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Never heard of anything positive about the ebonyi people. Most of them here in Delta literally deny their state especially abakaliki people. I wonder why

ravensckar:
The first leg was a disaster! Chelsea Ladies parked the bus and were afraid to come out and play. Let's hope they improve in today's match.

Meanwhile, ever since that fat Toad bought Chelsea, it has been from one calamity to another.

#Todd_Out

That man badluck nar follow come this is not the Chelsea I've always known

Lot of people going through alot lately I can tell lIfe can be so mean tho.
Sometimes I just try to figure out what's the essence of life/living when eventually either rich or poor we Gon die without taking shii along 😢
But we no fit question God.

Smart gurl shes tryna eat her cake and have it lol, girl wey you supposed play smart on. you getting emotionally attached with her which will eventually hurt you sooner or later.

If this kinda girl eventually end up with either of you she go cheat normally.

Killbillz:
Asin ehhn... I done kukuma remove mind since. Bm sure pass. With time I go explain to my kids for forgiveness if anyone vex put. I no just want anymore wahala join

Imagine the emotional truama that comes with your gf cheating on you talk more of legally married wife damn.
Imagine a wife having the guts to take permission from her husband to go Bleep another dick if she succeeded with that without being caught that one nar ALUTA CONTINUA LOL.

Everyday on NL guy man dey see 1000 reasons not to get married,
This generation is just so bleeped up.

princeogbeide1:
Must groom support?

That's why Dem say make una no dey date them broke girls she especially should be the one to take care of it if she's gainfully employed and reasonable, mine should just be an addition volunterily. When we still have wedding to plan.
CAll me broke ass idc.
Maybe tribe literally plays out in this thing idk I'm a Yoruba my friends intro I attended so far the bride takes care of the foods and drinks. We only take some necessary stuffs including drinks.

princeogbeide1:
Must groom support?

I done talk on that check my other comment

Flier:
Man pays for everything! Most times a cent of bride family must not be involve only if they willingly want to add money
Otherwise I don’t think the man is ready to marry

Thank God you said sometimes, most bride homes take full responsibilities of the food and drinks that's why I said it's up to the bride and groom the to be. rem we talking about intro not wedding I don't think it's something to elaborate Just to involve few people. It honors the bride side the more,
the groom's contribution will only be an addition Morever the groom side won't be coming empty handed.
My big sister does her's just of recent we the bride side sort the food and drinks part she bought majority of what she needed we only added to it cos nar she want elaborate ham base on Say she's gainfully employed I suggested doing a low-key sitting room gathering but she later changed the plan and it really worth it the groom as well came with stuffs we never expected.

I think the bride takes care of the cookings groom might just support. Depends on both sides Sha

Man of the year 🙌 hakimi lite
But wait o 9ja babe gave you her ATM card for that long knowing fully well that some money dey inside. Omor

Nice script

The way we Africans especially Nigerians carry hakimi matter for head ehn my WhatsApp done full untop hakimi.men in this part of the world hardly practice the kind of marriage here hakimi and mother already foreseen what happened nigga already planned for it. Mother's love is real as much as wife's love if you lucky to have both.

NBAjunior:
So you mean you don’t fbck your boyfriend raw? So you are going to fvck me with condom too 😢

woginid967:
Woke generation of basstarrdss

Your parents, grand parents follow dat fvckin list and never got divorced, rarely ever a case of cheating.


Be there, see there are men and there are mehh.... There are people who still hold core values and principles.

Marry at your level of wisdom.... Leave me to do mine.


Check all high profiled truly great Men who are still married to their first wives, they understood self control before marriage.


Follow your own map and lost abeg. No one kuku knows you

BOSS you can't compare this generation to that of my parents and grandparents this generation is so Bleep up, A lady setting those boundaries maybe on getting married you get to figure out that she's lazy or can't even do all the aforementioned yes it happens worst part is she's not ready for changes we read alot on here. No sex till marriage to a lady wey don give kpekus out like palliative in the past or while you both has something serious going on being a virgin is different.
No shades

Nice2023:
People like u are the reasons why some women see men as cash machine.

How can u be loving in a hard way?

We learn from our mistakes brr hardway in the sense that I do not cheat you get my point like a relationship you expect would end up in marriage and I'm not vulnerable enough for ladies to take advantage. Me wey be retired play boy lol

woginid967:
Here is a comprehensive list for those who want to be able to filter fast and remove time wasters


If he doesn't get these in 1year, and he truly loves you. He'll wife you quickly

Sex
Cooking
Washing clothes
Cleaning house
Spending the night (for whatever reason)
Dating 2years without meeting his family

Dey play you go filter and remove tire tell me a man with his right sense who will settle for these shii you listed. Person wey dey do ham steadily sef never smell marriage. How I'm i to know you can do all that. Setting boundaries in relationships like y'all got something to offer In that marriage .
As for me won't even ask you to do all that for me shebi nar you dey expect ring🙄

Something must surly kill a man 😅

I get to realize being single is the best decision I ever made, relationship these days ain't worth it i been single for 2yrs and counting don't see me getting into any commitments soon even if I decide to man no fit settle for less.
Relationship show me shege that year which brings me down lost myself, I'm the type of guy who loves hard and find it so difficult to control my feelings. I know better now

Normally face me I face you sweet then e even get levels.

Chris2863:
he asked for the side effects, list them

Insomnia, nervousness, restlessness increase in heart rate chest pain and so on
Just the excessive intake couses that check on Google for more those are my favorite drinks then I do take 2 or more daily especially the monster drink and Fairless not untill I started feeling the effects had to stop.

Those energy drinks contain caffeine excessive intake have its effect

Lots of people taking birthday celebration wishes personal like their lives depends on it nigga, I dont even wish / post myself on my birthdays why should yours matter.

The "I'm not financially bouyant ain't necessary I guess" you just shoot yourself the girl done already give you the greenlight shoot your shot and apply your IQ.

Manoftheyear:
Thank you so much sir, I'm out to end this misery once and for all

Fit help you with my experience only if you ready to get over her I know the feeling been thwee

Manoftheyear:
Thank you so much sir, I'm out to end this misery once and for all

You fit email me make we connect on WhatsApp

Manoftheyear:
Relationship and marriage ain't for me anymore, she has created a beast in me, I won't say I hate women because I have a mother and sisters

You ounce been married?
I get that brr believe me you've not meet your woman yet I'll advise you take a long break from relationship I know it can be hard but just do it work on your self emotions, finance and your life in general don't get distracted.the right one will come through

Manoftheyear:
Please how do overcome the trauma, I'm that shit at the moment

Brr not easy I must say nar big calamity lol first I had to change environment had to leave my crib for awile had to go Scot with some friends try to mingle alot despite being an introvert. Went on trips just to make sure I don't stay idle and alone I engaged in a lots of activities.
With all those it took me nothing less than a year plus to finally get over her. Meanwhile during that period I tend to stay away from any relationship cos I don't wanna render someone's else daughter miserable.tho I don't know your breakup story but I'm so sure it's not up to my kind of shii. Make sure you stay away from her heal up before starting up a new relationship.

Fucking done with the shii called love/relationship, shii literally ruined me messed with my emotions/ head took time to heal still trying to get back to the way I was before

soundOsonic:
One thing about simps is that they are desperate for sex.
They are ready to spend, be insulted, degraded because of mere sex.
A real man isn't freaked out about sex especially when he sees a woman.
I have done the above to lots of girls and they have 100% success rate.
They will tell you they don't want to be intimate with you, but they are the one that will visit and be angry if you don't touch them. Most of the times I don't make a move, it's from the emotions I have been building with them for months that makes them loose guard.
Ladies needs to first feel safe with you.
She knows you are not after sex, you are there for her and not sex, she can't use sex to manipulate you, infact heartless guys can even use their indecisive emotions to manipulate them.
Infact I am trying not to befriend ladies now, people they call me womanizer when infact I am just being myself and cool around ladies.

Mehn I think I need to learn more from you I've got the experience lately whereby my neighbors are mostly female but I play my cards right with them make jokes fun and so mostly people think I already had sex with them which is not so I made sure I protect my dignity as a man never dated anyone among them either . I no dey lose guard never act like a sex sterve gift them gift at will I mean something edible I set the boundaries regardless but I feel they get attached with me so much even with the one forming feminist she later loose guide sha then I sense jealousy among them lol.
My point here is i think we men need to work on ourself not everything is sex like I used to say no girl fit manipulate me with sex cos I no too dey into it like that.

soundOsonic:
Don't play redpill shit with women, it's hard to draw the line between redpill and toxicity.

Most men will meet a girl and ask for a date, or they will carry her out and spend money.
90% of the time it doesn't work. If it works she likes you already before the date.

Meet her like the way you make friends, see each other like the way you will see your male friends.

Best way to get a girl or treat them, is to treat them like your male friends.

Don't pet them, only pet them on rare occasion and immediately revert back to your default mode.
Play with them, women are very playful.
When having conversation with them, hold their hands, shift their hair and always maintain eye contact.

Always listen to what they say, give advice and don't force it on them I use to tell them after giving advice "your big head no go allow you do wetin I talk".

When they ask you for money query them like a dad, ask them what the money is for, if it is inconsequential like hair, transport to a particular place or something stupid don't give.
Only give them money when they say they are hungry, not the one they say they want to eat a particular food, I mean like "hungry".
Give them money when they are stranded, maybe they are owing someone and he is on their neck, bail her out but be stern while bailing them out.
Carry them out without any motive of sex.
Make sure they are the one disturbing you to call them, or they always want to meet you.

Don't call them if you have nothing important to say, if at all you call them make it short and tell them you miss them.

You can invite them anytime you like, they will come, but when you make a move, and she isn't feeling it, respect that and don't ignore her still, act as if nothing happened.

She will later come close eventually.
See her as a person, no be everything be sex.

If you do this, she will be addicted to you, you don't need to date her, she can see you with other girls and be jealous, but she will not fight you but try and compete.

It will be left to you to date her or maintain this relationship.

Wish I could like this your comment million times you too make sense no be everything be sex like you said.