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MarcAnthon:
. What else is there to think about? Haven't you heard that the thought crosses a guys mind every 7 secs? What else gives one more pride than fathering a son?

Why does it have to be a son?

You first!

[quote author=D-sense link=topic=828871.msg9800716#msg9800716 date=1324348867]Were u virgin before . . . . . .[/quote]I took yours.

LMAO@Tpia 

I just had a visual! 

Zoldoft, are you an American?

Dsense said I want to run my fingers through your hair Araboy and please don't tell outties that I like my nuts massaged with a feather.

Dsense using a translator to communicate!

Some married couples doesn't have a choice if the spouse is in the military, travels with the government, traveling salesman, and in witness protection programs.

[quote author=High_Chief link=topic=828871.msg9800589#msg9800589 date=1324345174]So sad that during our fathers days, it was like a right. But these days its a big privilage.[/quote]Uhmmm. If the women were to remain virgins until marriage then who would be the ashyhoes?

Why am I not invited to this Jamo/Nigerian wedding?

[quote author=D-sense link=topic=607186.msg9800300#msg9800300 date=1324338117][size=3pt]Sex [/size] contract Ogunfe [/quote](vomiting in mouth) I hope it not with YOU.

Eiregirl:
Mrs. Chima where did I mention the right to marry or date whomever we choose? I have a preference, just like you do! I don't understand why you[b], MzDarkSkin & Zolzolz are so worried about other peoples preferences or choices. Why does it bother you people so much?[/b]

So now you are saying people shouldn't date or marry whomever they want?   

I can't speak for Ms. Darkskin and Zoldoft, but I SAID NOTHING ABOUT YOU CAN'T have a preference  so WTF are you talking about?   

I don't give a Bleep about you preferring black men and that is on you. I am talking about black men and Mr. Cork downing their group to make their lap dogs look good. Does that offend YOU?

JUST ASKING.

ArQueBusieR:
Who taught you that slang?!

Anyway, my SMSS parks itself better than any other.

Hmm.

ArQueBusieR:

Park well jor!

zolzlolz:
Mr Chima, I wasn't downing YOU when I was talking about the 'preference' story. I agree with what you said. I just wanted to know why someone would have a preference to someone of a different race group ONLY?! To me that's strange. That doesn't mean someone can't explain it to me. (THE QUESTION IS NOT DIRECTED AT YOU)

Oh no!  It must be a misunderstanding on our parts.  I know you weren't downing me per se but I just didn't want you to confuse my comments with Eiregirl's comments that is why I stated that Eiregirl and I were talking about two separate things. It is okay.   

Yes, that why I replied to one of your comments that self racism is real and people will tell you that it isn't real.  Mr. Cork is an example of self racist.   

zolzlolz:
I understand what you're saying, but this mindset is prevalent on the blogS, not blog, that I've read.

Gotcha.

[quote author=Mr, Cork link=topic=35178.msg9798465#msg9798465 date=1324316997]Zorolof. Thank God u r white! [/quote]

it is well:
Nice one but please whats the moral of the story?

He is still trying to figure it out.

iice:
[color=#9900ff]Work on yourself.
You have control, trust and insecurity issues.[/color]

Damn, you beat me to it!

zolzlolz:
It's there. Read blogs on African beauty and you'd think that Ethiopia, Somalia and Eritrea were the only countries in Africa. Black American women asking if they pass for Ethiopian.

Okay. The blog doesn't represent the mindset of many Black Americans collectively just like Nairaland doesn't represent the mindset of many Nigerians.

We just have to take it with a grain of salt and I do not know why those Black Americans you have read think they are from horn of Africa. It is not important to me.

MsDarkSkin:
I know you are talking to Zols but I felt the shots coming my way to so allow me to give you credit, yes it you do have a point. I do have a thing for dark skin men because i love MY dark skin and i find us to be a match physically. I do have a thing for a certain body type HOWEVER if a caramel brother came to me with the right approach and we have just about all in common i would definitely bag that!! I'm not prejudiced to the point where i would NEVER date lighter skinned men. No no, having a "preference" for a look is different from saying i REFUSE/ REJECT anything other than what i fancy.

We are saying the same thing with different packaging.   

In a nice warm bed.

[quote author=Mr, Cork link=topic=35178.msg9798247#msg9798247 date=1324314919]Black/ Nigerian women really need Jesus.  4real.  All becoz they dont have real hair, they are hatin!  [/quote]You are trying too hard boo boo. Take a nap.

zolzlolz:
Hell yeah! I'm sorry, but I do not get this 'preference' story. I'm not trying to down anyone here, but how can someone be completely unattracted to someone from their race group and be only attracted to someone from a different race group. I just don't get it.

I am by no means saying I am for interracial dating because that isn't my cup of tea HOWEVER, you contradicted yourself when you said how can someone not be attracted to someone from their group but attracted to someone from another group?  

If you are attracted to someone from your OWN GROUP and not attracted to someone from another group isn't that PREFERENCE?  

Eiregirl is talking about people having the right to married and date whomever they chooses and I am talking about people having preferences in what they are looking for in a mate i.e. cultural ties or same background etc.  Two different things.

zolzlolz:
on the internet(I don't know about real life) many African Americans are starting to call themselves 'mixed' because of the Desecrates during slavery which happened centuries ago. In fact one woman said that if African Americans lived in South African, they would be Coloured (mixed South African race group) and not Black. Now that's some sad ish. African Americans also seem to have an obsession with people from the Horn of Africa.

I don't know what Black Americans you have been talking to but many Black Americans who doesn't have white, Asian, nor Hispanic parents doesn't call themselves "mixed" however many biracial Americans will call themselves mixed. Let us not confused the two.

Well, I don't know about the obsession with the horn of Africa but I do know that many non-Americans refer Black Americans as mixed or diluted Africans.

MarcAnthon:
Hey, Mrs C! Finally used your recipe yesterday, had to go to Dallas on Saturday. Thanks! It came out well, even though I suspect it tasted so good because I MADE IT, lol. Thanks again!

You are welcome suga!  I made some yesterday for dinner along with fried chicken gizzards and boiled eggs.   

I was given offers to teach my husband's friends' wives on art of good cooking!     Real talk!

MsDarkSkin:
wow!! brilliant post.
we need more of these in the romance section.
excellent write up deal_ordea.

there needs to be a level of respect and appreciation for each other.
If a Nigerian woman or two or even three hurt you, don't blame all
for their indiscretions, like wise Nigerian men. Not all are chauvinistic or
egomaniacs. Check yourselves and check the types you attract.

iice:
[color=#9900ff]Lol @ copying white man in discussing, discussing but not coming to a rational conclusion.
And yet, they seem to put their discussions into practice, whilst we do the tango with being male and femimale.

I laugh at the women being emotional. No longer applies, going by the estrogen laden males around.[/color]

Ima Ima:
Nigerian women hv really sufferd in d hands of nairaland men.

i call some comments hasty generalisations. especially comments borne out of selected xperiences. why shld every nigerian lady hv to bear the brunt for some that have behaved in an unbecoming manner?

when i listen to 190 comment, i alwys hv dis feeling tht he hs been a victim of some situations but maybe he keeps attracting those kind of ladies to himself and he may continue 2 meet such pple. u r probably a magnet to them.check urself guy.so am hoping u date n marry a non nigerian.

nigerian women tht choose n decide to develop themselves positively are not what d guys here keep labeling them to be.

d gender-based comments made here makes u guys seem like whinning babies dt cn comprhend women. we r emotional, jst as men r logical. ders no issues wit that.

encourage, rather than constantly bad-mouthing and disrespecting ladies. thats a good way to start.

[size=44pt]GBAM[/size]

The marriage was under false pretenses and it is STILL not the end of the world.

I am not into holidays but I hope you guys have fun!

sammie one:
my best friends wedding is very special to me. her excuse was that her brother is sick and she has to be around him. i understand the place of forgiveness but her brother illness is not cogent enough for me (cuz her brother is not a teeneger and should able to take care of himself). talking about xpecial place and another time i will sure think of that.

She is not required to come to your friend's wedding and if you really love her you wouldn't make a big deal about the fact that she wanted to be with her ill brother regardless if it is a lie or not.

I am beginning to think that you are dealing with the embarrassment after telling your friends you are going to propose and your girl didn't show up.

Many people Bleep before they get married so honeymoon isn't about fucking.