerian gf since 2 years now... We love to spend time together even if it s on internet and it s tough, we really try to act as a normal couple and stay strong. She is currently home; it's the second time she come here and she stay for 1 month, we are at the second week already.

Few days ago, we were just watching a series in tv and enjoying. On the show a black woman just fight 3 men alone and beat them out... I laugh and said how unrealisitic it was but she was not agree and said for example she is convinced she could handle me. I laugh more telling her nicely im a 5'9 man while she is 5'6. I love to tease her, it s how we laugh and getting close together. She said that even if she has no martial art background she could win vs me because she do some yoga.. I laugh and tease her imitate her doing yoga pose but it didnt make her laugh. She didnt show she was mad but i feel the ambiance started to be a bit more "electrical".. She said fine, if it's that I challenge u and we put a bet on it. Of course i refuse, telling it s going too far (but that im still stronger)but she insist and finaly i said ok let's try it if you dare, i'll be soft..

So we fix the rules, no punch, only kick and soft ones. 1 point for kick in the leg, 2 points for belly and 4 for the head, first to score 15 points win, I agree. For the bet, the looser ll have to do all the chores for the next 2 weeks... Ok no problem... It was in good ambiance but in the same time a bit of tension. I know she is competitive because we did play some video games and I am a bit too...

So it start, at first we were going slow but we dont like to lose and so I quickly took it seriously, and so she does. i confess it was tougher than i imagine, even if she is shorter she is energic and have a lot of speed... After couple of minutes, she was slighting winning and getting close to the 15 points. i started to be tired and toasted.. She is 34 while im 47 and it was more and more tough for me. She noticed it and start to tease me while smiling. Then, while i was about to kick her, she send me really her foot right in the stomach pretty hard.. I fall on my knees, she laugh and started to count while she was just skipping... i had my breath cut so I did give up... She laugh and tease me while celebrating by dancing and saying idiot things about white men... I had trouble to breath and basically feel like a d*ck... She then help me to stand up and put me on the sofa, being pretty satisfied about herself...

Since that, it's strange but she really act bossy with me... ok it s a part of the deal that i have to make the chores but she s like having pleasure telling me to do this or to do that...It's like something has change. if I try to talk her about it she just start to be mad and to say that she win and i need to listen to her... I dont really know how to deal with that..

Do you have an idea of what did happen in her mind?

Thx

Wtf kinda relationship is this lol.
As a woman i want my man to be stronger than me. Lol wen we playfight i want him drag my ass to the other room